Kunokwenzeka sewuke uzwe ukuthi : ukuhleka kulikhambi elihle enhlizyweni ,futhi kunokwenzeka sewezwa ngisho abezempilo beqinisa lokho .Sekushokekile lokho ,ukufaka amahlaya amahle kuhamba ibanga elide ekusigcineni sijabule siphilile.

Ukushelelela ekukhuleliswaneni kungayingozi othandweni olungenazinqumo. Kusuke sekuyisimo esiphuthumayo esidinga ukunakwa ngokushesha. Ngakube ukujombela emshadweni ngokushesha kuyisisombululo?

Kuno kukhungatheka okuningi nokukhathazeka okwenzeka emva kokuthola bekunomakhwapheni emshadweni .Uma i –couple seyikhethe ukuxolelana bese ihlabela phambili nempilo ,lokho kungayinto enzima ,ikakhulukazi uma isenzo senzeke nomuntu osebandleni.

Uma ingane yakho ike yakhula yashiya ikhaya,ubudlelwano bakho nayo buyaguquka ,awube usaba ngumzali njengobekwejwayelekile .Manje kumele kube kanjani enganeni ekhetha ukubuya ikhaya ,esindala?

Uma kukhona into ecoba umoya womuntu-wukungasebenzi nomuzwa wokwazi ukuthi kawukwazi ukondla umndeni wakho. Nkashana indoda ilahlekelwa ngumsebenzi izizwa iphelelwe yisidima sayo.

Imindeni exubile kubiza kubhunkulwe kuyo uma sekuziwa ebudlelwaneni nasekuqondisweni kwezingane ezizalwa ngomunye umzali.

Udosi lokungethembeki kakusiyo into yokuthathwa kalula. Iminjunju inkenketha kude! ngakho idinga uhlobo olukhethekile lokwelashwa lwezikamoya. Kungaba ubuwula ukuvuma ukuthi namuphi na umuntu oshadile owehlelwe yilokhu uzovese adlule kalula.

Imvamisa umkinatelwa umanqika ekuvumeni inkinga yakhe, futhi uze abe namagamana uma ezwa igama ‘umkinatelwa’. Manje ungacabanga ukuthi ngikhuluma ngomkinatelwa zidakamizwa kumbe uphuzo, kodwa namhlanje ngikhuluma ngokinatelo olubamba abantu bengazelele, lolo ngolwe midlalo ye-computer nama-cellphone.

Uke uzizwe usho lamagama: “Awukwazi nje ukuyodlala ungadlile, yidla kuqala bese uyodlala” kumbe: “kungani uvese wakhetha inyama yodwa okunye wakushiya?” kumbe uthi “ake ukhohlwe ama-chips kancane” .Nebala amagama lawo owaziyo njengomzali ikakhulukazi uma kungukuthi ingane yakho iyakukhetha ukudla. Singagcina siphatheka kabi njengabazali uma izingane zethu zinganasikhathi sokudla, kokunye sigcine singqubuzana nesishade nabo ngokuhlukana kwemibono.

Ezweni lakithi kunemindeni eminingi ehluthulwe ngubudlelwane obungebuhle, ukufa kwabazali bobabili kumbe abazali bobabili abakaze balokothe zisasuka ukuba babengumndeni. Inqwaba yezingane ikhuliswa ngogogo nomkhulu ngenxa yalezi zimo ezingezinhle neze nakuba khona kuba yisibusiso ukuthi izingane zigcineka kumalungu omndeni, nakanjani kuzoba nezinselelo ezingomndeni ongesiwo ubaba nomama.