Good morning Church! My name is Trent Houck for those who don’t know me and I am the Youth and Family Pastor here at FCBC. I’ve been married for ten years, and have a nearly two and a half year old son. I’ve lived in Boise, ID for almost a year and a half now. If you would, please turn with me in your Bibles to Matthew 2:7-23. We will read the passage in its entirety, then I will pray, and then we will break it apart together.
SCRIPTURE TO BE READ:
Hear God’s Word:
7 Then Herod summoned the wise men secretly and ascertained from them what time the star had appeared. 8 And he sent them to Bethlehem, saying, “Go and search diligently for the child, and when you have found him, bring me word, that I too may come and worship him.” 9 After listening to the king, they went on their way. And behold, the star that they had seen when it rose went before them until it came to rest over the place where the child was. 10 When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy. 11 And going into the house, they saw the child with Mary his mother, and they fell down and worshiped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh. 12 And being warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they departed to their own country by another way.
13 Now when they had departed, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Rise, take the child and his mother, and flee to Egypt, and remain there until I tell you, for Herod is about to search for the child, to destroy him.” 14 And he rose and took the child and his mother by night and departed to Egypt 15 and remained there until the death of Herod. This was to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet, “Out of Egypt I called my son.”
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16 Then Herod, when he saw that he had been tricked by the wise men, became furious, and he sent and killed all the male children in Bethlehem and in all that region who were two years old or under, according to the time that he had ascertained from the wise men. 17 Then was fulfilled what was spoken by the prophet Jeremiah:
18 “A voice was heard in Ramah, weeping and loud lamentation, Rachel weeping for her children; she refused to be comforted, because they are no more.”
19 But when Herod died, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt, 20 saying, “Rise, take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who sought the child's life are dead.” 21 And he rose and took the child and his mother and went to the land of Israel. 22 But when he heard that Archelaus was reigning over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there, and being warned in a dream he withdrew to the district of Galilee. 23 And he went and lived in a city called Nazareth, so that what was spoken by the prophets might be fulfilled, that he would be called a Nazarene.
PRAYER:
Heavenly Father, “Because your steadfast love is better than life, my[our] lips will praise you” (Ps. 63:3) “… you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness (Psalm 86:15), Oh [we] give thanks to the LORD, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever! (Psalm 107:1). This morning we long to be satisfied by your love.
Jesus, we pray that you would be glorified this morning by the meditations of our hearts and minds. Cause us to take every thought captive to obey Christ (2 Cor. 10:5). Lead us this morning as we are taken from one degree of glory to another (2 Cor. 3:18) as we behold your glory.
Holy Spirit, accomplish your work in us by the same power that raised Jesus from the dead. You who are at work in us, help us to see that nothing can separate those who are in Christ from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord (Rom. 8:39). We pray these things as one body in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
EXPOSITIONAL INTRODUCTION
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This morning we are looking at Matthew 2:7-23, You might remember that we are four sermons deep in a series entitled “A Man Unlike Men.” So far we have seen that Jesus is:
1. A Man Without Beginning (1 Peter 1:20-21)
2. A Man Who Was Promised (Matthew 2:1-6)
3. A Man of Consequence (Luke 2:8-14)
4. A Man who Divides (Luke 2:7, 24)
Today,
5. A Man Who was Hated (Matthew 2.7-23)
We will conclude this series by look at Jesus as a
6. A Man of Sorrow (Luke 2.25-35)
7. A Man of Silence (Mt. 26:63, 1 Peter 2:23; Hab. 2:20; Zeph. 1:7; Psalm 50:21)1
The series is geared to cause your affections to explode with gratitude. The series is aimed at causing you, like the Psalmist says to “Kiss the Son, lest he be angry…blessed are all those who take refuge in him” (Psalm 2:12), and to exclaim with the writer of the Song of Songs, “Behold you are beautiful, my beloved, truly delightful” (Song of Solomon 1:13). The hope is to again in a fresh way to, behold, revel in, or savor the goodness of God in Jesus Christ: to behold his glory as people who are being transformed from one degree of glory to the next (2 Cor. 3:18).
But, as we describe this man unlike men as “without beginning,” “who was promised” “of consequence” “who divides” and now, “who was hated.” There is a chance that you are feeling alienated from him, rather than drawn to him. You see the divide, the great chasm, between this man and your Christian life, and it’s making you wonder whether he’s real. So, to set up where we’re going today let me just give you five implications of these messages that might help you draw near to God:
1. Jesus is the Son without beginning, so that we might be adopted as sons with eternal endings.
2. Jesus was the man who was promised, so that we might be the recipients of all of God’s benefits in Christ.
3. Jesus was a man of consequence so that our lives as sons and daughters of God might be flooded with meaning and significance.
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4. Jesus was a man who divides so that we who are in Christ might be united to Christ for all of eternity.
5. Jesus was a man who was hated, so that we might know the Father’s Love.2
As Christians, we must recognize that Jesus’ atoning death saved us from the wrath of God and all its consequences, but his perfect, sinless life merits us all the affections of God the Father as Jesus gives us his righteousness. We are now sons and daughters. Ray Ortlund summarizes the Gospel this way,
“God, though the perfect life, atoning death and bodily resurrection of Jesus Christ, rescues all his people from the wrath of God into peace with God, with a promise of the full restoration of his created order forever—all to the praise of the glory of his grace.”3
MAIN POINT:
So, the main point of our passage this morning is this:
Jesus was hated so that we might know the Father’s love.
Summary: The hatred that was aimed at Jesus was unique in that it served as the canvas for the perfect display of human sinfulness and at the same time the perfect love of God the Father for sinners. If I can put it even more provocatively, the human hatred experienced by Jesus was the training implement in the hands of the Father to equip his Son to bear the wrath of God on the cross. Each evidence of human hatred was a vaccination against the ultimate disease of human sinfulness that would be borne by Jesus on the cross of calvary. And at the same moment, the hatred that Jesus experienced was the means by which the Son accrued for us the righteousness in which we freely stand, loved by God by sheer grace. And all this, for us.
EXEGETICAL INTRODUCTION
Let me briefly illustrate why it is the Father’s love that we want. J.I. Packer writes in his book Knowing God that there is no higher privilege in the Gospel than to be adopted as sons of God. He argues that it is even higher, better, more satisfying than the message of justification by faith alone. He writes, “To be right with God the judge is a great thing, but to be loved and cared for by God the Father is greater”4 He says, “Adoption is higher [than justification by faith] because of the
3 Ray Ortlund, The Gospel, 16.
4 J.I. Packer, Knowing God, (188).
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richer relationship with God that it involves.”5 In fact, he writes that the entire New Testament could be thematically summarized by this phrase “Adoption through propitiation.”6 If we understand the implications of this for us as Christians, we will agree with Packer that the New Testament is all about sinners by nature and by choice being brought up into the family of God, legally, finally, lovingly, eternally by the substitutionary, propitiatory sacrifice of the lamb of God. This is so meaningful for us, that we are, as Packer says, “…all as fully loved as Jesus is loved.”7 That is what the Gospel offers you: the fullness of God the Father’s love for the price of the life and death of his Son.
My assumption this morning is that you not only want this love, but you need this love.8 If you are in the Son, God will never leave you nor forsake you. My assumption is that there are a thousand attacks on this unconditional claim of God’s love on you. Whether from your past, or your present, or from this morning, or your future, the claim that God the Father loves you “…as fully as Jesus is loved” is being assaulted by the world, the flesh, and the devil. My hope this morning is that God will do a work of defanging and declawing the teeth and claws of those lies so that you will rest secure in Christ today.
Because Jesus was hated, you can be loved. Jesus was hated for you.
MAIN QUESTION/TENSION:
We see human hatred in the yelling matches of our politics, the conflicts of our family both extended and immediate, but most predominately (at least) in students today, we see human hatred concentrated internally in the human psyche as self-hatred. We may encourage our students all we want to love their neighbors as themselves, but until we learn that we are fully loved, we have no power to love anyone else. The Gospel flow of love is “We love because God first loved us” (1 John 4:19). To see that this message is catching fire, you don’t have to look further than famed psychologist Jordan Peterson’s 12 Rules for Life, his second rule being “Treat Yourself Like Someone You Are Responsible for Helping.” We may laugh at this, until we realize the consequences of someone who treats themselves with hatred and disdain, and until we realize that our own children have no regard for themselves.
I think this self-hatred is most apparently illustrated in Jean Twenge’s book Igen. She writes, “After declining during the 1990s and stabilizing in the 2000s, the suicide rate for teens has risen again. Forty-six percent more 15- to 19-year-olds committed suicide in 2015 than in 2007, and two and half times more 12- to
5 Ibid., 187.
6 Ibid., 194.
7 Ibid., 196.
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14- year-olds killed themselves”9 She stated previously, “Teens are now lonelier than at any time since…1991.”10 Twenge points to this generations lack of religious persuasion, the breakdown in social relationships, the oversaturation of media and technology, and economic factors to explain this, concluding that this generation is “…both the physically safest generation and the most mentally fragile”11 Therefore, young people are most lethal, and hateful toward themselves, and not others.
I don’t want to over-psychologize this passage, or to read anything into it, but I bring this up to show that hatred in our day takes place along the landscape of our internal monologue, our indifferent, cold, electronically curated relationships, and unless we see this, we will be alienated from our passage, which describes extremely dark physical violence, real exile, and the infiltration of God through dreams, and angels.
The problem of hatred today, though it may be on the inner walls of our souls is still very much a problem today, and because of humanity’s sinful nature, this hatred problem is here to stay, unless we allow the Gospel to address us in its fullness, and we’re given a new nature that is unified with Christ. That is why I think this passage is here for us this morning.
21 For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God (2 Corinthians 5).12
For this to be good news, we must acknowledge that Jesus was both hated by us so that we put him on the cross, but that he was hated for us so that through the cross he might triumph by sacrifice over our sinful hatred of him. That, I think is, what this passage teaches. And we will belabor the point no longer.
OUTLINE:
Here is my outline:
1. A Man Hated to Reveal the Nature of Sin as Self-Worship (Matt. 2:7-8)
2. A Man Hated to Reveal the Nature of True Worship as Extreme, Self-forgetful Joy in God (Matt. 2:9-12).
9 Jean Twenge, Igen, 110.
10 Jean Twenge, Igen 97.
11 Jean Twenge, Igen, 312.
12 This is what it means that Jesus was hated, so that we might know the love of God. Jesus was certainly hated by humanity, but this is not a hatred that saves. But a hatred that condemns
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3. A Man Hated to Reveal the Nature of the Father’s Love: Out of Egypt I called My Son (Matt. 2:13-15)
4. A Man Hated to Reveal Meaning in Sorrow: They Were No More (Matt. 2:16-18)
5. A Man Hated to Reveal Something Good From Nazareth (Matt. 2:19-23).
A MAN HATED TO REVEAL THE NATURE OF SIN AS SELF-WORSHIP (MATT. 2:7-8)
First, we must examine the epitome of sin in humanity: self-worship. Sinful hatred finds its expression first in the heart of a worshipper, who has taken for himself the wrong object of worship, namely, himself. We read,
7 Then Herod summoned the wise men secretly and ascertained from them what time the star had appeared. 8 And he sent them to Bethlehem, saying, “Go and search diligently for the child, and when you have found him, bring me word, that I too may come and worship him.”
Herod’s hatred problem, his sin problem, was first a worship problem. Herod the first, known for his brutal executions, his bloody rise to power, his ruthless building projects, the murder of his three eldest sons and one of his ten wives, was a worshipper. He was someone who was meant to live in the presence of God and for the glory of God. And yet, his sinister self-worship crowded onto his personal resume. We see from verse 3 that the announcement of this Jewish King was troubling for Herod so that he made a full enquiry of the matter. His throne of self-exaltation was being threatened. He called secret meetings. No doubt his mind was fully preoccupied with this question: what will happen to me? There are two things we need to learn about sin from this passage:
First, sin is self-worship. Herod “summons”, “ascertains”, and “sends” all for the purpose of exalting the all-powerful “I”. He delicately disguises his self-exaltation with, “That I too may come and worship him” (2:8). We know from later in the passage that Herod had no real intention of worshipping Jesus. Herod is like the dragon in Revelation 12, who waits for the birth of the son of man like a nurturing midwife but with the internal intention “…to devour him” (Revelation 12:4). Self-worship commands, investigates, and even promises worship for God, but it’s only true aim is self-preservation and protection.
Second, sin is hatred disguised as love. As Puritan writer and Pastor Thomas Brooks says, the devil is skilled in “painting sin with virtue’s colors.”13 So is Herod. “Search diligently,” he says, “for the child…”. Make a careful religious inquiry. Make me the first to know. Why? Oh, because I want to worship him.
13 Thomas Brooks, Precious Remedies Against Satan’s Devices.
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There is worship that has no reward. When we serve to be noticed, worship to be accepted, suffer to be congratulated, preach to be applauded, lead life group for solely our own benefit, these are examples of self-worship. And God will take no part in it. Jesus was hated by Herod in a disguise of love so that all of our false religious practice, all of our self-centered attempts to earn God’s favor would be exposed on the canvas of Herod’s self-obsession. If you want your Bible reading to explode, ask yourself the question: “how am I like all the villains of Scripture?” not “how am I like the victors?” Read Scripture to see that our self-obsession is a worship problem. In our sin, we love God with the same self-centered secrecy as Herod the first. Jesus was hated to reveal this to us. There are times in my life when I am sure that Jesus looked at my “worship” and said, “Your worship reminds me of Herod the First.” Why are we so afraid of this man who means to overthrow our kingdoms of self-obsession by the sheer weight of his kindness and mercy? To all of us who worship ourselves, this question remains. The wise men show us a better way.
A MAN HATED TO REVEAL THE NATURE OF TRUE WORSHIP AS EXTREME, SELF-FORGETFUL JOY IN GOD (MATT. 2:9-12)
Second, Jesus was hated to reveal the nature of true worship as extreme, self-forgetful joy in God. We will all find in this passage that our worship has been lukewarm, even cold. God means for us to enjoy him personally, experientially, truthfully so that we are filled with extreme joy. Let’s read starting in verse 9:
9 After listening to the king, they went on their way. And behold, the star that they had seen when it rose went before them until it came to rest over the place where the child was. 10 When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy. 11 And going into the house, they saw the child with Mary his mother, and they fell down and worshiped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh. 12 And being warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they departed to their own country by another way.
Hate filled, self-preservationist, false worshippers, like Herod, send real worshippers to find something worthy of their worship. True worshippers have to resist the urge to worship everything.
For example, I have recently taken a liking to coffee for its energy production, help in focus, and rich-bodied flavor. I am tempted to worship coffee. It makes me a happier person. It drives me as an introvert out of my cave of self-talk. I am tempted to center my life on coffee. To make it the highlight of my day. To practice the presence of coffee all throughout my day. To evangelize for coffee. To preach the coffee gospel, which is preached most compellingly by Dutch Bros.
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I know many of you who suffer the same weight. Maybe it’s not coffee for you, but it’s mountain biking, skiing, skydiving, your work, your family, your brewing unspeakable beverages, your computer, your phone, etc.
I want to show this because these wise men were truly wise. Notice how they resist false worship. As astrologers, how did they resist the gravitational pull of worshipping the star that led them so perfectly? How is it that they rejoiced with exceedingly great joy that it had led them to the house of the Jewish King, and not in the star itself? How is it that they resisted the Catholic urge to worship Mary the Mother of God, for her indispensable role of bringing the Son of God into the world? How is it that they fell down and worshipped only him?
C.S. Lewis helps us here:
“The books or the music [or the star, or the house, or the woman in the home…] in which we thought the beauty was located will betray us if we [en]trust [ourselves] to them; it was not in them [the star, or the gold, or the frankincense, or the myrrh], it only came through them, and what came through them was longing. These things—the beauty, the memory of our past—are good images of what we really desire; but if they are mistaken for the thing itself they turn into dumb idols, breaking the hearts of their worshippers. For they are not the thing itself; they are only a scent of a flower we have not found, the echo of a tune we have not heard, news from a far country we have not visited.”14
Lewis argues that we so infrequently feel this surge of true joy, this exceedingly great joy, this ecstatic mega joy, because our souls have shrunk to worship the means of our joy and not the object of our joy.
I think there are four applications that we can take from this:
1. Follow the “star” all the way up to God. If you want exceptional joy in worship, follow the enjoyment of created things all the way up to the Creator. Imagine if you were going to meet your most cherished friend and upon arriving you stayed outside to admire the road. “Yeah, now there’s a great road. I knew you were the right road. I wonder what you’re made of. Smoothest road ever, and headed in just the right direction.” Um, honey, it’s time to be with the family, we drove 16 hours to see your best friend…“Just a second, I just need to see about this road.”
14 C.S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory.
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2. Accept that joy is received as grace, not actively taken by works. The wise men enjoy the sheer gift of God’s grace in their joy. The literal translation is that they were rejoiced, or they were filled with joy, exceedingly great joy. They were filled with the joy not their own, like a father who designs a treasure map and seeing his son find the treasure, delights together in song and dance with his son in the finding of what he had purposefully hidden for the sheer joy of discovery. This is shared, God-centered joy.
3. Realize that true worship is a call to humility. Even in their great, miraculous discovery, they fall down, prostrating themselves before a child. They recognize that there is someone of more worth and value than themselves. And so, they lower themselves.
4. Recognize that true worship opens the treasure box of the heart. When you have the object of your greatest desire in front of you, the peripheral objects and possessions that you have attained come flooding to the feet of Jesus. What value does gold have except to give to Jesus? What value do our families, cities, our nation, our homes have except to give them to Jesus who gives them their real substance and worth?
How many addictions would be prevented if we only saw that happiness, joy, and true satisfaction does not enslave, but frees. How many affairs would be prevented if only we would see that beauty comes through people and not because of them? That people in themselves are not the substance but the means of enjoying God. That the only thing in all the universe that truly has substance is God himself. And the rest of us just borrow from him. As Lewis puts it, this worship is “The whole man drinking from the fountain of joy.”15 This is what God wants for us in worship. In every life group, in every meal, in every activity, we are to be enjoying God by means of his good gifts to the end of his glory.
This kind of worship expands the soul, frees the mind, and restores life to the body. This kind of worship takes the weight of expectation off of your families and friends to be everything for you, and frees you to take delight in God. This takes the pressure off the worship leader, the preacher, when God is the one desired.
Our sin was shown through self-worshipping hatred of Herod. True worship is illustrated as hating all other things by comparison to our love for Christ. And
15 C.S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory.
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now, we see that Jesus was hated so that God might make a display of his love for the Son.
A MAN HATED TO REVEAL THE NATURE OF THE FATHER’S LOVE: OUT OF EGYPT I CALLED MY SON (MATT. 2:13-15).
Third, Jesus was hated to reveal the nature of the Father’s love. The main point of this passage is found in verse 15, “Out of Egypt, I called my Son.” Don’t gloss over those words. Of all places, Egypt? Let’s read starting in verse 3:
3 Now when they[the wise men] had departed, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Rise, take the child and his mother, and flee to Egypt, and remain there until I tell you, for Herod is about to search for the child, to destroy him.” 14 And he rose and took the child and his mother by night and departed to Egypt 15 and remained there until the death of Herod. This was to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet, “Out of Egypt I called my son.”
So, now you see Herod’s real motivation exposed. What looked to be a pious attempt at worship turned out to be a maniacal plot to slaughter God’s own Son.
We can summarize this bit swiftly: all of the events in verses 13-14 took place in order that the divine word from the mouth of Hosea (11:1) might be fulfilled that said, “Out of Egypt, I called my Son.” This phrase, in its context, is loaded with meaning. We don’t have time to retell the entirety of Israel’s story, but know that this is Israel’s salvation narrative retold as divine intervention in one sentence. The nature of the Father’s love is salvific, it is saving, rescuing, redeeming, red-sea parting love. God’s superintending, sovereign love caused Jesus to be pushed out of Bethlehem by means of Herod’s self-centered volitional choices in order that the Word of God might prove true.
Let’s just say two things about the nature of the Father’s love.
First, the Father’s sovereign, saving love is mediated through responsible human agents. All the commands that will ultimately fulfill God’s word are presented as real choices for Joseph to obey. The imperative to rise, take the child, flee, and remain are all instituted by divine direction but obeyed and activated by a responsible human person, “a just man” (1:19). Joseph is God’s man for the job. He expects Joseph to take the lead. Joseph is the primary active party of verse 14, “He rose...” and “...[he] took the child...” and “[he] took the child’s mother...” and he departed and took the 75-90 mile journey to get out of Israel.16 And he kept him there until the death of Herod. The responsibilities for both protection and provision are
16 Carson and Wilkins disagree on the exact length of this journey to Egypt’s border.
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placed squarely in the hands of Joseph, even as God superintends his sovereign leadership through exceptional dream warnings.
This truth has implications for our parenting as well. While we are entrusted with our children as stewards, God is ultimately sovereignly responsible for the outcome of their lives. This is illustrated in the fact that Joseph was not conducting research studies on geopolitics, calculating grade point averages to prevent governmental intervention, or helicopter parenting when he received divine instruction for the preservation of his adopted son. He was sleeping! As parents, we would do well to follow Joseph’s example. Go to bed!
Second, the Father’s saving love calls his Son “out of Exile.” We should notice the divine reversal going on here. The safest place for Joseph to go is away from the “promised land” and into exile in Egypt. Egypt and Israel have traded spaces. Bethlehem is about to have its children exposed just as Pharaoh threw the Hebrew boys into the Nile. Exile is the true place of safety, where God dwells, and where God calls.
Again, I think there are implications for parenting here. We are terrified of our sons and daughters being sent into exile. We are afraid of them being rejected, maligned or in any way mistreated, but we must acknowledge they are not as spiritually safe with us as we might assume. I’ve spoken to many young Christians who leave the Church upon graduation. They go through Christian schools, they have Christian parents. They were raised in a Christian bubble, but when they leave home they say, “I met Jesus when I was enrolled in a secular university.” Suffocated under the pressure of protection and self-preservation, when they are allowed to breathe the air of spiritual freedom, they begin to notice God.
This is, in many ways my own story. I met God not in the pews of my childhood churches or at the desks of my Christian schools, but in the slums of San Francisco, and in the spiritually impoverished lowlands of my public high school.
Here’s the point: we have a God who meets us in exile. We have a God who calls his own Son from an unlikely, spiritually bankrupts, genocidal place.
Let’s not be afraid of statistics and fear-tactics. Our young people must trust the God of the Gospel, who never fails, never grows tired or weary. He is not confined or restrained in his saving freedom to the smallness of our churches, or the walls of our schools, though I pray he uses them. He always completes the work that he starts, even in exile. But, let us beware of our own Herodian, false worship tendencies. Let us be people with whom God delights to dwell.17
Jesus then, is hated and sent into exile, in order to bring exile to its end.
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A MAN HATED TO REVEAL MEANING IN SORROW: THEY WERE NO MORE (MATT. 2:16-18)
Fourth, Jesus was hated to reveal the meaning of sorrow and to bring an end to exile. The Son is called out of Egypt, out of exile, but before he is, one final act of hatred and rebellion must take place. Let’s look at verse 16,
16 Then Herod, when he saw that he had been tricked by the wise men, became furious, and he sent and killed all the male children in Bethlehem and in all that region who were two years old or under, according to the time that he had ascertained from the wise men. 17 Then was fulfilled what was spoken by the prophet Jeremiah:
18 “A voice was heard in Ramah, weeping and loud lamentation, Rachel weeping for her children; she refused to be comforted, because they are no more.”
Herod’s sinful, self-worship and consequent fury and rage meant the death of between 10-30 sons in Bethlehem. This is staggering not for its grandeur, but for its pettiness. It’s one thing to slaughter the children of a nation, its another thing to squash the hopes and futures of the little town of Bethlehem. C.S. Lewis helps us to catch the unfathomable weight of this for mothers: “Never, in any place or time, will she have her son on her knees, or bathe him, or tell him a story, or plan for his future, or see her grandchild.”18 If we have been through it, we know that “...each experience of grief is unique”19 Each child made uniquely in the image of God as a son to his mother, but no more. There are two things we must say about this:
First, there is no worldly comfort in the seemingly infinite exile of grief. C.S. Lewis describes grief this way, “Grief still feels like fear. It gives life a permanently provisional feeling. It doesn’t seem worth starting anything. I can’t settle down. I yawn, fidget, I smoke too much. Up till this I have always had too little time. Now there is nothing but time. Almost pure time, empty successiveness.”20 In grief, what was lost was truly lost. No false promise could comfort. This text gives us permission to express the full range of emotions in loss. Weeping and lament are the only proper response. As Christians, we can be too quick to offer trivial comforts. And we can be surprised when they are rejected. But we would be wise to listen to Job’s rebuke: “I have heard many such things; miserable comforters are you all” (Job 16:2), and “How then will you comfort me with empty nothings? There is nothing left
18 C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed, 26-27.
19 Madeleine L’Engle, Forward for C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed, xiii.
20 Lewis, A Grief Observed, 33.
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of your answers but falsehood” (Job 21:34). We would do well to take Psalm 62:1 with us when we counsel our grieving friends: “For God alone my soul waits in silence; from him comes my salvation.”
Second, the presence of almighty God in exile is the answer to worldly grief. Matthew notes that, when the Son of God comes, again the women will weep as if they are headed to exile, losing their children, their heritage, and their blessing. They will refuse to be comforted as they did in Jeremiah’s era. The presence of Jesus fulfills this grievous word. D.A. Carson writes, “...the tears that began in Jeremiah’s day [at the result of exile] are climaxed and ended by the tears of the mothers in Bethlehem. The heir of the Davidic throne has come. The exile is over. The true Son of God has arrived, and he will introduce the New Covenant promised by Jeremiah.” 21
I remember laying on the couch in the middle of the night after my parents had separated. Never in my life had I experienced such grief, and loneliness, and never in my life had I wanted the presence and person of God more than in those moments.
If you are not a Christian this morning, doesn’t this evoke longing in your heart? Christianity does not paper over your griefs with false promises. God the Son comes in person to bear our griefs. To be with us in exile. He is comfort and peace. Christianity says that there is nothing in this world that can take away your pain, but that God comes in Jesus Christ to bear your pain, and he does this through his word and by his Spirit. Jesus was hated so that we would know that.
So, Jesus was hated to show the sinfulness of self-worship, to reveal the nature of true worship, to show the Father’s saving love, and to bear our sorrows on his own shoulders.
A MAN HATED TO REVEAL SOMETHING GOOD FROM NAZARETH (MATT. 2:19-23).
Fifth and Finally, Jesus was hated to reveal something good from Nazareth. We’ve descended deep this morning, but I think this portion will bring us back up to the surface. Let’s read starting in verse 19:
But when Herod died, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt, 20 saying, “Rise, take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who sought the child's life are dead.” 21 And he rose and took the child and his mother and went to the land of Israel. 22 But when he heard that Archelaus was reigning over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there, and being warned in a dream he withdrew to the district of Galilee. 23 And he went and lived in a city called
21 Carson, Matthew, 95.
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Nazareth, so that what was spoken by the prophets might be fulfilled, that he would be called a Nazarene.
So, Jesus was hated for all of these deep reasons: self-worship, to reveal true worship, to reveal the father’s saving love, to bear our griefs, and finally here Jesus is hated to bear our surface-level name calling and quick-witted, sarcastic slams. Let me just give you an example, when Phillip tells Nathanael that he thinks he’s found the Christ, Nathanael responds with famous disdain. I dredged up the most diverse grouping of translations that I could find to help us feel the dripping sarcasm (Jn. 1:46).
New International Version "Nazareth! Can anything good come from there?" New Living Translation “Nazareth!” exclaimed Nathanael. “Can anything good come from Nazareth?”
Berean Literal Bible And Nathanael said to him, "Is any good thing able to be out of Nazareth?"
New American Standard Bible Nathanael said to him, "Can any good thing come out of Nazareth?" International Standard Version Nathaniel asked him, "From Nazareth? Can anything good come from there?" The Message: Nathanael said, “Nazareth? You’ve got to be kidding.”
Phillip’s response is, “Come and See!” Some attribute this to the fact that Nazareth was a military outpost, so anyone from there would be conflated with them.22 But, Matthew is simply trying to make the general point that Jesus would be hated because of his hometown. To give a personal example, and I apologize if this hits too close to home, but when I meet people generally, I have learned to tongue in cheek say that I am from the West Coast. Upon arriving here initially, people would ask, “Where are you from?” To which I would reply, “California.” Oh. What part? “Southern.” Oh. Generally, Boise natives are very calm and welcoming, but when they hear that I’m from Ventura, CA, their thoughts are confirmed, this place really is being thrown to the wolves.
22 Walvoord & Zuck, The Bible Knowledge Commentary, 23.
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In God’s eyes, we call come from the wrong neighborhoods, and Jesus was placed in the wrong neighborhood to prove that God can take anyone from anywhere and make them anything he chooses. Jesus was placed in a place of the absolute lowest expectation to show that our identities should come from God alone, and not from our city, our neighborhood, our family, but from God. We’re family not because we share genetics, or exact bloodlines, or heritage but because we share one Lord and savior, who was hated so that all of our superiority complexes could die at the cross. So, Jesus was hated in all these ways, but I want to draw our attention in closing to a final way that Jesus was hated. Surprisingly, Jesus and his family did not live happily ever after in the wonderful land of Nazareth. Jesus came to bear the hate of sin and the weight of sin such that all human hatred was mere preparation for bearing divine wrath on the cross. And Jesus took all of that human hatred up with him to the cross so that he might bear something that was infinitely greater than our deepest disdain: he bore the wrath of God.
God made him who knew no sin to become sin so that we might become the righteousness of God (2 Cor. 5:21). Jesus took our human hatreds, bearing the weight of all our sorrow for every exile hatred has caused, and he brought an end to it by drinking the cup of God’s wrath and pouring out on us lavish grace. So, we will close by simply saying: Jesus was hated so that we might know the love of Father.
Let’s pray.