Have you ever thought that the standard between men and women are anything but equal?

I. Objectification:

A. Male Porn/Female Porn -Yes most men watch porn. Men are biologically wired toward visual stimuli and are psychologically pushed to it with the media and social pressures. This is in the form of advertisements and the hookup culture. But wait there is female Porn too...

i.https://www.vice.com/en_nz/article/bm9w7v/why-are-so-many-women-searching-for-ultra-violent-porn

B. Objectifying women is bad!

i. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/nfl-player-sues-united-airlines-alleges-woman-sexually-assaulted-them-n1211336

ii. http://thelibertarianrepublic.com/male-bartenders-continually-groped-by-female-customers-forced-to-change-kilts/

C. Physical Standards

i. Weight - Males - Body Shaming

1) https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3732096/Mexican-gymnast-weighs-just-99LBS-targets-vicious-body-shamers-cruel-tweets-labeling-fat-comparing-pig.html

2) https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3731786/Breathe-Remember-Eric-Eel-Meet-Robel-Whale-Ethiopian-swimmer-displays-non-athletic-paunch-100-metres-finishes-half-lap.html

ii. Height - Females

1) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/after-service/201909/5-reasons-why-women-and-men-care-about-height

2) (Warning Contains strong language) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vn4XiENDy88

II. Men are not permitted a moment of weakness. Men shouldn't cry or they should "Man UP", or "Suck It Up". Double standard, but then women complain that men don't show emotion. This is the perfect Catch 22, masculine men are misogynistic and mean but soy boys are cry babies.

III. Abuse

A. Physical Abuse -Women justify male abuse with what I call the Abuse excuse - They say things like: "He must have wanted it". Another is the Lucky stud myth - "if he didn't like it he must be gay" or, "she must have been ugly" or, and multiple more. All to justify it.

i. https://domestic-violence-law.com/men-or-women-who-usually-instigates/

ii. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/domestic-violence-women-statistics-number-trebles-female-violence-against-partners-a7316481.html

IV. Equality

A. Suicide is not equal

"Suicides increase as the pressures of the male role and hormones increase. Before puberty, the suicide rates among males and females are about equal. However, between ten and fourteen, boys commit suicide at almost twice the rate of girls. Between fifteen and nineteen, boys commit suicide at four times the rate of girls; and between twenty and twenty-four, the rate of male suicide is between five and six times that of females." -Farrell, PhD, Warren. The Boy Crisis (p. 16). BenBella Books, Inc.. Kindle Edition. 

B. Stress is not Equal

"Is this because females are inherently better at handling stress? Perhaps not. When men and women are exposed to similar pressures to perform, as among men and women in the military, the female suicide rate soars almost as high as the male rate." - Farrell, PhD, Warren. The Boy Crisis (p. 17). BenBella Books, Inc.. Kindle Edition. - Alan Zarembo, “Suicide Rate of Female Military Veterans Is Called ‘Staggering,’” Los Angeles Times, June 8, 2015, http://latimes.com/nation/la-na-female-veteran-suicide-20150608-story.html. Female veterans commit 28.7 suicides for each 32.1 committed by male veterans.

C. Crime is not Equal

"Might the 700 percent increase in the 93 percent male prison population in the last half century mean that the way we our raising our sons in the last half century is leading to a deterioration in their mental health?" - Farrell, PhD, Warren. The Boy Crisis (p. 18). BenBella Books, Inc.. Kindle Edition. 

1) Men twice as likely as women to be given a harsher sentence in the judicial system.