Do you take pains for peace in your relationships? In this message from Genesis 32, Pastor Spencer Harmon reveals what happens when Jacob stops running from his brother Esau after 20 years and takes three painful steps toward reconciliation: take pains to initiate through thoughtful, humble communication even when it's scary; take pains to pray by remembering God's word, confessing sinfulness, asking for help, and trusting his promises when relationships blow up and you reach the end of yourself; and take pains to change by giving instead of taking, telling truth instead of lying, and acknowledging guilt that needs covering.