Finding Proof with Dr Tess Crawley

Evan Carmichael and me TOGETHER in New York. Got to be my favourite conversation with Evan so far, and not just for all laughter. In this video I call out Evan’s tendency to intellectualise tricky emotion and teach him some tricks for getting real, vulnerable and present - which somehow turns into the #DrTessCrapChallenge 😆

How would you feel if you’d already achieved your goals? How would it influence the choices you make? Your behaviour? 

What if you consciously adopted the attitude to act as if your goals were already met?

What would that look like in terms of confidence, choices, behaviour, and the like-minded people you’d draw towards you? 

It’s not about “fake it til you make it”. It’s not about “manifestation”. It’s about adopting a success mindset and letting that guide you. 

How would you feel if you’d already achieved your goals? How would it influence the choices you make? Your behaviour? 

Here are a few lessons I picked up from David Bowie, Joan Jett, and Hollywood.

In this chat with Evan Carmichael, we talk about how hard it can tolerate unpleasant emotions. We pick apart a recent conversation Evan had with New York media guru, Hank Norman, and how that changed his usual coaching style. 

Your TEAM’S money mindset is just as important as your own. Perhaps even more so.

Do you have any idea what your team members think about charging their worth? Or your fee structure? Or your business' reliance on billable hours? 

It's time you did!

PARENTS: Sick of entrepreneurs and motivational speakers telling your kids to ignore you?

Then you’d better listen to this!

My top 3 tips for parents of entrepreneurs: listen without judgement, be interested and curious, be supportive and encouraging.

There’s no room for letting your fear prevent the adventures of your entrepreneurial offspring!

I had never heard of energy mastery before meeting Jeanine Hofs, an Energy Master from the Netherlands. Jeanine's work is based on the Chinese philosophies of energy in all things. She works with her clients to identify their dominant energy type and how best to maximise it to achieve a more balanced life. In our conversation we discover some common ground, and we also chat about MY dominant energy type as measured by Jeanine's energy test, which you can try for free here:  http://www.jeaninehofs.com/ 

I'm looking forward to chatting with Jeanine again one day soon!

I'm a psychologist and business owner with 20 years' experience, and I've seen my share of ups and downs of life as a business owner. I've seen most of what business ownership can throw at you, and I have a few secret weapons up my sleeve that I'm happy to share with you. Here are my top 3 tips!

My intensive 90 Day mentoring program will help you develop a Take No Prisoners approach to smashing your goals. This program is specifically for those in private practice in a mental health or allied health setting. Don't worry if you're in a different business setting ... Soon I'll something similar for all y'all!!

I've had a few conversations over the past week that have led me to wonder about bullying between professionals. I've also had the opportunity to compare how kids handle their peer relationships and what we can learn from them. Enjoy. 

In this conversation with Evan Carmichael, we talk about just why Evan felt "weird" as a kid and why he saw a child psychologist, his experience with anxiety as a child and how this influences how he handles tricky emotions now as an adult. This is a great discussion, and gets a bit heated in parts as I challenge Evan to stop "sanitising" interactions to avoid rich emotional interactions when there's a risk of tricky emotions being involved. The conversation even involves Evan's wife Nina when we talk about Evan's interactions with others.