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What if everything you thought you knew about intimacy was wrong? In this eye-opening conversation with licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist Terica Lewis, we explore how our narrow understanding of intimacy creates relationship problems that many couples never fully address.

Most people immediately equate intimacy with sex, but as Terica brilliantly explains, "Intimacy is a conversation. Intimacy is how somebody makes you feel when you're not with them." This profound perspective shift unlocks a deeper understanding of why many relationships struggle despite seeming functional on the surface. When physical touch only happens during sex, partners miss countless opportunities for meaningful connection throughout their day—holding hands, sharing a spontaneous hug, or simply sitting close while watching TV.

The discussion takes fascinating turns as we examine why affairs happen (hint: it's rarely just about sexual dissatisfaction), the psychological burden of feeling unable to say "no" to sex, and how insecurity manifests differently across genders. Terica's insights illuminate how many people—particularly women—perform sexually out of obligation rather than desire, creating a cycle of resentment that further erodes genuine connection.

Perhaps most powerful is our exploration of "normal" and how the pursuit of normality prevents authentic self-expression. "What is weird?" Terica asks, challenging the very foundation of how we judge ourselves and others. This conversation reveals that true intimacy begins with self-knowledge—understanding your desires, boundaries, and what genuinely brings you joy.

Whether you're in a relationship or single, this episode offers invaluable perspective on how to create deeper connections through honest communication and meaningful touch. Subscribe now and join the conversation about what intimacy really means beyond the bedroom.

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The Motor City Hypnotist