Ethics and Etiquette

We're talking about student loan forgiveness in this episode of Ethics and Etiquette. The legality of President Biden's plan to forgive up to $20,000 per person in student loan debt is before the Supreme Court right now. This program could offer debt relief to millions of people, but what's the cost to the country?

Send us your thoughts-- [email protected].

Ethics and Etiquette is a thought-provoking dialogue about everyday dilemmas. We hope our discussions will help you examine your choices and exercise your own ethical muscles.

The podcast is presented by author and host Marna Ashburn; wife, mother, and attorney Kelly Halligan Zimmerman; and Mike Derrick, a retired Army Officer, combat vet, and father of four.

New episodes are posted on the first and third Wednesday of the month.

Visit our Instagram @ethicsetiquette and our website www.ethicsandetiquette.com.

This scenario was pulled from the headlines. A middle schooler with special needs was turned down when he asked a classmate to be his Valentine in a public performance. The resulting social media backlash both for and against the young woman gives us plenty to unpack about culture, ethics, etiquette, social media, and special needs folks in our communities.

Here are the links mentioned in the show.

MSNBC Story:

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/it-s-manipulative-parents-defend-girl-who-politely-turned-down-classmate-s-valentine-s-day-request/ar-AA17RCVr?ocid=msedgdhp&pc=U531&cvid=00aee0758e94402e8808159a791de48b&ei=42

TODAY show story:

https://www.today.com/parents/teens/teen-publicly-rejected-gets-kind-valentines-classmates-rcna70965

Best Buddies International

https://www.bestbuddies.org/

Best Buddies International is a nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization dedicated to establishing a global volunteer movement that creates opportunities for one-to-one friendships, integrated employment, leadership development, and inclusive living for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD).

Send us your thoughts, [email protected].

Ethics and Etiquette is a thought-provoking dialogue about everyday dilemmas. We hope our discussions will help you examine your choices and exercise your own ethical muscles.

The podcast is presented by author and host Marna Ashburn; wife, mother, and attorney Kelly Halligan Zimmerman; and Mike Derrick, a retired Army Officer, combat vet, and father of four.

New episodes are posted on the first and third Wednesday of the month.

Visit our Instagram @ethicsetiquette and our website www.ethicsandetiquette.com.

Hun, Babe, Sweetie, Darlin', Lovey--These are all pet names you might hear between couples and family members. Occasionally we encounter them among employees in the workplace and from service workers to their customers. Some find it disrespectful to be called a pet name by someone they barely know. In certain regions of the country, it's more acceptable. There's a lot to unpack about using familiar endearing terms with people in your circle. Join us for this thought-provoking discussion.

Send us your thoughts, [email protected].

Ethics and Etiquette is a thought-provoking dialogue about everyday dilemmas. We hope our discussions will help you examine your choices and exercise your own ethical muscles.

The podcast is presented by author and host Marna Ashburn; wife, mother, and attorney Kelly Halligan Zimmerman; and Mike Derrick, a retired Army Officer, combat vet, and father of four.

New episodes are posted on the first and third Wednesday of the month.

Visit our Instagram @ethicsetiquette and our website www.ethicsandetiquette.com.

Welcome to Season 5 of Ethics and Etiquette Podcast. We thought an episode on Apologies would be fairly straightforward, but we were surprised at the deep and rich dialogue which the topic prompted. We've all said or done things--or neglected to say or do things--which caused another to feel harmed or hurt. What belongs in a sincere apology, and what should you leave out? How do you move forward after the apology is offered? Join us for this interesting discussion and send us your thoughts, [email protected].

Ethics and Etiquette is a thought-provoking dialogue about everyday dilemmas. We hope our discussions will help you examine your choices and exercise your own ethical muscles.

The podcast is presented by author and host Marna Ashburn; wife, mother, and attorney Kelly Halligan Zimmerman; and Mike Derrick, a retired Army Officer, combat vet, and father of four.

New episodes are posted on the first and third Wednesday of the month.

Visit our Instagram @ethicsetiquette and our website www.ethicsandetiquette.com.

We reflect about the past year and discuss our hopes for 2023.

Texting is a great tool when used correctly, but it can be annoying when courtesies are ignored. As with all technology, we've gradually evolved guidelines to help us employ it politely and professionally. We discuss them in this episode.

Ethics and Etiquette is a thought-provoking dialogue about everyday dilemmas. We hope our discussions will help you examine your choices and exercise your own ethical muscles.

The podcast is presented by author and host Marna Ashburn; wife, mother, and attorney Kelly Halligan Zimmerman; and Mike Derrick, a retired Army Officer, combat vet, and father of four.

New episodes are posted on the first and third Wednesday of the month.

Visit our Instagram @ethicsetiquette and our website www.ethicsandetiquette.com.

Our email address is [email protected].

This list was adapted from an article on the Emily Post website, https://emilypost.com/advice/texting-manners

The book mentioned in this episode is "How to Break Up With Your Phone" by Catherine Price.

The story and picture of coal miner Michael McGuire and his son at the University of Kentucky basketball game.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/michael-mcguire-kentucky-coal-miner-basketball-game-viral-photo-vip-tickets/

We've all experienced those awkward moments at a restaurant when one check is dropped off and there are three, four, five, or ten people at the table. How can you get the check paid so it's comfortable and fair for all parties? We talk about some proactive strategies and scripts you can use to make it happen. Also in this show, we introduce a new segment called "On a Positive Note" in which we recognize someone or something in our contemporary culture which is uplifting and noteworthy.

The Sebastian Maniscalco excerpt is from his show "What's Wrong With People?" on Netflix, and its appearance here follows the fair use and fair dealing guidelines.

This is the quote by John Quincy Adams which Kelly mentioned in the show: "Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish. A little knowledge that acts is worth infinitely much more than knowledge that is idle."

Ethics and Etiquette is a thought-provoking dialogue about everyday dilemmas. We hope our discussions will help you examine your choices and exercise your own ethical muscles.

The podcast is presented by author and host Marna Ashburn; wife, mother, and attorney Kelly Halligan Zimmerman; and Mike Derrick, a retired Army Officer, combat vet, and father of four.

New episodes are posted on the first and third Wednesdays of the month.

Visit our Instagram– @ethicsetiquette and our website www.ethicsandetiquette.com.

Our email address is [email protected].

The Coronavirus forced us to rely on Zoom or other group video calling platforms to continue work during lockdown. Zoom meetings have been widely adopted as a workforce practice now, and with the prevalence of remote and hybrid work in the post-pandemic era, they're here to stay.

We're talking about Zoom Etiquette today. For some, these suggestions will be nothing new, but it's always useful to review the basics. Join us as we discuss how participants can help Zoom meetings be more efficient and productive.

Ethics and Etiquette is a thought-provoking dialogue about everyday dilemmas. We hope our discussions will help you examine your choices and exercise your own ethical muscles.

The podcast is presented by author and host Marna Ashburn; wife, mother, and attorney Kelly Halligan Zimmerman; and Mike Derrick, a retired Army Officer, combat vet, and father of four.

New episodes are posted on the first and third Wednesday of the month.

Visit our Instagram– @ethicsetiquette and our website www.ethicsandetiquette.com.

Our email address is [email protected].

In this episode of Ethics and Etiquette, we follow up on topics from previous shows with current or additional information.

Our podcast goes on summer hiatus after this episode but we’ll return in September with new shows. Check our instagram, @ethicsetiquette, for the up-to-date status. Here are the links to the past shows we revisited in this episode.

Found Money https://cast.rocks/hosting/18614/feeds/9P9UJ.html?ep=HME7UY0W-TVGQFR

Should I Break Up With Amazon? https://cast.rocks/hosting/18614/feeds/9P9UJ.html?ep=GNAKAZLI-8G2E29

Twists on Traditional Gift Giving https://cast.rocks/hosting/18614/feeds/9P9UJ.html?ep=510EKG4K-TZNNRK9

Roundabouts https://cast.rocks/hosting/18614/feeds/9P9UJ.html?ep=1CLLC3M4-PYFD2T9

Sports Teams With Insensitive Names https://cast.rocks/hosting/18614/feeds/9P9UJ.html?ep=53V0AGNT-OFJ38FR

Trail Magic https://cast.rocks/hosting/18614/feeds/9P9UJ.html?ep=D7XSCH5G-1T6GVI

Leave No Trace https://cast.rocks/hosting/18614/feeds/9P9UJ.html?ep=2NMYGC86-YLRQKT9

Links to Articles We Mentioned in this Episode

How Amazon Wins: By Steamrolling Rivals and Partners By Dana Mattioli

https://archive.ph/yQ2Mh

Amazon Seeks to Reinvent Health Care With Purchase of One Medical

https://www.extremetech.com/internet/338166-amazon-seeks-to-reinvent-health-care-with-purchase-of-one-medical

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Research for Unclaimed Money www.Unclaimed.org

Kentucky Drivers Attempt a New Roundabout https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bDaQZUzJCNM

Roundabout Accident https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RHk_A-ZVaCw

European Vacation Roundabout Scene https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAgX6qlJEMc

Homer Simpson Encounters a Roundabout https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5T0Dg8_OmA

Ethics and Etiquette is a thought-provoking dialogue about everyday dilemmas. We hope our discussions will help you examine your choices and exercise your own ethical muscles.

The podcast is presented by author and host Marna Ashburn; wife, mother, and attorney Kelly Halligan Zimmerman; and Mike Derrick, a retired Army Officer, combat vet, and father of four.

New episodes are posted on the first and third Wednesday of the month.

Visit our Instagram– @ethicsetiquette and our website www.ethicsandetiquette.com.

Our email address is [email protected].

This week we address an email from a listener who gave a gift of living room furniture to friends and later saw they had listed it for sale on Facebook Marketplace. Our second ethical dilemma involves discovering family on Ancestry.com or 23andme.com and wondering how enmeshed you should get in their existing unhealthy dynamics.

Ethics and Etiquette is a thought-provoking dialogue about everyday dilemmas. We hope our discussions will help you examine your choices and exercise your own ethical muscles.

The podcast is presented by author and host Marna Ashburn; wife, mother, and attorney Kelly Halligan Zimmerman; and Mike Derrick, a retired Army Officer, combat vet, and father of four.

New episodes are posted on the first and third Wednesday of the month.

Visit our Instagram– @ethicsetiquette and our website www.ethicsandetiquette.com.

Our email address is [email protected].