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What does it truly mean to support someone in today's digital age? In this raw and unfiltered episode, DJ Kornbread (aka The Empress) dives deep into the painful reality of fake support from those closest to us. She tackles the frustrating phenomenon of friends and family who claim they "fuck with you" but never actually demonstrate that support through simple actions like sharing posts or promoting your business.

The conversation explores a fundamental question many entrepreneurs and creators face: why do the people who claim to care about us often fail to take even the smallest actions to support our endeavors? DJ Kornbread contrasts this behavior with how quickly these same individuals will promote celebrities they'll never meet or products they can't afford, yet remain silent when it comes to supporting the dreams of those in their immediate circle.

This thought-provoking examination of modern relationships highlights the increasingly transactional nature of support, where many won't lift a finger unless they're getting something in return. Kornbread makes a compelling case that true friendship and family bonds should transcend this mentality. You don't need to personally love someone's business or creative direction to show support—sharing their content or mentioning their services requires minimal effort but demonstrates genuine care for their success.

Whether you're an entrepreneur feeling unsupported by your circle or someone wondering if you've been a true friend to others pursuing their dreams, this episode will challenge you to examine the authenticity in your relationships. As DJ Kornbread says, "If you fuck with me, I'll fuck with you"—a simple but powerful reminder that support should be a two-way street built on genuine actions, not empty words. Subscribe now and join us for our upcoming live show with special guests!

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We dive deep into the experiences of Black lesbian women navigating family acceptance, relationships, and self-identity in a world that often misunderstands them. Our guests share raw, unfiltered stories about the challenges and triumphs of being their authentic selves.

GUEST- KIID  (BUFFALO, NEW YORK)

GUEST- ROSS ( COMPTON, CALIFORNIA)

• First impressions when introducing partners to family members
• Coping with rejection from religious family members
• How isolation became a survival mechanism after family judgment
• The emotional impact of being rejected for your identity
• Setting boundaries with men who disrespect personal space
• Challenging misconceptions about masculine-presenting lesbians
• Navigating modern pronoun usage and showing mutual respect
• Finding balance in relationships and avoiding one-sided partnerships
• The importance of therapy for processing identity-related trauma
• Creating realistic expectations in relationships beyond financial contributions
• Learning to recognize your own worth and setting healthy boundaries

Go to therapy! As our guests emphasized multiple times, professional support is crucial for processing trauma and building healthy relationships.

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Have you ever had someone show their true colors at the worst possible moment? That's exactly what happened during a recent podcast recording that completely blindsided me and left me questioning who my real friends actually are.

When guests arrive with celebrity attitudes, expecting royal treatment while giving nothing but disrespect in return, it reveals a lot about their character. But what's even more revealing is how people you've considered friends for years respond when witnessing this behavior. Do they stand up for you, or do they suddenly become silent, maintaining relationships with those who've wronged you?

True loyalty isn't measured by how long you've known someone, but rather by their actions when it matters most. I'm sharing this raw, unfiltered experience because so many of us face these difficult situations where friendships are tested and professional boundaries are crossed. The contrast between people like Malika Danielle Photography and The Diamond Heist HB, who showed up with professionalism and dedication, versus those who praised my team on camera while criticizing behind our backs, couldn't be more stark.

This episode dives deep into uncomfortable truths about friendship, loyalty, and setting boundaries with people who demonstrate they don't value your relationship. If you've ever felt betrayed by someone you trusted or struggled with maintaining your dignity when others try to disrespect you on your own platform, you'll find validation and strength in this conversation. Sometimes the most painful experiences offer the clearest vision of who deserves a place in your life moving forward.

Share your own experiences with friendship tests and professional boundaries in the comments—I'd love to hear how you've navigated similar situations and what you've learned along the way.

S/O Milihka Danielle Photography 

The Diamond Heist Company (HB)

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Ever felt like someone entered your life not to build a genuine connection, but to spy and gather intelligence for their own gain? DJ Kornbred dives deep into the concept of "monitoring spirits" – those people who observe your movements, collect your vulnerabilities, and potentially use them against you.

Drawing from painful personal experiences, Kornbred shares how she's encountered individuals who presented themselves as friends, romantic interests, or business connections, only to discover their intentions were far from pure. "Nine times out of ten when I be thinking something... my gut be telling me something and I'd be right," she reflects, highlighting the importance of trusting your instincts when something feels off about a new relationship.

The episode offers practical protection strategies for those who suspect they might be dealing with monitoring spirits in their own lives. From setting firm boundaries around personal information to increasing digital privacy, seeking support from trusted allies, and even considering spiritual approaches to protection, Kornbred provides a comprehensive framework for safeguarding your energy and wellbeing. She emphasizes that these experiences, while painful, don't have to lead to complete isolation – the key is developing discernment about who truly deserves your trust.

Before wrapping up, Kornbred announces The Fashitsho Tha Podcast's upcoming first live event on April 19th, Dallas meets California-featuring special guests including DJ Harmonyy. Special Guest Kiid , Cj 2.0, Jay Renae and more. The event promises to be "a movie" with behind-the-scenes footage available on YouTube and audio across all podcast platforms. Don't miss this honest conversation about recognizing and protecting yourself from those who approach friendship with hidden agendas!

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EPISODE 14

Beyond Excuses: Why Some Parents Choose Self Over Their Children – Fashitsho The Podcast with DJ Kornbred

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In this eye-opening episode of Fashitsho The Podcast, DJ Kornbred goes deep into a topic that’s often avoided but incredibly important: why some parents choose to prioritize themselves over their children. This isn’t a conversation about judgment – it’s about understanding the complexities, the struggles, and the human side of parenthood that’s often glossed over.

DJ Kornbred, known for her unapologetic approach to life and music, opens up about the tough choices parents face when balancing self-care, dreams, and the responsibilities of raising children. In a world that demands so much from parents, Kornbred examines the emotional and societal pressures that lead some to make decisions that seem, on the surface, selfish. But are they really?

Through candid reflections, personal experiences, and tough conversations, Kornbred navigates the gray areas of parenting where self-care and personal ambition often collide with family needs. She explores how modern parenthood has evolved, how different factors — mental health, economic pressures, and personal goals — influence these choices, and what it means for those who may not fit the traditional mold of what a "good" parent should be.

Parental responsibility shouldn't be optional, yet somehow our society has normalized the concept of "deadbeat parents." Why? That's the burning question at the heart of this raw, unfiltered episode where I confront the reality of parents who choose to abandon their responsibilities toward their children.

The excuses are predictable: income disparity, relationship status, inconvenience. But children weren't asked to be brought into this world, and they deserve parents who step up regardless of circumstances. I explore the troubling phenomenon of adults who prioritize their social lives, personal comfort, and everything else above their own children's wellbeing.

Most disturbing are the lengths some parents go to avoid responsibility—having employers lie about employment status to dodge child support, making promises they never intend to keep, or simply disappearing for months or years at a time. This isn't just about money; it's about the psychological impact on children who grow up wondering why they weren't worth their parent's time, effort, or resources.

Child support gets a bad reputation, often because of misunderstandings about its purpose. I break down why it exists, when it's necessary, and why it shouldn't be seen as punishment but rather as ensuring children's basic needs are met. For parents carrying the entire burden alone, the stress, anxiety, and financial strain create ripple effects that impact everyone involved, especially the children.

What do you think about parents who neglect their responsibilities? Have you witnessed this in your own life? Share your thoughts and experiences, and let's continue this important conversation about what children deserve from the adults who brought them into this world.

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Fashitsho Podcast | Episode 13: "Spotting a Narcissist: Understanding Narcissistic Behavior"
 

Narcissistic behavior leaves a trail of emotional destruction that can take years to heal from. Have you ever bent over backward for someone only to have them act like you did nothing at all? Or dealt with a person who never—not once—admitted they were wrong about anything?

DJ Cornbread tackles this frustrating reality head-on, breaking down why narcissists can be so incredibly damaging to our mental health and relationships. Drawing from both personal experience and clinical understanding, she explains how these self-centered personalities operate—constantly shifting blame, refusing accountability, and somehow always positioning themselves as the victim regardless of their actions.

"You can feel like you went above and beyond to the moon and back," she says, "and they'll still find something lacking." This impossible-to-please nature creates unbalanced relationships where one person gives everything while receiving minimal appreciation or reciprocity in return.

The episode dives into the clinical aspects of Narcissistic Personality Disorder while providing 14 specific warning signs to watch for, including fantasies of greatness, exploitative behavior, and manipulation tactics like gaslighting. Whether you're currently dealing with a narcissistic friend, partner, family member, or coworker—or simply want to protect yourself from these relationships in the future—this raw, unfiltered conversation offers both validation and practical wisdom.

Ready to stop blaming yourself for a narcissist's behavior? Listen now, and learn why setting boundaries isn't just suggested—it's absolutely necessary for your wellbeing. Share your experiences in the comments; we're building a community that understands exactly what you're going through.

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Fashitsho Podcast - Episode 12: "The Silent Struggle: Navigating Depression and Anxiety" (Feat. DJ Kornbred aka DJ Empress)

In this raw and heartfelt episode of the Fashitsho Podcast, host DJ Kornbred, aka DJ Empress, takes us on a deeply personal journey through the realities of depression and anxiety. These mental health struggles are often invisible but can weigh heavily on our lives. DJ Kornbred opens up about her own experiences and shares insight on how these challenges can show up, how they feel, and how they impact every aspect of our daily lives.

Throughout the episode, we talk about the importance of acknowledging mental health struggles, finding healthy coping mechanisms, and the power of reaching out for support. DJ Kornbred emphasizes the need for open conversations around mental health, especially in our communities where it can often be stigmatized.

With a mix of vulnerability, practical advice, and resources, this episode is a must-listen for anyone who has struggled with depression or anxiety — or for anyone who wants to better understand how to support others facing these challenges.

Remember, you are not alone. Tune in for an honest and empowering discussion on navigating mental health and learning to prioritize your well-being.

Resources mentioned in the episode:

• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (U.S.)
• Local mental health support resources based on your region.

Join DJ Kornbred in this important conversation — because mental health matters. 💙

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Fashitsho Tha Podcast Ep 11: “I'M A SURVIVOR!" True Events on Domestic Violence W/Co Host Jay Renae!! PART 2

In Episode 11 of Fashitsho Tha Podcast, titled "I'M A SURVIVOR!!", the host dives deep into powerful and emotional real-life stories about overcoming the horrors of domestic violence. The episode is a raw, unflinching exploration of the resilience, strength, and courage of survivors who have faced the unimaginable and come out stronger on the other side.

Through interviews and personal testimonies, the episode sheds light on the struggles that many individuals go through when trapped in abusive relationships, and how they find the courage to escape, heal, and rebuild their lives. The theme of empowerment is central, as survivors share their journey of reclaiming their power, finding their voice, and proving that they are not defined by their past.

The podcast also offers practical advice, resources, and support for those who may be in similar situations, emphasizing that help is available, and no one is ever truly alone. The discussion is sensitive yet impactful, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and understand the broader societal impact of domestic violence.

“I’m a Survivor! I’m a Champion!” is a tribute to those who have fought back against abuse and a call to action for greater awareness, understanding, and change in how we address domestic violence in our communities.

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Episode 10: Harassment, Retaliation, and Discrimination - The Dark Side of Big Money Employers

In this powerful episode of Fashitsho, we dive deep into the uncomfortable but necessary conversations surrounding workplace harassment, retaliation, and discrimination, especially within companies with deep pockets. As money talks, too often it drowns out the voices of those who face mistreatment.

Join us as we uncover the hidden struggles employees endure when they stand up to powerful employers who wield their wealth and influence to silence dissent. We explore real-world stories, dissect the systemic issues within corporate culture, and examine the legal and ethical challenges employees face when trying to seek justice.

This episode is a call to action for accountability, transparency, and change in workplaces across all industries.

Don't miss this eye-opening conversation on how corporate power can be both a shield and a weapon, and what we can do to make sure that people, not profits, are the priority.

Have you ever wondered how money influences interpersonal dynamics, especially in professional and residential environments? This episode tackles the pressing issue of discrimination, retaliation, and harassment, revealing the harsh truths many face in the workplace and beyond. Through a series of powerful anecdotes, we explore how individuals often find themselves targeted due to their financial status, leading to a climate of fear and anxiety.

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