In this episode we welcome my friends August & MB Hackett and their dear friends Matt & Elliot Dürt. We are so honored they have come to share their story of chosen family in the queer & transgender community, and how their friendship since childhood grew into helping build their own families.

The trajectory of this episode does require a trigger warning, because as many people know, miscarraige a reality and often unspoke about part of the journey to having children. MB & August were kind enough to share their update to both heal and let others know they are not alone. Thank you for holding a space for them today.

https://thedurtfamily.com/

In the last 5 years I've gone through many personal life changes. Because my life has been very forward facing over the last decade in various ways people like to assume many things about my life, and some even feel entitled to answers.

In this episode I will answer some of those questions about love, my family and my gender. My dear friend Marika Malaea -who is also the editor of my upcoming memoir, The House of M - joins me to ask the questions and we navigate some of the answers together.

This month Portia and I welcome a special guest, who we hope will stick around for a while. Elle Scags is a content activist and joins Portia and I to discuss Juneteenth and the rise of the white middle aged Karen's. We talk about how the Seattle HRC got involved in a shameful attempt from the Seattle Pride commit to cry "reverse racism" against a black lead queer event and how it ended up blowing up in their face.

This month Portia and I discuss - the one year commemoration of the death of George Floyd and the resurfacing of white performatism for just one day. We talk about the problematic behavior around boundaries and white people seeking education around Anti-white supremacy, as well as the shocking views about some Europeans not considering themselves white people. Plus we have some amazing laughs in the midst of it all.

This month we discuss the Derek Chauvin verdict, and societies reaction regarding Justice vs. Accountability. I am able to share some insight and accountability about a recent mistake - which could be a valuable lesson for many regarding literature, as well as discuss this years Oscars. Things get uncomfrotable and guess what? I SURVIVED..and so can YOU.

THE CAUCACITY: The UNCOMFORTABLE but SAFE conversation around White Fragility, Racism & problematic white microaggressions.

Its time to GROW or get DRAGGED...

I am so honored to introduce you to a warrior human.

This is Audri - she is the only parent of two amazing kids, a photographer and the reason we connected because she is a suicide widow.

Today Audri officially becomes the next Face in the Faces of Fortitude project. In this episode Audri bravely shares her painful story of struggle, loss and how she found hope again. Thank you for helping me hold a space for her today.

https://www.audrilynn.com/

The UNCOMFORTABLE but SAFE conversation around White Fragility, Racism & problematic white microaggressions. 

Co-Host: Portia BurchAbolitionist, independent contractor working in Diversity, Equity & Inclusion.

In this new monthly segment we talk about how this idea was born, AND we unpack my own growth and problematic decisions over the years. After all, if I can't be open and accountable for my own behavior, how can I point them out in other white people? So prepare yourself for some VERY UNCOMFORTABLE, but also IMPORTANT conversations that need to happen.

Its time to GROW or get DRAGGED...

This Faces of Fortitude session has been in the works for almost 3 years. Sashii (she/her) is a mother, singer, producer, director and amateur chef - who has struggled with mental illness her entire life.

Almost 3 years ago at one of her major low points, she contacted me to be a Face in my project. The universe has yet to align for us to connect for photos in order for Sashii to be able to share her story. However the podcast has made it possible for us to connect our hearts and bond over our stories. Thank you for holding a space for her today.

@everythingsashii on fb and IG

https://open.spotify.com/artist/5dkIOwvHpCtD4rn8VRqkiJ

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This weeks guest is the incredible Porscha Maxine (she/they). She is a Politcal & Inclusivity Speaker and Moderator, a Life Coach, A certified teacher and the co-founder of Conscious Roots - a non-profit that provides development experiences and personized plans for professionals, teams and large coporations around unlearning oppressive, harmful and toxic behaviors from a lack of inclusion, diversity, equity and social justice. We have a great convo around the current social justice "trends" and how we all can do a better job at doing better.

https://www.consciousrootsllc.com/

In this episode I welcome entrepreneur/sound healer/holistic wellness coach CRYSTAL MCKINNEY(she/her.) We have such a great discussion about holistic healing, chakra balancing and how she found her way to this path of healing and began creating her YUMMY all natural, sustainable and organic self care product company Bitchy Bath & Body.

Crystal's websites & social media:

https://bzglxxmv7d1.typeform.com/to/X2O485xt

https://www.instagram.com/crystalmckinneycoaches/

https://www.instagram.com/bitchybathandbody/

http://Www.treschicmarketing.com