“IT TAKES MORE THAN JUST LOVE AND PASSION FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO WORK”

In this episode, Dana and Kim explore the concept of why love is not enough to sustain a relationship and what other characteristics are needed for a healthy, long-term relationship. They also discuss whether Pure or True Love, is actually a myth or is humanly possible.

“THERE’S A REASON WHY TWO PEOPLE STAY TOGETHER. THEY GIVE EACH OTHER SOMETHING NO ONE ELSE CAN”.

Dana and Kim are joined by Roger and Marrie Reaves who’s love story began some 60 years ago. There are some stories you just can’t make up. This is one of them. Roger was business partner’s with Pablo Escobar and the Medellin Drug Cartel transporting by air tons of Marijuana and Cocaine over a handful of years. Their marriage not only produced three children, but survived Roger being shot down, shot at, multiple prison escapes, being on the run through countless countries, and ultimately, thirty two years of incarceration. This is a love story for the ages that shouldn’t be missed. www.smugglerbook.com  @rogerreaves on IG

“HONEST COMMUNICATION TO A RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE OXYGEN TO LIFE. WITHOUT IT…..IT DIES.”

In this episode, Dana, Kim, and Special Guest Host, Justine Hamilton talk about the foundation of healthy communication and how this either makes or ultimately breaks a relationship. This discussion centers around the necessary traits one must have to communicate effectively and how open, honest, and respectful communication leads to tighter bonds and healthy dependency.

“CONNECTION IS THE ENERGY THAT IS CREATED BETWEEN PEOPLE WHEN THEY FEEL SEEN, HEARD, AND VALUED"

In this episode, Dana and Kim welcome to the podcast studio, Dave and Marla Yukelson whose over 50-year romance / relationship began when both were in high school. They both eloquently explain how their relationship has evolved over the years through cross-country moves, careers, and children. Dave and Marla also describe the key elements that have kept their relationship not only sustainable but thriving after half a century.

Inside this episode, Dana and Kim explore why some people consciously choose to get in the way of what could be a good thing. Whether this be fear, poor self-esteem, trust difficulties, unrealistic expectations, or poor relationship skills, people sabotage their romantic relationships for the sole purpose of protecting themselves. Dana and Kim provide insight on how to develop and foster a healthy and intimate, relationship.

“TRAUMA MAY HAPPEN TO YOU, BUT IT CAN NEVER DEFINE YOU”

Dana and Kim are joined in-studio by Olympic Medalist, Entrepreneur, Artist / Designer; Caroline Burckle whose trip to athletic glory came with a huge price through no fault of her own. Caroline shares with us her very personal story of being objectified and abused by those she admired and looked up to and how these actions took a toll on her mental and physical well-being as well as, the loss of friendships and intimate relationships. This is a story of a survivor who has now fully embraced her journey forward toward; health, happiness, and healing.

"WHEN YOU GO LOOKING FOR RESCUE, YOU END UP TRAPPED IN YOUR OWN WEAKNESS”

Dana and Kim discuss a common relationship issue called; Rescue Fantasy”.  This is where rescuers and victims often find each other. Rescuers often fail to realize what price tag they are unconsciously attaching to their help in order to make themselves feel important and worthy of love. Rescuers have trouble knowing when to say no. This behavior also distracts the rescuer from focusing on their own needs and self-worth. This role also has crippling effects for the victim as well.

“LOVE MEANS GETTING BETTER TOGETHER”

In this episode, Dana and Kim are joined in-studio by Meredith Baxter and her wife, Nancy Locke. Both Meredith and Nancy offer a candid and vulnerable insight into their relationship and how they found authentic love later in life. Through adversity, public perception, trauma, and fear, their relationship has not only endured but continues to evolve and get better each day. This is a true love story for the ages.

“CONNECTION IS THE SINGLE BIGGEST NEED FOR A PHYSICAL HUMAN”

In this episode, Dana and Kim discuss the difference between healthy and unhealthy dependency. While one leads you to take on the emotions of others and sacrifice personal autonomy to avoid feeling abandoned, the other leads you to a life of greater fulfillment, intimacy, vulnerability, accomplishment, and self-worth. They also debunk the common notion that any form of dependency is toxic and discuss how healthy dependence equals a healthy relationship which in turn fosters greater personal independence.

“EMOTIONS ARE TEMPORARY STATES OF MIND. DON’T LET THEM PERMANENTLY DESTROY YOU”

Dana and Kim discuss the most common personality disorders within society today. Research shows that over 10% of the adult population suffers from some kind of personality disorder even though those numbers are probably much higher. Many of us have had someone in our lives that has been afflicted by one or more of these disorders. This episode will discuss; how to recognize someone with a particular disorder, how to effectively manage your interactions with these people, and how you can avoid attracting certain disorders into your life.

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