Winter isn’t something to survive. It’s something to enter.

In this episode, I invite you into the dark, not as collapse, but as incubation. We explore winter as a sacred in-between space where your old identity dissolves, and your Future Self quietly takes shape.

I share my Winter Magic Web: five threads I’m weaving through the season to flirt my way into the woman I’m becoming:
1. A hobby that reawakens desire2. A body practice that rebuilds strength3. A mythic creature guiding my subconscious4. A research thread rewriting my relationship with money5. Ancestral rituals that root me into something older and wiser

This is a slow, poetic reflection on rest, darkness, longing, and becoming for anyone who feels winter pulling them inward and doesn’t want to resist it anymore.

Light a candle.Let the dark hold you.Your Future Self is listening.

✨ If you want help weaving your own Winter Magic Web: https://stan.store/stormysage/p/winter-magic-web✨ Comment and tell me one thread you’re calling in this winter.Stay flirty out there. 🖤 Stormy

Feeling uninspired or disconnected from your spark?
This video will help you reignite your imagination and rebuild your reality through the art of world-building, a creative, spiritual practice that turns everyday life into your own masterpiece.
* Transform your daily habits into portals for possibility
* Rewire your mind by playing with imagination again
* Bring your “fantasy self” into real life (no pretending required)
* Create micro rituals that make your world feel alive
* Use your environment to anchor your dream life

If you’ve been trying to manifest but still feel stuck, this will show you how to actually co-create the world you want to live in, starting with your imagination.

Subscribe for more videos on spiritual glow-ups, identity shifts, and flirting with your Future Self.

Stay flirty, Stormy

We’re flirting with the paradox, the contradictions in life, in ourselves, and in the world, and exploring how holding the tension between them can lead us to *true wholeness*.

I reflect from Los Alamos, New Mexico, a place of sacred Pueblo land and the birthplace of the atomic bomb, a land that embodies both creation and destruction.

Here, I explore how the land itself teaches us to hold contradictions: to be both wounded and a healer, both human and divine, both unfinished and already enough.

In this video, we flirt with:

* Hold your paradoxes instead of trying to force life into “black and white” thinking

* Live between worlds: the waking life, the dreaming life, and the liminal space where your Future Self is already waiting

* Integrate your wounds and gifts as teachings that guide your purpose

* Flirt with your Future Self: embodying the version of you that is already living your dreams, even before it’s fully here

* Receive lessons from the land and energy around you: how sacred spaces and nature can mirror your inner growth

Ask yourself: “What contradictions in me are actually my greatest wholeness? How can I carry both my wounds and my gifts as teachings?”

* A simple ritual to embody wholeness: place your hands on the earth, a tree, or your heart and say, “I am the land. I am the paradox. I am whole.”

Whether you’re healing, growing, or building your dream life, this reflection will help you embrace your full self, imperfections, contradictions, and all, and step closer to the life your Future Self is already living.

If you want more guidance on *spiritual glow-ups, identity shifts, and flirting with your Future Self*, hit subscribe and start flirting with your future self.

Stay flirty out there,

Stormy

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Life isn’t about sticking to the plan; it’s about letting yourself play with the possibilities. When you stop chasing the end goal and start living like an explorer, the Universe can finally surprise you.

In this video, you’ll flirt with:

* Why fixating on results kills your creativity & flow

* How to shift from “discipline” to “devotion”

* The quantum secret behind Bashar’s “follow your excitement” teaching

* How to turn your daily life into a flirty adventure with your Future Self

Try this mantra: “I'm an explorer of this land, of spirit, of my psyche, and of my experience here on earth. I am an explorer.”

On the energy radar right now: What aspects of myself do I need to start releasing? What's one thing I can let go of that I don't need anymore?

Stay flirty out there,

Stormy

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Lately, I’ve been realizing that my personal development journey feels exactly like my dating life.

I’m walking you through the four stages I’ve noticed: the meet-cute, the honeymoon phase, the commitment stage, and the long game, and how each one mirrors the way we approach self-improvement, aka becoming our flirty future self.

I share the excitement of meeting my “future self” for the first time, how intoxicating the honeymoon stage feels when I start new habits, and also the heartbreak of self-sabotage when I abandon her too soon. I know that loop so well, the cycle of starting over, building momentum, then giving up on myself. But I also share how I’ve learned to stay committed, spot my own red flags, and finally date my future self like she’s the one.

If you’ve ever wondered why it feels so hard to stay consistent with your self-growth, or why you keep restarting your journey, this conversation will help you see your personal development through a completely different lens. Think of it as a flirty diary entry on love, life design, and becoming the version of you that you can’t stop crushing on.

The breakdown: 

00:00 Are you treating your personal development journey like your bad dating habits? 

01:23 #1 The Meet-Cute: You visualize your future self for the first time 

02:05 #2 The Honeymoon Phase: You start new habits, have the right mindset, and stop your bad habits. “I think this is possible.” 

03:08 #3 The Commitment VS. Break it off: You keep going to become your next version, or you slide back into doubt, self-sabotage, and old ways 

05:06 #4 The Long Game VS. Self-abandonment: You BECAME that person, your flirty future self, or you feel guilt/shame/check out

06:50 You start the cycle all over again if you stopped after the honeymoon phase 

07:45 “This isn’t for me” 

08:44 Start the cycle again, this time following through to the long game 

10:10 What is it going to take for you to be committed to the future version of yourself? 

10:45 Lock in with yourself. One decision at a time

11:25 Know your red flags so well 

12:40 What stage of the game are you at? 

Stay flirty, Stormy 

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I’m still very much a baby creator figuring this whole content creation thing out, but I’ve been testing workflows that actually make it feel fun instead of overwhelming. 

* Work with me: https://www.iamstormysage.com/course 

* Office hours: https://www.iamstormysage.com/officehours

* Fun, flirty, unfiltered diary entries: https://substack.com/@stormysagemedia 

* Connect with me:  https://www.instagram.com/stormysagemedia  https://www.tiktok.com/@thestormyshowpodcast 

* The underground radio to your flirty future self: https://tr.ee/PhSJD76wrB

I share how I create and repurpose content across YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, LinkedIn, and even Substack…without burning out.

I talk about my behind-the-scenes process (yes, sometimes I film 5 TikToks in a day 😅), how I choose themes to stay consistent, and why authenticity is way more powerful than trying to copy what’s trending. My goal is to show you how even as a new creator, you can build a workflow that saves time, helps you reach more people, and still feels true to your unique voice.

✨ Takeaways:

• Repurpose your content across multiple platforms
• Create a flexible workflow that works for you
• Build themes that keep your content focused
• Stay authentic to your voice (your audience feels it!)
• Remember: you can be consistent and creative

This is the behind-the-scenes guide I wish I had when I started, so if you’re a new creator, let’s navigate this journey together 💻✨

The breakdown: 

00:00 Creating as a baby creator

01:25 Starting with a long-form YouTube

01:52 Record on Riverside.fm

02:43 Used the script for a Substack outline

03:06 Pull quotes from my Substack to use on: Notes, Threads, LinkedIn

03:39 Post short form following my “theme that week” (thank you @ Tess Barclay ) 

04:25 Record on TikTok, repurpose to IG & YouTube shorts 

05:30 The magic of LinkedIn & Pinterest 

06:35 Sharing your authentic voice 

Stay flirty, Stormy

Do you remember your last crush? 

That fluttery, obsessed energy where you want to know everything about them, their routines, their hobbies, their world.

And then I thought… what if we turned that energy inward? What if we took that good kind of obsession and used it to flirt with our future self?

* Work with me: https://www.iamstormysage.com/course 

* Office hours: https://www.iamstormysage.com/officehours

* Fun, flirty, unfiltered diary entries: https://substack.com/@stormysagemedia 

* Connect with me:  https://www.instagram.com/stormysagemedia  https://www.tiktok.com/@thestormyshowpodcast 

* The underground radio to your flirty future self: https://tr.ee/PhSJD76wrB

Let’s explore how personal development doesn’t have to feel heavy or rigid. It can feel fun, flirty, and full of self-discovery. I share how I imagine different versions of my future self, journal through them, and then “date-test” the one that excites me most. It’s like manifestation with a playful twist: balancing energy + action, letting life design feel creative and authentic instead of copy-paste.

If you’ve ever felt stuck comparing yourself to others, or pressured to “find your purpose,” this is your reminder that your purpose can be expressed in a million creative ways: through your voice, your art, your work, your rituals. You get to choose. And your future self is waiting for you to flirt back.

✨ Takeaways:

• Channel crush energy into your self-improvement journey
• Get obsessed with your future self (in the best way!)
• Try on different identities without pressure
• Design your life in a way that feels playful, creative, and authentic

So come flirt with your future self with me, and let’s make self-improvement feel like your new favorite crush.

The breakdown: 00:00 Remember your biggest crush?01:11 Current self meets future self01:40 Energy AND action = flirting 03:28 Create 3 different alt lives and then pick one to try 04:38 What is my purpose, though?? 06:06 Pursue your flirty future self like you would your crush08:13 Yours will look different than anyone elses 09:09 She already exists, she is out thereStay flirty, Stormy

Okay, so I need to tell you about something wild that’s been happening… spiders keep showing up in my life, and honestly, it feels like the universe is sending me little sticky notes. 

* Work with me: https://www.iamstormysage.com/course 

* Office Hours: https://www.iamstormysage.com/officehours

* Fun, flirty, unfiltered diary entries: https://substack.com/@stormysagemedia 

* Connect with me:  https://www.instagram.com/stormysagemedia  https://www.tiktok.com/@thestormyshowpodcast 

* The underground radio to your flirty future self: https://tr.ee/PhSJD76wrB

I’m unpacking these encounters and exploring how spider symbolism, spiritual communication, and personal transformation can actually teach us how to flirt with our future selves. I’ll share my own experiences—like the spider weaving a web on my car mirror—and what it taught me about intuition, energy healing, shamanic wisdom, and creative expression. 

Spoiler: it’s all about noticing the little signs, trusting the threads, and weaving your life with intention… while keeping it playful and flirty.

This is part journal, part cosmic pep talk, and 100% about helping you step into your most aligned, radiant self. Whether you’re pivoting in life, exploring spirituality, or just craving a deeper connection with yourself, I’ve got you.

What you’ll get from this diary-style episode:

🌙 My personal method for connecting with spirit in your own unique way

🌙 How spider symbolism can spark transformation & creativity

🌙 Energy practices & science-backed tips for weaving your dream life

🌙 Why collaborating with the universe (and others!) accelerates growth

🌙 A playful, flirty reminder to trust the process

📌 Chapters:

00:00 Magical ways of connecting with Spirit/God/Universe

00:40 August energy update

01:26 Magic is woven into the channel 

02:30 Learn your own language of God

03:40 The spider showed itself like angel numbers

05:55 Recognize the magic that is around you

07:25 Kali is coming in 

08:00 No choice but to become a diamond under the pressure you are under

09:20 Animal Power: The Spider Spirit description

10:30 It is time to cut the crap and show up 

11:35 You have unique magic to share

12:27 When you feel directionless 

13:07 Trust, step, trust, step 

14:44 It is time to weave your new life

Stay flirty, Stormy

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Life’s twists and turns are totally temporary, even when it feels like you’re stuck in a loop. I’ll walk you through how flirting with your future self can bring fresh energy and inspiration into your daily life, helping you stay motivated and intentional about the path you’re creating.

Plus, I share how to curate your life like chapters in a book, so you’re not just drifting but actively designing the feelings and experiences you want. If you’re ready to cultivate more presence, self-love, and emotional well-being while dreaming big and taking action, this conversation is for you. Together, we’ll explore how to live with mindfulness, joy, and purpose, all while having a little fun with it.

Action Items:

1. Title your current chapter
2. Create a playlist 
3. Make a feelings board 
4. Pick a few action steps to reflect the chapter
5. Practice time travel with yourself 
6. What would your 80-year-old self tell you right now? 

My example of my current chapter: Who the F Cares:

Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7qCR6Toxvg6CSobonEEEWD?si=Swj6gzEESbifDDj9VXeQNQ 

Feelings board: https://pin.it/3WWwuhG5I 

Action steps: post on YouTube x1 week, post to IG/TikTok x3 a day, write a diary entry x1 week on Stubstack (I am in my content creating, say it, post it era - because who the f cares??) 

The breakdown:

00:00 Embracing the Temporary Nature of Life

06:20 Flirting with Your Future Self

12:13 Curating Your Life Chapters

Work with me: https://www.iamstormysage.com/course 

Read my diaries: https://substack.com/@stormysagemedia 

Follow me:  https://www.instagram.com/stormysagemedia https://www.tiktok.com/@thestormyshowpodcast?_t=ZT-8uRR4UnvMz5&_r=1 

Keywords: self-improvement, personal growth, future self, gratitude, life chapters, mindfulness, presence, emotional well-being, self-love, intentional living

Stay flirty, Stormy

Lately, I’ve been hanging out in my own little corner of the internet… my digital room. No pressure. No “you should post this” or “you should be like her.” Just me, my thoughts, and whatever feels good to share in the moment.

Somewhere along the way, I realized that showing up online doesn’t have to feel like performing; it can feel like coming home. It’s messy sometimes. Imperfect. But it’s mine. And honestly? That’s where the magic lives.

In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of what it looks like to create a digital space that actually feels like you.

We’ll talk about why personal growth always starts with giving yourself permission to be a little messy, how to stop chasing perfection, and how to finally feel free to express yourself online, without burning out.

Because at the end of the day, there are no rules here. Just your voice, your vibe, and what excites you most.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• Self-discovery fuels creativity.

• Your “digital room” is your space, curate it.

• There are literally no rules in content creation.

• Authenticity resonates more than perfection.

• Experimentation is how you find your voice.

• Unplug to hear yourself clearly.

• Focus on what excites you.

  
  

📍 Chapters:

00:00 – The Importance of Self-Discovery

02:36 – Creating Your Digital Room

05:39 – Authenticity in Content Creation

08:18 – The Freedom of Expression10:49 – Unplugging to Find Your Voice

xo Stormy

More from the flirty side of the internet:

Flirty Future Diaries (free newsletter): https://substack.com/@stormysagemedia

10 Signs you are in a life pivot & how to flirt with it (freebie): https://www.iamstormysage.com/free

Flirty Future Weekly Checkin: https://tr.ee/x8hklbKWGM

CONNECT WITH STORMY

Instagram: @stormysagemedia | https://instagram.com/stormysagemedia

YouTube: @stormysagemedia | ⁠https://youtube.com/@StormySageMedia

TikTok: @thestormyshowpodcast | ⁠https://tiktok.com/@thestormyshowpodcast

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