Fathering Strong

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In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Chris Kelly, the Director of Community Development for Highland. They discuss Chris’s upbringing as an only child, his relationship with his father, and the challenges of caregiving for his mother with Alzheimer’s. Chris shares his experiences of becoming a father and the emotions that came with it. The conversation shifts to Chris’s work in community development, emphasizing the importance of strong families in building healthy communities. They explore the holistic approach to community development and the role of fathers in fostering strong family units. In this conversation, Chris Kelley discusses the multifaceted challenges facing youth today, particularly in the aftermath of COVID-19, and the importance of community engagement. He emphasizes the interconnectedness of issues affecting families and communities, the role of spiritual warfare in their work, and the critical nature of prayer in fostering community development. Chris also reflects on the future of community engagement, considering the impact of cultural shifts and technology, and offers encouragement to fathers seeking their purpose.

• Chris Kelly reflects on his childhood as an only child.
• The impact of caregiving on family relationships is profound.
• Honesty with children about difficult situations is crucial.
• Becoming a father brings a mix of emotions and instincts.
• Naming children can feel like a divine calling.
• Community development requires a holistic approach.
• Strong families are the foundation of strong communities.
• The importance of supporting local leaders in community work.
• Building community is about relationships, not just structures.
• Fatherhood plays a key role in community health. The challenges youth face today are interconnected and complex.
• Community engagement requires a holistic approach to address various issues.
• Spiritual warfare is a real and significant aspect of community work.
• Prayer is essential for effective community development and personal strength.
• The future of community work is influenced by cultural and technological changes.
• Fathers should consider the long-term impact of their actions on their children.
• Community development is a multi-generational effort that requires patience and vision.
• Building relationships and networks is crucial for successful community initiatives.
• Personal struggles and failures can lead to deeper understanding and growth.
• Trusting in God’s plan is vital for navigating life’s challenges.

00:00 Introduction to Fathering Strong Podcast
03:01 Chris Kelly’s Childhood and Relationship with His Father
06:04 Navigating Caregiving and Family Dynamics
08:59 Becoming a Father: Emotions and Experiences
11:53 Understanding Community Development and Its Impact
17:58 The Importance of Strong Families in Community Building
22:36 Navigating Post-COVID Challenges for Youth
25:47 Motivation Behind Community Engagement
30:27 Understanding Spiritual Warfare in Community Work
33:06 The Importance of Prayer in Community Development
39:52 Envisioning the Future of Community Development
48:31 Encouragement for Fathers Seeking Their Path

You can contact Chris at: [email protected]

The Fathering Strong Podcast is produced by Bruce Stapleton, www.movementumgroup.com

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In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams engages with Caleb Ingram, who shares his journey of fatherhood, the lessons learned from his own father, and the challenges and joys of raising three daughters. Caleb discusses the importance of being present as a father, the dynamics of parenting girls, and the balance between work and family life. He also highlights the significance of community engagement and church unity, sharing insights from his work with Declare, a movement aimed at fostering collaboration among churches. The conversation concludes with Caleb's vision for the future and the impact he hopes to achieve through his efforts.
Takeaways- Caleb had a good relationship with his father, who was a hardworking man.- His father's growth in faith influenced Caleb's parenting style.- Being a dad to three girls brings unique challenges and joys.- The realization of lack of control in parenting can be humbling.- Community service is a vital part of church unity.- Caleb emphasizes the importance of being present for his children.- He believes in the power of collaboration among churches.- The challenges of parenting can lead to personal growth.- Consistency in ministry is key to seeing long-term fruit.- Caleb's vision for Declare focuses on unity and service in the community.

Chapters00:00 - Introduction to Fatherhood and Personal Background03:00 - Lessons from Fatherhood: Caleb's Experience05:46 - Navigating Challenges as a Girl Dad08:55 - The Joys and Trials of Parenting11:59 - Balancing Work and Family Life15:41 - Community Engagement and Church Unity21:00 - Overcoming Challenges in Church Collaboration25:10 - Future Goals for Declare and Community Impact

To reach Caleb and learn more about Declare go to:website: www.declare.orgemail: [email protected]

SummaryIn this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Chris James about his journey through fatherhood, his relationship with his own father, and the challenges and joys of raising a family. Chris shares insights on the importance of role models, the emotional journey of becoming a dad, and the impact of his upbringing on his parenting style. He discusses his career in education and how being a father has influenced his approach to teaching and leadership. The conversation emphasizes the significance of building strong family bonds and the ongoing challenges fathers face in today's world.Takeaways

• Chris's father was an old-school figure with limited emotional expression.
• Understanding and processing his father's shortcomings took time for Chris.
• Chris's career in education was influenced by his desire to guide students like himself.
• Becoming a father was a life-changing experience for Chris.
• He felt excitement and fear when his first child was born.
• Chris sought knowledge and resources to become a better father.
• He emphasizes the importance of individual time with each child.
• Chris's family dynamics include a nephew who chose to live with them.
• The biggest challenge in parenting is countering external influences.
• The joy of parenting comes from watching children grow and bond.

Chapters00:00 - Introduction to Fatherhood Stories01:07 - Chris's Early Relationship with His Father03:00 - Processing Fatherhood and Personal Growth05:06 - Career Path and Becoming an Educator07:25 - The Life-Changing Experience of Becoming a Dad10:04 - Emotions Surrounding Fatherhood11:50 - Seeking Role Models in Fatherhood13:16 - Building a Family and Sibling Dynamics20:20 - Challenges and Joys of Parenting21:52 - Navigating Parenting Challenges25:57 - The Joy of Watching Children Grow28:10 - Career Reflections and Educational Leadership32:26 - Fatherhood's Impact on Professional Relationships35:34 - Conclusion and Resources for FathersThe Fathering Strong Podcast is produced by www.MovementumGroup.

In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, Eli Williams interviews Bruce Stapleton about his journey in fatherhood and the development of his new book, 'Fathering Strong: God's Blueprint for Leading Your Family.' Bruce shares insights from his childhood, the influence of his father and grandfather, and the lessons he learned throughout his own fatherhood journey. The conversation also covers the resources available for fathers, including a devotional and study guide, and how these can be integrated into church programs. Bruce emphasizes the importance of intentional fatherhood and the benefits of using the Fathering Strong app to connect with other fathers and access valuable resources. In this conversation, Bruce Stapleton and Eli Williams discuss the critical role of fathers in society and the importance of community among dads. They explore the Fathering Strong initiative, which aims to support fathers through resources like the Fathering Strong app, books, and the Good Dad Award. The discussion emphasizes the need for fathers to take leadership roles in their families and communities, the impact of fatherhood on societal issues, and the vision for a future where fathers are engaged and recognized for their contributions.

Takeaways- Bruce's father was a dedicated figure in his life.- The influence of a grandfather can be significant in a child's upbringing.- Fatherhood is about more than just protection and provision.- Intentionality in fatherhood can lead to better outcomes for children.- The book provides a biblical framework for intentional fatherhood.- Fathers can learn from their own experiences and backgrounds.- The Fathering Strong app connects fathers for support and resources.- Devotionals can help fathers focus on their strengths and weaknesses.- SMART goals are essential for intentional fatherhood.- Community support is crucial for fathers in their parenting journey. Dads need each other for support and accountability.- The Fathering Strong app fosters community among fathers.- A shield symbolizes the strength of fathers working together.- Fatherhood is essential for building strong families and communities.- The Good Dad Award recognizes fathers' efforts and contributions.- Fathers play a key role in addressing societal issues.- Engaged fathers lead to better outcomes for children.- Fathering Strong aims to provide resources for fathers.- The importance of intentionality in fatherhood.- Every father has an irreplaceable role in their children's lives.Chapters00:00 - Introduction to Fathering Strong Podcast01:43 - Bruce's Childhood and Fatherly Influence04:35 - Lessons from Fatherhood Journey06:15 - Overview of the Book: Fathering Strong08:36 - Resources for Fathers: Devotional and Study Guide15:11 - Incorporating Fathering Strong in Church Programs19:32 - Benefits of the Fathering Strong App22:21 - The Importance of Community Among Fathers24:15 - The Armor of God and Fatherhood26:21 - Connecting Through the Fathering Strong App27:31 - Celebrating Fatherhood: The Good Dad Award32:10 - The Impact of Fathering Strong35:18 - The Role of Fathers in Society40:08 - Long-Term Vision for Fatherhood44:45 - Final Thoughts on Fathering Strong

SummaryIn this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams discusses the importance of teaching children about money management with guests Mark Stevenson and Bart Little. They share personal fathering stories and delve into practical strategies for instilling financial literacy in kids, from understanding the difference between needs and wants to prepare teenagers for financial independence. The conversation emphasizes the role of parents as financial role models and the significance of starting financial education early.Takeaways- Teaching kids about money starts with understanding needs vs. wants.- Compounding interest is a powerful concept to teach early.- Parents should model good financial habits for their children.- Starting a savings account for children at birth can lead to significant growth over time.- Using allowances can help children learn budgeting skills.- It's important to have conversations about credit and debt with teenagers.- Financial education can be fun with games and interactive tools.- Parents should be proactive in teaching their kids about financial independence.- Health care power of attorney is crucial for adult children.- You don't need to be wealthy to seek financial advice.Chapters00:00 - Introduction to Fathering Strong Podcast13:59 - Teaching Kids About Money19:53 - Preparing Teens for Financial Independence29:57 - Understanding Credit and Debt40:03 - Final Thoughts on Financial EducationMark Stevenson and Bart Little can be reached at:Sterling Wealth Managementwww.sterlingwealthohio.comemail: [email protected]: 937-717-9049The Fathering Strong Podcast is produced by Bruce Stapletonwww.movementum.com

In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams engages with Patrick Erlandson, founder of Father-Con, to discuss the critical intersection of fatherhood, child abuse prevention, and human trafficking. They explore how societal changes since the 1960s have impacted family dynamics, the role of fathers in shaping their children’s futures, and the mission of Father-Con in educating and inspiring fathers to take an active role in their children’s lives. The conversation highlights the importance of modeling healthy relationships and the devastating effects of absent fathers on children, particularly in the context of vulnerability to exploitation. Patrick shares insights on how individuals can contribute to the cause and the significance of community engagement in addressing these pressing issues.

Takeaways

• The philosophy of entitlement has changed family dynamics since the 1960s.
• Instant gratification has led to a loss of responsibility in society.
• Children lacking a father’s love start at a significant emotional deficit.
• Fathers model self-control, which is crucial for their sons’ development.
• The absence of a father can lead to boys becoming buyers of sex.
• 93% of trafficked individuals have experienced childhood abuse.
• Father-Con aims to educate about the importance of fathers in families.
• Community engagement is vital in preventing child exploitation.
• Healthy relationships are modeled by parents for their children. – Individuals can make a difference by taking responsibility for their relationships.

Chapters

00:00 – The Intersection of Fatherhood and Child Abuse Prevention
 07:01 – The Impact of Modern Society on Family Dynamics
 11:21 – The Role of Fathers in Shaping Sons and Daughters
 15:41 – FatherCon’s Mission and Community Engagement
 23:32 – Understanding Human Trafficking and Its Roots
 30:38 – How Individuals Can Make a Difference

To reach Patrick Erlandson contact him at:
 email: [email protected]
 website: www.father-con.org

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The FatheringStrong Podcast is produced by Bruce Stapleton – www.movementum.com

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In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Aaron Earlywine about the complexities of fatherhood, emotional intelligence, and the impact of childhood experiences on parenting. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, the role of curiosity in parenting, and the prevalence of child abuse, emphasizing that abusive behaviors often stem from the parent’s own unresolved issues. Aaron shares insights on how to foster emotional connections with children and the steps parents can take to improve their relationships with their kids. In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, Eli Williams and Aaron Earlywine discuss the critical issues surrounding child abuse and neglect, emphasizing the importance of emotional awareness in parenting, the role of community support, and the resources available for prevention. They explore the complexities of child neglect, the impact of overwhelming circumstances on parents, and the necessity of reaching out for help. The conversation highlights the Care Portal as a vital community resource and stresses the responsibility of individuals to recognize and report suspected abuse. Ultimately, the episode calls for a collective effort to empower fathers and support families in need.

• Parenting is often a reflection of our own childhood experiences.
• Emotional intelligence is crucial for effective parenting.
• Curiosity helps parents understand their children’s emotions better.
• Children often internalize blame for their parents’ abusive behaviors.
• Self-awareness is the first step towards change in parenting.
• No emotion is inherently bad; it’s how we respond that matters.
• Creating a safe emotional environment is essential for children.
• Parents can always mend relationships, regardless of past mistakes.
• Using emotional vocabulary can help children express their feelings.
• Taking breaks during emotional moments can prevent negative reactions. If we become reactive, we’re teaching our kids to be reactive.
• Oftentimes with our children, their emotion isn’t your fault.
• Quit taking it personally; this isn’t about you.
• Neglect often stems from parents feeling overwhelmed.
• Community is essential to prevent neglect.
• Parents need to remember they are not alone.
• Care Portal connects families in need with community support.
• If you see something, say something about suspected abuse.
• Building relationships in the community can prevent neglect. Empowering children and families is crucial.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Background
04:14 Fatherhood and Emotional Intelligence
16:28 Understanding Child Abuse and Its Roots
25:51 Steps Towards Better Parenting
30:23 Emotional Awareness in Parenting
34:06 Understanding Child Neglect
41:16 The Role of Community in Prevention
46:10 Care Portal: A Community Resource
52:11 Recognizing and Reporting Abuse
01:00:30 Empowering Fathers and Mentorship

To contact Aaron Earlywine, email him at: [email protected]

Produced by Bruce Stapleton at www.movementum.com

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In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, Dr. David Mabry shares his personal journey of fatherhood, reflecting on his own upbringing in a dysfunctional family and how it shaped his approach to parenting. He discusses the importance of forgiveness, the impact of family dynamics, and the joys and challenges of being a father. Dr. Mabry emphasizes the need for empathy towards one’s parents and the significance of learning and growing through the parenting experience. The conversation highlights the privilege of fatherhood and the continuous journey of personal development as a parent. In this conversation, Dr. David Mabry discusses his journey to becoming the executive director of Encompass, a center dedicated to improving relationships through various programs and services. He shares insights into the organization’s mission, the importance of training facilitators, and the impact of their work on couples and families. Dr. Mabry also highlights the funding mechanisms that support Encompass and outlines the future vision for expanding their reach and services.

Takeaways

• Dr. Mabry grew up in a dysfunctional family.
• He made a conscious decision to father differently than his own father.
• Forgiveness is a process that evolves over time.
• Family of origin impacts our parenting styles significantly.
• Every child presents unique challenges to their parents.
• Empathy for one’s parents can aid in the forgiveness process.
• Parenting requires learning and adapting to new challenges.
• The joys of parenting are found in everyday moments.
• Being a father is a privilege and an honor.
• Continuous growth as a parent is essential. Dr. Mabry has been in ministry for 35 years, focusing on families and marriages.
• Encompass was established to address high divorce rates in the community.
• The organization offers programs for couples, singles, parents, and workplace relationships.
• All programs are available online, making them accessible nationwide.
• Facilitators and coaches are trained to support individuals in their relationship journeys.
• Success stories highlight the transformative impact of Encompass’s services.
• Funding comes from fees for service, grants, and individual donations.
• The organization aims to replicate its model in other communities.
• Dr. Mabry emphasizes the importance of premarital counseling for couples.
• The future vision includes expanding services beyond the current geographic boundaries.

Chapters

00:00 – Introduction to Fatherhood Stories
02:51 – Dr. Mabry’s Journey of Forgiveness
06:05 – Understanding Family of Origin Impact
08:50 – Navigating Fatherhood Challenges
12:07 – The Joys of Parenting
14:52 – Learning and Growing as a Father
18:05 – Reflections on Parenting Experiences
23:40 – Journey to Encompass: A New Chapter
27:09 – The Mission of Encompass: Transforming Relationships
29:43 – Programs and Services: Reaching Diverse Audiences
31:04 – Training Coaches and Facilitators: Expanding Impact
34:36 – Success Stories: Real-Life Transformations
39:53 – Funding the Mission: Sustaining Encompass
43:10 – Future Vision: Expanding Encompass’s Reach

You may reach Dr. Mabry at Encompass Connection Center.
Website: www.encompassccorg
email: [email protected]

In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, Eli Williams interviews Terron Edwards, who shares his profound journey of fatherhood, personal trauma, and the founding of Fathers Making Progress. Terron reflects on his childhood experiences, the impact of losing his father at a young age, and how these experiences shaped his approach to parenting. He discusses the challenges he faced as a teen father and how becoming a dad transformed his life. Terron also elaborates on his work with Fathers Making Progress, an organization dedicated to supporting fathers and improving community dynamics. He emphasizes the importance of co-parenting, breaking generational cycles, and the need for strong support systems for fathers. The conversation is both heart-wrenching and inspiring, showcasing Terron's resilience and commitment to making a difference in the lives of fathers and families.Takeaways- Terron's father was a significant influence despite his early death.- Losing his father at a young age led to many challenges.- Becoming a father at 16 changed Terron's perspective on life.- Terron founded Fathers Making Progress to support fathers in the community.- The organization aims to break generational cycles of trauma.- Co-parenting is crucial for the well-being of children.- Terron emphasizes the importance of love and support in parenting.- He believes in turning personal tragedies into lessons for others.- The need for community support for fathers is paramount.- Terron is motivated by a deep sense of purpose in his work.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood Stories01:28 Growing Up Without a Father07:16 Becoming a Father: Early Experiences15:25 Founding Fathers Making Progress24:26 Current Work and Future Aspirations29:36 Turning Tragedy into Purpose35:05 Motivation and Purpose in FatherhoodReach Terron at:https://www.fathersmakingprogress.org/https://www.facebook.com/milwaukeefatherhoodmovementhttps://www.instagram.com/fathersmakingprogress/email: [email protected] produced by: https://www.movementum.com/

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In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Chris Campbell about his journey from a challenging childhood, marked by adoption and struggles with identity, to becoming a devoted father and a minister. Chris shares his experiences of discovering his biological family, the trials of fatherhood, and the transformative power of faith. He discusses the innovative ways he established Love Alliance Christian Fellowship during the COVID-19 pandemic, emphasizing the importance of community and unconditional love in ministry.

Takeaways

- Chris was adopted at six months old and grew up in a predominantly white family.

- He struggled with identity and faced violence during his youth.- Chris's relationship with his biological father was discovered later in life.

- He faced significant challenges in his teenage years, including incarceration.

- Chris found faith and mentorship that changed his life trajectory.

- He became a father at 31, navigating a complex relationship with his son's mother.

- Chris emphasizes the importance of understanding generational differences in parenting.

- He founded Love Alliance Christian Fellowship to provide unconditional love and support.

- The church was established innovatively during the COVID-19 pandemic using social media.

- Chris's ministry focuses on inclusivity and meeting the needs of the broken-hearted.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Chris Campbell's Journey

11:09 Chris's Early Life and Challenges

19:58 Fatherhood: The Journey Begins

27:02 The Call to Ministry

35:24 Innovative Church Planting During COVID

42:59 Growth and Community Engagement

Contact Chris at:https://lovealliancecf.org/

email: [email protected]

Podcast produced by: https://www.movementum.com/