EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

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Dr. Tay hosts Autistic autism researcher Chelsea Verrette, who provides her insights on the current state of autism research. we discuss the importance of language in discussions about neurodivergence and the gaps in the existing literature. the conversation centers on shifting from a deficit-based model to incorporating the neurodiversity framework into research and life. Chelsea also shares her perspectives on navigating the educational system, helping children learn about their diagnosis, and building community. at the end of the episode, Chelsea shares a sneak peek into her research around neurodivergent individuals' response to marketing, suggesting that top marketing tactics may be harmful for the neurodivergent community.

CHAPTERS:

02:28 Chelsea's journey into autism research

12:22 understanding autism and its impact

24:52 understanding neurodiversity and belonging

29:40 the need for neurodivergent representation in research

36:11 the impact of marketing and communication on neurodivergent individuals

49:08 the importance of community and support for neurodivergent individuals

RESOURCES

⚡️ ways to connect with Chelsea Verrette >>

Chelsea's resources, including her Discord community and daily text affirmations

follow Chelsea on Instagram

follow Chelsea on LinkedIn

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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in this episode, Dr. Tay is joined by Jamie Lin Brown, an autism mama, to discuss the importance of building a strong community for parents of autistic children. the conversation focuses on the need to view the child holistically, integrating physical, mental, and emotional aspects of their growth. Jamie shares her own experiences and suggests how parenting communities can offer emotional support and practical advice. they also touch on the idea of maintaining personal well-being as an autism parent and not losing one's self in the journey. the episode highlights that while each child's autism journey may be unique, common connections can be formed between families sharing similar experiences.

CHAPTERS

02:25 Jamie's personal journey with autism

08:10 the challenges and triumphs of autism parenting

13:33 the role of holistic approach in autism

21:08 the power of community in the autism journey

30:57 the importance of building relationships

40:45 the Importance of self-care in autism parenting

RESOURCES

⚡️ ways to connect with Jamie Lin Brown >>

join the Intentional Autism Mama Community on Patreon

Jamie Lin Brown's website

follow Jamie on Instagram

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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in this episode, Dr. Tay talks about helpful tips and strategies for autism families navigating the holiday season. we discuss the importance of preparing for potential disruptions to routines, setting realistic expectations, giving choices, and setting boundaries. Dr. Tay addresses several elements including helping your child anticipate upcoming events, being mindful of safe foods, empowering your child by involving them in the process, and handling comments from others. there is an emphasis on the importance of being present during these moments and cherishing the progress that your child has made since the last holiday season.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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Dr. Tay hosts mother-son duo, Dr. Myava Clark and Chris Clark, to discuss their experiences and advocacy for navigating educational support systems for children with learning differences. Dr. Clark shares her early advocacy efforts for Chris who experienced developmental delays and learning differences. Chris talks about his realization of learning differently and points out the importance of open communication. their experiences inspired the co-founding of 'CASEN', an organization and program designed to guide young people on safe and responsible usage of social media. they provide resources on social-emotional development, bullying identification, mental health development, and social media readiness. both stress the importance of celebrating individuals' abilities and strengths rather than focusing on their weaknesses.

CHAPTERS:

02:23 Guests share their backgrounds

04:20 Discussion on early challenges and advocacy

13:25 Chris' personal experience and reflections

18:45 Advocacy in education and tailoring learning paths

23:05 Chris's high school experience

25:43 Chris' regrets and lessons learned

31:00 The role of parents in social dedia safety

32:51 The development of the CASEN program and app

35:32 The importance of social media readiness

RESOURCES

⚡️ ways to connect with Dr. Myava and Chris Clark >>

subscribe to the CASEN Newsletter: https://casenllc.com/ 

CASEN Resource library: https://casenllc.com/resource-library/ 

CASEN Courses: https://casenllc.com/casen-courses/

CASEN Platforms: https://casenllc.com/platforms/ 

⚡️apps for monitoring your child's social media >>

Kids 360 app: https://kids360.app/

Bark app: https://www.bark.us/

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism and other disabilities. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

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in this episode, Dr. Tay discusses swim and water safety for autistic children with Kira La Forgia, the COO of Floatie's Swim School and founder of The Paradigmm HR. they discuss the importance of swim lessons and creating a safe environment around water. Kira shares tips for parents on building awareness for themselves and their children regarding water safety. they also discuss the different types of swim lessons and the benefits of inclusive programs. Kira highlights the signs of drowning and emphasizes the importance of prevention. finally, they touch on the importance of patience and support when it comes to teaching autistic children how to swim.

RESOURCES

⚡️ learn more about Floatie's Swim School >> website and Instagram @floatiesswimschool

⚡️ find a swim school near you >> United States Swim School Association website

⚡️ connect with Kira and learn more about her HR company Paradigm Consulting >> website, business Instagram @theparadigmm, personal Instagram @kiralaforgia

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. v

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in this episode, Dr. Tay discusses the importance of stillness and how it can benefit parents navigating the autism parenting journey. she shares her personal experience with breathwork and therapy, highlighting the power of slowing down and regulating the nervous system. Dr. Tay emphasizes the need for parents to create moments of stillness to refill their energy and prevent burnout. she also provides practical tips for incorporating stillness into daily life, such as meditation, journaling, and intentional self-care. through intentional stillness, parents can find clarity, trust their instincts, and take intuitive action in supporting their autistic child.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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Dr. Tay welcomes Chris Bonnello, an autistic advocate, author, and a Rubik's cube master, to the podcast. Chris shares his journey from the classroom to advocacy, highlighting the importance of promoting neurodivergence. he talks about his late autism diagnosis at 24 and how this led him to a journey of self-acceptance. the discussion also covers the impact of labels on self-perception and the use of the Autistic Not Weird platform to amplify the voices and experiences of the autistic community. Chris shares about his Underdog Series and his newfound love of the Rubik's Cube, the evolution of neurodiversity, and advice for parents of autistic children.

CHAPTERS

(00:00) Neurodiversity and Acceptance

(10:31) Autism's Impact on Identity and Masking

(23:41) The Growth of Autistic Not Weird

(34:35) The Underdog Series and Other Advocacy Work

(41:29) Rubik's Cubes and Finding Community

RESOURCES

⚡️ Connect with Chris and support his advocacy work

Join the Autistic Not Weird community on Facebook

Order the Underdogs Series and other books

Subscribe to Chris' Patreon

Other social media: Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube, Facebook

⚡️Read the Autistic Not Weird Autism Survey that summarizes perspectives from over 7,000 autistic people and 11,000 people total

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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Dr. Tay welcomes Dr. Nicole Michaeli, a pediatric psychologist specializing in comprehensive evaluations, to the podcast. we discuss the twice-exceptional (2E) profile of children who are gifted and have learning or developmental disabilities. the episode includes discussions about asynchronous development characteristic of 2E children as well as strengths and support needs in the context of a neurodiversity framework. Dr. Nicole discusses the importance of a tailored approach to foster the growth of 2E children, addressing the emotional impact they often experience. she also explores intriguing findings from brain imaging studies that differentiate these children from their peers. the episode offers practical advice and actionable steps for 2E children, with a specific focus on how giftedness can present in autistic children.

RESOURCES

⚡️connect with Dr. Nicole Michaeli

Instagram @drnicolephd

TikTok @drnicolephd

My Child Assessment website (her practice in West Los Angeles)

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

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Dr. Tay hosts speech-language pathologist Katja Piscitelli on the podcast to explore Gestalt Language Processing and Natural Language Acquisition (NLA). They discuss how this form of language processing is a common and natural pathway to language development for autistic and non-autistic children alike. Katja shares her experience of discovering this language phenomenon, and how it can be a powerful tool in supporting language development. they also discuss the role of Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) in language development. The conversation includes pointers on how to identify if your child is a Gestalt Language Processor and the importance of patience and consistent modeling in language development.

CHAPTERS

0:00.00 - welcome Katja Piscitelli and her story of becoming a speech-language pathologist

0:03:33 - what is Gestalt Language Processing (GLP)

0:07:52 - what is Natural Language Acquisition (NLA)

0:08:50 - stage 1 of GLP and how to support

0:21:37 - what is Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) and how to adapt for GLPs

0:36:41 - stage 2 of GLP and how to support

0:40:41 - stage 3 of GLP and how to support

0:46:28 - stage 4, 5, and 6 with developing grammar

0:49:23 - ways to connect with Katja

RESOURCES

⚡️ follow Katja on Instagram and Facebook to keep learning more from here

⚡️ additional resources for GLP

www.meaningfulspeech.com

www.communicationdevelopmentcenter.com

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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this in epsiode, I discuss my personal experience with burnout and perfectionism. I emphasize the importance of recognizing when it's time to pause, reassessing priorities, and letting go of perfectionism. I announce a change to the podcast - dropping down to one promised episode per week! but we have over 70 past episodes that you can binge. plus there could be surprise episodes from time to time. I also encourage you to take a step back and evaluate your life, cutting back on unnecessary tasks and focusing on what truly matters.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay