Proverbs 29:15 teaches that both physical discipline, the rod, and verbal correction, reproof, impart wisdom to a child. This verse contradicts modern parenting philosophies, which often avoid physical and harsh verbal discipline. The "rod" here refers to physical punishment, which, along with reproof, is seen as a means to impart wisdom. This wisdom, gained through discipline, is beneficial for the one receiving it as God works through these methods to grant wisdom.
In contrast, a child left without discipline, allowed to do as they please, brings shame to their mother. Martin Luther bluntly warns that neglecting to train a child can lead to serious moral failings and societal shame. He stresses that youth must be guided by discipline because they are naturally inclined to foolish and harmful behaviors and cannot govern themselves.
Modern society's emphasis on encouragement and acceptance, without discipline, has led to moral decay. Failing to discipline children leads to a society where individuals live without moral boundaries, resulting in widespread immorality.