What does it mean to take play seriously?

In the joyful season finale of Family Book Club, hosts Alex Kirby and Emily Blue sit down with Mike Montague—author of Playful Humans—to explore why fun isn’t just a childhood phase but a lifelong necessity. With a career spanning entertainment, content creation, and coaching, Mike brings a fresh and energizing lens to what it means to live fully, avoid burnout, and reconnect with joy.

Together, they reflect on how play evolves with age, why adults often forget its value, and how we can bring more intentional lightness into our homes, relationships, and work. From redefining success to deepening communication with loved ones, this episode is an invitation to laugh more, stress less, and keep the game going.

Whether you're craving more fun in your daily life or just curious about what’s possible when we prioritize play, this conversation is the permission slip you didn’t know you needed.

 Episode 6 Highlights: Playful Humans with Mike Montague

"Kids know how to have fun. Adults have forgotten." (8:01)
Mike introduces one of the episode’s core insights: play comes naturally to kids—but somewhere along the way, adults are taught to suppress it.

"Everyone's got their thing. You do you!" (11:04)
Rather than chase trends or fit in, Mike encourages listeners to find joy in their kind of play—whatever that may look like.

"It depends on what your goals are..." (17:09)
Not all play is created equal. Mike unpacks how different games serve different purposes—connection, competition, creativity—and why intention matters.

"As parents, we have been conditioned..." (27:17)
Mike reflects on how grown-ups often expect kids to play their way—and why letting go of rules can open the door to real, meaningful fun.

"Fighting through the initial reaction..." (46:28)
The resistance adults feel toward play—and how just a few minutes of saying “yes” can shift the entire mood of a group.

For more from Mike Montague, visit playfulhumans.com or check out the Playful Humans Podcast for weekly inspiration on finding fun, fighting burnout, and rediscovering your spark.

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What does it mean to guide wealth in the modern world?

In this episode of Family Book Club, hosts Alex Kirby and Emily Blue sit down with Dr. Jim Grubman, internationally respected psychologist, family advisor, and co-author of Wealth 3.0: The Future of Family Wealth Advising, for a deep and refreshingly human conversation about how wealth—and the way we talk about it—is changing.

Many don’t realize it, but wealth advising as we know it is still in its infancy—just 40 years old. And today, it’s undergoing a quiet but radical transformation. Dr. Grubman helps us understand why the old paradigms of “protect the money at all costs” are giving way to something far more meaningful: a vision of wealth grounded in purpose, empowerment, and inclusive legacy-building.

Together, they explore how families can move from fear-based mindsets to open, values-aligned conversations—whether they’re planning their estate, raising children in affluence, or navigating generational change. With warmth and clarity, Jim shares how the most successful families are those who integrate—not just manage—their wealth across every part of life.

Whether you’re an advisor, a parent, or a member of the rising generation, this episode offers a new lens through which to see your story—and your future.

Episode 5 Highlights: Wealth 3.0 with Jim Grubman

“Seeing wealth more positively and with more possibility.” (6:00)
Jim introduces the central ethos of Wealth 3.0: reframing affluence from anxiety and fear to opportunity and growth.

“What do we keep, let go, and learn?” (7:00)
A set of questions every family and advisor can use to evolve across generations—without losing their center.

"From trusted advisor to trusted team." (9:00)
Why single-expert models are no longer enough—and how collaboration builds stronger outcomes for families.

"Wealth is a new culture." (24:00)
Jim compares wealth to a culture—with creators as immigrants and inheritors as natives—unlocking empathy across generational lines.

"The 10 Domains of Family Wealth." (28:00)
A groundbreaking model that maps the real-life needs of families—from legal and financial to emotional, relational, and educational.

"You're not entitled to their loyalty." (40:30)
Jim delivers a wake-up call to advisors: if you haven’t earned trust from the next generation, don’t expect their retention.

 "Wealth is a curriculum." (47:00)
Rather than “the money talk,” Jim advocates for a lifelong learning model—where financial literacy grows alongside self-awareness.

Find the referenced material covering the 10 Domains of Family Wealth, here.

For more insights from Dr. Jim Grubman, visit jamesgrubman.com or explore his latest book Wealth 3.0, co-authored with Dennis Jaffe and Kristin Keffeler.

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What does it mean to be truly wealthy? Is wealth just about what’s in your bank account—or does it have more to do with the relationships, purpose, and meaning we cultivate along the way? In this episode of Family Book Club, hosts Alex Kirby and Emily Blue sit down with behavioral finance expert and bestselling author Daniel Crosby for a heartfelt conversation about his latest work, The Soul of Wealth: 50 Reflections on Money and Meaning.

Together, they explore the surprising ways our money habits shape not only our financial lives but also our families, friendships, and personal fulfillment. From navigating the classic tension of spending for today vs. saving for tomorrow, to learning how small moments of gratitude can shift your entire outlook, this episode is full of insights to help you think differently—and more intentionally—about the role of money in your life.

Whether you’re seeking ways to foster healthier conversations about money at home, looking to align your financial life with your values, or simply curious about how small mindset shifts can lead to big life changes, this episode offers both inspiration and practical takeaways.

Episode 4 Highlights: The Soul of Wealth

"Money meets meaning." (3:40)
Daniel explains the core message of his book: how our abundant material wealth today must be paired with purpose and connection to truly satisfy.

"We swim in our own water." (9:45)
The group discusses how family upbringing shapes our money mindset—and how understanding those invisible influences can heal generational conflict around spending vs. saving.

"The ‘I’ll be happy when’ trap." (11:10)
Emily shares how this powerful reflection in Daniel’s book resonated with her experience coaching clients and navigating personal goals.

"Five minutes of gratitude is a game-changer." (14:45)
Daniel reveals research showing that a simple daily gratitude practice can boost happiness as much as common medications—with zero side effects.

"Believing, belonging, and becoming." (29:05)
A preview of Daniel’s next project, outlining a framework for finding life purpose through values, relationships, and growth.

For more insights from Daniel Crosby, visit his Standard Deviations Podcast or follow him on LinkedIn at Daniel Crosby, PhD.

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• Check out the Playful Humans Podcast to rediscover the power of play as an adult!

How do we support the people we love—and speak openly about the struggles so many face in silence?

In this powerful episode of Family Book Club, hosts Alex Kirby and Emily Blue sit down with sisters S.C. Megale and Kelley Megale to discuss American Boy: The Opioid Crisis and the Sister Left Behind. Told through S.C.’s perspective as the youngest sibling, the book captures the life and loss of her brother Matt—who died of an overdose in 2017—and the enduring love that continues in his name.

Recorded on the anniversary of Matt’s passing, this conversation is a moving tribute to his life and a candid look at the realities of addiction. With courage and grace, the Megale sisters share their story—offering hope, honesty, and a reminder that we are never as alone as we feel.

Together, we explore how families can show up for one another, why telling hard truths can be a form of healing, and how compassion—not shame—can change lives.

We’re deeply grateful to S.C. and Kelley for inviting us into such an intimate and generous conversation.

Episode 3 Highlights: American Boy

“You matter.” (~11:00)
A simple truth S.C. writes in every signed copy—and one we all need to hear and say more often.

“Is it more important to be right—or to save lives?” (~14:00)
A bold question that challenges how we think, talk, and act around addiction—at home and in society.

“How can I best support you when you're struggling?” (~26:00)
A powerful invitation to create deeper understanding, trust, and connection within our families.

To support others or learn more about the Megale family’s work, visit AmericanBoy.org and scmegale.com.

Thank you for listening—and for being part of a community that believes in learning, growing, and showing up for one another.

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How can we embrace change—and in what ways can it enrich both our lives and our family's lives? The choices we make about where we live profoundly shape our health, relationships, and overall well-being—especially as we move through different seasons of life. In this episode of Family Book Club, hosts Alex Kirby and Emily Blue sit down with Ryan Frederick—author of Right Place, Right Time: The Ultimate Guide to Choosing a Home for the Second Half of Life. Together, they explore how intentional decisions about place can help us adapt to life’s changes, support our evolving needs, and foster greater connection, purpose, and longevity. Whether you're planning for the future or rethinking your current space, this conversation offers fresh insights into how the right place can help you thrive at the right time.

Episode 2 Highlights: Right Place, Right Time

"Home is where your health is." (6:45)
 Ryan underscores how our surroundings influence well-being on every level—physical, emotional, social, and even financial.

"In what ways is our place nudging us to be the best version of ourselves?" (28:23)
 A powerful prompt to reflect on whether your environment supports the life you want—or subtly steers you off course.

Do you know your neighbors? (36:00)
 This moment dives into the role of community in a fulfilling life and how taking small steps to connect can lead to big impacts.

For more from Ryan, head to the Home of Place Planning - Here.Life

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• Discover the power of family coaching at TotalFamily.io.
• Check out the Playful Humans Podcast to rediscover the power of play as an adult!

 Are you ready to break free from autopilot and discover what truly makes life worthwhile? In this episode of Family Book Club, hosts Alex Kirby and Emily Blue sit down with Matthew Croasmun—co-author of Life Worth Living: A Guide to What Matters Most, and the creative force behind Yale’s Life Worth Living Program. This transformative book challenges us to reexamine our everyday habits and align our actions with our deepest values, offering practical frameworks for intentional living and inviting you to embark on a journey toward lasting fulfillment and meaningful connections. 

Episode Highlights
 
(1:55) Asking the Big Questions:
Matthew draws on his experience teaching curious undergrads. Sharing how students learn to shift from routine survival to intentional, value-driven living.

(13:15) Family and Listening:
Family is where we learn to truly listen to the people we love, and that practice helps us embrace different viewpoints with genuine compassion. 

(46:30) Vision in Action:
When you share your vision with your spouse or family—whether it's mapping out your perfect day or planning an ideal event—it works wonders for aligning expectations and creating a shared roadmap for success. 

(51:44) A Call to Live Well 
Matthew shares a standout affirmation: "Your life is worth living well. Your life is too valuable to be guided by anything less than what matters most." 

This is a call to action—a gentle wake-up call urging us to pause, reflect, and ensure that every choice we make aligns with our deepest values.

Thank you for listening! 

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• Discover the power of family coaching at TotalFamily.io.
• Check out the Playful Humans Podcast to rediscover the power of play as an adult!

Are you ready to discover the secrets to lasting happiness and deeper connections? In this episode of the Family Book Club, we explore "The Good Life" by Robert Waldinger. This book draws on the Harvard Happiness Study to reveal the profound impact of relationships on our well-being. We unveil the power of relationships with our special guest, Paula Rowan Bueller, a family coach at Total Family Management. Paula and hosts Alex Kirby and Emily Blue discuss the concept of "social fitness"—the active effort required to sustain meaningful connections.

We don't just talk theory; we offer practical strategies to help you prioritize and nurture your relationships. From setting aside time for family events to transforming everyday activities into bonding opportunities, we explore how small changes can improve our social lives. While discussing the Harvard research and personal anecdotes, we highlight the importance of emotional connections and personal reflection. Tune in to learn how to enhance compassion and validation in your relationships and lead a happier, more connected life.

(00:09) Harvard Happiness Study
Family Book Club podcast discusses Harvard Happiness Study, social fitness, and investing in relationships for sustainable happiness.

(12:01) Prioritizing Relationships and Building Connections
Prioritizing meaningful relationships and making incremental changes to improve social fitness through intentional activities and assessing valuable connections.

(20:05) The Power of Emotional Connections
Long-term research studies foster personal reflection, strong bonds with participants, and high retention rates through creating meaning and perspective.

• Download the discussion guides and other free resources at totalfamily.io/family-book-club.
• Learn more about how Hue Partners helps advisors with their mergers and acquisitions at HuePartners.com.
• Discover the power of family coaching at TotalFamily.io.
• Check out the Playful Humans Podcast to rediscover the power of play as an adult!

Fortune Favors the Bold

What if courage isn't about eliminating fear, but acting in the face of it? Join us as we unpack Ryan Holiday's "Courage is Calling" with our special guest Ryan Halls, co-founder of Hue Partners. Emily Blue and Alex Kirby invite Ryan to dive into the essence of bravery, battling inertia with thought-provoking questions like, "If not me, then who? If not now, then when?" Listen as we challenge the human need for certainty and explore the liberating acceptance of uncertainty, shedding light on how these principles can transform both personal and professional spheres.

Balancing work and life in today's hustle culture isn't easy. Ryan shares his personal struggles with constant availability and how a supportive partner can make all the difference. Emily sparks a rich discussion on managing discomfort and fear, prompting practical strategies from both Ryan and Alex, such as processing fears through writing. We also explore the entrepreneurial journey, emphasizing the importance of taking that first brave step and letting momentum build. If you're contemplating a leap into entrepreneurship or seeking ways to conquer daily fears, this episode is packed with insights that could change your perspective.

(00:11) Courage's Calling Book Club Discussion
(16:33) Overcoming Fear With Action Plan
(32:58) Entrepreneurship Momentum and Risk-Taking

• Download the discussion guides and other free resources at totalfamily.io/family-book-club.
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• Discover the power of family coaching at TotalFamily.io.
• Check out the Playful Humans Podcast to rediscover the power of play as an adult!

What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans

Ever wondered if ancient parenting methods could bring more harmony to your home? Join us as we uncover the secrets of the Mayans, Inuit, and Hadzabe in Dr. Michaelene Ducliffe's "Hunt Gather Parent" on this week's episode of Family Book Club. Emily Blue and Alex Kirby share their takeaways on viewing the family as a cohesive team and involving kids in daily tasks. Emily’s chaotic trip to the doctor with her kids becomes a lens through which we examine the importance of perspective and adaptability in modern parenting. 

We also look into the powerful self-determination theory in our discussion, focusing on how connectedness, autonomy, and competency can significantly boost children's motivation and performance. From parenting to personal growth and business, we explore how these principles apply beyond the home, especially reflecting on the impact of COVID on workplace motivation. You'll also get a glimpse into the entrepreneurial journey driven by intrinsic motivation and hear some fun career advice for Rosie, the adventurous toddler whose globe-trotting inspired a bestselling book. 

(00:14) Parenting Perspectives Across Cultures
(14:30) Motivating Through Purpose, Autonomy & Mastery

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• Discover the power of family coaching at TotalFamily.io.
• Check out the Playful Humans Podcast to rediscover the power of play as an adult!

Why You Can't Pay Attention—and How to Think Deeply Again

Can our addiction to smartphones be stealing our focus and diminishing the quality of our lives? This episode of Family Book Club tackles Johann Hari's insightful book "Stolen Focus," as Emily Blue and Alex Kirby uncover how technology, particularly our ever-present smartphones, is reshaping our attention spans and daily routines. We share some eye-opening personal experiences on setting boundaries around app usage to alleviate feelings of shame and guilt tied to excessive screen time. Our conversation also includes practical strategies for reclaiming focus, like disabling notifications and engaging in fulfilling activities to fill the void left by reduced screen usage. As always, we talk about the critical relevance of this book to family life, emphasizing the importance of being truly present for our children and safeguarding our precious moments from technological interference.

We also dive into the discipline required to focus on meaningful tasks and the immense satisfaction derived from dedicated work, as opposed to the draining effects of multitasking and constant interruptions. Discover the flow activities that keep us centered, such as walking, yoga, and hiking, and learn how audiobooks have become an essential tool in maintaining focus. Drawing from Dr. James Williams' three-level framework for attention—spotlight, starlight, and daylight—we dissect how technology disrupts each level, particularly immediate focus or "spotlight" attention. Furthermore, we reflect on the profound impact reading has had on our lifestyle and personal growth, replacing mindless scrolling with enriching content, and even inspiring new ventures. 

(00:09) Introducing the Concept of Stolen Focus
(13:56) Technology, Attention, and Productivity
(22:16) Impact of Reading on Lifestyle

• Download the discussion guides and other free resources at totalfamily.io/family-book-club.
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• Discover the power of family coaching at TotalFamily.io.
• Check out the Playful Humans Podcast to rediscover the power of play as an adult!