Fathers. Our fathers. Us being a father. Us NOT being a father. All forms of being a father. And... the several Archetypes of the father. In this episode we talk about "What does it mean to be a good father?"

Our topics are among a few others:

- the absent father, including the quality of it

- the safe way to see our father

- the evolution of fatherhood

- the two way street of 'supporting women to take a bigger role "outside the door" and supporting men to take bigger role "inside the door"'

- the change of perception of our fathers can change our way to deal with life

Contact us on Instagram:

. Bart de Coninck (B): @reconstructivebelgium

. Lorena Pulido (CA): @reconstructivesmundo

. Juliette Rijnfrank (NL): @juliette.movingtides

. Job Hulshoff (B): @jobhulshoff.coach

. RIIHS: @reconstructivesriihs @reconstructivas

Contact us by our webpages:

www.reconstructiveschool.com

www.reconstructiveschool.be

www.jobhulshoff.com

www.movingtides.nl

www.bartdeconinck.be

We all have the image of a good mother in most cultures.

The good mother who nurtures, cares, protects and provides at any cost. 

What does it mean exactly to be a good mother? 

Where does the archetype 'Good Mother' come from?

In this Episode 20, we shine a flashlight on the topic of the "Good Mother'. 

On Instagram:

. Bart de Coninck (B): @reconstructivebelgium

. Lorena Pulido (CA): @reconstructivesmundo

. Juliette Rijnfrank (NL): @juliette.movingtides

. Job Hulshoff (B): @jobhulshoff.coach

. RIIHS: @reconstructivesriihs @reconstructivas

Contact us by our webpages:

www.reconstructiveschool.com

www.reconstructiveschool.be

www.jobhulshoff.com

www.movingtides.nl

www.bartdeconinck.be

·  Do we use our partner to hate ourselves? Or to love ourselves?

·  Is our inner child in charge? Or our adult?

·  Are we addicted to problems or drama? Or do we invest in solutions and negotiation?

In episode 19, the first one of this new year, we talk about love.

On Instagram:

. Bart de Coninck (B): @reconstructivebelgium

. Lorena Pulido (CA): @reconstructivesmundo

. Juliette Rijnfrank (NL): @juliette.movingtides

. Job Hulshoff (B): @jobhulshoff.coach

. RIIHS: @reconstructivesriihs @reconstructivas

Contact us by our webpages:

www.reconstructiveschool.com

www.reconstructiveschool.be

www.jobhulshoff.com

www.movingtides.nl

www.bartdeconinck.be

In this episode Bart De Coninck talks with Lorena Pulido about ending circles and starting new ones.

+ How to close loose ends of a year?

+ How to start a new circle and go beyond ‘good intentions’?

On Instagram:

. Bart de Coninck (B): @reconstructivebelgium

. Lorena Pulido (CA): @reconstructivesmundo

. Juliette Rijnfrank (NL): @juliette.movingtides

. Job Hulshoff (B): @jobhulshoff.coach

. RIIHS: @reconstructivesriihs, @reconstructivas

Contact us by our webpages:

www.reconstructiveschool.com

www.reconstructiveschool.be

www.jobhulshoff.com

www.movingtides.nl

www.bartdeconinck.be

In this episode, Job Hulshoff tells us about the myths of helping.

As a therapist and coach in Belgium, he shines a light on his own experience, unraveling some of these myths. 

We talk about: 

. Therapists and coaches, who are natural born helpers 

. The different approach in Transpersonal Coaching and Reconstructives 

. A new way of helping, showing us about our own responsability

. The three C's: Check, Can and Consequences

Join the conversation and tell us about your own experiences with helping. 

Look for us on social media!

On Instagram:

. Bart de Coninck (B): @reconstructivebelgium

. Lorena Pulido (CA): @reconstructivesmundo

. Juliette Rijnfrank (NL): @juliette.movingtides

. Job Hulshoff (B): @jobhulshoff.coach

. RIIHS: @reconstructivesriihs, @reconstructivas

Contact us by our webpages:

www.reconstructiveschool.com

www.reconstructiveschool.be

www.jobhulshoff.com

www.movingtides.nl

www.bartdeconinck.be

Juliette’s fascination for the Inner Child Energy is inspiring for every adult. Unconsciously we act, think, decide for 95% of the time from ideas and beliefs that belong to our Inner Child. These patterns are mostly focused on protection instead of evolution. Our inner adult wants and needs more space in our daily life. We (adults) have to take care of our inner child so it can rest and slow down. Now it’s ‘our’ time to take over the steering wheel and drive into new places full of life and potential. Let’s go! 

How? Listen to this episode of Flashlights in the Dark! 

We would love to hear what you think about it. Tag us on social media and join the conversation!

Contact us on Instagram:

. Bart de Coninck (B): @reconstructivebelgium

. Lorena Pulido (CA): @reconstructivesmundo

. Juliette Rijnfrank (NL): @juliette.movingtides

. Job Hulshoff (B): @jobhulshoff.coach

. RIIHS: @reconstructivesriihs, @reconstructivas

Contact us by our webpages:

www.reconstructiveschool.com

www.reconstructiveschool.be

www.jobhulshoff.como

www.movingtides.nl

www.bartdeconinck.be

His passion about man and human being, makes Bart De Coninck the ideal psychotherapist to talk about Emotional Intelligence in Men, a fascinating topic that confirms the importance of acknowledge our emotions.

In this episode, we will talk about:

· Understanding how emotions work 

. Difference between how women and men manage their feelings 

. How to manage emotions at work environment 

We would love to hear what you think about it. Tag us on social media and join the conversation!

Contact us on Instagram:

. Bart de Coninck (B): @reconstructivebelgium

. Lorena Pulido (CA): @reconstructivesmundo

. Juliette Rijnfrank (NL): @juliette.movingtides

. Job Hulshoff (B): @jobhulshoff.coach

. RIIHS: @reconstructivesriihs, @reconstructivas

Contact us by our webpages:

www.reconstructiveschool.com

www.reconstructiveschool.be

www.jobhulshoff.como

www.movingtides.nl

www.bartdeconinck.be

Welcome to episode 14 – Drama featuring Lorena Pulido

In this episode we talk with Lorena Pulido about one of her favorite topics "drama". 

We started with this quote. “When you are not honoring the present moment by allowing it to be, you are creating drama”. From Eckhart Tolle.

· How to find balance in your emotions and not create drama?

. Learn more about emotional intelligence and how to use emotions as a resource

. How does this relate to your culture?

. Less drama, more action

We would love to hear what you think about it. Tag us on social media and let's start exchanging. 

Contact us on Instagram:

. Bart de Coninck (B): @reconstructivebelgium

. Lorena Pulido (CA): @reconstructivesmundo

. Juliette Rijnfrank (NL): @juliette.movingtides

. Job Hulshoff (B): @jobhulshoff.coach

. RIIHS: @reconstructivesriihs, @reconstructivas

Contact us by our webpages:

www.reconstructiveschool.com

www.reconstructiveschool.be

www.jobhulshoff.como

www.movingtides.nl

www.bartdeconinck.be

Welcome to episode 13 - Leaving the old, featuring Job Hulshoff. 

In this episode we talk with Job about how we can embrace the new. Habits and patrons in our behavior, thinking and feeling limit us. If we don’t leave the old there’s no space for the new. Leaving the old is a condition for growth.

We would love to hear what you think, tag us on social media and let's start exchanging.

Contact us on Instagram:

· Juliette Rijnfrank (NL): @juliette.movingtides

· Lorena Pulido (CA): @reconstructivesmundo

· Job Hulshoff (B): @jobhulshoff.coach

· Bart De Coninck (B): @reconstructivebelgium

· RIIHS: @reconstructivesriihs, @reconstructivas

Contact us by our webpages:

www.reconstructiveschool.com

www.reconstructiveschool.be

www.jobhulshoff.com

www.movingtides.nl

www.bartdeconinck.be