📢 Today we honor the men who shaped us—not just our dads, but every man who showed up with love, protection, and presence.
In this episode of Female Voices: Life & Loss, hosts LaWayna Berry and Teresa Reiniger explore the deeply personal and often complex emotions surrounding Father’s Day. Through raw, honest reflection, they share how fathers, stepfathers, godfathers, and male mentors have left a lasting imprint on their lives, not just through presence, but through support, guidance, and emotional availability.
Teresa reflects on her father’s strong work ethic, unwavering faith, and consistent love, while LaWayna shares how a village of men stepped up to fill the father-shaped space in her life, offering protection, encouragement, and invaluable life lessons. Together, they highlight how the presence or absence of strong male figures shapes our emotional development, relationships, and self-worth.
This conversation emphasizes the importance of intentionality in relationships, how small, consistent acts of love and support can echo through generations. It’s a tribute to the men who show up with quiet strength and deep care, and a reminder of how fatherhood can be redefined and reclaimed in powerful ways. Whether you are grieving, celebrating, or simply remembering this Father’s Day, this episode holds space for the full spectrum of love and loss, and the resilience that emerges from both.
🎧 Tune in and let’s honor the men who’ve molded us, celebrated us, and believed in us, even through cracks and challenges. Until next time on Female Voices: Life & Loss, may gratitude guide your heart.
Key Topics Discussed:
✔️ Reflections on biological fathers vs. father figures
✔️ Contrasting experiences of Father's Day: celebration, grief, or something in between
✔️ The value of being present and showing up, regardless of blood ties
✔️ Modeling healthy relationships: fighting, reconciling, and staying committed
✔️ Passing on wisdom: faith, work ethic, and legacy-building
Key Takeaways:
✅ Presence Over Perfection: Showing up consistently and wholeheartedly, often makes the most profound difference. Its presence, not perfection, that leaves a lasting impact.
✅ Grief and Celebration Can Coexist: Father’s Day and similar milestones often bring bittersweet emotions. We can honor the joy and the pain, holding both celebration and sorrow in the same space.
✅ Resilience Is a Legacy: Watching fathers and mentors navigate conflict, repair, and growth teaches us grit, hope, and the power of intentional living. These lessons ripple across generations.
✅ Fatherhood Holds Many Faces: Stepparents, grandfathers, coaches, or a friend’s dad, father figures come in all forms. Each one contributes to our emotional and spiritual growth.
✅ Values Outlive Us: Traits like generosity, faith, service, and dedication aren’t just taught, they’re lived. The true legacy of a father figure is the way these values carry forward long after they’re gone.
Quotes to Remember:
💭 “He would whistle like different types of birds … that’s what I think of.” —Teresa on her father
💭 “Broken people attract broken people … we don’t learn that muscle of resilience and grit.” —LaWayna
💭 “He’ll turn off that phone… I’m here. You know, and very, very present.” —LaWayna on her stepdad’s presence
Mentions:
Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth and her Instruction of a Father https://www.reviveourhearts.com/articles/instruction-father/?srsltid=AfmBOoqDREqhC8xYSVycnt_RUbXZdo1pumMRK07CLWrXKC-3rqkvKdzf
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