If everybody is thinking the same way, then nobody is really thinking at all. You can play the blame game, tell the sob story, or throw your pity party...but none of that is actually going to change your situation. All it does is make you sound like everybody else that isn't happy with where they are. We know there are outliers that didn't have a say in their situation, but the bell curve doesn't lie. Your life is probably full of rewards, setbacks, downfalls, and comebacks...and almost all of them are your fault. Switch it up. Get outta your head, and outta your way.