FAITH MOM MENTOR - Helping Moms Guide Kids 8-12 to Walk with God

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  • EP 66 // How to Talk to Your Tween About Addiction Before It Becomes a Problem

    How can Christian moms talk to their children about addiction before harmful habits begin controlling their choices?

    In this episode of Faith Mom Mentor, Anne shares a biblical, age-appropriate way to discuss addiction with children ages 8–12. This conversation goes beyond drugs and alcohol to include screen addiction, gaming, social media, food, approval, entertainment, and anything else that may begin taking God’s rightful place.

    You’ll learn how to recognize warning signs, teach biblical self-control, build honest family communication, and prepare your child to respond wisely before temptation or peer pressure arrives. Anne also introduces the simple PAUSE family tool and gives you practical words, questions, boundaries, and role-playing ideas you can use at home.

    The goal is not fear-driven parenting. It is helping your child understand that freedom is not doing whatever they feel like doing—freedom is having the power, through Christ, to choose what is right.

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    EP 65 // Why Moms of Middle Schoolers Should Talk to Their Kids About Addiction and Hold Onto Hope
    https://www.lifeandpeaceministries.com/podcasts/faith-mom-mentor-helping-moms-guide-kids-8-12-to-walk-with-god/episodes/2149238705

    00:00 Intro
    00:48 Why Talk Early
    02:44 Biblical View of Control
    03:49 Spotting Warning Signs
    05:16 Freedom and Obedience
    06:51 Check Your Own Heart
    08:42 No Created Thing First
    10:10 Gospel Foundation for Freedom
    11:45 Thinking Past the Moment
    13:49 PAUSE Family Tool
    17:02 How to Start the Talk
    19:38 Practice Words and Code
    21:22 Positive Discipleship Plan
    24:29 Boundaries and Support
    28:01 Hope and Final Charge

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    Faith Mom Mentor helps Christian moms disciple their children, strengthen family faith, and guide kids toward truth, wisdom, freedom, and peace through Jesus Christ.

    Disclaimer: This episode provides faith-based educational information and is not medical, mental health, diagnostic, counseling, or addiction-treatment advice. Seek qualified professional support when appropriate.

    #ChristianParenting #FamilyDiscipleship #AddictionPrevention #FaithMomMentor

    33 min
  • EP 65 // Why Moms of Middle Schoolers Should Talk to Their Kids About Addiction and Hold Onto Hope

    Christian parenting requires honest conversations about addiction, family, faith, and the lasting hope we have in Jesus.

    In this episode of Faith Mom Mentor, Anne welcomes author Robert Ruetsch to discuss The Long Road Home: A Family’s Journey Through Addiction, co-written with his daughter, Jennifer. Their powerful story explores Jennifer’s early wounds, her decades-long struggle with addiction, a father’s fear, and their family’s journey toward recovery.

    Robert shares biblical parenting advice for moms of middle schoolers who want to create a home where difficult conversations are met with truth, grace, prayer, and compassion. You’ll hear Christian mom encouragement for recognizing hidden pain, releasing guilt, loving without enabling, and trusting Jesus when the road feels long.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • How to talk to kids about addiction without fear or shame
    • Why addiction affects the entire family
    • How early wounds and secrecy can shape choices
    • How faith based parenting creates space for honest conversations
    • How to love deeply without enabling destructive behavior
    • Why prayer, Scripture, and trusted support matter
    • How to hold on to hope in Jesus during family addiction recovery

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    ⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 - Introduction
    00:48 - Why Addiction Matters
    01:04 - Meet Robert Ruetsch
    02:37 - Jennifer’s Early Wounds
    03:41 - Why They Wrote It
    05:05 - Addiction’s Ripple Effect
    06:24 - How It Began at 14
    08:33 - A Father’s Fear
    10:53 - Trust Jesus Through Guilt
    13:09 - Proverbs Parenting Basics
    15:10 - Honest Talks at Home
    17:14 - Love Without Enabling
    18:59 - Scripture and Recovery Help
    21:52 - Always Hope and Support
    25:02 - Connect and Final Blessing

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    EP 48 // The Five Discipleship Building Blocks Every Christian Mom Needs:
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    Faith Mom Mentor equips Christian moms, especially moms of middle schoolers, with biblical parenting advice, practical faith based parenting tools, and Christian mom encouragement for raising faith-filled kids.

    Affiliate disclosure: Some links are affiliate links, which means Faith Mom Mentor may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you.

    Disclaimer: This episode is for educational, spiritual, and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical, mental-health, addiction-treatment, legal, or crisis support. Seek qualified help for your family’s specific needs. If someone is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services.

    #ChristianParenting #BiblicalParentingAdvice #FaithBasedParenting #ChristianMomEncouragement #Podmatch

    31 min
  • EP 64 // What to Say When Your Child Asks, "How Do You Know God Is Real?"

    How do you know God is real—and how can you explain God to your child when they ask difficult questions?

    When your child asks, “Is God real?” or “How do you know the Bible is true?” you may feel pressure to give the perfect answer. In this episode, Anne helps Christian moms respond with biblical truth, patience, and confidence.

    You’ll learn how to listen before answering, use creation and Scripture as evidence, respond when pain sparks doubt, and help your child understand why you believe in God. Anne also shares four practical steps for teaching faith at home, answering hard questions, and helping your child grow in a personal relationship with Jesus.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:
    • How to answer your child’s questions about God
    • How to explain why Christianity is true
    • How biblical apologetics supports family discipleship
    • How to help your child recognize truth and false ideas
    • How to lead your child toward a personal faith in Jesus

    🎧 LISTEN NEXT:
    EP 63 // Your Child’s Toughest Question About God—Can You Answer It?

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    EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 - Introduction
    00:48 - When Kids Ask About God
    02:29 - Why Faith Questions Matter
    03:43 - Listen Before You Answer
    05:06 - Move From Fear to Faith
    07:26 - Creation Reveals God
    09:39 - Jesus Reveals God
    11:20 - The Four L Steps
    14:01 - Learn Biblical Truth Yourself
    17:12 - Lead With Patience
    18:54 - When Pain Creates Doubt
    21:45 - Answering Difficult Bible Questions
    23:31 - Trusting Jesus Personally
    25:40 - Know Truth, Spot Lies
    27:40 - 15-Minute Journal Challenge
    28:51 - Your Next Faith Step

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    MORE FROM FAITH MOM MENTOR

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    The mission of Faith Mom Mentor is to equip Christian moms to know God deeply, disciple their children faithfully, teach God’s Word, and build a strong biblical worldview at home.

    Disclaimer: This content is for educational and faith-based encouragement only. Some links are affiliate links, which means Life and Peace Ministries may earn a commission from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you.

    32 min
  • EP 63 // Your Child's Toughest Question About God—Can You Answer It?

    Christian moms can answer hard faith questions with biblical clarity, confidence, humility, and truth.  🔴 Go from confusion to confidence when sharing your faith with What Makes You “Say” That? ➡️ https://amzn.to/4eHhOvo

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    Christian motherhood can feel overwhelming when children begin asking difficult questions about the Bible, culture, identity, faith, and truth. In this Faith Mom Mentor podcast conversation, Anne welcomes Bible teacher, author, speaker, and former college religion instructor Sheila Krygsheld to discuss why Christian moms need a strong biblical foundation.

    Sheila explains why the middle school years are especially important, how culture can redefine familiar words and ideas, and how parents can respond to difficult faith questions without fear, panic, or anger. You’ll also learn how to defend your faith without becoming argumentative, what to say when you do not know an answer, and how Christian parents can model both humility and confidence.

    You do not need to be a Bible scholar to begin discipling your children. Start with one question, one passage of Scripture, and one honest conversation. As you grow in biblical truth and learn how to study the Bible, you can help your children develop a biblical worldview, strengthen their biblical identity, and confidently navigate the messages they hear from friends, social media, and culture.

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    Through encouragement and practical tools, Sheila helps believers understand why their personal story matters, use journaling and Bible study to clarify their beliefs, trust Scripture as the ultimate source of truth, and share their faith with conviction and humility.

    🎧 Listen Next: The Spiritual Rest Every Christian Mother Is Missing ➡️ 

    ⏰ EPISODE CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction
    00:48 Raising Kids Amid Cultural Noise
    01:14 Meet Sheila Krygsheld
    01:48 Why Christian Beliefs Matter
    02:58 Leading With Biblical Foundation
    04:19 Why Middle School Matters
    07:51 Common Faith Questions
    10:51 When Culture Redefines Truth
    14:27 Responding Without Fear
    18:07 When You Don’t Know
    21:31 Humility and Confidence
    24:14 Examine What You Believe
    29:06 Connect and Closing

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    Our mission at Faith Mom Mentor is to equip Christian moms to know God deeply, disciple their children faithfully, and raise middle schoolers with confidence in God’s Word.

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    33 min
  • EP 62 // What God Really Wants For Your Child's Success (Not What You Think)

    Christian parenting begins with understanding God’s definition of success: true humility and the fear of the Lord. 🔴 FEATURED BIBLE STUDY Grow in biblical courage with 50 Days of Victory Through the Book of Joshua: https://amzn.to/40rPF4o

     

    In this episode of Faith Mom Mentor, Anne explores Proverbs 22:4 and challenges the world’s standards of success. Grades, talents, popularity, achievements, and perfect behavior cannot determine your child’s true worth or spiritual success.

    Through Anne’s personal experience attending IEP meetings for her son, you’ll discover how God reshaped her expectations and showed her what matters most. This episode explains how Christian moms can model humility, reverence for God, respect, and self-control while raising children with biblical values.

    You’ll learn:

    • What Proverbs 22:4 teaches about true success
    • How to explain humility to children
    • What the fear of the Lord means in everyday life
    • How to model respect and self-control at home
    • Why humility is strength—not weakness
    • How the gospel transforms Christian parenting
    • How to complete a simple 24-hour family faith challenge

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    ⏰ EPISODE CHAPTERS

    00:00 - Welcome and Episode Introduction
    01:47 - The IEP Wake-Up Call
    05:30 - Proverbs 22:4 in Context
    08:27 - True Humility Explained
    10:27 - Humility in Everyday Life
    13:48 - Understanding the Fear of the Lord
    16:53 - Modeling Respect at Home
    18:07 - Gospel-Centered Humility
    20:24 - Parenting With Humility
    23:48 - Riches, Honor, and Life
    26:04 - Joshua’s Picture of Success
    27:56 - The 24-Hour Family Challenge
    29:30 - Final Encouragement for Moms

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    Faith Mom Mentor helps Christian moms know God deeply, disciple their children faithfully, and guide their families toward a personal relationship with Jesus through practical Bible study and everyday family discipleship.

    Disclaimer: This episode is provided for educational and faith-based encouragement and is not a substitute for professional medical, mental health, legal, counseling, or emergency support. Biblical humility and respect never require anyone to remain in an abusive or unsafe situation. Some links are affiliate links, which means Life and Peace Ministries may receive a commission at no additional cost to you.

    32 min
  • EP 61 // Godly Kids Don't Come From Perfect Parents—They Come From THIS

    Discover five biblical keys to a successful Christian marriage and learn how a healthy, godly marriage can model love, grace, forgiveness, and faithfulness for your children.

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    In this episode of Faith Mom Mentor, Anne welcomes Veronica Sutherland, a Christian marriage coach, premarital coach, family life educator, certified Christian life coach, author, speaker, and Christian wife with more than 40 years of marriage experience.

    Together, they share five biblical principles for building a successful marriage. You will learn how to put God first, strengthen emotional connection, improve communication, handle marriage conflict with honesty and respect, practice forgiveness in marriage, and create a consistent marriage prayer rhythm.

    This conversation is for Christian women balancing marriage and motherhood, Christian couples seeking marriage restoration, and any Christian wife who wants practical support for cultivating a healthy marriage. Veronica also explains how Christian parenting is shaped by the love children observe at home and why investing in your marriage is an important part of Christian motherhood.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why your marriage is your child’s first classroom
    • How to build a Christ-centered, godly marriage
    • How James 1:19 can improve marital communication
    • How to listen for understanding instead of preparing a response
    • How to navigate marriage conflict without accusation
    • What biblical forgiveness in marriage looks like
    • How marriage prayer can strengthen emotional connection
    • Simple ways busy Christian couples can reconnect
    • When marriage coaching, counseling, or pastoral support may help
    • How Christian marriage and Christian motherhood work together
    • Why healthy marriage boundaries protect love, peace, and respect

    ⏰ EPISODE CHAPTERS

    00:00 Welcome
    00:48 Why Marriage Matters
    01:12 Meet Veronica
    01:57 Her Marriage Story
    04:04 Marriage Is Ministry
    06:52 Key One: Christ-Centered Marriage
    08:23 Simple Weekly Practices
    11:15 Better Communication
    13:23 Handling Conflict Well
    15:22 Everyday Forgiveness
    20:45 Reconnect When Busy
    22:30 When Progress Is Slow
    23:53 Unshakable Foundations
    25:51 Connect and Get the Freebie
    27:53 Final Encouragement

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    🎧 LISTEN NEXT: EP 57 — The Secret to Being a Peaceful Mom Isn’t Doing More:
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    Our mission at Faith Mom Mentor is to equip Christian mothers to know God deeply, strengthen their family relationships, and become godly influences in their children’s lives.

    Disclaimer: This podcast provides educational and faith-based encouragement and is not a substitute for licensed counseling, mental health care, legal advice, or emergency support. Forgiveness does not require remaining in an abusive, dangerous, or unsafe situation. Please seek qualified professional and local support when needed. Some links are affiliate links, which means we may receive a commission from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you.

    30 min
  • EP 60 // 5 Things Your Child’s Difficult Behavior May Be Telling You

    Middle school behavior problems may reveal a skill your child still needs to learn—not a character flaw.
    🔴 Listen to this episode and explore the full Faith Mom Mentor podcast ➡️ EP 59 // Middle School Meltdowns? It's Not What You Think

    Your middle schooler’s difficult behavior may not be simple defiance. It may be revealing a life skill that still needs to be taught.

    In this episode, Anne shares five skills that may be hiding beneath common behavior struggles: moving smoothly between activities, beginning and completing tasks, following directions, expressing disappointment respectfully, and managing big emotions.

    You’ll also learn a practical four-question parenting plan to help you prepare before the next conflict begins. Instead of reacting only to what happened, you’ll learn how to examine the pattern, identify the missing skill, provide support ahead of time, and choose one small goal to practice together.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • How to look beneath difficult behavior
    • Why clear directions and predictable transitions matter
    • How to remain calm while maintaining firm boundaries
    • How to teach respectful responses when the answer is no
    • How simple home systems can create more parenting margin
    • How to ask God for wisdom in difficult moments

    ⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 - Introduction
    00:48 - Behavior Is a Skill Clue
    01:04 - Create Smoother Transitions
    03:45 - Start and Finish Tasks
    06:45 - Improve Following Directions
    09:06 - Teach Respectful Disappointment
    16:28 - Manage Big Emotions
    19:22 - Create Margin With Systems
    21:10 - Four-Question Parenting Plan
    27:52 - Ask God for Wisdom
    30:01 - Final Recap and Next Steps

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    Busy Moms: Your Problem Isn’t Time, It’s This ➡️ EP 16//How to Create Systems That Actually Support Busy Christian Moms w/ Chelsi Jo

    ⭐️ FREE RESOURCE

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    The mission of Faith Mom Mentor is to help Christian moms know God deeply and guide their middle schoolers with biblical wisdom, grace, truth, and practical parenting strategies.

    Some links in these show notes are affiliate links. If you make a purchase through them, Life and Peace Ministries may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you.

    Disclaimer: This podcast is provided for educational and faith-based encouragement and is not a substitute for individualized medical, mental-health, legal, or professional advice.

    33 min
  • EP 59 // Middle School Meltdowns? It's Not What You Think

    Discover a Christian parenting approach to defiance, meltdowns, healing, connection, and lasting transformation.
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    Have you tried consequences, timeouts, rewards, punishments, and every parenting strategy you could find—yet your child is still struggling with emotional meltdowns, defiance, or disconnection?

    You are not a bad mom, and you have not failed your child. You have been doing the best you can with the parenting tools you were given.

    In this conversation, Bonnie Liotta shares a different approach: begin with healing before strategy, listen for what your child is communicating, teach missing life skills, and create a proactive plan that gives your child meaningful goals.

    When parents move from reacting, correcting, and controlling to listening, guiding, training, and walking beside their children, the atmosphere of the home can begin to change.

    The goal is a stronger parent-child connection, greater responsibility and self-control, a more peaceful home, and a child who grows in confidence, purpose, and identity in Christ.

    Some links below are affiliate links, which means we may receive a commission at no additional cost to you. Creating Champions for Life reports a 90% behavioral transformation success rate across more than 300 participating families; individual experiences and results will vary.

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    Faith Mom, are you exhausted from trying every parenting strategy and still dealing with emotional meltdowns, constant conflict, or a defiant child? Whether you are looking for ADHD parenting help, ODD parenting strategies, DMDD parenting support, or biblical parenting advice for raising middle schoolers, this conversation offers hope and a different path forward.

    In this episode, Anne talks with Bonnie Liotta, transformational speaker, Amazon bestselling author, co-founder of Creating Champions for Life, and parenting mentor. Bonnie shares how her own family moved from diagnoses, chaos, and reactive parenting toward healing, connection, purpose, and behavioral transformation.

    This Christian parenting conversation explores why a diagnosis should never become a child’s identity and why healing before strategy can be an important starting point. Bonnie explains how parents can stop focusing only on behavior management and begin looking for the missing skills, unmet needs, desires, and goals beneath a child’s actions.

    You will also hear how proactive planning, meaningful privileges, personal responsibility, listening, encouragement, and life-skills training can help children experience the dignity of accomplishing something for themselves. Instead of relying only on punishment, threats, or control, parents can learn to guide their children with love, wisdom, patience, truth, and purpose.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why difficult behavior may reveal a need for guidance or an undeveloped life skill
    • How reactive parenting can unintentionally intensify emotional meltdowns
    • What biblical parenting advice can teach us about discipline, direction, and free will
    • Why healing and connection should come before introducing a new parenting strategy
    • How to create proactive plans that consider both the parent’s goals and the child’s goals
    • How earned privileges can develop responsibility, confidence, and self-control
    • How to help children recognize their gifts, purpose, and identity in Christ
    • What moms of middle schoolers can do when they feel defeated or out of options
    • Why parenting without punishment does not mean parenting without leadership
    • How family discipleship can grow through everyday listening, training, and encouragement

    Chapters:
    00:00 Exhausted Faith Moms
    01:06 Meet Bonnie Leota
    02:12 Bonnie’s Turning Point
    05:03 Rod of Discipline Reframed
    08:35 Stop Triggering Meltdowns
    11:22 Identity Beyond Labels
    16:14 Healing Before Strategy
    21:06 Healthy Order at Home
    26:39 Gospel Driven Transformation
    28:23 Hope for Defeated Moms
    29:38 Middle Schooler Life Skills
    31:56 Connect and Closing Blessing

    Christian parenting is not simply about controlling behavior or producing compliance. It is about preparing children for life, strengthening the parent-child connection, developing character, and helping children become the people God created them to be.

    Faith Mom Mentor exists to encourage and equip moms of middle schoolers with biblical truth, practical parenting support, and faith-filled resources so they can influence their children with wisdom, grace, confidence, and purpose.

    Disclaimer: This episode is provided for educational, informational, and faith-based encouragement purposes only. It is not medical, psychological, diagnostic, or treatment advice and is not a substitute for care from a qualified healthcare or mental-health professional. Do not begin, stop, or change medication, therapy, or treatment without consulting an appropriate licensed professional. Statements made by guests reflect their personal experiences, beliefs, and opinions. Individual experiences and results will vary. Some links are affiliate links, which means we may receive a commission at no additional cost to you.

    36 min
  • EP 58 // Feeling Like You're Not Praying Enough? Watch This.

    Learn a simple rhythm for praying for your children with peace, focus, and surrender. 
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    #PrayingForYourChildren #ChristianMom #SpiritLedParenting #Podmatch #ChristianParenting

    If you have ever felt guilty because you are not praying for your children as consistently as you want to, this episode will help you move from shame into a simple, peaceful prayer rhythm. In this episode, Anne shares how Christian moms can begin praying for their children with just two honest minutes and introduces the SPIRIT prayer rhythm inspired by Bret Kolman, author of Wisdom That Leads to Soul Rest.

    This episode is especially for faith moms, Christian moms of middle schoolers, and parents of kids ages 8–12 who want to practice spirit led parenting without carrying pressure, fear, or guilt. You will learn how to pray over your child’s spiritual life, physical health, intellectual growth, relationships, future provision, talents, and calling while learning to rest and trust God with the outcome.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • How to start praying for your children when you feel overwhelmed
    • What SPIRIT prayers are and how to use them
    • Why two minutes of intentional prayer can be a powerful beginning
    • How the Shunammite woman’s story encourages moms to bring real needs back to God
    • How to stop striving and begin praying from surrender, peace, and trust
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      Chapters:
      0:00 Release Prayer Guilt
      01:48 Make Room for God
      03:19 When It Feels Too Late
      06:01 Two Minute Prayer Habit
      07:22 What Are Spirit Prayers
      09:25 SPIRIT Rhythm Overview
      11:19 S Spiritual Focus
      12:00 P Physical Protection
      12:45 I Intellectual Wisdom
      13:31 R Relational Connections
      14:29 I Income and Provision
      15:07 T Talent and Calling
      16:00 Day Seven Cease and Trust
      18:09 Make It Real Tomorrow
      21:15 Seven-Day Challenge
      21:59 Final Encouragement and Next Steps

      Our mission here at Faith Mom Mentor is to help moms know God deeply and teach their children faithfully in the middle of real life, especially as they guide kids ages 8–12 to walk with God.

      Disclaimer: Some links in this description may be affiliate links, which means I may receive a small commission if you purchase through them at no extra cost to you. This content is for encouragement and educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional counseling, medical care, or pastoral guidance.

      26 min
    • EP 57 // 🥇 The Secret to Being a Peaceful Mom Isn't Doing More

      Christian parenting feels lighter when Spirit-led wisdom leads you back to soul rest.
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      In this Faith Mom Mentor episode, we talk with Bret Kolman, author of Wisdom That Leads to Soul Rest, about Christian parenting, biblical wisdom, and the power of intentionally slowing down with God. If you are an overwhelmed Christian mom trying to create a peaceful home while managing motherhood, ministry, work, and family life, this conversation will encourage you to seek God’s wisdom instead of carrying everything in your own strength.

      Bret shares how mini-sabbaticals, spiritual rest, gratitude, saying no, and learning to “lose” can help Christian moms parent with greater peace and purpose. You’ll hear practical encouragement for Spirit-led motherhood, middle school parenting, faith-based parenting, and building rhythms that help you lead your family from God’s truth instead of exhaustion.

      In this episode, you’ll learn:
      • Why slowing down can be an act of faith
      • How to plan a realistic mini-sabbatical
      • Why soul rest matters for Christian motherhood
      • How gratitude can reshape hard seasons
      • Why saying no can protect peace in your home
      • How godly wisdom can guide your parenting decisions

      Chapters: 
      00:00 Why Moms Feel Exhausted
      00:12 Bret Kolman Introduction
      00:59 Faith Journey and Book Origin
      02:45 Mini Sabbaticals and True Peace
      06:34 Rest Makes You Effective
      08:59 How to Plan a Mini Sabbatical
      13:04 Solitude Silence and Fasting
      16:31 Learning to Lose Well
      22:14 Let Kids Fail Safely
      24:15 Gratitude and Red Car Theory
      28:35 The Power of No
      36:35 Resources and Final Encouragement

      Our mission here at Faith Mom Mentor is to encourage Christian moms to seek the Lord, nurture their family’s faith, and walk in the life, peace, and soul rest He gives.

      Disclaimer: Some links in this description may be affiliate links, which means we may receive a small commission if you purchase through those links at no additional cost to you. This content is for encouragement and educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional counseling, medical, legal, or financial advice.

      41 min

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