Father On Purpose Podcast

Any athlete worth his salt knows that once you get off the bench, you never want to go back. Your goal is to stay in the game. Our God-given purpose as men of faith is to stay off the sidelines and to serve our wives, kids, co-workers, and friends with integrity and intentionality. But we can't do that if we refuse to be honest about our mistakes. We have to be able to call it out. As we start the second half of our Don't Bench Yourself series, we're going to look at four ways we can choose to stay off the bench. This week, the first one we'll focus on is the ability to "Call It Out." We're all going to miss the mark at times, but as we'll learn in this episode, the key to staying in the game is coming clean about our miscues and taking responsibility for making them right.

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"Hurry up!" How many times have you said this as a dad, maybe to your kids, your wife, or even to God? Patience is something that every single one of us struggles with as a father. It's so easy to give up when we don't see the results we're wanting, when we want them. "I'm still angry." "My kids still feel lonely." On and on the list can go. The bench can look really comforting when we're feeling like no matter what we do, we're not getting anywhere. However, we can't always rely on key performance indicators to determine our spiritual growth. Sometimes, all we can do is trust God's plan and keep pushing forward. In today's episode, we look at some encouragement from God's Word to keep running the race and completing the good work he has for you. Don't let impatience keep you on the bench. Let's get back in the game today.

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We've all heard that words can never harm us. We also know that nothing could be further from the truth. While sticks and stones can do a lot of damage, nothing is more devastating to the nurturing of manhood than a steady barrage of painful criticism. In a world built on a foundation of negativity, it's vital for guys to learn how to embrace the constructive criticism that makes us better—and to reject the harmful judgments that tend to keep us on the bench.

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This week, we tackle one of the biggest hurdles dads face: shame. Mistakes can bring us down, and it's easy to succumb to shame in these moments. However, these are some of the best opportunities for us to grow as dads. We miss out on these opportunities when we let shame keep us on the bench. Shame is one of Satan's trickiest and most clever tools that he has to use against us, but in today's episode, we cover what shame really is, where it comes from, and some of the ways to fight it. Christ's sacrificial love provides us with the strength we need to get off the bench and put shame back in it's place. The battle against shame in our families starts with us dads, so let's get back in the game today.

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As guys, we often pride ourselves in being fearless. We never want to appear weak or unsure of ourselves. But the truth is, we all wrestle with fear to some degree. It's a universal affliction that's impossible to escape, especially on our own. That's where God comes in. Through His Word, he commands us to “fear not” and reminds us that we can face the things we dread in a godly, biblical way. Then, once we get a handle on those fears, we can teach our kids how to overcome their anxieties. But, as we'll learn in this episode based on Kent's book "Don't Bench Yourself," it all starts with us.

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Have you ever felt the pull to check out and warm the bench while you let the rest your family step up and take care of business? Do you struggle with the insecurities of feeling like you're not good enough, letting fear and shame hold you back from being the husband and father God has called you to be? Well good news, we're going to tackle all those issues and more in the coming weeks.

Join us as we embark on a new series we're calling "Don't Bench Yourself." For the next nine weeks, we'll address the struggles of letting criticism and impatience steal your joy and effectiveness as a dad, how to make things right with your kids, and much more. We want you to get off the bench, as a dad, a husband, and a Christ follower. Get back in the game today!

Check out the Robert Lewis Sermons podcast:

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/robert-lewis-sermons/id1566647559

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rTy59TVREzsyH663pAtnF?si=04f93de701714f07

Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon 

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As husbands and fathers, we all want to leave an enduring legacy for our families. One of the greatest gifts we can provide is wisdom in dealing with money. Our personal finances have the power to build us up or tear us down, so it's impossible to overstate the value of embracing biblical stewardship. Author and speaker Matt Bell spends his days helping people understand God's words and God's ways in relation to money. His practical approach to managing what God places in our hands might be just the nudge you need to address your own financial issues and to start building a legacy for the ones you love.

Learn more about Matt and his ministry at https://mattaboutmoney.com. 

Check out Matt's latest book, Trusted: Preparing Your Kids for a Lifetime of God-Honoring Money Management here: Buy "Trusted" on Amazon

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The challenges and struggles of being a godly husband are real. That's why it's important to seek help and encouragement every step of the way. Since its publication in 2011, The Meaning of Marriage by the late pastor and author Tim Keller has provided insight and guidance for men seeking to make their marriage all God wants it to be.

Today, we discuss three key quotes from The Meaning of Marriage and some related Scripture verses that point us in the right direction as husbands and fathers. Unity, sacrifice, and love are three defining features of a godly marriage, and Keller's book gives us a good idea of what it looks like to become a husband that embodies those attributes.

Whether you've read it before and need a refresher, or you're hearing about it for the first time, The Meaning of Marriage and Keller's key principles found within can make a difference in your life and your marriage.

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Life’s challenges can push us to confront our fears and reassess our beliefs. We’ve all faced moments when fear feels insurmountable, leading us to question our paths and choices. We often find the keys to our liberation in these struggles.

Orv Kimbrough shares his journey of overcoming fear and the transformative power of faith in Christ. He discusses how shifting our perspective can guide us toward forgiveness and optimism, revealing that our fears don’t have to define us.

Discover how to face the obstacles that hold you back and turn them into stepping stones for growth. This episode will empower you to embrace your story and become the father and man you aspire to be.

You can learn more about Orv and his book, Twice Over a Man, at www.orvinkimbrough.com.

Sometimes, the Bible doesn’t just comfort us—it challenges us to rethink our attitudes, actions, and beliefs. We’ve all encountered challenging Bible verses that are hard to accept, passages that seem too difficult to follow or that make us uncomfortable. These verses often stir up resistance, leading us to wrestle with God’s commands.

In this episode, we dive deep into what happens when we come face-to-face with these challenging Bible verses. We’ll explore the common reactions we have when God’s Word feels tough. It’s precisely through engaging with these difficult passages that God molds us into stronger, more faithful fathers.

Learn how to stop avoiding tough scriptures and start letting them guide your life, transforming you into the dad God has called you to be. This episode will challenge and encourage you to embrace even the hardest parts of God’s Word, knowing they are meant to build you up, not tear you down.

Dad, remember, quitting is not an option. Get Kent's book, Don't Bench Yourself, and stay in the fatherhood game.

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