In this episode, we dive into Reddit’s Am I the Asshole? stories… and let’s just say, some of these people needed to be humbled 😬

From family drama to awkward social situations, we’re giving our honest (and occasionally brutal) opinions on who’s in the wrong — and we don’t always agree.

Expect strong takes, questionable morals, and a few moments where we might actually be the problem 👀

Ever wondered why feet are so popular in the world of fetishes? Or how societal taboos and historical practices influence our deepest desires? We break down the science of arousal, revealing how your brain automatically links certain objects or scenarios to pleasure—often without you even realizing it. You’ll learn about the fine line between a harmless kink and a full-blown fetish, and why some interests—like belching or tickling—can be just as intensely arousing as more traditionally accepted fetishes.This episode is perfect for anyone curious about the quirky, the taboo, and the downright strange aspects of human sexuality. Whether you're a skeptic, a curious explorer, or someone with secret fantasies, you’ll come away with a new understanding and maybe a few laughs. We also discuss how many fetishes are rooted in early experiences or cultural influences—can you imagine asking your parents about their own secret desires? Prepare to be surprised, entertained, and maybe a little uncomfortable as we peel back the layers of human desire.

This week on Fine-ish, we’re talking tampons, periods, and the women’s health research gap that left us genuinely speechless. From tampons only recently being tested on human blood, to concerns around toxic metals found in some products, we unpack why so many women feel overlooked when it comes to healthcare and safety. We also talk period stigma, toxic shock syndrome, better alternatives like cups and period pants, and why these conversations matter far more than people realise. Funny, honest, eye-opening, and a little bit raging.

Have you ever left a GP appointment feeling dismissed, unheard, or told it’s “just anxiety”, hormones, stress, or your weight?

In this episode of Fine-ish, Hayley and Abi unpack the reality many women know too well: not being taken seriously in healthcare. From painful personal experiences to shocking stories of missed diagnoses, they explore why so many women feel fobbed off by medical professionals.

They talk about:
• Being told symptoms are “just anxiety”
• The gender pain gap
• Women’s health being under-researched
• Why some women avoid doctors altogether
• How to advocate for yourself in appointments
• Why this conversation matters

It’s honest, funny in places, angry in others, and a conversation many listeners will relate to.

If you’ve ever felt dismissed by the healthcare system, this one’s for you.

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This week, things got a bit… unhinged.

Hayley opens up about one of her toughest mental health weeks — experiencing intense panic attacks, constant irrational thoughts, and overwhelming anxiety while her husband was away. From being convinced a tsunami was coming after hearing seagulls at 2am, to genuinely believing a plane might crash directly onto her house, this episode dives into what anxiety can actually feel like in real time.

We talk about:

• What panic attacks really feel like (not the textbook version)
• The reality of intrusive and irrational thoughts
• Fear of losing loved ones and anxiety around safety
• How anxiety can escalate when you feel alone
• The comedown: exhaustion, flatness, and emotional burnout
• What actually helped in the moment (including breathing techniques)

And because this is Fine-ish… we also cover:

• Abi holding her farts in for 4 days in Portugal
• Why “bougie” hotel bathrooms are a nightmare
• And how we somehow find humour in the chaos

If you’ve ever struggled with anxiety, overthinking, or panic, this one will feel very real.

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We love people.
We just… don’t want to see them all the time.

This week we’re unpacking the chaos of being an extroverted introvert — making plans, cancelling plans, and questioning every life decision in between.

We talk about:

• The “why did I agree to this?” feeling
• Social batteries, burnout, and needing to disappear
• The pressure of being “on” around people
• Why goodbyes are weirdly stressful
• And how we somehow end up organising things we don’t even want to go to

There’s also a very real moment where one of us nearly tells the other to shut the fuck up… so make of that what you will.

Plus, we ask Bob: Why does “let’s hang out” sound like a threat?

If you get it, you get it.

Most people know Tourette’s syndrome as uncontrollable swearing, but the reality is far more complex - and far more human. In this powerful episode, we dive into a recent controversy at the BAFTAs where a man with Tourette’s inadvertently shouted a racial slur on live TV, sparking debate about understanding, assumptions, and the true nature of involuntary tics.Imagine attending a high-stakes, public event where your uncontrollable body responses might unexpectedly cause harm, how do you navigate that pressure? When stress and anxiety spike, tics can involve anything from animal sounds to unexpected words, and in some cases, the dreaded coprolalia, which includes swearing. We explore how these moments aren’t intentional, how societal misunderstandings affect perceptions, and why this incident might set back years of progress in awareness and acceptance.We break down:

• What Tourette’s really is beyond the stereotypes.
• How high-stress situations amplify tics and what that means in public.
• The importance of compassion, not judgment, for involuntary actions.
• How faked Tourette’s online muddy the waters and why they do real harm.
• Practical ways to support loved ones and foster a more understanding society.

This episode is essential listening for anyone seeking empathy, clarity, and practical insights into living with - or simply supporting - people with disabilities. If you care about genuine inclusion, or if recent events have left you with questions, this conversation offers nuanced perspectives and vital education.Led by hosts Hayley and Abi, who bring personal experience and a genuine desire to promote awareness, this episode reminds us: behind every tic, word, or movement is a human being, deserving of patience and respect. Whether you're a teacher, parent, colleague, or simply curious, join us to challenge misconceptions and champion a more compassionate world.

Hayley and Abi dive headfirst into the internet’s latest celebrity conspiracies — and try to separate fact from fiction.

We talk about the recent news surrounding Britney Spears, why the world seems obsessed with her life, and what accountability looks like when celebrities make mistakes. Then we move into one of the internet’s wildest rabbit holes: the conspiracy theories claiming Selena Gomez has been cloned or secretly had a baby with Justin Bieber that somehow ended up with the Kardashians.

Yes… it’s as bizarre as it sounds.

Finally, we tackle the viral theory that Jim Carrey has been cloned or replaced, breaking down the internet speculation, the psychology behind conspiracy thinking, and why people are so drawn to these ideas in the first place.

Expect laughs, debate, and some genuine psychological insight as we explore why humans love a conspiracy — even when it makes absolutely no scientific sense.

Abi and Hayley finally reunited in Rotterdam for A State of Trance, but the weekend didn’t exactly go to plan…

There were scams, questionable decisions, and the discovery that Abi might actually enjoy EDM after all (who knew?!). We talk about what it was like finally meeting up in person, navigating the chaos of the festival, and our honest thoughts about Rotterdam itself.

And of course, the true highlight of the weekend: somehow ending up face-to-face with a Santa Claus holding a buttplug. Yes, really.

Expect stories, laughter, and a very honest recap of a weekend that was chaotic, surprising, and very Fine-ish.

In this episode of Fine-ish, we’re escaping the Sunday Scaries and talking honestly about burnout, identity, and the many hats we wear in life.

As we head off to Rotterdam together, we reflect on what actually helps us unwind, why rest looks different for everyone, and how having hobbies, creativity, friendship, and adventure can change how we cope with work stress.

From acting classes and running, to gaming, travel and raving - we explore how finding joy outside your job can help protect your mental health (even when life feels overwhelming).

We also ask Bob:

👉 What actually counts as rest — and why do some activities energise one person but drain another?

If you’ve ever felt stuck in work mode, emotionally exhausted, or unsure who you are outside your job, this one’s for you.

✨ Expect honest chat
✨ Real friendship
✨ Burnout truths
✨ Laughter, swearing & vulnerability
✨ A reminder that your job doesn’t define you

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