Stepping into a play party? Preparation is everything. I’m joined by Victoria Joseph, Founder of Birds of a Feather Matchmaking, certified matchmaker, dating strategist, veteran, and passionate ENM educator. We break down mindset, intentions, boundaries, body care, testing, and the ultimate “just in case” bag—so you can show up confident, clear, safe, and ready to connect boldly and play intentionally.

Fifty Shades of Bullshit is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM PT on K4HD Radio - Hollywood Talk Radio (www.k4hd.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Fifty Shades of Bullshit TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).

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Joining us this week is Men’s dating & emotional intelligence coach Chris Gillis.  Chris helps analytical, high-achieving men stop overthinking and build real connections, Chris and I will be unpacking why so many men feel lonely in modern dating, what skills they were never taught, and how they can create genuine attraction and relationships.  www.ConsultantChris.com

Fifty Shades of Bullshit is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM PT on K4HD Radio - Hollywood Talk Radio (www.k4hd.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Fifty Shades of Bullshit TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).

Fifty Shades of Bullshit Podcast is also available on Talk 4 Media (www.talk4media.com), Talk 4 Podcasting (www.talk4podcasting.com), iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, Pandora, Spotify, Audible, and over 100 other podcast outlets.

This week we’re diving into the father wound and how your first experience of love shaped every relationship that followed. Dawn Richard joins us to unpack sexual trauma, generational patterns, people-pleasing, codependency, and self-abandonment. We talk grief, forgiveness, re-parenting your inner child, and how to rewrite your love blueprint so you can finally create healthier, fulfilling relationships and a life you actually love.

Fifty Shades of Bullshit is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM PT on K4HD Radio - Hollywood Talk Radio (www.k4hd.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Fifty Shades of Bullshit TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).

Fifty Shades of Bullshit Podcast is also available on Talk 4 Media (www.talk4media.com), Talk 4 Podcasting (www.talk4podcasting.com), iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, Pandora, Spotify, Audible, and over 100 other podcast outlets.

Done repeating the same relationship mistakes? It’s time to call bullshit on the idea that insight alone will save you. Divorce coach Kristen Alderson reveals why smart women get stuck in cycles and how to stop. Learn to strategically design your life first, so dating fits into your world—not the other way around. We're talking practical strategy, not just emotional recovery, to finally move from survival mode to intentional, powerful choices in life and love.

Fifty Shades of Bullshit is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM PT on K4HD Radio - Hollywood Talk Radio (www.k4hd.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Fifty Shades of Bullshit TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).

Fifty Shades of Bullshit Podcast is also available on Talk 4 Media (www.talk4media.com), Talk 4 Podcasting (www.talk4podcasting.com), iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, Pandora, Spotify, Audible, and over 100 other podcast outlets.

This week on Fifty Shades of Bullshit, Chantal Landreville returns to unpack why we keep attracting emotionally unavailable men. A dating and relationship expert, author, and founder of Raise Your Love Signal, Chantal breaks down the patterns, blind spots, and bullshit beliefs that keep us stuck—and how to finally change the signal we’re sending.

Fifty Shades of Bullshit is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM PT on K4HD Radio - Hollywood Talk Radio (www.k4hd.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Fifty Shades of Bullshit TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).

Fifty Shades of Bullshit Podcast is also available on Talk 4 Media (www.talk4media.com), Talk 4 Podcasting (www.talk4podcasting.com), iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, Pandora, Spotify, Audible, and over 100 other podcast outlets.

This week on Fifty Shades of Bullshit, Christine and Janice Formichella dive into Sex in the Media. From the 2025 “Kink of the Year” to a couple having sex in an MRI for science, a quarterback 30-30 by abstinence, the rise of the “Goonies” sex warning, plus sex trends and dating predictions for 2026. Media, myths, and messy desire—unfiltered.

Fifty Shades of Bullshit is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM PT on K4HD Radio - Hollywood Talk Radio (www.k4hd.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Fifty Shades of Bullshit TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).

Fifty Shades of Bullshit Podcast is also available on Talk 4 Media (www.talk4media.com), Talk 4 Podcasting (www.talk4podcasting.com), iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, Pandora, Spotify, Audible, and over 100 other podcast outlets.

Healing doesn’t feel sexy, and this solo live episode gets honest about why. Christine breaks down the unglamorous side of growth: withdrawing from old patterns, losing chaos, identity shifts, and why peace feels boring before it feels safe. If healing feels lonely, uncomfortable, or messy right now, this conversation is for you. Real talk, no filters, no guest—just truth.

Fifty Shades of Bullshit is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM PT on K4HD Radio - Hollywood Talk Radio (www.k4hd.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Fifty Shades of Bullshit TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).

Fifty Shades of Bullshit Podcast is also available on Talk 4 Media (www.talk4media.com), Talk 4 Podcasting (www.talk4podcasting.com), iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, Pandora, Spotify, Audible, and over 100 other podcast outlets.

Psilocybin has officially entered the legal chat. In this episode, Myles Katz, psychedelic pioneer and founder of Confluence Retreats, breaks down how mushrooms moved from underground to licensed, what Oregon’s legal model actually looks like, and how intentional, legal psychedelic experiences are reshaping mental health, haling and personal growth in the U.S. Breathwork session: confluenceretreats.org/renewal-breathwork / confluenceretreats.org

Fifty Shades of Bullshit is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM PT on K4HD Radio - Hollywood Talk Radio (www.k4hd.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Fifty Shades of Bullshit TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).

Fifty Shades of Bullshit Podcast is also available on Talk 4 Media (www.talk4media.com), Talk 4 Podcasting (www.talk4podcasting.com), iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, Pandora, Spotify, Audible, and over 100 other podcast outlets.

In Part 2 we explore what women secretly want in a husband. Christine and matchmaker May Bugenhagen break down the traits modern women value most, why dating feels harder today, and how men can build real connection. A direct, insightful look at love from the female perspective.

Fifty Shades of Bullshit is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM PT on K4HD Radio - Hollywood Talk Radio (www.k4hd.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Fifty Shades of Bullshit TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).

Fifty Shades of Bullshit Podcast is also available on Talk 4 Media (www.talk4media.com), Talk 4 Podcasting (www.talk4podcasting.com), iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, Pandora, Spotify, Audible, and over 100 other podcast outlets.

This week on fifty shades of bullshit we dive into what high-value men secretly want in a wife. Christine and expert matchmaker May Bugenhagen reveal why accomplished men struggle to date, what traits they truly seek, and how matchmaking helps them find real connection without wasting time.

Fifty Shades of Bullshit is broadcast live Thursdays at 4PM PT on K4HD Radio - Hollywood Talk Radio (www.k4hd.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (www.talk4radio.com) on the Talk 4 Media Network (www.talk4media.com). Fifty Shades of Bullshit TV Show is viewed on Talk 4 TV (www.talk4tv.com).

Fifty Shades of Bullshit Podcast is also available on Talk 4 Media (www.talk4media.com), Talk 4 Podcasting (www.talk4podcasting.com), iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, Pandora, Spotify, Audible, and over 100 other podcast outlets.