What does it look like to keep living when life hits you back-to-back with unimaginable loss?
In this candid and deeply honest conversation, Teresa and Wayna sit down with Coach Tabasha A. Davis — “Coach T” — certified life coach, speaker, and author, who shares her lived experience with grief, trauma, and rebuilding life from the bottom up. Coach T opens up about losing her son at 27, navigating eight additional family losses in the same year, and relying on coping skills she learned long before tragedy arrived. She breaks down what “healing out loud” really means, why trauma responses often feel like personality, and how generational wealth begins with mindset, emotional health, and accountability. This conversation brings truth, compassion, and tools for anyone walking through grief or personal transformation.
⭐ Guest: Coach Tabasha A. Davis (“Coach T”)
Life coach • Motivational speaker • Founder of I Am Changing Life Coach Services LLC • Author of Transformational Healing
Workbook: Starting From the Bottom Now I’m Here
Memorable Quotes
● “When life comes, death comes — it’s all about how you loved people while they were living.” — Coach Tabasha A. Davis
● “My coping skills didn’t start during the loss. They started long before the tragedy.” — Coach Tabasha A. Davis
● “You’re asking for healing, but you’re still holding on to habits that came from trauma.” — Coach Tabasha A. Davis
● “Poverty is a mindset. Generational wealth starts in your mind, not your bank account.” — Coach Tabasha A. Davis
● “You can’t grieve like someone else — you must grieve the relationship YOU had.” — Coach Tabasha A. Davis
● “Healing out loud means telling the truth about what your depression or grief actually looks like.” — Coach Tabasha A. Davis
● “As long as God deems you necessary, He’s going to wake you up.” — Coach Tabasha A. Davis
● “Just because you’ve done something all your life doesn’t mean it’s healthy.” — Teresa Reiniger
● “Two things can be true — you can function and still struggle.” — Wayna Berry
Topics Discussed
● Grieving a child and multiple family losses
● Building coping skills before tragedy
● Trauma responses vs. personality traits
● Guilt and shame in grief
● Generational wealth from a mindset perspective
● Motherhood, loss, and identity
● Healing out loud and breaking stigma
● Recognizing your emotional limits
● Community, faith, and personal resilience
Key Takeaways
● Coping skills are built long before grief arrives.
● Your grief is personal — you cannot compare it with others.
● Trauma responses often feel like “normal behavior,” even when unhealthy.
● Generational wealth begins in the mind, not the wallet.
● Healing out loud helps others feel safe to acknowledge their own pain.
● Self-awareness is critical in navigating triggers and emotional overload.
Mentions & Shoutouts
● I Am Changing Life Coach Services LLC
● Transformational Healing Workbook: Starting From the Bottom Now I’m Here
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