Fixing Your Life

FYL E12 → Program SECTION 3 — THE TOOLS
Round #2 Entries – Notebook 3 - The Friends & Family Book
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Timestamps
update expected by August 15th
• 💬 Pain Creates Pain — Time to Own Your Impact
• 💬 Carry Momentum From N2 Into This Book
• 💬 This Time: Write From Their Perspective
• 💬 Don't Just Admit Mistakes — Visualize Their Effects
• 💬 Understand How Others Felt — Not Just What You Did
• 💬 If You’re Here, You’ve Caused Pain — Own It
• 💬 Only Extreme Cases Exempt This Step (Loss, Illness, etc.)
• 💬 Edit the Questions to Match Your Personal Book Issues
• 💬 Use Prompts: What Was the Mistake? What Was the Impact?
• 💬 How Did Their Life Change? How Do You Make This Right?
• 💬 Deep Emotional Work Required — No Skipping This
• 💬 Pain From Writing = Signal That You’re Doing It Right
• 💬 Reach Out If Blocked — Send 3 Notebook Slides for Guidance
• 💬 Human Stories Are Complex — But You Must Go Deep
• 💬 The Support Is Here — But the Work Is Yours
• 💬 You’re 75% Through Round 2 — Don’t Stop Now
• 📄 35:54 – 3.5 - Access – Tools – Help Community

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FYL E11 → Program SECTION 3 — THE TOOLS
Round #2 Entries – Notebook 2 - The Personal Book
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Timestamps
update expected by August 15th
• 💬 Entering R2 With Skills — You're Not the Same Anymore
• 💬 Reflection: 50% Done — The Final 3 Books Matter Most
• 💬 Not Everyone Needs Deep Pain — But You Need to Be Honest
• 💬 Round 2 = No Wiggle Room For Excuses or Minimizing
• 💬 In Struggle, We Lie to Ourselves — Even Honest People
• 💬 Use Momentum From R2 N1 to Power Through This
• 💬 Personal Pain Must Be Faced Here — Or the Program Fails
• 💬 Use R1 N2 as a Starter — Then Dig Much Deeper
• 💬 List Your Daily Routine, Habits, Health, Weight, Mistakes
• 💬 Strip Away the Layers — Truth Comes Through Pain
• 💬 Your Reality Must Be Written Without Filters
• 💬 If You Block Here — It's Because You're Holding Back
• 💬 Dump the Info, Stay Raw — Let It Go Wherever It Needs
• 💬 My Example: Ripped Out Old Pages, Wrote It Clean
• 💬 Reminder: R1 Perception is Flawed — R2 Must Fix That

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FYL E10 → Program SECTION 3 — THE TOOLS
Round #2 Entries – Notebook 1 - The Finances Book
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Timestamps
update expected by August 15th
• 00:00 – Coming out of the pause
• 💬 What is a Deep, Subtle Emotion?
• 💬 Leveraging Neuroplasticity — Triggered by Real Pain
• 💬 My Breakthrough Story — Paper Route Memory
• 💬 You Need a Trigger — Not Just Motivation
• 💬 Transition From Pause → R2 Must Be Earned
• 💬 Build R2 N1 With New Habits, Not Rushed Input
• 💬 Clean Pages Only — Redo If Needed
• 💬 Customize Columns — So It Works For You
• 💬 Gather Documents — Utilities, Credit, IDs, etc.
• 💬 Run a Credit Report — Double Check All Data
• 💬 If You’re Blocked, Use the To-Do List — Then Pause
• 💬 This Book Ends Chaos — Clarity is Your Weapon
• 💬 Do Not Move to N2 Until N1 is Complete and Perfect
• 💬 If You Rushed R1 — Don’t Repeat That Here
• 💬 New Mindset = Earned Pause = Real Progress
• 💬 Final Reminder: This Is the Shift — Don’t Blow It
• 💬 When Done Right — This Notebook Runs Your Life

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FYL E9 → Program SECTION 3 — THE TOOLS
Round #1 Entries – Notebook 4 - The Solutions Book
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Timestamps
update expected by August 15th
• 📄 📘 – 3.4 - R1.N4: Solutions

• 💬 📘 – Quality Round #1 entries = a faster and better plan in FYL Round #2.

• 💬 📘 – A clear mind = the right amount of pressure. Making it through R1 with a clear mind will allow you to enter R2 with confidence.

• 💬 📘 – Unearthing the positive in a time of struggle.

• 💬 📘 – If you've reviewed the program at least a few times, and you've entered honest entries in Round #1 and Round #2 Notebooks — but feel stuck... Don't quit here. We need you to come through right here, right now. This moment becomes the glue that will eventually hold together everything we collect from R1 and R2. Do whatever you must to unearth your positive traits, values, skills, and life experiences. If you are still blocked — call me now. 👉 1-888-488-4993

• 💬 📘 – Knowing you’re 50% done should give you earned momentum to push through R1.N4. Even if R1 wasn't done perfectly, you're still halfway through. Good job!

• 💬 📘 – You reviewed the PDF a few times. You debated, researched, came back, left, and finally are jumping in — or started FYL. In other words, you're invested — you're fed up and ready to change things because you took action. Take this time very seriously. You may never be so close to changing things around — not because of the FYL program, or me — you are the one leading this effort.

• 💬 📘 – Still blocked? Difficult questions disclaimer: do not ask yourself difficult questions without first understanding your personality type. These questions are powerful — and they can be used throughout the entire program. Examples of a few hard ones: Do I want to end up or &?$% alone? Will I ever again have in my hands a program built for me? I suggest considering discovering your personality type before starting FYL.

• 💬 📘 – R1: About the pause

• 📄 – Overview of where we are during the pause

****Not in recording: FYL' s Visualization Contrasting: to lead to a result or emotion****
Use visualization as a contrast tool or as positive reinforcement in some cases. Picture your life before discovering FYL — and compare it to the different stages you’ve gone through during Round 1. Then take it a step further: visualize how much further your progress could go, months or even years from now. The bigger the contrast you can create, the more powerful the visualization will feel. Disclaimer: visualization is not for everyone. It’s most effective for certain personality types and can be counterproductive for others. In my case, I use visualization all the time — and I've learned when not to use it — as it may cause the effect of "putting on blinders" without realizing it. With time, as you allow FYL to add the tools you need in your tool belt, this technique will grow with — and on — you. But warning on this: making it your own is the worst advice I can give when starting. That’s an important nuance. I said here: “With time, as you allow FYL to enter your life.” But I want you to have this hope — knowing that you will return to normal. And that is: the objective of the FYL program.

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FYL E8 → Program SECTION 3 — THE TOOLS
Round #1 Entries – Notebook 3 - The Friends & Family Book
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Timestamps
update expected by August 15th
• 💬 Psychological Check-In — Are You Ready to Go Deeper?
• 💬 25% Through Program — Momentum is Building
• 💬 Personal Book Opened You Up — Now It Gets Real
• 💬 This Book is Temporary Discomfort — Not Forever
• 💬 You Might Start Feeling Capable — Use That
• 💬 Acknowledging Pain is Now Mandatory
• 💬 Realization: Nobody is Coming to Save You
• 💬 Accept Responsibility for Where You Are
• 💬 Stop the Self-BS — Or This Program Won’t Work
• 💬 The World Isn’t Against You — Your Choices Brought You Here
• 💬 Why Accepting Faults Now Helps You Later
• 💬 This System is a Chance — Don’t Waste It
• 💬 Write What Hurts — Without Romanticizing
• 💬 Tough Love: Be Blunt, Be Harsh, Be Honest
• 💬 Structure It Clearly — But Don’t Stress Format
• 💬 Personal Perception vs. Relationship Reality
• 💬 If You Think You Have Nothing to Write — You’re Avoiding
• 💬 Painful Truth: This Book is Required for Progress
• 💬 This Book is the Catalyst for Round 2 — So Get Real
• 💬 Wrap: Friends & Family Entry Complete — Move to Solutions Book (N4)

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FYL E7 → Program SECTION 3 — THE TOOLS
Round #1 Entries – Notebook 2 - The Personal Book
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Timestamps
update expected by August 15th
• 💬 Same Tips and Help — Carried Over From Every Notebook
• 💬 Reminder: Round 2 Will Build On What You Enter Now
• 💬 Analogy: Vulnerability, Gullibility, and Delusion
• 💬 Writing the Perception of Yourself — Right Now
• 💬 Finance Book Brings Momentum — But This Book Gets Personal
• 💬 Early Honesty = Faster, Deeper Results
• 💬 R1 N2 Sets the Table for What Comes Next
• 💬 This is the First Real Introspection
• 💬 Format is Flexible — But Stay Honest
• 💬 Create Urgency Without Panic
• 💬 Ask: Will I Ever Be Closer Than This to Real Change?
• 💬 You’re Being Sold On One Thing: Opening Up
• 💬 This Might Be Your Best Shot — So Go All-In
• 💬 Notebook 2 = Emotional Prep for Round 2
• 💬 Don’t Stress About Spelling or Format — That’s for R2
• 💬 Wrap: R1 N2 Complete — Move to Friends & Family (N3)

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FYL E6 → Program SECTION 3 — THE TOOLS
Round #1 Entries – Notebook 1 The Finances Book
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Timestamps

update expected by August 15th

• 💬 Welcome Back – Before We Begin
• 💬 Reminder: Don’t Peek at Round 2
• 💬 FYL is for People in Pain
• 💬 You Might Be a Mess — That’s Okay
• 💬 Round 1: Simple, Honest, Real
• 💬 Support Options – Help Is Real and Live
• 💬 Starting Notebook #1 – The Finances Book
• 💬 Just Follow Along With the Video and PDF
• 💬 Write Down All Finance-Related Items
• 💬 The Goal is Clarity — Not Fixing Yet
• 💬 Tips Are Not Rules — But Take Them Seriously
• 💬 Review Slides 2.7 and 3.3 in the PDF
• 💬 Don’t Start and Stop — Do This Once, All-In
• 💬 Build Momentum With a Positive Outlook
• 💬 Wrap: Do the Finances Book — Then Move to Personal

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FYL E5 → Program SECTION 3 — THE TOOLS
The Tools (Tips #2)
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🧭 Timestamps
00:00 – 💬 Before Round #2...
00:14 – 💬 Your moment will be your own
00:42 – 💬 Discomfort and stress: How to avoid disappointment by timing your start
02:03 – 💬 “No. It’s enough. I need something.”
02:15 – 💬 R1 notebooks are built to create structure, confidence, and skills
02:48 – 💬 Use progress markers to your advantage
03:02 – 💬 Stay level-headed entering the pause — avoid thinking ahead
03:19 – 💬 R1 notebooks = a first taste of structure (maybe in a long time)
03:28 – 💬 We hope for a memory (past or recent) — tied to deep and subtle emotion (see Slide 3.3)
03:41 – 💬 If that moment hits, cool. Go to Round #2 immediately →
👉 https://youtu.be/zkaXLHPUxQU?t=422

****🔁 AFTER ROUND #1 OR DURING THE PAUSE – BREAKTHROUGH OR NOT 🔁****
03:54 – 💬 R1 N2/N3 are key to R2
04:51 – 💬 Confidence, trust, and progression begin to stack
05:27 – 💬 Visualization #1: Before FYL vs. Right now
06:12 – 💬 Visualization #2: R1 N1 vs. R2 N1 (rebuilding your finances)
07:27 – 💬 It starts with trusting yourself — final words

*****🔥 PROVOKING YOUR BREAKTHROUGH BEFORE R2.N4 🔥****
08:07 – 💬 Don’t forget R2 N2 (Personal)
👉 https://youtu.be/zkaXLHPUxQU?t=1290 
This is where you stop BSing yourself.
We strip it all down with pen and paper.
And that’s how the breakthrough is provoked — by working through R2.N2 and N3 in a way that forces us to be honest with ourselves, and by combining that honesty with the intense visualizations above.

Cool!

****🙏 Thank You for Making It This Far 🙏****
This is where you start believing.
Believing in you, and your ability to make it through the program.
You lit the light in your tunnel.

I’ll see you inside the community.
Good luck!
– Joe

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****Round #2 – Notebook Walkthroughs****

R2 Notebook 1: Finances
👉 https://youtu.be/zkaXLHPUxQU?t=422 

R2 Notebook 2: Personal
👉 https://youtu.be/zkaXLHPUxQU?t=1290 

R2 Notebook 3: Friends & Family
👉 https://youtu.be/zkaXLHPUxQU?t=1716 

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FYL E4 → Program SECTION 3 — THE TOOLS
The Tools (Tips #1) 
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🧭 Timestamps
00:00 - 💬 Importance of R1.N2 and R2.N2
00:42 - 💬 Program Read Before
01:03 - 💬 Like, What Is Going On?
01:27 - 💬 Motivations
01:44 - 💬 What We Watch
02:37 - 💬 R1 N2 — We Want To Trust The System
03:44 - 💬 My Perception Of Things Was Not Accurate
04:22 - 💬 Think About It.
05:05 - 💬 Cheat Codes? Seeing the Finish Line in Round #1
06:30 - 💬 I’m Selling You to Think About Painful Stuff. I Get It...
07:18 - 💬 The System Is Leading You to Milestones
07:36 - 💬 Rehashing Memories Is a Must in R1.N4: “There Will Be Signs.”
09:27 - 💬 The Importance of R1.N4 in Relation to R2
10:08 - 💬 “The Signs Will Be There—of What You Are Capable Of.”
10:28 - 💬 The Question Is: Are You Going to Want to Put Yourself Through What’s Needed to Unearth Them?

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FYL E3 → Program SECTION 3 — THE TOOLS (Overview)
An overview of the tools and an introduction to the notebooks.
Step-by-step guidance for our Program, Help, and Community.

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Timestamps
• 00:00 – Welcome & Introduction
• 00:32 – Help Options & PDF Program Linked Everywhere
• 📄 01:08 — 3.1 How the Notebooks Work Together
• 📄 02:37 — 3.2 This is our time
• 📄 02:49 — 3.3 What to expect before starting & Tips
• 03:12 — Round #1 is about clearing our head and making it to the pause.
• 04:05 — If you're here right now, trust that the books and program will do their job.
• 05:43 — The concept of: "Neuroplasticity"
• 06:49 — The buildup to Round #2 is created automatically by the FYL notebooks.
• 07:28 — The 4 notebooks are designed to represent the categories of our life.

• 📄 08:00 — Tips for Round #1: (above the blue section)
Perfection is not required
You can switch between books freely
Avoid peeking inside Round #2
Stay fully present in Round #1

• 📄 08:07 — Tips General (top part of orange section)
Help is Here
Follow the Tips
Trust the Process
Keep This Personal
Tough Love is Our Friend
Control the Pace
No Sugar Coating

💬 Tips for Round #2: (below the pink section)
These books are now clean and error-free
They represent the road you took to get here
Switching books is not permitted
We finish Book 1 before we move forward

• 📄 08:14 — These tips exist to support us through every step of the program.
• 📄 08:34 — Remember: We want normalcy, not financial gain.
• 📄 09:02 — The system makes sure that every step is palpable.
• 📄 09:20 — You have to do you.
• 📄 10:03 — Trust is a big thing.
• 📄 10:58 – More information about the pause after Round #1.
• 📄 11:40 – My breakthrough
• 📄 16:20 – After finishing Round #1 entries, we make sure to stay in the pause until a deep, subtle feeling pulls us back into the program's Round #2 entries.

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