Today we welcome Gedale Fenster to the garden to talk about the true definition of freedom.

And spoiler: it’s probably not what you think.

We get into the idea that addiction isn’t just drugs or alcohol, it can be your phone, your habits, your impulses, your need for validation… anything that’s quietly running your life. Because when you can’t stop something, you’re not in control, it’s controlling you. And that’s not freedom, that’s slavery.

We unpack the uncomfortable truth that doing “whatever you want” isn’t freedom it’s actually the fastest way to become a slave to your desires. True freedom is discipline. It’s self-control. It’s having the strength to choose what’s good for you, not just what feels good in the moment.

Then we tie it all back to Pesach, because leaving Egypt isn’t just a story we remember once a year, it’s a blueprint. Every single one of us has our own “Egypt” the things we’re stuck in, the patterns we can’t break, the habits that own us, and Pesach is our invitation to finally walk out.

We also get into why the “normal” addictions might actually be the scariest ones… because they don’t look dangerous enough to stop.

And yes, it turns into a bit of a personal therapy session (for me 😅), where Gedale gives real, practical tools on how to actually break free from the things that aren’t serving you.

Oh, and we also talk about what any of this has to do with not eating bread. Because somehow… everything is connected!

Consider this your official Seder pregame.

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Today we welcome Jamie Geller to the Garden to talk all things Shabbat 🤍✨

We get into what makes Shabbat so beautiful, where its laws come from, and why this weekly pause has become one of the most meaningful mitzvot in our lives, even for those of us who didn’t grow up fully keeping it. From personal journeys to practical insights, we share how Shabbat transformed the way we think about time, work, and what really matters.

We also dive into the deeper idea of letting go of control, how choosing not to work for one day a week is actually the ultimate expression of emunah, trusting that our parnassah is in Hashem’s hands.

Warning: this episode might make you want to keep Shabbat 💫

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Today we welcome Hannah Eskenazi to the Garden to talk about a topic that I’ve been pushing off for someone extremely special. Today we are finally talking all things MODESTY!

I’ve touched on this before, but in this episode we go all the way in.

We talk about what modesty actually means to us, how our journeys with it looked, and what it feels like being modest in a world that constantly tells women that their value is in their bodies.

We get into high school memories, puberty insecurities, eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and the unspoken pressure girls feel the moment they realize they’re being perceived.

We talk about hiddenness. Privacy. Intimacy.

About how keeping certain things sacred doesn’t make them smaller... it makes them stronger.

How modesty isn’t about being less attractive.
It’s about not reducing yourself to your appearance in the first place.

It’s about protecting your peace.
Protecting your intimacy.
Protecting your inner world from outside noise, outside judgment, and outside negativity.

What if modesty isn’t oppression?
What if it’s protection?

If you’ve ever questioned modesty, struggled with it, felt resistant to it, or wondered if there’s something deeper there, this episode is for you.

Welcome to the garden.

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This week in the Garden, we’re talking about the Jews you don’t usually hear about.

I’m joined by Raquel aka The Blonde Sephardi to dive into the rich, complex, and often overlooked world of Sephardic Jews. From history and expulsion to culture, food, and identity, this episode is about the Jewish story that doesn’t always make it into the textbooks.

So often when people picture a Jew, they picture Europe. But Sephardic Jews built Jewish life across the Middle East, North Africa, and beyond carrying our traditions, flavor, and resilience with us wherever we were forced to go. We didn’t crumble. We rebuilt. Every time.

In this episode, we talk about:

    •    Sephardic history most people were never taught

    •    Where stereotypes come from (and which ones we might actually own)

    •    Why Sephardic culture is so rich, bold, and deeply rooted

    •    How identity, exile, and survival shaped who we are today

This episode is funny, honest, spicy, and proud just like our food. 🌶️

Whether you’re Sephardic, Ashkenazi, or just curious, welcome to the Garden.

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Today we welcome one of my closest friends, Lauren to the garden, aka my literal opposite in almost every way 😅. I dress fully modest, she does… not. I’m more low key, she loves to go out, party, and live loud. On paper, we shouldn’t make sense but spiritually and emotionally, we’ve always met in the same place: deep, real conversations about life.

This episode feels like you’re eavesdropping on a DMC between two girlfriends at a bar at midnight. No script, no filters, just honest questions and raw takes. Lauren asks me everything about men and women, dating, marriage, boundaries, social media, purpose, and what it actually means to live a meaningful life in a world that’s constantly telling us who to be.

It’s funny, a little chaotic, sometimes confronting, and surprisingly deep. Two polar opposites, one shared search for truth. Welcome to the conversation. 💬🌱

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Today we welcome Jonathan Chesner to the garden 🌱 the face behind Amuze for a candid, unfiltered conversation about one of the most age-old yet suddenly trending topics: antisemitism.

In this episode, we break down how antisemitism is showing up right now, why the current approach to “combating” it often misses the mark, and what we believe actually does (and doesn’t) help. With hot takes, uncomfortable truths, and zero sugarcoating, we explore why this hatred exists in every generation, how it’s being handled today, and what needs to change moving forward.

Jonathan shares firsthand experiences from living in Milan while visibly Jewish, including the looks, confrontations, and realities of wearing a kippah daily. It’s honest, educational, sometimes heavy, but ultimately empowering. This episode is about clarity, courage, and rethinking how we fight back.

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Today we welcome my big sister, Sanaya, to the garden for a conversation that starts with motherhood, and opens into something much bigger.

We’re both newer moms, still very much in it, figuring things out in real time. While this episode isn’t a “how-to” guide on being a mom, it is an honest reflection on how becoming mothers has completely shifted the way we understand love, responsibility, patience, and purpose.

Through our own experiences of creating and caring for a human being, we explore a powerful new lens for understanding our relationship with God. What does it mean to love something you created more than yourself? To see potential before it’s fully revealed? To know what’s best for someone even when they don’t understand it yet?

We talk about God as a parent, how He knows us more deeply than anyone else, believes in our potential even when we can’t see it, and guides us with a love that’s both tender and firm. Motherhood gave us language for something we always believed in, but never fully felt until now.

This episode is for anyone who is a mom, thinking about becoming one, or simply curious about how life experiences can unlock deeper spiritual understanding. It’s soft, thoughtful, emotional, and grounding, very much a “welcome back to the garden, let’s grow together” kind of conversation 🌸

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Today we welcome back Rabbi Pilachowski to the Garden for a deep dive into the month of Elul and the holidays that follow. We unpack what all the hype is about, why this month is so talked about, and the real truth behind what Elul is meant to be.

We talk about Rosh Hashanah and how it differs from the “regular” New Year, the meaning behind the simanim (yes, apples and honey included), the power of the shofar, and what this day is really about. Then we shift into Yom Kippur, and discover how what feels like the most dreaded day on the Jewish calendar is actually one of the most uplifting and happiest days of the year.

Together, we explore the tools we need to enter these chagim with intention, and how to carry our goals forward so they aren’t just short-lived resolutions but lasting transformations for the year ahead.

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We’re trying something new in the Garden 
—welcome to Ask Eve. Every now and then, I’ll be opening up the floor for you to ask the questions. You can send me a voice note on Instagram, and I’ll answer it here on the pod with my unfiltered, opinion-based advice.

No research, no overthinking—just the kind of real talk I’d give my sister or my best friend if they asked me the same question. Because that’s how I see the Gardeners: not just listeners, but a community of friends. This is our way to break the fourth wall, get to know each other better, and make this space feel even more like a group chat.

So send in your questions, keep them honest (and juicy 
), and let’s grow together. 

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Today we welcome Eyal Lalo to the garden, the visionary CEO of Invicta Watch Group and Invicta Racing. Beyond his business success, Eyal is deeply passionate about Jewish values, family, and the way we present ourselves to the world.

In this episode, we explore the concept of Kiddush Hashem — sanctifying God’s name and being a light unto the nations — and how it plays out in the business world when working with people from all walks of life. Eyal shares how to represent Judaism with dignity, integrity, and pride as a leader, a husband, a father, and a member of the Jewish community. We also touch on the opposite — Chilul Hashem — and the importance of avoiding behaviors that would desecrate God’s name.

From there, we shift into a heartfelt conversation about Eyal’s family life and the values that keep it strong. He opens up about the “secret sauce” behind his long-lasting, loving marriage, offers practical parenting advice, and reflects on the role Jewish tradition plays in shaping a healthy home. His perspective is rare and refreshing — proving that success and strong family values can go hand-in-hand.

We close with a powerful discussion on Jewish continuity and the importance of marrying within the faith. Eyal addresses the topic with nuance and care, reframing it in a way that highlights the beauty of preserving our heritage and passing it forward.

Whether you’re here for inspiration in business, wisdom in relationships, or a deeper understanding of Jewish values, this episode is filled with insight, heart, and purpose.

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