Kat and Phoebe discuss a certain comedienne's May-December relationship that was (or, possibly, wasn't), the forever war over Sydney Sweeney's genes, and whether anti-woke signaling as advertising strategy is a terrible mistake, or just a happy little accident.

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Kat on the Sydney Sweeney debacle: Hot Girl Wears Denim, Fourth Reich Imminent

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Kat and Phoebe welcome special guest Leigh Stein for a discussion of female heterosexual rejection, gothic age gap relationships, and crying on TikTok in the attention economy.

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Leigh's new book, If You're Seeing This It's Meant for You, releases August 26! Order it here to get the bonus gift of cool limited-edition tarot card stickers:

If You're Seeing This, It's Meant for You by Leigh Stein | Madison Street Books

Or on Amazon if you're basic:

If You're Seeing This, It's Meant for You: A Novel eBook : Stein, Leigh

Leigh's essay on the art of creating a brooding, lust-worthy middle aged man:

Previously on Feminine Chaos:

Kat and Phoebe discuss Canadian sex trials and American teen models.

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Submit your AMA questions here!

Straight outta Canadian courtrooms:

Kat and Phoebe discuss the latest in "heterofatalism", how to write about heterosexuality without oversharing about your sex life, and the viral jumbotron sex scandal with shades of the 1990s-era L'Affaire Bobbitt.

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She tried an open marriage: Scenes from an Open Marriage

It didn't work out: The Trouble With Wanting Men - The New York Times

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Kat and Phoebe discuss pretty princesses, culturally appropriative restaurants, and how incredibly hot Donald Trump would look doing pilates.

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Kat and Phoebe discuss a new memoir by a self-described nepo baby, the locker room norms that place modesty downstream of anatomy, and the scandalous college box-checking of one NYC mayoral candidate.

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Phoebe's review: The art monster's daughter: Molly Jong-Fast's new memoir pans Erica Jong's parenting

Kat on the angle of the dangle: On evolutionary …

Early access for paid subscribers! Kat and Phoebe discuss lowkey "choice" lesbians, being a "kid" in your mid-20s (and beyond), and the various and sundry meanings of "virgin."

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Lowkey, I Chose To Be a Lesbian | Autostraddle

We Messed Up | Autostraddle

So-called “ex-gay” causes controversy – Chicago Maroon

Kat and Phoebe discuss our alleged mass epidemic of missing, or at least absent, men, and the women who love them (except: do they, though?) Also: settling, compromise, and a debate over how to properly dispense with a contaminated toaster.

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Men, Where Have You Gone? Please Come Back. - The New York Times

American Women Are Giving Up on Marriage - WSJ

Kat and Phoebe discuss the new film Materialists and marrying rich, the O.G. (and long-lived) Jewish sitcom The Goldbergs, the difference between Dakota Fanning and Dakota Johnson, whether “nepo baby” is a slur, and the eggshells upon which artists may or may not have walked/ be currently walking/ will continue to walk in the future.

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Can Any Woman …

Kat and Phoebe discuss intimacy coordinators, rodent men, and the mechanism whereby certain left-wing things begat a certain orange man.

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The Real Reason Actresses Are Rejecting Intimacy Coordinators

The mechanism

Are Liberals to Blame for the New McCarthyism? - The Atlantic

Opinion | I Don’t Want to Watch Slavery Fan Fiction - The New York Times