EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

in this mini episode REMIX, Dr. Tay has pulled excerpts from "episode 12 | autism consultant Molly Johnson on visual supports" to highlight the discussion on educational advocacy and working with your child's teachers and IEP team. Molly Johnson has her master's in education and is a former autism teacher. she now has become @theautismconsultant on Instagram.

RESOURCES

⚡️ submit your questions for a special upcoming Q+A episode on educational rights and helping your child transition back to school (either via Instagram DMs or the Evolve Facebook group)

⚡️learn more about Molly's membership: https://www.theautismconsultant.us/membership

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

Q: how do I deal with my child's aggression when our attempts aren't working?

A: Dr. Tay starts off the episode urging parents to understand the function of aggression - that it is a form of communication and may serve as a form of sensory regulation for your autistic child. she provides tips and strategies beyond traditional behavioral approaches and emphasizes the importance of modeling what you want your child to do instead. there is also a brief discussion around the pathological demand avoidance (PDA) profile.

RESOURCES

⚡️ if you have not listened to episode "10 | the ABCs of challenging behavior", you are strongly encouraged to listen to that episode first.

⚡️supplemental episodes referenced in today's podcast are episodes 2, 3, 18, and 41.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

I often see in my work as a child psychologist that parents don't understand what their rights are and what their autistic children should be receiving through the educational system.

in this episode, we dive into IDEA, specially designed instruction, IEPs, 504s, and more. we talk specifically about the history of special education and what as a parent you can advocate for. it's important to recognize that a clinical diagnosis isn't the same as an educational diagnosis, so we're going through that educational process with my expert guest, Ashley Barlow, an attorney and former teacher. Ashley also has experience navigating special education as a parent, as her 13-year-old son, Jack, has Down Syndrome.

this episode will help you learn:

• why the public education system has to provide support for your autistic child
• the differences between an IEP and a 504 plan
• interest-based negotiation and knowing your rights as a parent
• specific steps for how you can advocate for your autistic child

RESOURCES

⚡️ submit your questions for a special upcoming Q+A episode on educational rights and helping your child transition back to school (either via Instagram DMs or the Evolve Facebook group)

⚡️ ways to connect with Ashley >>

learn more about her free and affordable resources at ashleybarlowco.com

follow her on Instagram @ashleybarlowco and Facebook Ashley Barlow Co

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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in this mini episode, Dr. Tay shares her takeaways from the Barbie movie and the application to parenting a neurodivergent child. themes include authenticity, social norms, imagination, and emotions. even if you haven't seen the Barbie movie (or did and hated it!), the insights shared here make this worth the listen.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

Q: what is the best educational setting for my autistic child? what about an aide for my child?

A: Dr. Tay breaks down educational settings in this episode, including public, private, Montessori, and homeschooling. we discuss various factors to consider regarding schooling type and the importance of understanding your child's strengths and support needs to inform your decision as a parent. we also touch briefly on IEPs in this episode.

RESOURCES

⚡️ submit your questions for a special upcoming Q+A episode on educational rights and helping your child transition back to school (either via Instagram DMs or the Evolve Facebook group)

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

in this podcast episode, Dr. Tay and Dr. Carrie Jackson discuss the complex intersection of autism and attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). they review the importance of accurate diagnosis to distinguish overlapping yet distinct features in autism and ADHD as well as co-occurrence. treatment modalities are also discussed, including parent training, CBT, and stimulant medication.

CHAPTERS

(0:00:00) - Introduction of Dr. Carrie Jackson, a licensed psychologist specializing in ADHD

(0:02:45) - Dr. Carrie's personal connection to ADHD (0:04:20) - the role of social media in mental health education

(0:07:00) - key differences between ADHD and autism, including hyperfocus vs. intense interests

(0:11:50) - ADHD in autistic children

(0:13:30) - age of diagnosis for autism vs. ADHD

(0:15:00) - Autism and ADHD social difficulties

(0:16:45) - role of mental health providers in diagnosis

(0:20:10) - role of pediatricians in diagnosis

(0:25:55) - intervention approaches for autism and ADHD

(0:29:00) - neurodiversity in ADHD and autism

(0:33:01) - co-occurring ADHD, Autism, and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)

(0:35:30) - parent training, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and biofeedback via the Mightier app (use DrCarrie for 10% off)

(0:39:50) - evidence for stimulant medication

RESOURCES

⚡️connect with and learn from Dr. Carrie Jackson >>

Instagram @dr.carriejackson

TikTok @dr.carriejackson

Resources for ADHD including free guides and courses: https://www.drcarriejackson.com/

Private Practice for CA residents: https://www.socalchildpsych.com/

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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*Please note: In this episode, there is a mix of identity-first (autistic child) and person-first language (child with ADHD) used. Some of this reflects differences within each specialty. Generally, as clinicians and practitioners, we are mindful to honor what each individual and their families prefer.

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses that even with the best preparation that some things may not go according to plan. emphasis is placed on how to manage emotions when plans change and the significance of giving space for feelings without guilt or blame. a focused discussion on how to support siblings of autistic children occurs.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

a parent requested for me to share about the services that are provided through my private practice. and since this is often a common question, I decided to dedicate a Q+A episode to it!

I dive into my concierge model, explain how pricing works, and describe the high level of care your child (and your family given The Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ) would receive. we review the three current services offered: diagnostic evaluation, 1:1 therapy, and group therapy.

⚡️if you want to learn more, schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions. you can also visit drtaylorday.com.

NOTE: at the time of recording (July 2023), I am currently able to practice in the following states: AL, AZ, AR, CO, CNMI, CT, DE, DC, FL, GA, ID, IL, IN, KS, KY, ME, MD, MI, MN, MO, NE, NV, NH, NJ, NC, OH, OK, PA, TN, TX, UT, VA, WA, WV, WI, WY. additionally, SC and ND are expected to be added in the coming month! international families will be considered on a case-by-case basis depending on your country's regulations.

ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

⚡️ don't forget to subscribe to this podcast so you don't miss any of the free content I share! currently episodes are being published three times per week.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

today is a first on the podcast! Dr. Tay engages in a candid conversation with Sam Marion, a late-identified autistic adult and licensed clinical social worker, who shares his personal experiences and perspectives on autism. they discuss the phenomenon of masking, the importance of understanding sensory experiences, and his personal journey of understanding himself. Sam also shares his views on neurodiversity, therapy modalities, and the need for resources and workshops to help therapists understand autism better.

CHAPTERS

(0:00:00) - introduction of the guest, Sam Marion, and discussion about his experiences as an autistic adult and journey as a therapist.

(0:08:25) - understanding sensory experiences and autistic masking

(0:15:40) - the exhaustion of masking and unmasking

(0:19:02) - training and perspectives on neurodiversity

(0:32:32) - key transition points in preteen and teen years

(0:45:15) - discussion on the unique experiences of late-identified autistic adults, the importance of advocacy, and how to connect with Sam

RESOURCES

⚡️follow Sam on Instagram @sammarioncounseling. and for more details on his workshops go to www.sammarion.com/workshops

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

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LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses the evolving field of telehealth evaluations in autism diagnosis. she provides insights from her clinical experience and explores how this method was accelerated due to the COVID-19 pandemic. she addresses the validity and reliability of telehealth evaluations as well as benefits and potential limitations.

RESOURCES

⚡️ Dr. Tay currently conducts telehealth autism diagnostic evaluations in 38 states. schedule a free consult call here to learn more or email [email protected] for questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.