Trapped in the Scroll: Social Media, Sanctification & the Search for Real Connection

Is social media just a tool—or a trap? In this episode, Becky, Zer, and special guest Marty get honest about their personal struggles, convictions, and boundaries around social media. From doom scrolling and digital addiction to ghost notifications and algorithmic rabbit holes, they unpack how social media affects our minds, hearts, and spiritual lives.

They ask real questions:

• Can Christians redeem social media?
• How do you know when it’s time to take a break—or quit completely?
• Are you chasing analytics or changed lives?

With biblical wisdom and vulnerable storytelling, they offer practical ways to stay grounded, set healthy rhythms, and use social media for God's glory—not your own. Whether you're all in, off the grid, or somewhere in between, this episode will challenge you to rethink how you scroll, post, and engage.

📖 Scriptures Mentioned:

• Hebrews 10:22–25 – “Do not neglect meeting together…”
• Matthew 6:1 – “Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others…”
• Psalm 46:10 – “Be still and know that I am God.”
• 1 Corinthians 13 – Love over performance
• John 13:35 – They will know you by your love
• John 3:30 – “He must increase, I must decrease”

💡 Practical Takeaways:

• Create more than you consume
• Set screen time limits (and stick to them!)
• Don’t let vanity metrics drive your message
• If it steals your peace, it might not be worth your attention

Is it time to unplug or repurpose your feed? Join the convo and find out.

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This episode invites us to see God’s image reflected in every culture and every kitchen through honest conversation and vulnerability. Becky sits down with three women—Melissa (Filipino), Chris (Vietnamese), and Emily (Mien)—to explore the deep connections between heritage, hospitality, and Christian discipleship in their families.

Together, they reflect on cherished family recipes, the power of shared meals, and how their cultural upbringings have shaped their understanding of love, obedience, and community. You’ll laugh, learn, and probably get hungry as they share stories of cooking with their moms, the sacredness of soup, and why quail eggs are elite.

They also unpack deeper truths:

• How does culture shape the way we see and follow Jesus?
• What can we learn about God through someone else’s story, meal, or language?
• Why is celebrating diversity more than a trend—and actually central to the gospel?

📖 Scriptures Mentioned:

• Matthew 28:19 – The call to make disciples of all nations
• Revelation 7:9 – A vision of heaven filled with every tribe, tongue, and people
• John 14:15 – “If you love me, you will obey my commandments”
• Genesis 1:27 – Created in the image of God

💡 Practical Encouragement:

• Be curious about other cultures with humility and honor
• Use food as a bridge to deeper conversation and friendship
• Don’t assume—ask questions and listen well
• Celebrate the ways different cultures reflect the character of God
• Remember: hospitality is holy, and every culture has something to teach us about Jesus

Whether you’re new to cultural conversations or passionate about diversity, this episode is a warm invitation to see the gospel through the lens of family, food, and faith.

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Takeaways:

• The communal aspect of dining is vital to understanding the Mien, Vietnamese, and Filipino cultures, as it symbolizes togetherness and shared experiences.
• Each culture discussed in this episode has unique dishes that reflect their history, heritage, and values, exemplified through food such as lumpia, yoi kuon, and kaboon.
• The importance of hospitality is a core value in Filipino culture, where inviting others to share a meal illustrates love and community.
• Understanding and embracing diverse cultural backgrounds is crucial for fostering connections and spreading the message of Jesus across different communities.

Evangelism can feel intimidating—especially if you’re introverted, don’t feel “gifted,” or worry about saying the wrong thing.

In this episode, Becky and Zer sit down with special guest Nichole Sostre to talk about the call to share our faith: is it optional? What if I don’t feel a burden for the lost? Does disobedience in evangelism count as sin?

With honest stories, biblical wisdom, and lots of laughter, they unpack:

• Why evangelism isn’t just for the “gifted”
• How to engage people with authenticity, not pressure
• What it means to obey God in the small nudges
• How to grow your boldness and spiritual muscle
• Why the gospel is too good to keep to ourselves
• Evangelism is not merely a requirement but an invitation to participate in God's mission.
• Sharing one's faith is a reflection of obedience to the command of Jesus Christ.
• Introversion should not hinder one's ability to evangelize; it can shape how one shares their faith.
• The act of evangelism is rooted in love, aiming to share the transformative power of the Gospel with others.

📖 Scriptures Mentioned:

• Matthew 28:18–20 – The Great Commission
• Romans 12 & Ephesians 4 – Gifts and roles in the body
• Jude 1:24–25 – The glory of God in salvation
• James 4:17 – To know and not do is sin
• Matthew 10:33 – Honoring Christ before others
• Hebrews 10:26–27 – The weight of willful disobedience

💡 Practical Encouragement:

• Ask God to break your heart for what breaks His.
• Let obedience be your reward, not results.
• Don’t go alone—evangelize in community.
• Keep your eyes open and your prayers bold.
• The church is Plan A—there is no Plan B.

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Gossip might feel harmless—just “sharing” or “processing”—but it can quietly destroy relationships, hearts, and trust. In this episode, Becky and Zer dive into the sneaky ways gossip shows up in our lives—whether it’s disguised as a prayer request, masked as concern, or shared under the label of “processing.”

They explore important questions:

• What actually counts as gossip?
• Are you responsible if you just listen to it?
• How do you respond when you’re the one gossiping, the bystander, or the one being gossiped about?
• Gossip, often regarded as a social norm, can have damaging effects on relationships and community dynamics.
• Understanding the definition of gossip is imperative to discern when it becomes harmful or unhelpful in conversations.
• It is essential to approach discussions about others with a mindset of honor and respect, rather than judgment or criticism.
• Engaging in gossip not only reflects poorly on the speaker but can also undermine the integrity of the community as a whole.

Through vulnerable stories and biblical wisdom, they unpack how gossip reveals the condition of our hearts and why honoring others—especially when they're not in the room—matters deeply to God.

📖 Scriptures Mentioned:

• Proverbs 16:27–28 – “A gossip separates close friends…”
• James 3 & 4:11 – On the power of the tongue and slander
• Romans 1:28–32 – How gossip is listed among sins that break relationship with God
• Galatians 5:16–26 – Walking by the Spirit vs. gratifying the flesh
• James 2:12–13 & 1 Peter 2:9 – On mercy, identity, and living as God’s chosen people
• Matthew 5:23–24 – The call to be reconciled before offering your gift

💡 Practical Tips:

• Keep your processing circle small and spiritually mature
• Guard your words—especially when you're hurt
• Ask the Holy Spirit to check your heart before you speak
• When in doubt: pray instead of pass the info
• If someone gossips to you—change the subject, redirect, or lovingly shut it down

Whether you've been the gossiper, the bystander, or the one gossiped about, this episode reminds us all: there’s grace, redemption, and a better way forward. Don’t miss it.

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Welcome to the season finale of season 2! Whether you're in a season of singleness, dating, engagement, or marriage, this episode goes into the struggles & questions that come up in every season.

How can you invest in others who are in different relationship seasons? How can you be sanctified in each season? What qualities really matter in a spouse?

Join us for an authentic conversation with our hosts Becky & Zer, as well as two special guests, Carlos Teixeira & Bethany Rondon. Carlos is Becky's husband and the North Arlington Campus Pastor, and Bethany is Becky's best friend and the Receptionist/Facilities Assistant at Fielder. And when you put all four of these friends on a podcast, you know it's going to be a good time! We hope you enjoy listening!

**We encountered some audio issues around minute 33. Sorry for the inconvenience.**

Recommended Resources:

• Becoming One (Podcast)

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Why does God allow bad things to happen to good people? How can we 'suffer well' as Christians? Listen to this episode, where we discuss how to handle really painful circumstances, like incurable illness, infertility, and death, in light of God's goodness.

We've invited a special guest to join us this week, too! Maddie Huang is the Communications Director at Fielder Church and shares her 6-year journey with infertility.

If you are walking through infertility, we encourage you to connect with community and share your story and struggle with fellow believers. Don't bear this burden alone.

Recommended Resources:

• Longing for Motherhood by Chelsea Patterson Sobolik

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Watch Worship Wars Part 1 - Here

We have a special guest today to discuss how worship music preferences & traditions have caused a divide in the church! Erick Sostre is the Worship Operations Pastor at Fielder Church and a student at Dallas Theological Seminary, seeking to be equipped to teach and lead others in their pursuit of Jesus Christ.

Is there a right or wrong way to worship? Is corporate worship bad? Listen to what styles of worship our hosts grew up with. They encourage us not to let our 'preferences' distract from why and who we worship.

Worship can be a controversial topic in the church. Worship is more than the musical element in a church service; it is our response to God because of who He is and what He has done. We hope this episode gives you a new perspective on worship that is rooted in scripture.

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We have a special guest today to discuss how worship music preferences & traditions have caused a divide in the church! Erick Sostre is the Worship Operations Pastor at Fielder Church and a student at Dallas Theological Seminary, seeking to be equipped to teach and lead others in their pursuit of Jesus Christ.

What is worship? Why are people so territorial over a certain style of worship? Is loud and modern music irreverent to a sovereign and majestic God?  Is heavily produced or showman-style worship bad?  

Worship can be a controversial topic in the church. Worship is more than the musical element in a church service, it is our response to God because of who He is and what He has done. We hope this episode gives you a new perspective on worship that is rooted in scripture.

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We have a special guest today as we discuss theology! Erick Sostre is currently a student at Dallas Theological Seminary where he is seeking to be equipped to teach and lead others in their pursuit of Jesus Christ. 

Theology is the study of religious faith, practice, and experience, especially the study of God and of God's relation to the world.

In this episode, we discuss the question: "Is theology relevant to "everyday" Christians?" By "everyday," we mean people who don't attend seminary, who aren't small group leaders, and who aren't lead pastors of megachurches. Is it relevant and necessary? Should it matter to every Christian? If so, then why are people so haughty and prideful about it? Can you truly seek God and not get all involved in the mess of politics and theology?

📖 Resources Mentioned

• "Who Needs Theology?" by Stanley J. Grenz & Roger E. Olsen
• "Knowing Faith" Podcast by Jen Wilkin, JT English, and Kyle Worley.

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Have you ever been bitter at God? Do you feel like you're allowed to wrestle with being angry at God? What about being angry and bitter at people you love? We talk a little more in-depth about bitterness and how you can find freedom from it.

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