EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

on today's Dr. Tay breaks down the different specialty fields and what types of providers can diagnose vs. do therapy. we focus on the field of psychology, as psychologists are uniquely positioned to provide comprehensive care, including diagnosis and therapy services. the other fields covered in this episode include psychiatry, developmental behavioral pediatrics, neurology, mental health therapists, and school psychology.

NOTE: in this episode, I do not touch on the therapists who focus on developmental skills, such as speech-language therapy, occupational therapy, and physical therapy. these types of therapists provide great support services but are unable to diagnose autism. basically any profession with the title "therapist" are typically unable to diagnose autism.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

Dr. Tay welcomes Theresa Noye, an autism mother, author, and self-love coach, to the podcast. Theresa shares her journey of her son's diagnosis, from non-speaking to now a college student studying strategic communications. she also discusses the transformative power of love and advocacy and sheds light on the importance of self-care and family care. the episode also delves into racial disparities and seeing your child as an individual. Theresa used the inspiration of her own story to write a book and then start coaching other Black women on self-love.

RESOURCES

⚡️ Theresa's book "Hello Autism: How to Love, Like, and Learn from Your Special Needs Child"

⚡️ connect with Theresa on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram and/or book a free epiphany session to learn more about her self-love coaching

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the transformative power of "yet" in parenting an autistic child. discover the power of 'yet' as a tool for staying present, believing in your child's potential, and reducing worry. as an action item, you are encouraged to journal your current worries and shift them to include "yet."

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

Q: how do I respond when someone makes fun of my autistic child?

A: Dr. Tay shares tips and strategies for navigating this difficult topic, with a focus on creating collaborative conversations and managing your own emotions in these situations.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

Dr. Tay hosts Dr. Steve Chaney, a renowned research scientist and educator, on the podcast to discuss the complexities of autism. we cover the causes of autism, emphasizing the roles of genetics, environmental factors, and epigenetics. we also discuss common misconceptions about autism and discuss the importance of individual experiences. the conversation also focuses on the role of diet, highlighting the benefits of whole foods, as well as discussion of supplementation.

CHAPTERS

0:00:00 - introduction of Dr. Chaney

0:03:25 - causes of autism

0:11:38 - understanding and interpreting research

0:18:18 - the role of diet

0:25:45 - discussion about supplements

RESOURCES

⚡️ continue learning from Dr. Chaney >>

subscribe to his weekly blog Health Tips From The Professor

read his books Slaying the Food Myths and Slaying the Supplement Myths

⚡️learn more about Shaklee products, including connecting with Dr. Chaney's wife, Suzanne, via email [email protected] or text 919-524-4815

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay delves into the transformative concept of presuming competence in autistic children, highlighting the profound effect our expectations and assumptions can have on their development and growth. it explores real-life stories and experiences, showing how the lack of presumed competence can limit a child's potential and create barriers to inclusion. the episode ends by urging listeners to continually challenge their thinking about autism and competence, emphasizing that every child's potential should be seen, nurtured, and heard.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

69 | "can a child outgrow autism" Q+A

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

Q: can a child outgrow autism?

A: Dr. Tay addresses a misconception that a child can outgrow autism, emphasizing how autism is a lifelong disability and it is how your child's brain is wired. we discuss the DSM diagnostic criteria and how a child may need different supports at different times.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

Dr. Tay has Erin from @spinsandstomps on the podcast. Erin shares about her daughter Riley's journey to getting an autism diagnosis as well as understanding her daughter's ways of communicating. Erin discusses the transformative power of an AAC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication) device in Riley's life and how she identified that she was a Gestalt Language Processor (GLP). specifics on AAC devices particularly for GLPs were detailed in this episode. we also cover broader issues that many autism parents face, including access to diagnostic services and decisions about therapy services.

CHAPTERS

(0:00:00) - introduction and beginning of the discussion on AAC devices for autistic children.

(0:14:26) - navigating autism and accessing services for autistic children.

(0:22:56) - AAC and Gestalt Language Processing

(0:35:50) - AAC devices and their role in promoting self-directed communication in autistic children

(0:41:56) - conclusion including understanding autism, the use of AAC devices, and the importance of love and education in raising an autistic child.

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Erin to learn more about her family's journey as well as helpful resources on Instagram @spinsandstomps and her website.

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay shares practical strategies to overcome procrastination and the psychology behind it. we also discuss the concept of catastrophization, where small tasks are magnified into overwhelming burdens, and how to stop it.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

answering YOUR questions on today's episode! or really the unasked question of how do I deal with depression and anxiety as a parent of an autistic kiddo? this conversation is intended that remind you that you are not alone in your experiences, dispel stigmas around seeking mental health support, and offer practical advice on getting help.

RESOURCES

⚡️ check out episode 44 where my mom shares about navigating her experience with anxiety and depression

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.