Trying to manifest is like trying to live. You simply are alive and you are ALWAYS manifesting...I understand not necessarily in the direction of your dreams. But before you start beating yourself up about this, remember - conscious manifestation and unconscious manifestation are two completely different activities - just like conscious living and unconscious living...
Where you are is simply a reflection of where you have been, and does not necessarily point to what comes next. The simplest, most rewarding and quickest way I know to change direction is to change your mind's way of thinking...from analyzing and sifting through what happened, to a complete focus on what you want to create...it is not about the car, the relationship, the bank account...
It is about how you imagine you will feel when those things arrive - and here is the conscious manifesting bit...
Move your body, mind and spirit into the experience of those feelings.
My big 3 are Love, Harmony and Joy...and whenever I see a grouping of three anything, my mind immediately connects to my big 3...love, harmony and joy.
Pick your big 3 - any three- you can always change it up...I just recently switched peace into harmony...