EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

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Dr. Tay welcomes Lo Farmer to discuss the role of parental advocacy. Lo shares her journey from discovering her son's developmental delays to advocating for equitable access to services. Highlighted topics include the emotional and logistical challenges of getting a diagnosis, the broken support systems for special needs families, and Lo's significant efforts to change policies at the Fort Worth Zoo regarding 1:1 aides. Dr. Tay and Lo emphasize the importance of community support, the need for systemic change, and the value of giving parents grace during this demanding journey.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Theme

00:23 Inspiring Quote and Guest Introduction

01:35 Welcome to the Parenting Space

02:42 Guest's Background and Family Journey

03:45 Challenges in Accessing Services

05:07 The Broken System and Advocacy

07:29 Navigating Diagnosis and Support

10:54 The Emotional Toll and Parental Grief

15:58 Public Advocacy and Viral Impact

20:44 Facing Legal Challenges Without a Lawyer

21:15 Empowering Special Needs Moms

21:43 Strategic Advocacy for Change

22:31 The Zoo Inclusion Controversy

22:57 Navigating Support Systems

24:10 The Importance of Familiarity in Care

28:36 Advocacy Goals and Personal Challenges

35:40 Parental Stress and Community Support

39:40 Wrapping Up and Staying Connected

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Lo on Instagram @sipdinedesign and continue to hear her updates on inclusion

⚡️ research article about parental stress discussed in episode linked here

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

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Dr. Tay discusses five compelling reasons why parents should consider getting their child assessed for autism, despite the current political climate. This mini episode offers insights into the benefits of obtaining a tailored plan, gaining greater understanding and acceptance of your child, boosting parental confidence, and being proactive in mental health outcomes. Dr. Tay also addresses common concerns about sharing diagnoses and offers guidance on how to navigate the evaluation process, including the advantages of private pay options.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:25 Why Get an Autism Assessment?

01:24 Tailored Plans from Evaluations

03:04 Understanding Your Child Better

05:24 Acceptance and Mental Health

06:59 Boosting Parental Confidence

08:23 The Importance of Being Proactive

10:55 Navigating the Evaluation Process

14:00 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

RESOURCES

⚡️ Learn more about our approaches and services in episodes "46 | telehealth evaluations: a new era in autism diagnosis" and "48 | Q+A: a closer look into Dr. Tay's concierge private practice for autism support"

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

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Dr. Tay welcomes Andi Putt, better known on social media as @mrsspeechiep. Andi, a late identified autistic speech therapist, discusses her work doing autism evaluations and the resources she provides for the autism community. They explore topics including the nuances of autism diagnosis, the importance of neurodiversity-affirming care, and the development of Andi's popular Autism Handbooks. The conversation also dives into challenges within the clinical community, continuous learning, and advocacy for understanding and acceptance of autism. Andi shares how her personal experiences as an autistic individual influence her work and advocacy, with an invitation for all clinical providers and educators to make the perspective shift to neurodiversity-affirming care.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Announcement

02:08 Meet Andi Putt: The Journey to Speech Therapy

04:10 Discovering Autism and Social Media Advocacy

05:00 The Importance of Neurodiversity Affirming Care

06:45 Challenges and Growth in Autism Evaluations

12:14 Personal Diagnosis and Self-Discovery

16:16 The Role of Speech Therapy in Autism Diagnosis

23:33 Creating the Autism Handbook

28:32 Connecting Through Autism

29:19 Books for Autistic Children

31:07 Simplifying Complex Information

32:37 Understanding Autism Variability

33:27 Challenges in Autism Diagnosis

36:52 Autism Epidemic Misconceptions

39:27 The Importance of Accurate Diagnosis

46:17 Conclusion and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ check out Andi's resources

Parent Autism Handbook

The Autism Handbook for Kids

Understanding Autism Together

Statistics post referenced on the episode

⚡️ follow Andi on Instagram @mrsspeechiep and Facebook

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

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In this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses the challenges and debates surrounding Autism Awareness and Acceptance Month. She shares insights from conversations about the division within the autism community over terminologies, symbols, and approaches, emphasizing the importance of unity and empathy. Dr. Tay highlights the pressing issues like the spread of misinformation, the role of evidence-based practices, and the political landscape affecting autism support. She calls for collaboration and understanding to better support autistic individuals and their families while addressing societal and medical misperceptions.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:32 Autism Awareness and Acceptance Month

01:36 Debates and Divisions in the Autism Community

03:37 Misinformation and Vaccine Controversies

06:09 Call for Unity and Empathy

09:44 Conclusion and Call to Action

RESOURCES

⚡️ Check out episodes "152 | how US policy updates impact the neurodiversity movement" and "156 | education under siege: what it means for your autistic child"

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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In this insightful episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Lisa Jean-Francois, known as @consciouslylisa_ on social media. Lisa shares her in-depth and personal journey of parenting two autistic children. The conversation covers her initial struggles and breakthroughs in understanding autism, the unexpected discovery of her husband's late diagnosis, and her introspective look at her possible neurodivergence. Lisa also discusses her adaptation of gentle and conscious parenting techniques to align with her family's unique cultural context and needs. The episode delves into the challenges and strategies for raising autistic children, including the importance of community support and the varying experiences across different neurodivergence spectrums. Crucially, this episode emphasizes the importance of not generalizing autism experiences and highlights the necessity of tailored approaches in both understanding and parenting.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

01:36 Lisa's Parenting Journey

02:45 Early Signs and Diagnosis

05:57 Navigating Misdiagnosis and Acceptance

10:01 Impact on Family and Personal Reflections

17:40 Husband's Realization and Family Dynamics

22:33 Self-Identification and Broader Implications

26:24 Navigating Parental Self-Diagnosis

27:38 The Complexity of Diagnosing Neurodivergence

31:00 Parenting Approaches and Cultural Adaptations

35:01 Challenges and Strategies in Gentle Parenting

43:53 The Importance of Individual Experiences

46:15 Connecting and Learning from the Community

49:40 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ follow Lisa on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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In this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the intersection between evidence-based practices and neurodiversity affirming care in autism treatment. Drawing from her extensive background in research and clinical practice, she discusses the challenges of integrating these approaches to provide tailored, effective support for autistic individuals. Emphasizing the importance of lived experiences and clinical impressions alongside research, Dr. Tay highlights the need for a flexible, patient-centered approach to care that focuses on quality of life. This episode aims to inform and inspire listeners about the evolving landscape of autism care.

00:00 Introduction to Mini Episodes

00:49 Purpose and Format of Mini Episodes

01:33 Today's Topic: Evidence-Based Practice and Neurodiversity

02:00 Background and Training in Research

03:05 Challenges in Autism Research

03:41 Neurodiversity Affirming Practices

07:34 Intersection of Evidence-Based and Neurodiversity Practices

11:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

13:11 Subscribe and Engage

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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In this episode, Dr. Tay discusses apraxia with Jordan Levan, a disability advocate and founder of The Apraxia Foundation. They explore the differences between apraxia and dyspraxia, signs and symptoms, and the importance of early diagnosis. Jordan shares his personal journey with childhood apraxia of speech, the types of therapeutic approaches available, and how to integrate neurodiversity affirming approaches into therapeutic supports. They also talk about the resources and support provided by The Apraxia Foundation, specifically AAC devices and speech therapy services, emphasizing a comprehensive understanding of each child’s needs.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:40 Meet Jordan LeVan: Disability Advocate

02:59 Jordan's Personal Journey with Apraxia

04:06 Challenges and Advocacy in Childhood

07:10 Speech Therapy and Treatment Approaches

15:29 Understanding Apraxia and Its Types

23:11 Dyspraxia Explained

31:56 Understanding Co-Occurring Conditions with Childhood Apraxia

32:29 The Importance of Knowing Your Child's Full Disability Profile

32:47 Personal Experiences with Late Diagnoses

34:11 The Impact of Historical Treatment of Disabilities on Parents' Fears

36:58 The Role of Comprehensive Evaluations in Diagnosing Childhood Apraxia

41:54 Challenges in Diagnosing Childhood Apraxia in Autistic Children

44:37 Therapeutic Approaches for Childhood Apraxia

48:53 The Importance of Consent in Speech Therapy

56:37 Introduction to the Apraxia Foundation

01:00:50 Connecting with the Apraxia Foundation and Final Thoughts

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Jordan on Instagram @fightingformyvoice and visit his website

⚡️ learn about his nonprofit @theapraxiafoundation and visit the website

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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In this episode, Dr. Tay connects with Neurofriendly Beau, a neurodivergent ADHD coach and parent of a neurodivergent child. They discuss the challenges and dynamics of parenting when the parent and child have different neurotypes. Beau shares insights on her late ADHD diagnosis and limitations of the diagnosis process as well as details her journey through parenthood, and the importance of adaptable and understanding approaches that go beyond traditional neurotypical standards. They also dive into the need for safety, individual accommodation, and the critical importance of modeling self-compassion and advocacy for children. Beau also presents her personal struggles and strategies for co-existing with Autism/ADHD (AuDHD) in an insightful and relatable manner, making this a deeply valuable episode for parents and guardians navigating similar journeys.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

00:58 Host's Background and Podcast Purpose

01:59 Guest's Introduction and Initial Conversation

03:27 Guest's ADHD Diagnosis Journey

09:49 Parenting and Neurodivergence

17:34 Collaborative Parenting Approach

18:06 Addressing Self-Sabotaging Thoughts

18:59 Unique Solutions for Daily Challenges

20:03 Navigating Screen Time Concerns

22:01 Modeling Problem-Solving for Kids

24:58 Embracing Neurodivergent Parenting

25:57 The Importance of Self-Advocacy

27:44 Shame and Neurodivergence

31:25 Resources and Support for Parents

32:39 Conclusion and Next Steps

RESOURCES

⚡️ follow Beau on Instagram @neurofriendlybeau and check out her website here, including to learn about her coaching services

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist specializing in neurodiversity affirming care, interviews Laura Petix @theotbutterfly about her children's book on neurodiversity. They discuss how to help children understand their autistic brain and neurodivergent traits, Laura's inspiration for writing the book, and her background as a pediatric occupational therapist. The conversation covers Laura's journey as a neurodivergent parent, the importance of educating neurotypical children about neurodiversity, and how her book aims to normalize differences in behaviors and learning styles in classrooms and at home.

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview

01:55 Meet Laura Petix: The OT Butterfly

02:20 Laura's Journey and Neurodivergent Parenting

03:40 Understanding Neurodiversity and ADHD

05:54 Challenges in Getting a Diagnosis

15:01 Educating Neurotypical Kids About Neurodiversity

21:17 Understanding Autism and Family Care

21:48 Book Release and Publisher Transition

22:35 Importance of Pre-orders for Authors

24:21 Impact of the Book on Children and Classrooms

26:36 Key Concepts and Messages in the Book

30:42 Engaging Adults and Broader Audience

34:43 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️PRE-ORDER her book here before March 4, 2025 (same link works to purchase the book after that date)

⚡️ FOLLOW Laura on Instagram and learn about her other resources

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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In this special episode, Dr. Tay welcomes back special education attorney Ashley Barlow to discuss critical updates impacting special education in the U.S. They delve into the Texas vs. Becerra case regarding the potential elimination of Section 504 protections, explore potential changes within the Department of Education, and highlight the significance of grassroots advocacy. Dr. Tay and Ashley provide valuable insights on how parents can proactively advocate for their children's educational rights, navigate current stresses, and use available resources effectively. The episode underscores the importance of building strong relationships with IEP teams and staying informed about legislative changes that may affect the neurodivergent community.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:10 Meet Ashley Barlow: Special Education Attorney

00:19 Understanding 504 IEP and Its Importance

03:18 Concerns About Losing 504 Protections

08:04 Impact of Losing 504 on Disability Community

14:20 Advocacy and Grassroots Efforts

30:21 Potential Changes in the Department of Education

39:23 Government Efficiency and DEI Initiatives

40:59 Impact on Education and Research

42:23 State-Level Implications and Comparisons

44:25 Project 2025 and Potential Changes

45:47 Real-Life Impacts on Special Education

54:48 Advocacy and Legislative Engagement

01:02:51 Practical Advice for Parents

01:08:17 Conclusion and Next Steps

RESOURCES

⚡️ CHECK OUT Ashley’s $9 training for building collaborative teams: https://ashleybarlowco.com/video-2-from-tension-to-teamwork-harnessing-conflict-for-iep-success

⚡️FOLLOW Ashley on Instagram @thecollaborativeiep

⚡️ TAKE ACTION and download the 5 calls app and start making calls

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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