In our final installment of Sex & Love month, we discuss research about LGBTQA+ advice columns and offer up some queer advice of our own (cribbing from existing columns, for fun).

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Intro: "Top Floor" GRRRL PRTY

Spliced in: "Gold Mine Gutted" Bright Eyes

Outro: "Gas Light" Sister Species Live on Radio K

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WTF POWER!

**Second upload of this episode--the original got taken down by Soundcloud. Apologies for the clutter on your feed!**

Molly Woodstock (host, Gender Reveal) joins us to talk about asexuality and the ace spectrum. They talk different kind of attractions (platonic, aesthetic, romantic, sexual), myths about asexual people, and more! Plus, they join us for RWLs.

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Intro: "Top Floor" GRRRL PRTY

Tiny sample of SZA & Kendrick "All the Stars"

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This episode is sponsored by the MA in Critical Studies Program at the Pacific Northwest College of Art. Because we need to interrogate, intervene, and reimagine like never before. For more information or to apply visit pnca.edu/criticalstudies

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For our second episode of Sex & Love month, Melody and Raechel talk about the essay "Thinking Sex: Notes for a Radical Theory of the Politics of Sexuality" by Gayle Rubin. Topics of discussion include marginalized sex, children and sexuality, and obscenity law. Listener discretion is advised (particularly in regards to children and sex, which happens towards the end of our discussion).

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Time stamps:

Chit-chat through about 7 minutes

Discussion 10-47minutes

RWLs 54-end

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Intro: "Top Floor" GRRRL PRTY

Spliced in: "Careless Whisper" George Michael

Outro: "Carry You" Novo Amor

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This episode is sponsored by the MA in Critical Studies Program at the Pacific Northwest College of Art. Because we need to interrogate, intervene, and reimagine like never before. For more information or to apply visit pnca.edu/criticalstudies

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For our first episode of Sex & Love month, Melody and Raechel talk to sex worker Zea Kenall about doing BDSM work as a queer, black woman. We address the politics of kink, the freedom of sex work labor, how Zea sometimes demands her subs to read Audre Lorde, and much more!

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Time stamps:

Chit-chat through about 10 minutes

Interview ~10-47minutes

RWLs 47-end

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Intro: "Top Floor" GRRRL PRTY

Outro: "Let's Talk About Sex" Salt n' Pepa

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This episode is sponsored by the MA in Critical Studies Program at the Pacific Northwest College of Art. Because we need to interrogate, intervene, and reimagine like never before. For more information or to apply visit pnca.edu/criticalstudies

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NOTE ON SOUND QUALITY: We had a rough patch with recording this week, we know there's a bit of echo at some parts. We're on it!

Melody and Raechel take time to address the Aziz Ansari article (and the responses that followed), and answer listener questions about reconciling potentially-conflicting political ideologies (militant Marxism and transformative justice), feminism and make-up, "toxic femininity", and more. Plus, Accountability Corner is back to address autism on last week's episode.

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INTRO: "Top Floor" GRRRL PRTY

Middle: "Comrade" Volcano Choir; "For Today" Jessica Lea Mayfield

OUTRO: "In Green" Volcano, I'm Still Excited!

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WTF (women/trans/femme) POWER!

In this episode, we talk with the owner and creative director of Fox Den Salon (Minneapolis), Sica Dawn. Sica talks about how her salon works to accommodate people's sensory needs and what she did to cut the gender binary out of her services.

Timestamps:

0-13 min: chit-chat

13-48: Interview with Sica

48-1:00: RWLs

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INTRO: "Top Floor" GRRRL PRTY

OUTRO: "Human" Rag'n'Bone Man

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WTF (women/trans/femme) POWER!

We are so excited to use this episode as an opportunity to share friend-of-the-show Molly Woodstock's new podcast, Gender Reveal. Gender reveal is "a queer podcast that centers non-binary, transgender, and gender nonconforming folks." Molly and their guests try to answer the question, "What even is gender?" We loved Molly's first podcast (Smash Everything) and we are even more blown away with this one! We think you will be too. Subscribe to Gender Reveal and, if you're able, donate to the Gender Reveal Patreon!

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New FKJPHD ep will be up Tuesday!

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Partially inspired by the Girls Rock Campaign Boston after school BEATS program, Raechel and Melody talk youth media production. Using Sarah Banet-Weiser's essay Branding the Post-Feminist Self: Girls’ Video Production and YouTube," as a guide, Mel and Raechel debate agency, wax nostalgic on Riot Grrrrl, and even sneak in some Foucault.

Timestamps:

0-17min: chit-chat

17-49:50min: main discussion

49:50-58: RWLs

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INTRO: "Top Floor" GRRRL PRTY

OUTRO: "Just for Us" Francis & The Lights

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WTF (women/trans/femme) POWER!

Partially inspired by the Girls Rock Campaign Boston after school BEATS program, Raechel and Melody talk youth media production. Using Sarah Banet-Weiser's essay Branding the Post-Feminist Self: Girls’ Video Production and YouTube," as a guide, Mel and Raechel debate agency, wax nostalgic on Riot Grrrrl, and even sneak in some Foucault.

Timestamps:

0-17min: chit-chat

17-49:50min: main discussion

49:50-58: RWLs

Check out our newsletter for relevant links!

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INTRO: "Top Floor" GRRRL PRTY

OUTRO: "Just for Us" Francis & The Lights

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WTF (women/trans/femme) POWER!

Today we have the pleasure of closing out 2017 with some intentions, resolutions, and revolutions from our FKJPHD family. We gathered voicemails from killjoys who want to practice radical self-love, go on more dates, engage with transformative justice, do less, let go of what doesn't serve them, and much much more. We hope you enjoy. <3

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INTRO: "Top Floor" GRRRL PRTY

THROUGHOUT: "Acid Rain" Chance the Rapper (instrumental -InstrumenalKing1); "The Weekend" SZA (instrumental - 4orty7Visions); "Cranes in the Sky" Solange (instrumental - Joey Treats); "Aud Lang Syne" Kenny G (because Raechel is a sentimental sap)

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CALL US MAYBE? New Voicemail number :: 414-858-7818

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WTF (women/trans/femme) POWER!