In any relationship conflicts can happen, feelings can get hurt, distance can be created - and when that happens, things can get complicated. Whether it's a dating relationship or a marriage, if I've been hurt by the other person in that relationship, it can be difficult for me to forgive that person, much reconcile with them or try to get back to "the way things used to be." What do I do when I feel hurt by the other person in this relationship, especially when I don't feel like reconciling?