"I think a lot of people don’t understand what love is. Anyone can buy flowers, candy and jewellery. The truly romantic things in life are those little things we do every day to show we care. It’s going out of your way to make them happy. The way you hold her hand while crossing the road, or you save the last piece of pizza for him. The random text in the middle of the day, just to say I miss you. It's dedicating her favourite song to her even if you know that your voice is pathetic. It is pausing your Netflix series and replying to her messages. It is understanding that he is busy and not getting mad for not replying. Along with these, when we hear the word love, we connect it to husband wife and girlfriend boyfriend. But are those the only relationships that have love in them? Therefore, love is your mother making your favourite food even when she is sick, it is your father silently being happy in your happiness, it’s the brother’s love when he leaves the last bite of Cadbury for his sister, and it’s the sister’s love when she handles the situation at home when the brother does something wrong.
Love may take you from feeling euphoric to feeling sad and therefore It is never always about the big things because it is always about the little things in life.
There’s a great saying which I want to share with all of you. It's written by none other than Ayush Agarwal. Now don’t ask me who this fellow is. So, the saying goes like this, IT’S NEVER ABOUT THE PLACE, IT’S ALWAYS ABOUT THE PEOPLE. I have a habit of going to the same place often to spend time with my closed one’s and people usually suggest me to try new places more often than visiting the same place every day. And my simple answer to those people is that I don’t care about the place, I care about the people.
Let me tell you all a story that involves the things they all did for love. So, he was playing badminton and she was sitting with her friends when their eyes met each other. Soon, they started playing badminton together. Soon, the numbers were exchanged and then very soon, they were in love. Usually, during those initial days, couples talk till late in the night, but she knew that he is different from others and she was never mad at him for not staying up late like other couples. He used to get hefty pocket money with which he could buy stuff for himself, which I guess he used to do, but at the same time, he used to save in such a manner that he could get her a 5star every time they meet. She was never fond of costly gifts and so he used to print a photo of her on an A4 paper and write a letter on the back of the printed paper. These were all which were never asked of them, yet they did it......................."
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