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Today, we’re turning up the heat because we have the internet’s resident sexpert in the house—the one and only Dr. Tara. She’s the fearless, no-filter voice behind the LuvBites Podcast, co-host of Loveline, and the author of How Do You Like It?—the ultimate guide to getting what you want (in bed).So, we’re asking all the questions you really want answered—the worst sex advice still haunting the internet, the biggest intimacy killers on dating apps, and the red flags that scream “run” in the bedroom. And, of course… we need to settle the age-old debate: can bad sex ever be fixed? We’re also diving into first-date chemistry, the truth about body count convos (do they actually matter?), and the one thing that instantly makes someone unforgettable in bed.If you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s on Me! ✨For detailed show notes, navigate using the timestamps below:2:08 Why Don’t We Get What We Want?4:36 Sex Education12:37 Do Body Counts Matter?16:01 Ridiculous Dating Rules 19:24 Sexy First Date Moves?24:50 Kinks30:15 Marriage & Sex31:19 Five Year Hump36:30 Dating Apps38:38 How Much Connection Can We Manage?Download FROM: https://firstroundsonme.co Instagram: / firstroundsonme TikTok: / firstroundsonmeapp Joe: https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Hannah : https://www.instagram.com/hannah_glasby/Dr. Tara: Pre-Order Dr. Tara’s Book: https://www.abramsbooks.com/product/how-do-you-like-it_9781419776434/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/?hl=en Website: https://www.bennyhartinc.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZulY7f53EUUgOtXf4DAwlUteO6eoT1hW1LOUgIgvRXDKbZ6oGy4JPfth8_aem_9RjHd7Cl4vnt3lMF4g8Tjw

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We have the one and only Benny Hart joining us—the man behind The Zero Mindset, a no-BS guide to deprogramming outdated social rules, dropping the excuses, and actually getting what you want, whether that’s in business, life, or love.So today, we’re tearing apart the dating rulebook, talking about why people are failing at modern romance, learning why being intentional in love is just as important as it is in business.and—of course—playing some games that might just expose some hard truths.Whether you’re recovering from a situationship spiral, rethinking your roster, or finally realizing you’ve been dating like an unpaid intern instead of a f*cking CEO—this episode is your wake-up call.

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2:11 What is the Zero Mindset?

7:46 Can You Develop the Mindset?

13:05 Fear of Failure

17:13 Biggest Dating Mistake People Make?

24:59 What Is Confidence?

31:03 Accountability

38:05 TikTok Groupthink

42:40 How Well Do You Know Yourself?

51:05 First Round’s On Me App

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Today, we’re taking the podcast in a different direction—because when you have two powerhouse journalists in the room, you lean into the big conversations. We’re joined by Mabel Kabani & Wren Woodson, the sharp and insightful minds behind NewGirls Podcast, and we’re about to unpack some of the most hotly debated questions in modern dating:Are dating apps actually helping us find love, or are they just keeping us swiping, spending, and searching? Can technology ever truly recreate the magic of meeting someone in real life? And with the rise of nonprofit matchmaking and even government-backed dating programs, could we be on the verge of a radical shift in how we find connection?But the biggest question of all—are we even using dating apps the right way, or is there a better approach?If you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s on Me! ✨For detailed show notes, navigate using the timestamps below:1:30 Dating App Addiction6:50 Paradox of Choice10:13 Are Dating Apps Worse than Ever?18:32 Do We Know What We Want?22:07 Should Dating Apps Explain Their Algorithms?28:43 Government-Run Dating Apps?35:31 Rating Systems?40:45 How Do We Fix Dating Apps?Download FROM: https://firstroundsonme.co Instagram: / firstroundsonme TikTok: / firstroundsonmeapp Joe: https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Hannah : https://www.instagram.com/hannah_glasby/

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Today, we’re joined by the one and only Wolf Taylor. He’s host of Half Way Up podcast and has a way of cutting through the dating noise with honesty and humor, offering perspectives that make you pause and rethink what you thought you knew about modern connections.

So, of course, we’re putting him to the test with some of the most interesting, thought-provoking, and maybe even a little controversial dating topics. And yes, there will be games, rapid-fire questions, and some truly wild dating scenarios. 

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1:30 Red Flags Men Overlook?

3:44 Reciprocal or Transactional?

10:32 Standards & Power

14:32 Should Relationships Be 50/50?

 23:02 Taxi Cab Theory

29:44 Who Is High Value?

37:41 Social Media Perception vs. Reality? 

42:47 What Would Wolf Do?

49:30 How Well Do You Know Yourself?

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Welcome back to another episode of First Round’s On Me, a First Round’s On Media production! Today, we’re joined by the unapologetically hilarious Talia Lichtenstein—a woman who has built an entire brand on saying exactly what’s on her mind. You might know her from TikTok, where she’s gone viral many times for calling out the absurdities of modern life, dating, and, well… just about everything she hates.While some people clutch their pearls at her takes, others love her for cutting through the internet’s endless toxic positivity. Love her or fear her, Talia is here to speak her truth. Today, we’re diving head-first into some of dating’s most controversial, and conversation-sparking topics—and yes of course, there will be games. If you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s on Me! ✨For detailed show notes, navigate using the timestamps below:4:15 Hot and Single6:25 Attractive Toxic Traits?9:31 Irrational Non-Negotiables?14:50 Stand-Up?21:32 Worst Date Story?29:37 How Many Messages?35:07 Intentions and Expectations38:24 Bare Minimum?43:20 Dating App Reviews?47:10 How Well Do You Know Yourself?Download FROM: https://firstroundsonme.co Instagram: / firstroundsonme TikTok: / firstroundsonmeapp Joe: https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Hannah : https://www.instagram.com/hannah_glasby/Talia: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talialichtstein?lang=en Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/qwerty.pomplemousse/

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Welcome back to another episode of First Round’s on Me, a First Round’s On Media Production. Today we’re shaking things up and diving into the wild world of dating theories, because let’s be real, modern dating sometimes feels like it needs a user manual. And who better to helps us decode it all than Sydney Meister, associate lifestyle editor of PureWow and cohost of Cupid’s Corner, where she turns hours of research into digestible TikTok-worthy wisdom. We’re talking Box Theory, are you dateable or just a situationship placeholder, Cartier vs. Knockoff: are you the real deal or giving discount energy, and the 80/20 rule. Plus, we unpack why Gen Z is ditching dating apps for Instagram DMs and whether “soonicorns,” AKA guys with potential, are worth the investment or just a bad stock pick.If you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s on Me! ✨For detailed show notes, navigate using the timestamps below:2:25 Does Writing Affect Dating?6:28 Banter13:36 Ideal First Date?16:42 Is Box Theory Real?25:35 Cartier or Knockoff?31:33 Biological Clock39:19 Are “Soonacorns” Worth It?49:20 Be DelusionalDownload FROM: https://firstroundsonme.co Instagram: / firstroundsonme TikTok: / firstroundsonmeapp Joe: https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Hannah : https://www.instagram.com/hannah_glasby/Sydney: https://www.purewow.com/author/sydney-meister

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Welcome back to another episode of First Round’s on Me, a First Round’s On Media Production. Today, we’re tackling a topic that so many of us deal with but we rarely talk about openly – the intersection of anxiety and dating. And who better to break it all down with than Gianna LaLota, a New York City-based therapist who specializes in helping adults overcome anxiety in al of its forms. 

In this episode, we’re breaking down why anxiety is so common, the subtle ways we sabotage our love lives, and how perfectionism, social media, and modern dating culture might be holding us back. 

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2:04 Meet-cute

3:50 Why Is Meeting In-Person Better?

7:40 Why Does Dating Make Us Anxious?

12:29 Manifesting without Jumping Ahead?

18:03 Genuine Incompatibility, or Self-Sabotage? 

28:48 If You Want To Find Something, Will You?

33:29 Where Do Core Beliefs Come From? 

37:18 Rapid-fire

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Welcome back to another episode of First Round’s on Me, a First Round’s On Media Production. Today, we are thrilled to welcome the one and only Max Cohen aka MurrayHillBoy to the show! Today, we’re diving into it all- his experiences navigating the dating scene in NYC, dating app dealbreakers, and whether the ick is a real or just self-sabotage in disguise. Plus, Max will share his journey to becoming a content creator, how he handles trolls, his reaction to the recent TikTok ban scare, and what it’s like to draw content inspiration from his surroundings.

But no First Round’s on Me episode would be complete without a few games. We’ve got “Dating Terms Decoded”—where Max will help us make sense of the weirdest and wildest modern dating lingo—and “How Well Do You Know Yourself”, where we put Max’s content (and memory) to the ultimate test with some hilarious callbacks to his most iconic TikToks.

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Welcome back to another episode of First Round’s On Me, a First Round’s On Media Production. Today, we’re beyond excited to welcome a powerhouse in both real estate and personal growth—the incredible Bianca D’Alessio!

Today, we’ll be diving into everything from her journey to the top of the real estate world to how intentionality can shape not just your career, but also your dating and personal life. Bianca will share her insights on navigating high-pressure industries, her thoughts on first dates and making great impressions, and even how her expertise in real estate has unexpectedly influenced her approach to love and relationships.

And of course, no episode would be complete without a few fun games! We’ve got “Love It or List It: Date Edition” and some dating rapid-fire questions that’ll test her quick wit and dating philosophies.

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Welcome back to First Round’s On Me, a First Round’s On Media production! Today, we’re back with our monthly one-on-ones where we dive into some of the most personal, powerful, and challenging conversations we’ve had. Today, we’re focusing on the age-old question of whether opposites truly attract. We’ll explore the reasons behind this phenomenon, why it might work in some relationships while leaving others in chaos, and how embracing our differences can lead to deeper connections.

Beyond just types, we’ll look at how expectations in dating and relationships influence our choices and how these expectations evolve over time. If you’ve ever wondered if a relationship with your complete opposite could work, this episode is for you!

If you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s On Me! ✨

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0:32 Introduction

2:30 Are We Opposites?

3:59 Do We Know What We Want?

8:21 Gaps and Gifts

13:45 Communication Gaps

23:01 Conflict

26:58 Top Sought-After Traits

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