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KAZDIN METHOD DAY 2 OF 5

Solve Problems Together, Be Generous With Warm Fuzzies & Build Competencies

This is day two of five – I am going to leave the original text below so that you are not forced to go back to the beginning to see what is going on!

 

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I am literally compelled to share this with all of you who are in the “parenting” space… that is… if you are a father, mother, know a parent… heir apparent.

Why?  I hear you asking… first of all… the guy who wrote the book is a Professor of Psychology and Child Psychiatry at Yale University and Director of the Yale Parenting Center. He was the 2008 President of the American Psychological Association and is the author of 49 books for parents.

Suffice to say, he has some “street cred”.  In a neverending quest for knowledge, I stumbled across his free course on Coursera – Everyday Parenting: The ABCs of Child Rearing – by Yale University.

This is another item I would recommend… hands down? hands up?  raise the roof!!

What I have done is taken conclusion of the book “The Kazdin Method for Parenting the Defiant Child“, where Dr. Kazdin breaks down 12 Fundamental Tools for your toolbox… perhaps you have one of them… or perhaps you have many of them already in your toolbox… as he has stated, it is rare that anyone has all twelve of these at their disposal.  And I have taken the essence of them and put a quick series of videos together for you.

It is my intent that you gain a new tool or two for yourself, and may even be compelled to check out the course or read this book in full as what I am going to review via the videos is simply the tip of the iceberg!

Enjoy!

NEED MORE?

If you have found this to be useful, I only request that you please share with others.

If you are looking for audio only you may find it on the podcast “Fatherhood for the Rest of Us”

Please be sure to head over to the Episode site and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!

While you are there if you do indeed find that the videos, podcasts and even the private facebook group where there is nearly a daily Facebook Live, to motivate, inspire or otherwise promote beneficial behavior, I would appreciate if you shared it with others so that they may be served as well!

KAZDIN METHOD DAY 1 OF 5

INSTRUCT CALMLY & LISTEN

I am literally compelled to share this with all of you who are in the “parenting” space… that is… if you are a father, mother, know a parent… heir apparent.

Why?  I hear you asking… first of all… the guy who wrote the book is a Professor of Psychology and Child Psychiatry at Yale University and Director of the Yale Parenting Center. He was the 2008 President of the American Psychological Association and is the author of 49 books for parents.

Suffice to say, he has some “street cred”.  In a neverending quest for knowledge, I stumbled across his free course on Coursera – Everyday Parenting: The ABCs of Child Rearing – by Yale University.

This is another item I would recommend… hands down? hands up?  raise the roof!!

What I have done is taken conclusion of the book “The Kazdin Method for Parenting the Defiant Child“, where Dr. Kazdin breaks down 12 Fundamental Tools for your toolbox… perhaps you have one of them… or perhaps you have many of them already in your toolbox… as he has stated, it is rare that anyone has all twelve of these at their disposal.  And I have taken the essence of them and put a quick series of videos together for you.

It is my intent that you gain a new tool or two for yourself, and may even be compelled to check out the course or read this book in full as what I am going to review via the videos is simply the tip of the iceberg!

Enjoy!

NEED MORE?

If you have found this to be useful, I only request that you please share with others.

If you are looking for audio only you may find it on the podcast “Fatherhood for the Rest of Us”

Please be sure to head over to the Episode site and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!

While you are there if you do indeed find that the videos, podcasts and even the private facebook group where there is nearly a daily Facebook Live, to motivate, inspire or otherwise promote beneficial behavior, I would appreciate if you shared it with others so that they may be served as well!

If you don’t know this guy, then now is the perfect time to listen in to an amazing man.

I had the opportunity to interview him after reading his book:

DRIVEN: My Unlikely Journey from Classroom to Cage

We cover a great deal of his story that is within the book, there are many entertaining aspects, but one of the coolest things I thought was just what a classy, wholesome, good-natured guy this killer is!

While reading the book it was easy to tell that while he worked hard and made it to the top he remained 100% humble, honored his relationships and valued dearly his friendships and family.

From his website:

In 2007, he left the comfort of his hometown and full-time job as a Spanish teacher to pursue a career in mixed martial arts.

What started out as a dream soon turned into reality. He fought at every level of the industry, including an 11-fight UFC career. After upsetting #6 ranked Rick Story in 2011, his life changed as he skyrocketed into the world rankings and went head-to-head with the best fighters in the world, such as UFC Champion Johny Hendricks and current top-ranked light heavyweight Anthony “Rumble” Johnson.

The key ingredient in his climb to the top – HARD WORK.

From his website:

I’ve transitioned my experiences as a professional fighter into professional speaking and mentoring.

Having fought the scariest men on Earth, taught junior and senior high Spanish, won a reality TV show on national television and read incessantly for many years, I call upon my matrix of personal experience and knowledge to inspire you, challenge you and make you believe.

I’ve been knocked out cold on live television, and I’ve lived out my own “Rocky” story in front of a million people. Through traditional keynotes, workshops and Power Conversations, you’ll get an inside look at what it takes to compete, and win, at the highest levels.

 

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Happy holidays all! I hope that you are spending it with those you love… a little holiday greeting here and just thanking you all for being a part of my life this year!

Enjoy all of the time that you have!

Have a blessed, joyous and merry new year!

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Wonderful conversation with the creator of Strategic Partnerships For Entrepreneurs a facebook group aimed at helping you to succeed!

He is a big believer that your network is your net worth in finances, relationships, and mindsets. With you being here, you take it up another notch!

In this group, we’ll discuss how to accelerate the following:

• Your Leadership Capacity

• Your Brand

• Your Network

• Your Sales

Reach out to him to him and see how you can collaborate!

If you have been looking for a group of like minded fathers who are willing to support you as you

would support them to chase their dreams, share their challenges, and intermix your wisdom with theirs than be sure to join the closed facebook group:

Get it all, enjoy it, make it yours, and if you continue to enjoy it, be sure to share it!

 

Feel free to donate to the show – every dollar earned goes directly to the feed the Handley Boys Foundation!

No intro no outro – #someoneneedstohearthis

I don’t ask very often, but this is one that I think someone out there is waiting to hear… if it is not you, than please share so that it gets to them.

As always, if you are a father and in need of support or perhaps feeling a strong desire to support, please reach out to me or request to join “Fatherhood for the Rest of Us” on Facebook!

Amazing interview with Larry Yatch (bio info below)

He and I connected and spoke in length about a high functioning brotherhood and what it takes to be one. We transition and discuss this as it relates to the family… stay tuned for the gun fight ontop of an oil tanker… this is not something that usually finds it’s way onto Fatherhood for the Rest of Us!

We also chat at length about the variance between a leader and a manager. You DO NOT want to miss this one… You really don’t want to miss any of them.

Lawrence Yatch, a graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy and a ten-year veteran of the U.S. Navy SEALs, has been a leader while serving in extreme environments across the globe. Now, as an entrepreneur in the field of personal safety and family security, Mr. Yatch has applied the lessons learned from these experiences to develop Sealed Mindset a training company based out of its Minneapolis, Minnesota which features a state-of-the art 10,000sqft training academy.

As a SEAL officer, Larry planned and led an assault on the world’s largest oil platform in the largest Special Operations mission in history during the opening night of Operation Iraqi Freedom. He developed a radical new system for attacking armored, enemy controlled ships during operations in the Northern Arabian Gulf. Prior to entering Iraq, Larry was responsible for the development of a training pipeline for more than 30 Philippine Special Forces operators to prepare them for combat action, and he worked with the Singaporean Navy’s Special Forces to hone anti-terrorism skills.

After returning from combat Larry planned, built and directed the creation of a new 300 person SEAL command, designed to undertake sensitive missions critical to the Navy’s efforts in the War on Terror. He was responsible to create curriculum and train operators in technical and non-technical surveillance as well as human intelligence operations. He then deployed to various middle eastern countries operating in these capacities.

Larry has provided security and operational management guidance to international architecture firms, high net worth individuals, the Motion Picture Association of America, Walt Disney, SONY, FOX, and Warner Brothers Studios. He has developed and implemented cutting edge technology to address anti-piracy concerns at the national and international level. He has also designed, constructed and tested advanced technical surveillance systems used globally by Special Operations Forces and law enforcement operatives. His unique expertise in countersurveillance, counterintelligence and operational planning also allows him to develop curriculum for selective Special Operations Forces (SOF) units in immediate combat zones.

Larry earned his Engineering Degree at the U.S. Naval Academy, where he was also a founding member of the Naval Academy Combat Pistol Team.

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Larry currently uses his operational and strategic leadership experiences acquired at the Naval Academy and during his decade with the Navy SEALs, to provide security guidance and safe travel training to the corporate world. He is also the founder and CEO of Sealed Mindset, a training company based in Minneapolis. Sealed Mindset uses its custom designed indoor shooting range, laser training systems, and live scenario training spaces to conduct over 130 individual training events every month. These training events are run for private citizens, corporations, and military and police organizations both locally and offsite.

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Armando Cruz is a husband, father, adventurer, author, ultramarathoner, lifestyle physical therapist, and legacy coach.

He is the creator of the Cleanse & Renewal Program, the Modern Man Virtual Virtual Summit, and the R.I.C.H Man Experience. He is the co-owner of Cruz Country Fitness & Physical Therapy with his wife Christian.

Armando has climbed mountains, has ran over 50 miles in a day in the swamps with snakes and alligators, has lived out of his car, and has rollerbladed and surfed in hurricanes but his biggest adventure has been fatherhood.

He is the proud dad of 3 amazing children and has been married for 10 years to his beautiful wife Christian.

Armando helps growth minded, married men live happier, more connected, and more fulfilled lives with his immersive coaching program to help married men show up powerfully in their marriage, in their health, in their business, and in their purpose. Armando’s unique approach helps strip away the clutter both internally and externally that is stopping them from showing up daily as the greatest and grandest version of who they are for themselves, for their family, and for their legacy.

Catch up with Armando and let him know you heard him here on the podcast! http://www.armandocruz.com/

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Well thank you Father deed for the risk to be explained in English because you’re already great if you could you know

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one of the other need to.

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Pay their father have for the rest of this brand handling here voice of a generation the creative founder of all things

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good

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and bad all things bad if you are on a pole there cannot be one without the other if you listen to Alan Watts then you’re.

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Probably heard that before right so I’m on the fan of Alan Watts.

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Been listening to a lot of his old some of ours recently lately and it’s.

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I guess that’s a polar way of thinking right you cannot have one without the other and that’s why.

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I said that good morning. It is Sunday morning.

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And I am on the way to get some groceries I know that might not be exciting for you I love I’m excited I love to cook I

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love food I love messing with it love just kind of all there is about it one of the recipes that I’ll be doing setting

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up this week is Momofuku. Pulled pork which is going to be. Just a six hour. Drive brined.

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Pull poor man I’m looking forward to that

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and you know they look a poet you guys is you know Meghan I’ve been talking a lot about.

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Not feeding our kids as much packaged food as we do and. It’s all a matter of convenience.

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All a matter of convenience I know that it’s hasn’t been entirely like junk food

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but each time I serve my kids like a package of crackers with.

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With with something or other one just I just I just a little piece of me dies so. It’s me right it’s not.

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And that here I am. Being a witch purchased or to go to because I love the law.

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Or a little piece of me I just feel bad I feel guilt there’s fear that I feed my kids that I personally will not ingest

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unless it’s like a dire emergency.

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So to that end this week’s going to be filled with a lot of lot of love love first time stuff a lot of first time

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trying to do. I’ll be making some homemade powers on crackers. So some recipes for that I will be doing some new baby.

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Peanut butter oatmeal cookie type things for for their lunches or snacks and sweet tooth and this.

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A couple of the ones but that’s you know that’s that’s what I that’s one of the And today

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but I’m excited about it like I said I’m excited to be just kind of get out there.

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Feed the kids that stuff and you know like I sai...

Hey you! Hope you are enjoying the sh*t out of this holiday season, throwing caution to the wind and catching it all on youtube… or somewhere that you can protect from prying eyes… one of the two!