Fathering Strong

In this episode of the Fatherhood Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams interviews Tom Edwards, who shares his profound journey from a challenging childhood marked by his father's mental health struggles to becoming a dedicated father himself. Tom discusses the impact of his upbringing on his parenting style, his reconciliation with his father, and his commitment to being a positive influence in his daughter's life. He also elaborates on his current work in community development, church leadership, and mentorship, emphasizing the importance of strong families and faith communities in society.Takeaways- Tom Edwards had a challenging childhood with a father who struggled with mental health issues.- He experienced a significant reconciliation with his father later in life.- Tom's commitment to being a better father stems from his own experiences.- He emphasizes the importance of strong family dynamics in society.- Tom is actively involved in community development and church leadership.- He believes in the power of mentorship and collaboration in his work.- Tom's journey reflects a deep spiritual commitment and personal growth.- He aims to equip others to reach their potential in Christ.- Tom's work focuses on transforming families and communities.- He draws inspiration from his daughter and his faith. Chapters00:00 Introduction to Tom Edwards01:09 Growing Up in the Edwards Household04:57 Struggles with Fatherhood and Mental Health08:22 Reconciliation and Healing with His Father12:53 Becoming a Father: A New Journey20:02 Current Work and Community Involvement36:54 Collaborative Efforts in Columbus40:50 Role as a Chaplain and Mentorship42:41 Motivation and InspirationsYou can reach Dr. Tom Edwards at 614-353-3718 or by email at : drtomedwards @Live.com.  The Fathering Strong Podcast is produced by the Movementum Group.https://www.movementum.com

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In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Barbara Coloroso, a renowned author and educator, about the importance of nurturing parenting and nonviolent discipline. They discuss Barbara's personal journey in parenting, the significance of fathers in children's lives, and the differences between discipline and punishment. Barbara shares valuable insights on how to raise responsible and resilient children, emphasizing the importance of allowing children to make choices and learn from their mistakes. The conversation underscores the significance of effective communication, understanding, and empathy in parenting, as well as the ongoing process of learning and growth for both parents and children.

Takeaways- Fathers play a crucial role in children's lives.- It's never too late to improve parenting skills.- Discipline should focus on teaching, not punishment.- Children need to feel they can make a difference.- Allow children to make choices within safe boundaries.- Punishment can lead to fear and resentment in children.- Discipline should maintain a child's dignity.- Encourage children to own their mistakes and learn from them.- Parents can evolve and learn from their experiences.- Creating a nurturing environment is essential for child development.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood and Parenting00:53 Barbara's Fatherhood Story and Background05:49 Transitioning to Parenting and Teaching10:37 The Importance of Nurturing Parenting11:29 Nonviolent Discipline and Communication Strategies22:42 Alternatives to Punishment and Control27:00 Learning from Mistakes in Sports29:31 Understanding Intent and Consequences34:51 Discipline vs. Punishment38:44 The Impact of Socioeconomic Factors on Discipline42:15 Addressing Bullying and Mayhem47:31 Lessons Learned and Personal Growth53:08 New Insights from 'Mistakes, Mischief, and Mayhem'You can learn more about Barbara Coloroso's book and work at:https://kidsareworthit.com/

Josh Storts on Faith, Fatherhood, and Campus Revival

In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams engages in a heartfelt conversation with Josh Storts, exploring the profound impact of fatherhood on personal growth and relationships. Josh shares his experiences growing up with a father who taught him valuable lessons about life, albeit not always in the way he desired. As a father himself, he reflects on the joys and challenges of raising daughters, emphasizing the importance of unconditional love and presence. The discussion also delves into Josh's work in college ministry, highlighting his commitment to discipleship and mentoring students, as well as his aspirations for the future of his ministry. Through personal anecdotes and insights, this episode offers a rich exploration of fatherhood, faith, and the transformative power of love and mentorship.

Takeaways

- Josh's upbringing shaped his understanding of fatherhood.

- He aims to provide a nurturing environment for his daughters.

- Unconditional love is a core principle in his parenting.

- Quality and quantity of time are both essential for children.

- His relationship with Christ influences his parenting style.

- Discipleship is a key focus in his ministry work.

- He emphasizes the importance of mentoring college students.- Josh's ministry aims to reproduce faith in others.

- He believes in the transformative power of love and grace.

- Future aspirations include expanding his ministry and discipleship efforts.

Chapters

00:00 Growing Up: A Father's Influence

04:59 Becoming a Father: Joys and Challenges

09:51 Navigating Parenting: Quantity vs. Quality Time

14:26 The Unconditional Love of a Father

18:34 College Ministry: A Calling and Journey

26:48 Discipleship: Building Relationships with Students

36:41 Future Aspirations: Expanding the Ministry

In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams interviews Cameron Arnett, an accomplished actor, author, and speaker who shares his powerful journey from a fractured relationship with his own father to becoming a strong father figure and mentor. Arnett, originally from Haiti, discusses his early struggles with an absent father due to divorce, his own mistakes as a young father before finding Christ, and how his relationship with God transformed his approach to parenting his five children. He reveals his ministry work through "Childless Dads," which challenges the stereotype of deadbeat fathers by highlighting how the family court system often keeps loving fathers away from their children. Arnett also shares his remarkable acting career journey, from leaving Hollywood after refusing a role that compromised his Christian values to returning supernaturally to Christian filmmaking, where God provided him over 60 film roles without auditions over 11 years. His recent role as Joshua Moore in "The Forge" particularly resonates as it mirrors his real-life marriage and ministry approach. Throughout the interview, Arnett emphasizes how his relationship with God as Father enabled him to heal from past wounds, become a better parent, and now mentor others through his "Saving Destinies" ministry, demonstrating that true fatherhood transformation comes through spiritual growth and divine relationship.Chapter List00:00:00 - Introduction and Guest Welcome00:01:33 - Growing Up Without a Father00:05:29 - Reconciliation Attempts and Loss00:06:42 - Healing and Forgiveness00:07:30 - His Own Fatherhood Journey00:10:56 - The "Childless Dads" Ministry00:15:20 - "Saving Destinies" Ministry Origins00:19:10 - Book and Speaking Ministry00:25:03 - Acting Career Beginnings00:34:18 - Walking Away from Hollywood00:38:24 - Supernatural Return to Acting00:43:27 Christian Prominence and Anointing00:46:29 - Closing and Event Promotion

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In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Geoff Walker about his journey as a father and the lessons learned from his own upbringing. Geoff shares insights into his father's influence, the challenges of parenting, and the importance of being a leader rather than just a friend to one's children. He reflects on transformative moments in his relationship with his father and how those experiences shaped his approach to fatherhood. The conversation also touches on Geoff's passion for music and how it has been a constant in his life, alongside his career in law. The episode concludes with reflections on the importance of humility, accountability, and the ongoing journey of parenting.

Takeaways

- Geoff's father learned to be more loving over time.

- Transformative moments can redefine father-son relationships.

- Parenting requires humility and accountability.

- Being a leader is essential in parenting.

- Friendship should not replace parental authority.

- Children need responsible role models.

- Prayer and faith can guide parenting decisions.

- Music has been a lifelong passion for Geoff.

- Career choices can impact family time.

- Parenting is a continuous journey of growth.

Chapters

00:00 Jeff's Unique Upbringing and Early Influences

05:49 The Evolution of Fatherhood: From Discipline to Love

09:41 Life-Changing Moments: A Father's Intuition

14:18 The Challenges and Joys of Fatherhood

19:21 Career Choices and Family Time

20:18 Prioritizing Family Over Self

25:53 The Role of Leadership in Parenting

27:12 The Parent-Friend Dilemma

32:36 The Journey of a Musician

38:55 Living a Purposeful Life Beyond Retirement

The Fathering Strong Podcast is produced by the Movementum Group and the music is by Harold Rayford.

In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams welcomes back Peter Lawson Jones, an actor, philanthropist, and a key figure in the fatherhood movement. They discuss Peter's journey as a father and grandfather, his legacy in fatherhood initiatives, and his new film, 'The Last Shop on Walnut.' Peter shares insights on the importance of engaged parenting, staying active in life, and the motivation behind his continued relevance in the community. He offers heartfelt advice to young fathers about shaping their children's lives and building a lasting legacy.Takeaways- Peter Lawson Jones emphasizes the importance of engaged parenting.- He believes that fatherhood is the most significant role one can play.- Peter's legacy includes founding the Ohio Commission on Fatherhood.- He stresses the need for community involvement in parenting.- Peter's new film, 'The Last Shop on Walnut,' explores themes of family and community.- He shares his joy in becoming a grandfather and the values he hopes to pass on.- Peter encourages staying active and pursuing passions in later life.- He highlights the importance of relevance and legacy as one ages.- Peter's parents serve as his inspiration for overcoming challenges.- He advises young fathers to create opportunities for their children.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Peter Lawson Jones01:28 Peter's Fatherhood Journey04:14 Legacy of Fatherhood Initiatives06:03 The Importance of Engaged Parenting10:51 The Last Shop on Walnut: A New Film21:14 Becoming a Grandfather25:13 The Role of a Grandfather29:11 Staying Active and Engaged in Life34:17 Motivation and Relevance in Later Life43:18 Advice for Young FathersThe Fathering Strong podcast is produced by the Movementum Group.The music is provided by Harold Rayford.

SummaryIn this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, Eli Williams interviews Michael Cooper II, who shares his journey of fatherhood and the influence of his own father. Michael discusses the importance of strong family values, the challenges of balancing work and family life, and how he helps others identify their unique value to achieve financial stability. The conversation emphasizes the significance of mentorship and the need for fathers to be present in their children's lives while navigating the pressures of modern society.Takeaways-Michael's father was a significant influence in his life.-The importance of being present as a father.-Many fathers struggle with financial stability.-Identifying one's unique value can lead to better opportunities.-Education is key to changing mindsets about value.-Fathers can help each other through mentorship.-The market pays based on perceived value, not actual value.-Everyone has something unique to offer the world.-Fathers need to balance work and family responsibilities.-Helping fathers achieve financial freedom is crucial.Chapters00:00 Growing Up in the Cooper Household07:09 Navigating College and Sports Decisions10:50 The Journey into Fatherhood14:05 Creating Value and Income as a Father20:03 Unlocking Potential: The Call to Action21:55 Empowering Pastors: Beyond the Pulpit26:30 Identifying Unique Value: The Key to Success30:31 Financial Freedom for Fathers: Breaking the Cycle35:29 Understanding Value: The Market's Fairness38:39 Connecting with Purpose: The Path ForwardYou can contact Michael at ThePurposePastor.Comhttps://thepurposepastor.com/

In this powerful episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams sits down with Lorrenzo Anderson, known as "Gospel Man," for an incredible testimony of transformation. Lorrenzo shares his raw and honest journey from a troubled childhood marked by abuse to becoming a repeat offender who spent time in prison five different times.Everything changed in 2009 when Lorrenzo gave his life to Christ in a county jail visiting booth. During his final prison sentence, he underwent a complete transformation through faith, mental health treatment, drug rehabilitation, and the Nurturing Fathers for Life program. Now 14 years free from prison, Lorenzo has become a gospel rapper, entrepreneur, and devoted father who is breaking generational cycles.This episode covers Lorrenzo's childhood trauma, his struggles with mental health diagnoses including bipolar disorder and multiple personalities, his journey to forgiveness, and how he's now raising his children differently than he was raised. You'll also hear about his music ministry with Rev Nation and his calling to help others through his testimony.Part 2 of this interview coming soon!Takeaways:• Childhood trauma can create lasting patterns** - Lorrenzo's abusive childhood led to unforgiveness, bitterness, and a cycle of incarceration • Prison programs save lives** - Mental health treatment, drug rehabilitation, and the Nurturing Fathers for Life program were vital to Lorrenzo's transformation • Forgiveness is essential for healing** - A breakthrough moment in the fathering program helped Lorrenzo forgive his parents and begin true healing • Faith can speak to anyone** - Even while living in the streets, Lorenzo heard God's voice in church, planting seeds for future transformation • Breaking generational cycles is possible** - Lorrenzo consciously parents differently than he was raised, giving his children a voice and presence • Mental health awareness matters** - Lorrenzo learned to recognize and manage his bipolar disorder, multiple personalities, and PTSD through self-awareness and faith • God can use your pain for purpose** - Lorrenzo's experiences now help him minister to others and provide breakthrough moments • Consistency in parenting makes a difference** - Being present daily for his youngest children has created visible positive changes • Creative gifts can be used for ministry** - Lorrenzo's writing and music talents, developed even in prison, now serve his calling • Community support accelerates growth** - Participating in men's groups and fathering programs continues to strengthen Lorrenzo's journeyChapter Listing:00:00 - Introduction - Meet Lorrenzo "Gospel Man" Anderson01:00 - Childhood Trauma and Early Life06:00 - The Cycle of Incarceration09:00 - Mental Health Struggles12:00 - The Transformation Programs14:00 - The Breakthrough Moment17:00 - Becoming a Father20:00 - Hearing God's Voice24:00 - The Gift of Writing27:00 - Music Ministry and Rev Nation32:00 - Transformed Parenting35:00 - 14 Years of Freedom36:00 - Closing and Part 2 Preview

In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams interviews Howard Evans, a retired military officer and educator, who shares his journey of fatherhood, including his experiences as a single father and stepfather. Howard reflects on his childhood, his relationship with his father, and the lessons he learned about responsibility and education. He emphasizes the importance of being present in children's lives, the challenges of blending families, and offers valuable advice for young fathers navigating difficult circumstances.Takeaways- Howard Evans shares his journey of fatherhood and military service.- He emphasizes the importance of education and teaching.- Howard reflects on his relationship with his father and childhood experiences.- He discusses the challenges of being a single father.- Howard highlights the significance of being present in children's lives.- He shares insights on blending families and step-parenting.- Howard encourages fathers to take their children to church.- He stresses the importance of teaching children right from wrong.- Howard believes that children learn from their parents' actions.- He emphasizes the need for fathers to support their children's needs. Chapters00:00 Introduction to Howard Evans01:47 Military Service and Teaching Career04:14 Childhood and Relationship with Father10:18 Growing Up and Conversations with Dad12:57 Marriage and Becoming a Father15:30 Single Fatherhood Journey24:21 Blending Families and Step-Parenting Challenges36:31 Advice for Young Fathers42:55 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In this powerful episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Bruce Stapleton sits down with Buddy Brown, a Springfield resident whose journey from childhood trauma to intentional fatherhood offers hope and inspiration to fathers everywhere. Buddy shares his raw and honest story of growing up with an abusive, alcoholic father who abandoned the family multiple times, leading to a suicide attempt at age 14. His life transformed when his family began attending church, where he witnessed healthy father-child relationships for the first time and was mentored by godly men who showed him a different way to live. Through his faith journey, Buddy learned to forgive his father and eventually led him to Christ before his death. Now a father of three daughters and grandfather, Buddy emphasizes the importance of understanding love languages, being intentional with children, and surrounding yourself with godly mentors to break generational cycles of dysfunction.Takeaways:- Understanding that wanting to be a good father is 90% of the battle - the other 10% is simply showing up and being present when your children need you.- Learning your children's love languages is crucial for connecting with them effectively and avoiding unintentionally making them feel unloved through mismatched communication.- Forgiveness is possible even in the most difficult father-child relationships when you learn to see your father through God's eyes rather than your own hurt perspective.- Surrounding yourself with godly mentors and role models is essential for acquiring the "tools" you need to become the father you want to be, especially if you didn't have a good example growing up.- Being available and making time for small moments with your children - like coloring for five minutes when asked - creates lasting memories and shows them they matter.- Sometimes children just need you to listen rather than immediately trying to fix their problems or offer unsolicited advice.- God can use your painful past to help others, and breaking generational cycles of dysfunction is possible through faith and intentional choices.- The importance of having godly men in the church who are willing to invest in younger fathers and provide organic mentorship opportunities.Chapters:0:00 - Introduction and Welcome 2:30 - Buddy's Early Childhood and Relationship with His Father 8:45 - Family Dysfunction and Trauma Begins 15:20 - The Suicide Attempt and Cry for Help 18:30 - Finding Church and Witnessing Healthy Fatherhood 22:15 - Mentorship from Godly Men in the Church 25:40 - Military Service and Becoming a Father 28:50 - Raising Three Daughters and Learning Love Languages 34:15 - Break 34:40 - The Journey to Forgive His Father 42:30 - Leading His Father to Christ Before Death 46:20 - Becoming a Grandfather and Current Ministry 48:45 - Advice for Fathers from Difficult Backgrounds 52:30 - The Importance of Church Fatherhood Programs 55:15 - Closing Thoughts and Future Plans