Ukuzilimaza kwentsha kuyinkinga enkulu futhi kudinga ukubukwa serious kakhulu. Kungakhathalekile ukuthi uzisike kangakanani, kumele kube noxwayiso olunqala ngesizathu eziyimbangela.

Ohlelweni lwethu ezomndeni olwedlule saqala inkulumo ngokuthi ubhekana kanjani nokuqhelelana emshadweni futhi sabuka ukuthi: ukuqinisekisa ukuthi yiyona ndlela efanele ngalesosikhathi,ukuba nohlelo nokuqinisekisa uyazazisa izingane ngokokuhambisana neminyaka yazo. Sifuna namhlanje ukukhuluma ngokuthi uzinakekela kanjani izingane ngokwemizwa yenhliziyo yazo esikhathini sokuqhelelana kanjalo nokuthi zinyathelo zini okumele uzithathe nisaqhelelene.

Baningi abashadile abaxakekile ebudlelwaneni babo, okugcina kubiza ukuthi ukuqhelelana noma isehlukaniso sibe yisiphetho, ukuqeda iminjunju. La ohlelweni ezomndeni sizokhuluma ngesihloko esinzima sokuthi kubhekwana kanjani nokuqhelelana emshadweni, lesihloko simahlandla mabili.

Ohlelweni lwethu ezomndeni oluphambilini besithula isihloko sokuhuhwa ngubulili-bunye futhi sisiza umlaleli wethu ukuba aqonde ukuthi imizwa ayiqondile ukuveza ubuqobo bomuntu nokuthi nabo ubuqobo siqu ngokwamagama ananyekwa kubo ngabantu akumele amiswe kalula nje emphakathini jikelele.

Miningi imicabango, imizwa nemibuzo ejikeleza emcabangweni womuntu uma ezithola ehuhwa ngubulili bunye. Abantu masisha bagxumela ekukubizeni ngamagama, kodwa empeleni lithini iqiniso nesiqu salendaba.

Imithelela yomakhwapheni namashende ishiya kumanhlembethwane. Imiphumela yezenzo ezinjalo insonsotha kude le, bese kuthi lo olinyaziwe emshadweni unezizathu ezanele ukuba manqika ukuya phambili ngalomshado.

Uthi bewazi ukuthi kulabo abaneminyaka eko 65 nengaphezulu, izehlukaniso kubo zenyukile kusuka ngo-1990, izizathu zencike kakhulu ekugungquzeni ngabodwa emakhaya. Abazali ngaphakathi ezinhlizyweni bakhetha ukuba ndawonye kuze kube izingane ziyozisebenzela emva kwalokho bese beqala babone ukuthi umshado wabo usengxakini bagcine bephuma kuwo.

Uthi bewazi ukuthi kulabo abaneminyaka eko-65 nengaphezulu,izehlukaniso kubo zenyukile kusuka ngo-1990, izizathu zencike kakhulu ekugungquzeni ngabodwa emakhaya. Abazali ngaphakathi ezinhlizyweni bakhetha ukuba ndawonye kuze kube izingane ziyozisebenzela emva kwalokho bese beqala babone ukuthi umshado wabo usengxakini bagcine bephuma kuwo.

Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni namhlanje sizonqumunga isihloko esixukuzana ingqondo, nkashana sisa siza umndeni uqonde kangcono isimo sokuthanda izinto zabafana kwentombazana nokudlala sabulili obuhlukile.

Imishado eminingi, ikhinyabezwe lukinatelo lwezithombe zobunqunu[porn] futhi eminingi yayo iphetha kwizahlukaniso. Izizathu zalokhu ukuthi kumanhlembethwane ukulapheka futhi bese lo oganene naye aphelelwe lithemba lokubuyiseka kobudlelwane ngendlela.