At some point, training stops feeling like a hobby… and starts becoming your entire life.

In Episode 21 of Field Notes from The Proving, I talk about the moment marathon training fully took over — the obsession, sacrifice, structure, and identity shift that happens when chasing a goal starts consuming everything around you.

January in New Jersey was cold, dark, and brutal. But by this point, I had already signed up for my first marathon and knew there was no turning back. I ran another half marathon effort at race pace (1:51:49 / 8:31 pace), intensified training, and started realizing that every decision in life was beginning to revolve around running, recovery, discipline, and proving something to myself.

This episode is about:

This isn’t about perfection.

It’s about proving to yourself that you’re capable of more than you thought possible.

The work continues.

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January isn’t where motivation shows up.

In Episode 20 of Field Notes from The Proving, I break down the real start of my 2025 transformation — not the goals, not the declarations, but the systems that followed.

After writing down my goals on December 31st, January became the proving ground.

This was the month where everything had to become real:

January was about one thing:

Because if you can build discipline in January…

This is not about perfection.

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What happens when you stop living for external validation… and finally decide to build a life that’s yours?

In this episode of Field Notes from The Proving, I break down the moment everything changed — not through action yet, but through decision.

2025 became The Goal Year.

After proving to myself in 2024 that discipline works, I asked a bigger question:

What would happen if I applied it to an entire year?

This episode explores:

This isn’t about training yet.

🎙️ This is Episode 19 of Field Notes from The Proving — the beginning of Act III.

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In this episode of Field Notes from The Proving, I break down the moment everything changed.

After completing two half marathons in 2024, I proved to myself that I could commit to something and follow through. But instead of feeling fulfilled… I still felt empty.

That realization led me to something deeper: a full life audit.

I started questioning everything — my habits, my mindset, my identity, and why I constantly felt the need to achieve more just to feel enough.

This episode dives into:

If you’ve ever hit a goal and thought, “Why don’t I feel different?” — this episode is for you.

This is about more than running.

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What happens after the race is over… and before the next chapter begins?

In this episode of Field Notes from The Proving, Chris reflects on the quiet stretch between December 21st and New Year’s — after completing the Annapolis Half Marathon and stepping into an unexpected pause.

No training plan.

This episode explores the reality of the “in-between” — when momentum slows, discipline softens, and life becomes less about performance and more about reflection.

From stepping away from running to focusing on the gym, to trying something completely new like crocheting, this is about what it means to exist without chasing something… even for a moment.

If you’ve ever:

This episode is for you.

For runners.

Because not every chapter is loud.

Some are just… still.

#TheProven

What happens when you prove something… and still don’t believe it?

In this episode of Field Notes from The Proving, Chris shares the story of running his second half marathon — the Annapolis Half Marathon — just one month after his first.

After proving to himself in Norfolk that he could do it, this race became something different:

• A test of consistency

From training through freezing winter conditions…

This episode explores the darker side of discipline:

When achievement stops feeling like arrival…

This is for the runners.

And the ones learning that maybe…

proof was never the point.

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What happens after you achieve something big… and then the feeling disappears?

In this episode of Field Notes from The Proving, Chris explores the unexpected emotional crash after completing his first sub-2 hour half marathon — and the quiet doubt that follows.

After the excitement fades and life returns to normal, a new question takes over:

Was it real… or was it just beginner’s luck?

This episode dives into:

If you’ve ever:

This episode is for you.

This isn’t about one race.

The work continues.

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What happens after you finish your first half marathon?

In Episode 14 of Field Notes from The Proving, Chris explores the quiet, unexpected moment that follows a major achievement — when the race is over, the training stops, and something inside you has shifted.

From the physical aftermath (sore legs, tight hamstrings) to the emotional reality (recounting the race, taking inventory of who showed up, and facing the question “what’s next?”), this episode captures the transition from external validation to internal proof.

This isn’t about the finish line.

It’s about the moment you realize you’ve become someone who follows through.

If you’ve ever:

this episode is for you.

This is The Aftermath — the moment where discipline becomes identity.

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What does it feel like to run your first half marathon… and realize you’re capable of more than you ever expected?

In this episode of Field Notes from The Proving, Chris shares the full story of running the Norfolk Half Marathon (13.1 miles) — from the chaotic race morning and pre-race anxiety to the moment everything changed mid-run.

What started as a casual plan to run alongside family quickly turned into something deeper.

A shift.

A realization.

A competitive edge that couldn’t be turned off.

This episode dives into:

• Race day nerves and perfectionism before the start

But more than that…

This is a story about identity.

Because sometimes you don’t just complete a race —

you discover a version of yourself you didn’t know existed.

This episode is for:

Runners.

Because the first real proof…

isn’t the medal.

It’s who you become earning it.

What does the night before a big moment actually feel like?

In this episode of Field Notes from The Proving, Chris shares the real story behind the days leading up to his first half marathon in Norfolk — not just the training, but everything around it.

From a chaotic road trip through pouring rain…

This episode explores the tension between discipline and letting go.

If you’ve ever prepared for something meaningful — a race, a career move, a personal challenge — you know the feeling:

• The overthinking

And most importantly…

the realization that the moment isn’t just about performance — it’s about who you share it with.

This is for the runners.

Because the night before…

is where the real proving begins.