We are in the book of Ecclesiastes and we are learning from the lifelong experiment of Solomon. And here is the unique experiment he alone could perform: given virtually no boundaries and limitless resources, is there any lasting happiness to be found under the sun?
And Solomon’s answer comes back. Vanity of vanities. All is vanity. All is vapor. That’s not to say that life yields no pleasure. There is plenty of pleasure in life. It’s just very, very fleeting and transitory. It’s the pleasure of a rainbow. It’s here for a second and you love it and enjoy it and then that vapor vanishes.
That’s his high level conclusion. And if that conclusion was all you had, you might question it. You might say, “Solomon, I’m not sure I agree with that conclusion. How did you arrive at that?”
When you take math in school, your teacher always wants to you to show your work. I’m not so much interested in your answer as in the way you came to that answer. And the rest of the book of Ecclesiastes is Solomon showing his work. He says, you want to know how I got to the conclusion that life is vapor. Let me tell you.
Last week we saw the first step in Solomon showing us his work. Solomon began this happiness experiment by pursuing wisdom, philosophy, understanding.
And we saw that as wisdom increases, misery increases.
We saw the impotence of wisdom to really affect any change at the heart level.
We saw that the ultimate fate of both the fool and the wise man was the same.
And so Solomon looks this way. He looks that way. He surveys all that wisdom has to offer. He evaluates it’s benefits and he says vanity. Everything is vanity. Sure it has value. To be wise is certainly better than a fool. I’m glad I was wise. But it didn’t provide lasting fulfillment. It didn’t heal the wound in my heart.
So that was step one in Solomon showing us his work. He’s methodically trying to solve this fulfillment formula one line at a time, exhaustively working the wrong answers to their final conclusions. Can wisdom lastingly satisfy? Answer: no.
Today is step two, Solomon tries a different route. Wisdom won’t do it. So now let’s try something else. Let’s try pleasure and hedonism.
Hedonism is the pursuit of pleasure through the senses.
if it has a sound he wants to hear it
if it has a taste he wants to taste it
if it stimulates him in any way, I want to try it.
He wants to feel, smell, experience whatever pleasurable thing life has to offer. And he goes on this experience spree. And Solomon concludes, this does not satisfy.
As readers, we see the answer up front, but we want to know how he came to that conclusion. Solomon let me see your work? How did you come to the conclusion that pleasure does not satisfy? I mean, there are a lot of options out there.
Oh you don’t believe me? Ha, let me show you what I tried. And he goes on to list seven ways in which he tested pleasure. And as we read this text, you realize, man, this dude tried like very few could ever try. The amount of energy he expended trying to find lasting fulfillment through the senses was pretty staggering. He starts with laughter, humor, wit, levity, joking, clever banter.
If you want to be happy, the simplistic basic approach, is get involved in things that make you smile and laugh. And so Solomon starts with the low hanging fruit. Let me orchestrate my life such that I surround myself with laughter, comedy.
Who doesn’t like to laugh? Everyone loves to laugh. Who doesn’t experience a genuine spike in the satisfaction index listening to a funny comedian, a witty one-liner, or a dude perfect video, or a ridiculous cat video.
Why do I like humor? Why do I like laughter? The answer is pretty basic. Because it makes me feel good. I like to feel good and no matter what is happening in my life, when I laugh I feel good. But it doesn’t last.
It’s like a drug. It has a hit and then a little afterglow and then it wears off and it’s gone. You try to recall back to mind whatever it was that was so funny and it’s vanishes. And if you try to recreate the moment or your rewatch that funny video, it yields a small fraction of it’s original pleasure. And Solomon looks at that cycle and says, “What’s the point to that?”
Solomon is growing old. And old people are just less moved by humor.
I was listening to an interview of a well-known seasoned preacher and the interviewer said, “I was listening to some of your really early sermons and you were really funny. You had lots of jokes and humor. You are markedly more serious now. Why is that?” And the preacher said, the older I get the less there is to laugh at. They might sound depressing, but it’s true.
It’s true in two senses; it’s true, because humor has a shelf life. After a while, you’ve kind of heard the basic jokes. I couldn’t believe when my kids got to school age and they came home and they were telling me all these jokes and I’m like, those were literally the exact same jokes I had in my class when I was in grade school. Nothing new under the sun.
So as you age, the basic pattern for humor gets discovered and it gets less humorous.
But there’s also less to laugh at in life as you age because the longer you live, the more inappropriate laughter is given the sorrow and tragedy you see in the world around you. So that’s the first hedonism dead end.
But this dead-end does not deter Solomon in the least. He’s on a mission. I am going all out, and I am going to saturate my life, I’m going to use all my resources, all my time, all my energy, all my creativity, to consume as much pleasure as I possibly can.”
That didn’t quite do it, so maybe we need to add alcohol into the mix. We need a good party, but we need to mix in some alcohol to kick it up a notch.
The broad category here is just pleasure through chemicals. Maybe I can find fulfillment by putting a substance in body.
On the most innocent end of the spectrum just food. Can I make myself feel better by eating more. I’m feeling depressed; I’m feeling stressed; I’m feeling overwhelmed, frustrated; let me just eat a bit more.
Here Solomon tests chemical pleasure. Maybe happiness is to be found through coffee, wine, beer, whiskey… maybe through drugs, LSD, cocaine, meth. Maybe through medications, pain killers
Can I tweak the neurons in my brain. Perhaps all the sorrow in the world can be erased with a chemical enhancer? Maybe I just need a little help being happy?
And substances can increase the happy factor, which is of course why we do it. Alcohol is offered at parties for a reason. It shifts the focus of the brain. It stimulates the pleasure centers of the mind.
But, of course there’s a cost. And God set it up this way. Of course he did. You rob Peter to pay Paul and the Peter wants his money back. Chemical pleasure is achieved by robbing from future happiness to have current happiness. But there’s no free lunch. There’s a cause and effect. And that effect will come crashing back down on you with redoubled sorrow.
And Solomon very soon discovered this.
And so he moves on from these shallow, easy, cotton candy joys…humor, alcohol, parties and says, perhaps joy is to be found in more sophisticated methods. He can tell, that this doesn’t last so he turns to things that have more permanence. I want my pleasure efforts to last. I want to make something of myself through hard work.
And this sort of pleasure through accomplishment is definitely more lasting that alcohol or entertainment. When you move from the dorms at college to maybe an apartment and then that moment you buy your first house. Wow, that’s a great feeling. There’s a sense of permanence.
And the reason we like that feeling is because rather than painting someone elses’s wall and then having that work vaporize the second you move out, you now own the place. This piece of dirt is mine. I can do what I want here. I can buy any flower that looks good to me and plant it, because it’s mine.
I love projects. My dream in life from the time I was like 12 was to find some land with a natural hotsprings on it, and begin to quarry out of the ground a castle complete with moat, steam-room, draw bridge.
But instead I purchased a house in a subdivision which I keep trying to imagine is the same thing. I love that feeling of hard work and the reward that comes from working hard with your hands.
So I thought, well, I can’t have a castle but I want to build something out of stone, so how about a planter. So I went down to BLM got a rock quarry permit, drove 60 miles out into the desert and levered, pried, yanked and pullied this giant boulders into the back of my dad’s truck. And then I drove home and got them all arranged nicely into a rock wall. And I was just absolutely spent. Totally exhausted. And I stepped back and thought, “Oh man, this looks beautiful.”
You’ve had similar experiences. And you sit and kind of enjoy it, you bust out the ice cold lemonade on the porch and you just drink in the fruits of your labor.
Now, Solomon isn’t about to be outdone. He looks over at your row of tulips and says, “Yeah, I didn’t plant a garden with tulips, I planted a national forest, personal buchart gardens, Napa valley knows nothing of my vineyards.
And I dug out pools to hold water so that in this desert climate they could be watered year around. In fact, today in Israel you can go to a place named after him, Solomon’s pools. What you see here was improved by the Romans but the Romans built upon what Solomon had done.
Solomon was a massive builder. The Bible says it took Solomon 7 years to build the temple but he spent twice that building his own palace. He built houses for all his wives, which would be a significant project since he had 700 of them. I mean if building things and doing projects could make you happy, Solomon would know. This is very instructive for me.
I’ve done a lot of manual labor in my life and I love it. I find so much pleasure in working hard and being rewarded by it. But here’s the kicker, the same disappointment follows all of it. It doesn’t last. The trim that I put in my house 5 years ago now looks like it was installed 500 years ago. It’s been vaporized by 5 kids.
Maybe you are building a company or an organization. Or maybe you are at your job and you are responsible for the development of a product and that product is very successful. That makes you feel good.
There’s something that happens to the soul when you work all day, labor over something, pour your creative efforts into something and you can step back and say, “I’m proud of that effort.”
I feel in my soul a desire for permanence in my work. But no matter what I do, it decays. Eternity is in our heart, but the world is not eternal.
Solomon discovered this. He got tired of all his work failing him. So he turned the exact opposite direction. Well, if hard work doesn’t do it, maybe it’s freedom from work altogether.
What do slaves do for you? They free you from the tedium of life.
How many stay at home moms here with little kids think they would be happy if they never had to do laundry again in their life. Every mom feels it would be appropriate at her funeral to be buried in laundry. The tasks of tedium are legion.
Cooking,
changing diapers (we changed diapers for 10 years)
Cleaning and cleaning and cleaning,
Mowing the grass,
Taking out the trash,
Doing dishes,
Over and over again.
Such tedium.
Such unrewarding work.
If only I could just remove this kind of tedium from my life, I’d be happy! Solomon says, you think? You’re wrong. I had slaves to do everything for me.
Slaves washed, iron, hung my clothes. I didn’t even have to think and I looked amazing. I had a personal chef, a personal trainer. I had a personal barber, gardener, maid. Everything was always picked up, put away, dusted, folded. I lived Downtown Abby x 50. It’s great. It’s really nice to take these pressures off, but the heart is still hungry.
How many of you have gone on vacation and day one, it’s amazing. You leave your hotel and you come back at the end of the day and your bed is beautifully made, drum tight, vacuum sealed, bathroom cleaned, fresh soap. New laundered towels. You’re like, wow! That was nice.
And you go downstairs to a buffet breakfast. Someone else bought the food, brought it home, put it in the pantary, got it out of the pantry, prepared it, served it. And then when you are done, they will wisk away your dishes and clean them for you.
It’s nice. But that alone is not going to bring you lasting fulfillment. By day three or four your tired of the English muffins. You’re ready for something different. By day 12 you sound like an Israelite moaning in the wilderness so sick and tired of this manna that falls from heaven.
And so Solomon says, nope. That didn’t work. So maybe it’s not the amount of work, but it’s what the work does for you. Great possessions, equal great security. Great possession equals great respect and admiration among your peers. If great possessions can make you happy, I tried that.
I had stuff.
Every cultural has their weak spot, a soft underbelly, a particular idol they are prone to worship. And this is America.
We are constantly in pursuit of more. We simply believe that whatever it is, more of it must be better. We don’t get the concept of diminishing returns. The pleasure curve in our mind is linear. If 10 dollars makes me happy. 20 makes me twice as happy. 40 twice as happy as that. And we really do believe it’s just linear.
And we live in this mental pattern that prevents us from every seeing it. Here’s what I mean. Ten years ago, you had in your mind this picture of what you wanted life to look like, and you thought that if you could obtain it or get to it, you would be happy and satisfied. What did you think would make you happy in 2010? I was 32 years old.
I had a list in my mind of goals:
I would live in a nicer house.
I wanted to finish a triathlon.
We really wanted to adopt a child.
We wanted to pay off our school loans.
We wanted to save for retirement a little more aggressively.
We wanted to take our kids to Hawaii and visit my brother
I would be a better preacher.
We could get some help on our pastoral team
We needed a new building.
And all of have our list. And for the last ten years we have put all our energy toward these goals. We all think…
if I could just get out of school,
if I could get a good job,
if I could find a husband/wife,
if I could have children,
if I could make enough money to go on vacation,
if I could get a car that actually ran half the time
And so we work that ten year plan. Now here’s the crazy part. On my ten year goal list, I’ve met all those goals. Am I saying, "Yes! Score! Satisfaction!" The reality is you don’t even recognize when you meet your goals because all along the way you are replacing them with a new ten year plan because as the attainment of your goals gets closer you realize that they won’t satisfy. The thing that satisfies is always 10 years out. And so you are always working a ten year plan no matter how old you are, you are always working a ten year plan and your willing to put up with a little more because ‘your almost there’ and you die constantly convincing yourself that just a bit more is what will satisfy.
Almost all of us have bought into the philosophy that what will TRULY make me happy is more of what we already posses. That is madness.
All of are living lives that Solomon could only dream of.
Flying around in airplanes all over the world,
eating foods that he couldn’t have dreamed of trying,
running hot and cold water,
sheets so soft it would make his head spin,
sewers,
garbage collection,
street cleaners,
National parks,
cars that wiz around with radio,
internet,
crazy visual stimulant through in the movies…
And do we really think, that just more of all that stuff is going to make us happy? Really? How foolish. How insane? If the definition of insanity is doing the same thing expecting different results, then the most insane thought of all is that just more of what we already know doesn’t satisfy will at some point satisfy.
Before you buy one more thing in your life stop and ask yourself, why am I buying this? We don’t buy out of need; we buy out of boredom.
You don’t go buy a new pair of jeans because your last pair have completely blown to shreds and disintegrated. You buy a pair of jeans to cure your boredom. You like the feeling of trying something on and changing the way you look.
We live boring, predictable lives, and we numb it and turn it off by acquisition. **But Solomon’s going, “Hey man, I did that whole acquisition thing and I’m here to tell you.** It’s vanity/vapor.”
He’s tried wisdom. He’s tried humor and entertainment. He’s tried working hard and not working at all. He’s tried raw acquisition for the sake of security and recognition. None of that worked. Now Solomon tries the arts.
Art does something unique to the soul doesn’t it. A great painting, an amazing sculpture, a well-done play, a powerful broadway production. Solomon singles out music in particular here. Singers, men and women. Music really is a universal soothing to our soul. I listen to music several hours every day. And it makes my life so enjoyable.
Now in Solomon’s day, they didn’t have records, streaming services, headphones, etc. So the only way to listen to music was if it was live. So when people did hear music, it was a rare treat. And you can imagine people saying, “Wow, could you imagine how happy you’d be if you could have music in your ears at all time, if you could like dial up any song at any level, professionally recorded without mistakes, with infinite variety, any volume, any time of day.”
So Solomon did his best. Since phones weren’t around in Solomon’s day if you wanted the pleasure of 24/7 music what would you do? You wouldn’t buy the record; you bought the band. Come into my palace and I want you to play for me non-stop, whenever, I want.
Solomon was the precursor to digital assistants. Palace band, play for me the macerana.
Solomon had the bands, the songs, the music, the melodies but it wasn’t enough. Well maybe I need to combine the pleasure of music with the pleasure of women and everything that the flesh could imagine that surrounded that, the feeling of women serving him, the power, the dominance.
Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines. And Solomon tries satisfaction through sexual experience. And he says, it doesn’t satisfy. And if anyone could comment on this, it would be Solomon. If 1000 different women did not make him happy, then 1001 isn’t going to do it.
Solomon did not lack shape, eye color, hair color or personality. So, he plays it all out, and in the end, he’s done everything there is to do and he’s going to say he’s back in the same place he was before he ever started this pursuit, feeling like life was boring, pointless.
Ask anyone whose slid down the pornography rathole and ask him if it made him happy? The heart was not made to be satisfied through sex. Just like any abused gift, the more you demand happiness from it, the less it will give to you.
Solomon wrote Song of Solomon. And you can tell when you read the book that he’s on a high. And what is he describing in that book? He’s describing the thrill of marital love between one woman and one man. Song of Solomon is not Solomon explaining how awesome it is to have 1000 women at your disposal. Song of Solomon is explaining how glorious it is to have one woman and have her fully the way God intended. And it is awesome! It can’t be improved upon.
Now lest you read this and think this sexual experimentation of Solomon was cool in the eyes of God, think again. This was in direct violation of God’s words to Israel’s kings. God told the kings of Israel explicitly to not multiply wives.
In 1 Kings 11 we read that this exactly came true, that Solomon’s wives turned his heart away from the Lord and here’s the Lord’s summary of his many wives.
Now this is an instructive text for a couple reasons. What we read here is that pretty much everything Solomon experimented with was in direct violation of God’s decree. The money, the false sense of security, the women….the whole thing was an afront to God. But God allowed Solomon to run this fulfillment experiment all the way out. Go ahead, Solomon. Exhaust yourself in trying to solve a problem I’ve already told you is not solveable. I promise you it will hurt you and you will regret it. Run it all the way out and tell me what you find? And we benefit from that experiment that ended in futility and depression.
Oh? Just what I told you? Huh.
Greater than anyone of all time? Still not happy? Are you ready to listen?
Solomon’s Conclusion:
Solomon is trying to solve the fulfillment problem and he’s been showing us his work. Picture Ecclesiastes like a long division problem. Long division is a mathematical experiment where you plug in values trying to find the solution. Here’s an example.
I know for some of you this is triggering some PTSD. Just turn away and plug your ears and I’ll tell you when we are done. In order to solve this you have to ask how many times does 28 go into 259? And so you try 1.
And you say, nope that didn’t work. That’s got a massive remainder. And so you try 2.
Well, now that’s a little better but still, that didn’t quite solve the equation. And Solomon was doing this exact same thing, but instead of a solving a math problem, he was trying to solve a fulfillment problem. And he’s just plugging all sorts of values up there seeing how it would work and calculate down.
But no matter how hard he tried, the problem was beating him. It was like the most enigmatic math problem in the world. He tried every number, every combination of numbers and nothing solved it. He says, this is an unsolvable problem. And he was right. And here is what he concluded.
All of us, just like Solomon, have a void in our heart that needs filling. We are like Solomon and we are just stuffing numbers into this equation trying to solve it. And we try this thing and that thing, and it helps. It’s better than not having it, but it never quite solves the equation. There’s always these giant remainders. And Solomon is our ultimate teacher here because he tried it all. He tried bigger and better and more significantly than any of us would ever try.
Let’s just review all that he tried to stuff into his life:
comedic laughter,
alcohol drunk only in pure gold mugs (1 Kings 10:21),
Throne decorated with ivory and overlaid with gold, elevated by six steps, and surrounded by 14 hand carved lions and 500 custom hammered gold shields (1 Kings 10:20-27).
incredible real estate with massive palaces and private garden parks, a personal staff estimated at 10,000-30,000
the equivalent of his own private zoo with exotic animals from around the world,
a ranch with 12,000 horses and 1,400 chariots imported from Egypt and Cilicia (1 Kings 4:26, 10:26-29),
so much wealth that silver became worthless (1 Kings 10:10-27),
on demand access to performances by his favorite artists,
sex with any of the 1,000 wives and concubines,
rock star fame,
the highest IQ and greatest insight of anyone in the history of the world
and the power to do basically anything he wanted.
Honestly, wouldn’t you be happier if your life was like Solomon’s? Solomon tells us.
This year our theme is change what you love.
We have in our hearts a longing to be filled. And we love those things that we think will fill that longing.
When we say, “Change what you love” what we are saying recognize that this world can’t fill that longing. Stop loving things that don’t have lasting fulfillment, that are not in the shape to fulfill. Their shape is not such that it can actually change you.
You see, the soul, has had this cavity in it; we were created with that cavity, that intuitively longs to experience what the world was like before sin entered. And our souls are groaning, according to Scripture, to realize that pre-fallen condition. We just long for it. We ache for it.
The problem is, the cavity is so deep, that only eternity could fill it and yet we just keep cramming it with temporary, fleeting joys. On the surface it just looks like a hole that should be super easy to fill. But it strangely never fills. Let’s cram it with some more. Let’s pump more down that hole and try to fill it.
My father-in-law worked for Micron and because that facility is built on a lava field, the code requires that you drill down and make sure there are no voids in the ground. And if you find a void, you need to fill it with concrete.
So as the story goes, they found and void and starting pumping concrete down the void. And they just kept pumping, day after day after day. And it never filled. And a few million dollars of concrete later, they climbed down the hole and realized that it was a lavatube that went clear to federal way. It would never fill.
Don’t spend the rest of your life pumping the world’s goods down a bottomless pit. Let’s learn from Solomon folks. Let’s not waste his fulfillment experiment which concludes this way:
A full fridge
full house
full closet
full bank account
full social life
full mind
full stomach
full résumé
full bedroom
equals an empty soul.
Poverty theology will tell us that joy comes in having less. Conversely, prosperity theology will tell us that joy comes with having more. Fulfillment isn’t a function of stuff.
1 Timothy 6:6, “true godliness with contentment is itself great wealth.” This is profoundly simple. Everything minus Jesus is nothing. Nothing plus Jesus is everything.
Application.
This is why Jesus Christ said, I am living water. If you drink from me, you will never thirst. I can quench your thirst forever.
I am the bread of life. I can fill your soul forever so that you will never again hunger.
I am the way. I am that thing you have been looking for and once you find me, you will never search for anything else.
I am the true vine. You want life. You need life. Then you need to connect yourself to me.
I am the light of the world. You want meaning and purpose. You want light to illuminate the soul and bring purpose to what you do, to help orient yourself. Then what you are saying is you want Jesus Christ.
I am the good shepherd. You’ve wanted someone to follow. You’ve wanted a leader who won’t disappoint. If you follow me, you will never be disappointed.
So here’s what I want us to do this week. I want us to take a step. Here’s what I mean. Start filling that cavity in your heart with Jesus Christ. How do you do that?
You feed on Christ through reading his Word? If you don’t read his Word, well, of course your hungry. Of course you feel empty.
You pray to him. If you aren’t praying to him, then of course you feel lonely. Of course you feel vacant and void and empty of purpose and relational fulfillment.
You need to read books and listen to sermons that point you in the right direction. Changing what you love means, that you have to begin serving a different God. You have to offer sacrifices in a different direction. You have to eat differently, drink differently, live differently.
Your schedule will need to look different. You will need to spend different. Now to help you with this.
Let’s take a step.
Our hearts have a cavity made for eternity. Only Jesus Christ can fill that cavity.
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