Tuning in with you this week to share some potent TIPS around DATING.

As a newly separated woman, I've been dipping my toes in the dating pool (stay tuned to hear why I feel NO shame about dating, 6 weeks out of my relationship with Warren.

As I delve back into the dating pool for the first time in almost 5 years, I am reminded WHY dating can feel so awkward and uncomfortable...

And of course, I've alchemized powerful ways to avoid the awkwardness in dating, and just be yourself instead.

Listen to the end to hear all THREE potent tips to help you feel empowered and authentic in your dating world.

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"Should I stay in this relationship for the Growth, or should I go?"

I hear this question a lot.

As a growth person, it can be challenging to decipher when I should stay in a challenging dynamic in order to experience more growth versus when it's time to honor my personal boundary and leave.

This week I'll share a recent experience I had with this question, and how I made my decision with clarity and confidence.

I'll share my favorite ways to TUNE IN to the guidance of the Universe and receive her potent signs and wisdom. It gets JUICY ya'll!

Since my separation with Warren a couple weeks ago, I've been feeling into the idea of moment to moment fluidity in all my relationships.

This week, I share a new paradigm of Relationships that continues to evolve and clarify itself as the dynamism of my experience continues to expand.

Moment to Moment Fluidity in Relationships is based on a 'moment to moment' self and joined check in: Is this relational dynamic still serving our individual Truths, Mission & Growth?

This paradigm is a far leap from what many of us have been taught to consider in the context of relationships, specifically romantic and sexual relationships. And, I feel this the most aligned and authentic type of relationship for me, as a "growth person" that I've ever considered.

As you listen, allow what resonates to resonate, and release the rest. Trust that what you absorb from this conversation is exactly what you and your nervous system are available to integrate in this moment.

Have you seen my new & hella improved website?!? Check out my latest blog post by clicking the link below: Trusting Your Body's Wisdom when your Mind has a Different Plan. I wrote this piece just days before Warren & I actually separated, though at this point I knew what needed to be done.

Read it Here: https://www.relationshipbadass.com/blog/bodymind

Join me this week for a raw exploration of my process thus far, Grieving through and Growing through my separation with Warren (my long-term partner of three years)

I will share with you many of the challenges, the moments of joy, the moments of pain, grief, slowing down, and listening.

I will share some of the daily practices and embodiment practices that have been like medicine for me.

I'll introduce the new Relational Paradigm that is coming through my system: Moment to Moment Fluidity in Relationship.

And most of all, I'll talk about why I believe Separation with an Open Heart is one of the most nourishing and powerful way to redefine a relationship.

This week I bring one of my Badass Babes on the show to share about her experience working in a 1-on-1 coaching container with me for 6 months.

If you've ever been curious about what coaching is, when it would be appropriate, what it could do & how it might serve....get cozy and dive into this episode!

We hold nothing back!! Autumn and I talk about:

What first drew her to coaching in general

How she new it was the time in her life to invest in a coach

How she knew I was the coach for her

What gave her the courage to say yes?

Challenges of working with me

Her most profound shift and transformations

Moments where she hated me (theres a few!)

Where she was then // where she is now

What it’s like to have a personal coach // wise bff

How her life is different now because of our work together

Autumns Instagram: @freeyourinnergoddess

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Molly & I unpack the topic of Divine Masculine an Divine Feminine Energies. Some of the points we dive into include:

- A very important Disclaimer and Distinction

- Daily Death & Rebirth (moment to moment even)

- What is Divine Masculine Energy and what is Divine Feminine Energy

- The spectrum of Humanness to Divinity

- My personal interpretation of the shapes of Masculinity and Femininity

- The core desire of the Feminine

- The core desire of the Masculine

- Molly’s experience of feeling like Minimalism what was she ‘had’ to do to be spiritual

- The difference between a balanced manifestation of Feminine Energy and an imbalanced manifestation (when all the outside circumstances are exactly the same)

- Feminine Adornment vs Materialism

- The courage it takes to enter polar relationship

- The River of Love that is Feminine, and how Masculine can access this

- How we can invite our partner into deeper embodiment of their primary essence through embodying our true essence

- “A plane of existence (M) for an entire Solar System (F) to unleash upon” -Molly Curtis

- The many dynamic expressions of Love

- “The cultural dynamic we see between genders is a mirror of the distortions within the energetic field” -Molly Curtis

- An embodiment practice to cultivate Divine Masculinity and an embodiment practice to cultivate Divine Femininity

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Molly's Website: rootbalancerise.com

Molly's Instagram: @mollymoonrise

This week I unpack the intricacies of Family Wounds:

- Normalizing Challenging Interpersonal Family Dynamics

- Honoring my pain while simultaneously understanding my mom’s position

- Owning your part in the dynamic

- Trusting your family to be sovereign, able adults

- Boundaries with Family

- BOUNDARIES WITH FAMILY

- Bringing laughter and play into a “serious situation”

I'll share with you some practical tips you can use this year when you go home for the holidays, to help you stay grounded & present with your family this year.

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This week, join me for a warm and cozy conversation around Emotional Wounds and how they affect our Relationships.

I walk down the journey, the more common experience of unconsciously bringing unhealed wounds into relationship, that I see in my regular coaching practice.

If I am unaware of how this works, I might unconsciously project my fears and insecurities onto my partner, essentially blaming them for not acting in a way that doesn't touch my insecurity or fear. And this can lead to great frustration and disconnection.

Learn how to take ownership for your own emotional wounds, insecurities and fears. Then, learn how to support one another through the true, deep healing of these lifelong emotional wounds.

Healing emotional wounds through the safety and clarity of our partnership container is one of the most beautiful experiences we are offered in partnership.

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WHAT IF YOU HAD A SENSE OF TRUST THAT CAN LITERALLY NEVER BE BROKEN?

Introducing...Surrendered Based Trust!

Surrendered Based Trust is a deep trust in the process of Life.

I trust this process.

I trust what Life has in store for me.

I trust what's happening right now, even though it hurts.

I trust my path, even though I'm in pain.

I trust this moment.

In this episode I demonstrate the difference between what I call Control-Based Trust and Surrendered-Based Trust. Control Based Trust is easily broken, while Surrendered Based Trust can not be broken, and can only nourish all of your experiences. I share a glimpse of my experience in Maui and how Surrendered Based Trust eased me through some of the most fragile and painful moments of my 2019.

Surrender Based Trust allows me to remain OPEN and access my SOVEREIGNTY. When I trust in Life's Path, then no matter what I'm experiencing, I can feel grounded in the knowingness of deep trust.

This week I dive into a delicious conversation with THE Molly Curtis. We unpack the following & MORE:

- Polarity Mindset vs Duality Mindset

- Demonizing not the human nor the Divine

- What it looks like for us to Be a Whole Being

- Neither prioritizing the Divine Feminine or the Divine Masculine in Ourselves

- Solo Growth vs Growth in Partnership

- Challenging the idea that 'you can't have comfort AND growth'

- Over-focus on suffering in the Growth World

- Blending or Merging in Partnership

- How to not lose your True Self in the context of Committed Partnership

Mollys Instagram: @mollymoonrise

Mollys Website: https://www.rootbalancerise.com

YOU ME & WE: https://www.rootbalancerise.com/the-me-the-we

Molly is a multifaceted, shape-shifting facilitator of alignment & activation. Her passion in this world lies in unleashing herself from societal expectations, conditioning, and programming in order to access more of the spectrum of life.

Her journey inward began in 2011 and is a lifelong pathway of exploration, play, and drinking in the nectar of each moment. Her unrelenting dedication to personal inquiry has led her down many pathways of healing, including yoga, dance, sacred sexuality, medicine making, energy work, and harmonizing with the rhythms of Nature & the elements.

The central axis of her work lies in helping others occupy the allness of themselves. Living as divinity in form requires us to occupy our divine masculine and feminine energies with ferocious, oscillating balance. Through learning both polarities at a cellular level, you are able to activate what is needed in the moment, dancing gracefully between surrender and action.

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