What do you do when you are handed a billion-dollar responsibility that you are entirely unqualified for, simply because no one else in the room wants to do it?

Larry O'Nan is a non-profit consultant and author who has helped organizations raise over $150 million globally. But his staggering career wasn't built on having all the answers. In 1977, Larry was sitting in a high-stakes meeting when he was suddenly assigned to define the entire "theology of stewardship" for a massive funding initiative. Terrified and unqualified, he grabbed a legal pad and wrote a simple note to himself: "Go for it. You have the freedom to fail." That one permission slip completely altered the trajectory of his life.

In this episode of FailCraft, Larry joins Ezekiel to discuss the liberating power of intentionality and the true meaning of stewardship. He explains how he revolutionized fund development by rejecting manipulative fundraising tactics, why being an effective "asker" is a crucial life skill, and why the physical discipline of swimming at 5 AM is actually an act of spiritual stewardship.

In this episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:

* The Billion Dollar Meeting: The 1977 conference room assignment that launched a legendary career in fund development.

* The Freedom to Fail: How writing down a simple permission slip destroys the fear of the unknown.

* The Ownership Myth: Why truly understanding that you "own nothing" completely changes how you manage your money, your home, and your life.

* The Manipulative Tactics of Fundraising: How Larry's team broke away from guilt-driven donations to create a revolutionary five-point stewardship plan.

* The Power of Asking: Why a room full of men left two guys to clean up a breakfast mess—and what it teaches us about the necessity of asking for help.

* Write It Down: Why refusing to put your fears and goals in writing guarantees they will never be resolved.

This episode is for non-profit leaders, entrepreneurs, and anyone who feels completely unqualified for the giant task in front of them.

Connect With Larry O'Nan:

* Website: https://larryonan.com/

* Book: Intentional Living and Giving (Available on Amazon and Books-A-Million)

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Chapters:

01:29 Introduction: Larry O'Nan & The $150M Career

01:58 The 1977 Meeting: Assigned to a Billion-Dollar Vision

06:17 Rejecting Manipulative Fundraising for True Stewardship

08:37 The Ownership Myth: What Stewardship Actually Means

11:05 The Power of Asking: The Men's Breakfast Story

12:38 Why the "Freedom to Fail" Gets Easier with Age

14:01 Intentional Discipline: Swimming at 5 AM

15:08 The First Step When You Are Frozen in Fear (Write It Down)

16:32 Larry's Definition of True Success

17:54 How to Get the Book and the Free Stewardship Assessment

What do you do when the corporate identity you spent 15 years building is stripped away in a single meeting?

Andre W. Thornton was a high-flying engineering director at Lockheed Martin, overseeing 2,000 people and capturing billions in business. But a sudden corporate reorganization left him without a title, a team, or a trajectory. Plunged into a massive identity crisis, Andre had to learn how to completely re-engineer his life. A profound moment in a Nigerian orphanage ultimately shifted his focus from "building planes to building people," leading him to create a multi-million dollar leadership development firm.

In this episode of FailCraft, the "People's Engineer" joins Ezekiel to discuss how he applies the logic of engineering to the messy reality of human emotion. He reveals the exact instructions his mentor gave him the day he lost his job, the life-changing 23andMe discovery he made in Africa, and the "Triple R Method" you can use today to completely rewire your negative thoughts after a major life disruption.

In this episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:

* The Day the Ladder Broke: The devastating shame and anger Andre felt when his corporate identity was dissolved.

* The Million Dollar Advice: How the way you "show up" the day after a major failure dictates the rest of your career.

* The Nigerian Orphanage: The profound moment Andre locked eyes with a little boy and discovered his true life's purpose.

* The People Engineer: Why our brains are simply "predicting machines," and how to use engineering logic to rewrite human emotion.

* The Triple R Method: How to use the Recognize, Reset, and Reframe strategy to pull yourself out of a post-layoff panic.

* The 1440 Method: Why chasing traditional "success" only leaves you happy for five minutes, and how to start actually experiencing your life.

This episode is for recently laid-off professionals, executives dealing with corporate burnout, and anyone struggling with a loss of identity.

Connect With Andre W. Thornton:

* Website: https://www.consultwhitman.com/

* Book: Disrupted

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrethornton/.

Support the Show:

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Chapters:

01:13 Introduction: Andre W. Thornton & The Disruption

01:57 The Reorganization: Losing a 15-Year Career at Lockheed Martin

03:06 The Best Advice for the Day After You Get Fired

05:17 The Identity Crisis: Fall Down, Grow Up

08:12 Finding Purpose (and Ancestry) in a Nigerian Orphanage

11:19 The People Engineer: Do Thoughts or Feelings Come First?

14:14 How Your Limiting Beliefs Keep You Trapped

16:45 The Triple R Method: How to Recover from a Disruption Today

21:21 Redefining Success: The 1440 Method

25:17 How to Connect with Andre and Pre-Order "Disrupted"

What happens when your absolute certainty as a leader becomes the exact thing that destroys your business?

Tyler Chisholm is the CEO of clearmotive, a national marketing agency, and the author of *Curious as Hell*. But before he was running a thriving firm and hosting over 600 podcast episodes, he was surviving on $1,200 in Los Angeles, literally washing his dishes in a bathtub. Years later, he nearly broke himself—and his business—by falling into the toxic trap of believing that a leader must always be the smartest person in the room.

In this episode of FailCraft, Tyler joins Ezekiel to discuss the incredible power of transitioning from a "know-it-all" to a "learn-it-all." He breaks down the painful business failure that forced him to change his leadership style, how hosting hundreds of podcast episodes completely cured his imposter syndrome, and why leaders must learn to drop their "backpack of bricks".

In this episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:

* The Bathtub Era: Tyler's rock-bottom moment in Los Angeles and what it taught him about the reality of the struggle.

* The Know-It-All Trap: How an illusion of control and an unwillingness to ask questions caused a major business deal to collapse.

* The Bravery of Curiosity: Why asking "What do you think?" is actually the ultimate sign of leadership courage.

* Curing Imposter Syndrome: How shifting the spotlight to other people naturally destroys your own insecurities.

* Relinquishing Control: How letting go of the traditional in-office model during COVID catapulted his agency to national success.

* The Backpack of Bricks: A brilliant, practical metaphor to help exhausted leaders finally start delegating their workload.

This episode is for founders, executives, and burnt-out leaders who are ready to trade the heavy burden of certainty for the limitless growth of curiosity.

Connect With Tyler Chisholm:

* Website: https://www.tylerchisholm.com/

* Book: Curious as Hell: Leading and Growing with Curiosity (Available on Amazon)

* LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tylerchisholm/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tylerchisholmyyc/

Support the Show:

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* Share this episode if it resonated!

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Chapters:

01:20 Introduction: Tyler Chisholm & The Power of Curiosity

02:16 Rock Bottom: Surviving on $1200 and Washing Dishes in a Bathtub

03:48 The Know-It-All Trap: How Certainty Killed a Business Deal

05:11 Projecting Confidence vs. Showing Vulnerability

06:57 Why True Curiosity Requires You to Burn Down Assumptions

08:39 How Hosting 600 Podcasts Cured Imposter Syndrome

10:13 Scaling clearmotive: Relinquishing the Illusion of Control

12:23 The Backpack of Bricks: How to Delegate Without Fear

14:17 Tyler's Definition of True Success: Personal Agency

15:59 How to Connect with Tyler & Get the Book

What do you do when the corporate ladder you've been climbing is the exact thing making you terminally ill?

Simon Luthi spent years chasing the standard definition of success, climbing to the top as a C-suite executive. But his body began pulling the emergency brake—resulting in three near-death experiences, a paralyzing autoimmune disease, and a devastating cancer diagnosis. Simon realized that the high-stress American Dream was toxic to his soul, so he stepped out of the boardroom and dove deep into the world of energy medicine.

In this episode of FailCraft, "The Rocket Shaman" joins Ezekiel to discuss how he healed his body when traditional medicine didn't have all the answers. He shares the hidden danger of extinguishing your authentic voice, how to stop treating symptoms and find the root cause of your chronic pain, and why intuition is a leader's most valuable asset under pressure.

In this episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:

* The Breaking Point: How a cancer diagnosis during the pandemic forced Simon to completely reevaluate his life's purpose.

* The Rocket Shaman: The story behind his incredible moniker and how he transformed his life at rocket speed.

* Transmutation Design: Why the modern corporate leadership model is broken and how intuition can save it.

* Symptoms as Messengers: How to stop playing the victim and ask what your chronic pain is trying to teach you.

* Taking Your Power Back: How Simon discovered heavy metal toxicity was destroying his health—and how he fixed it.

* Simon's definition of true success: Changing the way the Western world thinks about healthcare and healing.

This episode is for anyone battling a mystery illness, dealing with executive burnout, or ready to reclaim their inner healer.

Connect With Simon Luthi:

* Website: https://www.therocketshaman.com/

* Book: Becoming the Rocket Shaman (Available on Amazon in eBook, Paperback, and Audiobook)

Support the Show:

* Subscribe and leave a review!

* Share this episode if it resonated!

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Chapters:

01:05 Introduction: Simon Luthi & The Rocket Shaman

01:55 The Darkest Moment: Cancer, Moving, and Isolation

03:51 Hitting Rock Bottom: Mystery Illness and Bedridden

06:27 How "The Rocket Shaman" Got His Name

08:39 Intuition in the Boardroom: Transmutation Design

11:39 Symptoms as Messengers: Finding Your True Purpose

15:51 Taking Your Power Back from the Medical System

18:37 Simon's Definition of True Success

19:54 How to Connect & Get the Book

What do you do when you discover that your quiet, dignified father spent his childhood trapped in a Polish brothel?

Shirley Novack was told by a teacher at age nine that she would be a great writer. But growing up in a highly negative household where her parents told her college was "a waste of time and money for a girl," Shirley buried that dream. She spent decades pursuing other paths—pioneering fetal surgery as a medical assistant, teaching anatomy, opening a candy store, and building a 40-year career as a successful interior designer. It wasn't until her 70s, during the global pandemic, that she finally sat down to write.

In this episode of FailCraft, Shirley joins Ezekiel to share her incredible journey of late-in-life reinvention. She discusses the shock of uncovering her father's traumatic past, how she accidentally ended up on the Dark Web researching human trafficking for her second novel, and why it is absolutely never too late to chase your childhood dream.

In this episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:

* The 9-Year-Old's Dream: How a negative, unsupportive upbringing delayed Shirley's writing career by over 60 years.

* A Hidden Trauma: The dark, shocking truth Shirley discovered about her father's childhood after his sudden death.

* The Dark Web: The terrifying reality of researching human trafficking for her bestselling novel, Stolen Lives.

* Escaping Toxicity: How Shirley found the courage to leave a 29-year marriage to a man who tried to hold her back.

* The 3 Banned Words: Why Shirley strictly forbids the words "should've, could've, and would've" in her household.

* The Cindy Lauper Connection: The wildly spontaneous decision to open a candy store that ended up on the David Letterman Show.

This episode is for anyone who feels like their ship has sailed, anyone dealing with imposter syndrome, and those who need a reminder that the only true failure is not trying.

Connect With Shirley Novack:

* Books: The Story Of... and Stolen Lives (Search "Stolen Lives by Shirley B. Novack" on Amazon or Barnes & Noble)

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shirley-novack-81912412/

* https://www.instagram.com/Shirleybeth2022

Support the Show:

* Subscribe and leave a review!

* Share this episode if it resonated!

Want to Be a Guest on FailCraft?

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Chapters:

01:16 Introduction: Shirley Novack

02:03 The 9-Year-Old's Dream & A Negative Upbringing

03:47 Pioneering Fetal Surgery & Becoming a Designer

04:13 Writing the Truth: My Father's Traumatic Childhood

07:40 How Her Family Reacted to the Hidden Truth

10:11 Researching Human Trafficking & The Dark Web

12:31 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome as an Older Author

16:14 The 3 Words Banned in Shirley's House

16:35 Leaving a 29-Year Toxic Marriage

18:25 The Accidental Candy Store Success

20:59 How to Connect with Shirley Novack

What do you do when the drive that built your multi-million dollar company is actively destroying your health?

Craig Cooke started his digital agency in 1996 with just $1,300 and an Apple computer. Over a 26-year marathon as CEO, he grew the company into an Inc. 5000 powerhouse. But behind closed doors, the grueling schedule and relentless pressure led to extreme burnout and a full-on diabetes diagnosis. Realizing his business was eating his life, Craig turned to an unconventional path to heal: marrying the discipline of Kung Fu with the ancient practices of Chinese Energetic Medicine.

In this episode of FailCraft, Craig joins Ezekiel to discuss the harsh reality of corporate burnout and the shift from "hustle to flow." He shares how he completely reversed his diabetes without medication, how he survived the 2009 recession with just $5,000 in the bank and a payroll due, and a simple 10-minute "tapping" routine that acts as an energetic cup of coffee for exhausted entrepreneurs.

In this episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:

* The Breaking Point: How putting everyone else first led Craig to extreme physical burnout and a diabetes diagnosis.

* Reversing Diabetes Naturally: The rigorous discipline and lifestyle changes required to fight illness on all fronts.

* Business Kung Fu: How the warrior spirit helps you get back up when you lose a massive client bid.

* The $5k Panic: Surviving the ultimate entrepreneurial nightmare of barely scraping by to make payroll.

* The Tapping Protocol: A simple, 10-minute desk exercise to re-awaken your nervous system and fight mid-day fatigue.

* Redefining Success: Why chasing material wealth is just an endless hamster wheel, and how to find true fulfillment through service.

This episode is for stressed-out founders, burnt-out executives, and anyone who feels like they are sacrificing their health for their career.

Connect With Craig Cooke:

* Website & Free Qigong Exercise: https://craigcooke.com/

* Book: Business Kung Fu (Available on Amazon)

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigcooke/

* Instagram https://www.instagram.com/craigcooke/

* X https://x.com/craigcooke

Support the Show:

* Subscribe and leave a review!

* Share this episode if it resonated!

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Chapters:

01:10 Introduction: Craig Cooke & Business Kung Fu

02:12 The Diagnosis: Passing Out on the Couch

05:22 Reversing Diabetes Naturally (Without Medication)

07:05 Shifting from the C-Suite to Chinese Energetic Medicine

08:35 Taking the Hardest Hits: The Resilience of Kung Fu

11:19 The 2009 Recession: $5,000 in the Bank and Payroll Due

13:44 Stop the Bleeding: The 10-Minute "Tapping" Routine

16:40 Craig's Definition of True Success

19:02 How to Get the Free Qigong Download & Connect

What do you do when you’ve climbed the ladder in a high-profile broadcast television career, only to realize you are completely running on empty?

Michael Klassen spent years as a veteran broadcast producer, chasing the next big story in the fast-paced, high-stress world of news and sports. But despite the external accolades, he felt a deep hunger for truth and spiritual filling that a corporate newsroom couldn't provide. After sensing an impending layoff—and eventually being let go—Michael didn't panic. Instead, he took the leap into the quiet discipline of the pre-dawn hours and launched the 5AM Podcast.

In this episode of FailCraft, Michael joins Ezekiel to discuss the spiritual and practical power of reclaiming your mornings. He shares why hitting the snooze button is stealing your life, how to break the "I'm not a morning person" limiting belief, and the exact reverse-engineering method you must use tonight to guarantee a win tomorrow morning.

In this episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:

* The Newsroom Void: Why achieving professional success in a high-stress environment often leaves your "teacup" totally empty.

* The Layoff Blessing: How Michael anticipated his own termination and used it as the catalyst to finally launch his dream project.

* The "Snooze Button" Trap: Why negotiating with your alarm clock is the fastest way to lose control of your day.

* The 100-Year Plan: What J.D. Rockefeller's financial discipline can teach us about managing our time and our mornings.

* Overcoming the "Morning Person" Myth: Why waking up early is simply a learned behavior, and how to push through the 10-day physical barrier.

* Reverse Engineering Your Sleep: The exact timeline you need to follow tonight (starting at 9:00 PM) to wake up at 5:00 AM without feeling miserable.

This episode is for anyone who feels frantic and frazzled the moment they wake up, and is ready to trade the noise of the world for the quiet power of a purposeful morning.

Connect With Michael Klassen:

* Website: https://5ampodcast.com/

* Social Media: Search for 5AM Podcast on YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook.

Support the Show:

* Subscribe and leave a review!

* Share this episode if it resonated!

Want to Be a Guest on FailCraft?

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Chapters:

01:15 Introduction: Michael Klassen & The 5AM Podcast

01:57 Running on Empty in the Broadcast Newsroom

03:19 The Anticipated Layoff: Getting Kicked Out of the Nest

07:27 The Farm Upbringing and the Snooze Button Trap

09:44 The 100-Year Plan for Your Time

13:23 Breaking the "I'm Not a Morning Person" Myth

15:10 Pushing Through the Physical Wall (The Bicycle Analogy)

17:42 How to Reverse Engineer Your Sleep Tonight

20:58 Michael's Definition of True Success

22:12 How to Join the 5AM Community

What do you do when you are days away from moving back home, drowning in debt, and sharing a two-bedroom apartment with 20 other people? You fake a resume and bluff your way into the television industry.

Gary DeFranco is an Emmy-nominated television executive producer who has spent two decades running hit reality shows like *The Ultimate Fighter* and Street Outlaws. But before he was navigating the high-stakes chaos of combat sports and street racing, he was an East Cleveland rapper who got signed to Death Row Records by Suge Knight—right before it all came crashing down.

In this episode of FailCraft, Gary joins Ezekiel to discuss his wild, unfiltered path to success. He shares the hilarious story of faking his way into his first TV job, how he survived imposter syndrome after breaking a camera on his very first day, and why the isolation of COVID-19 finally pushed him to make music again after a 20-year hiatus. Plus, in a rare role reversal, Gary turns the mic on Ezekiel to uncover the true origin story behind the FailCraft podcast.

In this episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:

* The Rap Dream: Getting signed to Death Row Records and watching the opportunity vanish overnight.

* The Ultimate Pivot: How a fake resume, a cheap collared shirt, and being a Cleveland Browns fan launched a 40-season TV career.

* Breaking the Camera: Why Gary decided that outworking everyone was the only way to survive his disastrous first day on set.

* The War of Art: Why every creative person needs to read Steven Pressfield's book to overcome the fear of failure.

* Origin of FailCraft: Ezekiel shares his personal journey from failing in mechanical engineering school to launching a global podcast.

* Gary's definition of true success: Making his mother proud and having the financial freedom to choose his own projects.

This episode is for artists, entrepreneurs, and anyone who feels like their path to success is a jagged, chaotic line rather than a straight one.

Connect With Gary DeFranco:

* Website: https://maxglowmedia.com/

* Social Media: Check his website for links to his music, artists, and production work.

Support the Show:

* Subscribe and leave a review!

* Share this episode if it resonated!

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Chapters:

01:17 Introduction: Gary DeFranco & The Beautiful Chaos

02:20 East Cleveland to Vegas: 20 People in a 2-Bedroom Apartment

05:00 Faking a Resume and Landing a Job at Discovery Channel

07:55 Getting Signed to Death Row Records (and Losing It All)

08:40 Rediscovering Music During COVID After Losing Best Friends

11:01 Imposter Syndrome and Breaking a Camera on Day One

13:30 Why Every Creative Needs to Read "The War of Art"

16:33 Gary's Definition of True Success

19:33 Guest Reversal: Ezekiel Shares the Origin of FailCraft

25:13 How to Connect with Gary

What do you do when the career you’ve dedicated 30 years of your life to fires you in the exact same week you are diagnosed with breast cancer?

Kay A. Oliver spent three decades as a screenwriter and producer in Hollywood, only to be repeatedly told by studio executives that her highly intelligent, female-driven stories were "unmarketable." When a devastating cancer diagnosis cost her both her job and her health insurance, Kay refused to let the gatekeepers win. Instead, she took total creative control and reinvented herself. Today, she is completely cancer-free, the author of 15 acclaimed books, and the 2025 Fiction Author of the Year.

In this episode of FailCraft, Kay joins Ezekiel to discuss the terrifying reality of fighting for your life and your livelihood at the exact same time. She opens up about the relief of escaping Hollywood's toxic politics, how to find the courage to finally trust your own voice, and why you only need 15 minutes a day to start building your own door.

In this episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:

* The Dual Blow: How Kay survived losing her sole income and health insurance the same week she was diagnosed with breast cancer.

* The Hollywood Myth: Why studio executives refuse to market female-centric action stories, and how Kay proved them wrong.

* Escaping the Gatekeepers: The absolute freedom of leaving corporate politics behind to create your own universe.

* Healing Through Fiction: How facing her own mortality deepened her writing and allowed her to process her emotional recovery.

* The 15-Minute Rule: Why you need to stop waiting for permission and start calling yourself an "author" or "artist" today.

* Kay's definition of true success: Releasing the need for fame and money to focus entirely on happiness and purpose.

This episode is for aspiring writers, cancer survivors, and anyone who has been told "no" by a gatekeeper and is ready to prove the world wrong.

Connect With Kay A. Oliver:

* Website: https://kayaoliver.com/ (Check out her free resources for writers!)

* Books: Available on Amazon (Search for Kay A. Oliver)

Support the Show:

* Subscribe and leave a review!

* Share this episode if it resonated!

**Want to Be a Guest on FailCraft?

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Chapters:

01:21 Introduction: Kay A. Oliver & The Ultimate Reinvention

02:00 The Dual Blow: Fired and Diagnosed with Cancer

03:43 Finding the Strength to Pick Up a Pen

04:09 Hollywood's Rejection of Female-Driven Stories

06:08 The Vindication of Winning Book of the Year

07:35 Escaping the Gatekeepers: The Freedom of Fiction

09:00 How Surviving Cancer Changed Her Characters

09:37 The Road to Elysium: Healing Through Storytelling

11:05 How to Build Your Own Door (Write 15 Minutes a Day)

13:48 Kay's True Definition of Success

15:01 How to Connect with Kay

What happens when you spend 30 years sacrificing your own happiness to take care of everyone else, only to wake up at age 50 and realize you have absolutely no hopes or dreams of your own?

Debbie Weiss is a best-selling author, speaker, and entrepreneur who spent decades trapped in a profound victim mentality. Overwhelmed by family caregiving, weight struggles, and unimaginable grief, Debbie’s internal narrative was stuck on "I can't." It wasn't until a life-changing 50th birthday trip that she finally decided to drop her excuses, stop waiting for her circumstances to change, and rewrite her story from "I can't" to "Maybe I can."

In this episode of FailCraft, Debbie joins Ezekiel to talk about the brutal reality of caregiver burnout. She opens up about the resentment that builds when you put yourself last, how she finally broke her mental shield regarding her weight, and the tiny, intentional shifts—which she calls "The Sprinkle Effect"—that can pull anyone out of a dark place.

In this episode of FailCraft, you’ll discover:

* The Caregiver's Trap: What it really feels like to spend 30 years putting out fires for your family while completely losing your own identity.

* The Turning Point: Why turning 50 forced Debbie to confront her lack of personal hopes and dreams.

* The Selfishness Myth: Why ignoring your own needs actually makes you a less loving, less patient caregiver.

* Weight as a Mental Shield: How Debbie broke the "all or nothing" habit trap by simply committing to show up, without the pressure of perfection.

* The Sprinkle Effect: How a painfully simple gratitude practice can literally rewire your brain to see the good in a dark world.

* The "Perfect Day" Permission Slip: A profound journaling exercise to help you figure out what you actually want out of life.

This episode is for caregivers, empty-nesters, people navigating midlife transitions, and anyone who feels like it’s too late to start over.

Connect With Debbie Weiss:

* Website: https://www.debbierweiss.com/

* Book: On Second Thought... Maybe I Can! ([Purchase Here] https://bit.ly/maybeIcanbook )

* Podcast: Maybe I Can® with Debbie Weiss

Support the Show:

* Subscribe and leave a review!

* Share this episode if it resonated!

Want to Be a Guest on FailCraft?

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Chapters:

01:14 Introduction: Debbie Weiss & Escaping the Victim Mentality

02:00 30 Years of Caregiving and Total Burnout

04:27 The Turning Point: Waking Up at Age 50

07:15 The Airplane Mask Rule: Why Self-Care Isn't Selfish

08:56 Using Weight as a Mental Shield

11:58 Breaking the "All or Nothing" Habit Trap

13:28 The Sprinkle Effect: A Simple Gratitude Hack

16:17 The "Perfect Day" Exercise: Writing Your Permission Slip

18:47 Debbie's Definition of True Success

19:59 How to Connect with Debbie Weiss