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Have you ever looked back at something that happened in your life which at the time seemed like a tragedy, but now you're able to see the gift of that experience? 

It makes me think of the story about the Chinese farmer; if you haven't heard it, you can check it out here. 

There are so many messages to take away from this parable. My takeaway is to be present to all the things in front of us, being curious as to what magical place this experience will lead us to.

Often we look at our life and marriage through glasses that zoom in on us, seeing how we're being cheated of the life and marriage we signed up for. 

But can you look at your experience from a different vantage point?

When you are focused on what's wrong, you might sharpen your mind, but your heart becomes dull. 

Focusing on what's wrong doesn't allow you to see what is right, what is working, and what is good. 

This week I talk about a new way to filter the circumstances of your day, so you can see the gifts and appreciate your interdependence on others instead of taking it all for granted.

Find out more by tuning into this week's episode of AwakenYou in your marriage, and listen to the end, where I share a practice you can use this month to help you start looking at life through a whole new lens!

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