Kat and Phoebe discuss the latest in "heterofatalism", how to write about heterosexuality without oversharing about your sex life, and the viral jumbotron sex scandal with shades of the 1990s-era L'Affaire Bobbitt.

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She tried an open marriage: Scenes from an Open Marriage

It didn't work out: The Trouble With Wanting Men - The New York Times

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Kat and Phoebe discuss pretty princesses, culturally appropriative restaurants, and how incredibly hot Donald Trump would look doing pilates.

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Kat and Phoebe discuss a new memoir by a self-described nepo baby, the locker room norms that place modesty downstream of anatomy, and the scandalous college box-checking of one NYC mayoral candidate.

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Phoebe's review: The art monster's daughter: Molly Jong-Fast's new memoir pans Erica Jong's parenting

Kat on the angle of the dangle: On evolutionary …

Early access for paid subscribers! Kat and Phoebe discuss lowkey "choice" lesbians, being a "kid" in your mid-20s (and beyond), and the various and sundry meanings of "virgin."

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Lowkey, I Chose To Be a Lesbian | Autostraddle

We Messed Up | Autostraddle

So-called “ex-gay” causes controversy – Chicago Maroon

Kat and Phoebe discuss our alleged mass epidemic of missing, or at least absent, men, and the women who love them (except: do they, though?) Also: settling, compromise, and a debate over how to properly dispense with a contaminated toaster.

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Men, Where Have You Gone? Please Come Back. - The New York Times

American Women Are Giving Up on Marriage - WSJ

Kat and Phoebe discuss the new film Materialists and marrying rich, the O.G. (and long-lived) Jewish sitcom The Goldbergs, the difference between Dakota Fanning and Dakota Johnson, whether “nepo baby” is a slur, and the eggshells upon which artists may or may not have walked/ be currently walking/ will continue to walk in the future.

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Can Any Woman …

Kat and Phoebe discuss intimacy coordinators, rodent men, and the mechanism whereby certain left-wing things begat a certain orange man.

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The Real Reason Actresses Are Rejecting Intimacy Coordinators

The mechanism

Are Liberals to Blame for the New McCarthyism? - The Atlantic

Opinion | I Don’t Want to Watch Slavery Fan Fiction - The New York Times

Early access for premium subscribers! Kat and Phoebe discuss a straight lady court victory, a puckish (and very symmetrical) student journalist, and a grotesque act of botanical sabotage.

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Supreme Court Unanimously Rules for Straight Woman in Workplace Discrimination Suit

Straight out of DOGE

A Student at Brown Channeled Elon Musk. Then He Got in Trouble.

How to become a right-wing star? Harass people

Carnage:

Kat and Phoebe discuss the state of Anne Hathaway's eyebrows, the downsides of celebrity, the end of diet culture, and the MeTooing of a certain journalist. (Hashtag MeToo, hashtag BLM!)

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The bad Anne Hathaway take, archived for your pleasure: https://archive.is/1lUm5

Phoebe on Anne's detractor: Envy-pity

And on Wesley Lowery: Objectives

Journalists At…

Kat and Phoebe discuss what's right about built-in bookshelves, what's wrong with water aerobics, what's for sale on OnlyFans, and the time one of us sent nudes by carrier pigeon.

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The built-in bookshelf of Phoebe's dreams:

(via: The Group Behind Project 2025 Has a Plan to Crush the Pro-Palestinian Movement)

No-cis-men, no-sleep-deprivation dance part…