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How can we help our kids cultivate healthy relationships amid a culture of sexpectations?

In this episode, Barb Winters shares her personal journey as a mother of a recovered pornography addict and how it led her to become a certified sexual risk avoidance specialist.

Barb Winters is the author of Sexpectations: Helping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships. She is a speaker, certified Sexual Risk Avoidance Specialist, and founder of Hopeful Mom: supporting parents in an online world, where she offers encouragement and practical advice to parents and leaders.

Barb, a pastor's wife and former homeschool mom, experienced the shock and devastation of finding pornography in her home. Overwhelmed by guilt and feelings of isolation, Barb kept this secret from her family and only confided in one person, who lived miles away due to the stigma surrounding the issue.

As she embarked on a challenging journey to help her son and herself, Barb conducted extensive research and discovered the alarming prevalence of pornography in households today. This realization led her to question why parents weren't discussing these issues with each other and with their children.

Motivated by a strong conviction, Barb decided to create a platform called Hopeful Mom, where she could openly address and engage in conversations about pornography, social media dangers, human trafficking, and other related topics. This spark of inspiration marked the beginning of Barb's mission to empower parents and provide support in navigating these sensitive subjects.

She opens up about the initial shock, anger, and guilt she experienced when discovering pornography in her own home, highlighting the isolation and stigma that often surround these issues. Barb's determination to help not only her son but also other families sparked the creation of "Hopeful Mom," where she offers practical advice and encouragement to parents navigating the challenges of an online world.

Tina and Barb also discuss the prevalence of pornography and other related issues in our society, shedding light on some staggering statistics.

They address the common misconception that only certain individuals or families are affected by these problems and emphasize the importance of breaking the silence and bringing these issues into the light.

The conversation guides us towards creating safe spaces for discussions without judgment or condemnation. Barb encourages us all to step out of our comfort zones, relying on the Holy Spirit's guidance, to initiate these necessary conversations. She shares valuable insights on how parents can approach their children, as well as how we can cultivate healthy relationships within our families and spousal relationships by fostering open communication based on love and support.

Connect with Barb at https://hopefulmom.net/.

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On this episode of Flourish-Meant, Tina Yeager welcomes guest Richard Gamble, the visionary behind the Eternal Wall of Answered Prayer, a monumental piece of public art revealing how Jesus has answered a million personal prayers. It will be the largest database of hope stories in the world.

Having the idea in 2004, God gave him the go-ahead to launch in 2016, and for the past four years, Richard has shared the incredible concept all around the UK, rallying people behind the belief that one individual's answered prayer can be another person's hope. After becoming a Christian in 1990 Richard studied at bible college and then worked for British Gas before leaving the big corporate world to make his mark in entrepreneurship, co-founding both a software business and a marketing consultancy. With a keen love of football, he became CEO of Sports Chaplaincy UK, and was former chaplain of Leicester City Football Club (before they were famous and won the Premiership!).

Richard shares his personal practice of overcoming fear and despair by visualizing a storm of worries on his left and Jesus on his right. He encourages listeners to donate to eternalwall.us, a website where people can share their stories of answered prayers. Richard believes that these stories, written, audio, or video, will inspire future generations.

He reminds listeners to place their hope in God, recounting experiences where God has provided and healed. Richard also discusses the importance of physical reminders of God's faithfulness, using personal stories and examples from the Bible.

Through personal anecdotes and scripture, Richard and Tina emphasize the power of faith and hope in overcoming challenges and finding healing.

Richard defines Psalm 77 as a life hack for dealing with fear and despair. He candidly shared his own experience of waking up in the middle of the night and battling fear. To calm these fears, Richard personally practices a visualization technique where he envisions the storm of worries on his left and Jesus on his right. Recalling past instances where God has provided and healed has been instrumental in finding peace during these moments.

Moreover, Richard emphasized the importance of hope and where we choose to place it. Coping with fear involves seeking peace from Jesus and anchoring ourselves in the things God has said to us.

Throughout the episode, Richard shared incredible stories of answered prayers that have built his faith and helped him combat fear. Inspired by the concept of passing down and telling these stories to future generations, Richard conveyed his vision for the eternal wall of answered prayer. This monumental piece of public art, the size of a football field, will comprise a million bricks, each representing a story of hope related to Jesus. Visitors will be able to scan any of the bricks with their phones and learn about the inspiring stories inscribed upon them. The underlying goal is to offer hope to those who drive past the monument and inspire them to seek God.

Intrigued by Richard's journey and his inspiring project, the eternal wall of answered prayer, we invite you to learn more about it by visiting the website eternalwall.us. You can be part of something that will last for 100 years and impact future generations. Share your own stories on the website, whether through written, audio, or video formats.

Richard's story of battling an incurable disease in his spine for over 22 years, only to experience healing, reminds us that God is still listening and can do anything. Let us choose to focus on God's truth rather than facts, for there are over 100 scriptures encouraging us to proclaim the goodness of God in our lives. We are grateful to have had Richard Gamble on the show, revealing his journey, insight, and passion for inspiring hope through shared stories of answered prayers.

We hope that you, our Flourish-Meant community, can take five minutes of your time to impact future generations and join us in spreading hope through the eternal wall project.

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On this episode of Flourish-Meant, join host Tina Yeager and special guest Cally Logan as they delve into the topic of "Dear Future Husband." Cally highlights the importance of listening to God and investing in a relationship with Him. She shares her own practices, such as specific times for worship, intercession, and requests, as well as the significance of just listening to God. They encourage listeners to use their gifts and talents in their current situations and to discuss with God how He wants them to utilize these abilities.

Cally Logan is the author of two books, Dear Future Husband: A Love Letter Journey While Waiting For God's Best and Hang in There, Girl!. She is a senior writer for Crosswalk.com and a 12th grade U.S. History teacher, in addition to serving as a mentor to several young women. She resides in Richmond, VA.

Cally emphasizes the importance of being vulnerable and prayerful in preparing for their future spouse, sharing how they have started praying for their future spouse regularly. They explain how writing letters has helped them feel safe in sharing vulnerable thoughts and emotions, as they believe it is important to be able to share those things with their future spouse. The speaker also shares their insights on discernment and seeking God's guidance in relationships, whether they are with friends or potential dating partners.

Throughout the episode, the speaker shares various stories and biblical examples to illustrate the waiting process and the importance of surrendering to God's work. They discuss the character-building aspects of waiting, referencing the experiences of Joseph and how his time in captivity and managing resources prepared him for his future role.

In addition, the speaker emphasizes the value of writing letters to future spouses, future selves, and future children as a way of capturing memories and personal growth. They discuss the importance of community and being discerning about who one spends time with, as well as the impact of conversations at work.

The podcast episode acknowledges the challenges faced by single women and encourages listeners to be honest with God about their feelings and to trust in His plan. The speaker candidly shares their own journey and reflections, including how they realized they had made getting married almost an idol before a loving friend called them out on it.

Throughout the episode, the speaker continually emphasizes the need to have our hearts in the right place, to trust in God's timing, and to place our disappointments before Him. They express gratitude for God's love and ability to solve any problem, trusting that His best will exceed our own ideas of what is best.

Tune in to this episode of Flourish-Meant with Tina Yeager and Cally Logan as they navigate the complexities of waiting, relationships, and trusting God's perfect timing. Discover the wisdom and insights shared in this thought-provoking conversation on "Dear Future Husband."

Quote: "I wanted to share some of the ever-changing things in my world with him." — Cally Logan [00:01:12 → 00:02:15] Trusting God's Timing: "I trust God more, and I know he's not forgotten. I know this isn't a no, it's just a not yet. And when he does bring those things forward, it's going to be all the more marvelous." — Cally Logan [00:04:21 → 00:06:32] The Power of Surrender: "We have to let him have his way. We can't call the shots. We have to just take that next step of obedience and whatever that looks like." — Cally Logan [00:08:13 → 00:09:39] The Dangers of Making Marriage an Idol: "I had kinda made getting married almost an idol...I was putting his promise as an idol between God and me...I have made it an idol, and I don't want to do that anymore." — Cally Logan [00:10:07 → 00:11:47] "Wait well" means being intentional with our time and investing it wisely. This includes writing letters to future spouses or children, documenting our growth and lessons learned. It also means being discerning with our relationships, and surrounding ourselves with godly and encouraging individuals. Investing in church, family, career, and seeing our current circumstances as a mission field are all ways to wait well. — Cally Logan [00:13:25 → 00:15:19] Practicing Listening and Using Your Gifts: "I think there really needs to be time and focused on just listening and allowing him to speak to us. And perhaps putting an idea or spark of an idea that's something that we wouldn't have even guessed for ourselves and then seeking that out, searching that out and seeing that maybe he does have a specific thing to say about it." — Cally Logan [00:16:34 → 00:18:50] Prayerful Preparation for a Future Spouse: "I think one of the biggest things I realized is that's open this to inviting me to be a little more vulnerable. but also to be prayerfully minded to really train for my future spouse." — Cally Logan [00:19:57 → 00:22:33] Healthy Communication in Relationships: "What are ways we could have good, healthy communication to come towards compromise so that no one feels that they got the short end of the stick, But instead, they feel like, you know, I felt really heard. And I felt really known, and I felt like my opinion mattered, and we came to this new tradition of the payment to this this new understanding or this great, healthy communication to find a solution without they're having to be an argument or upset or anything else." — Cally Logan [00:23:04 → 00:24:28] The Gift of Time: "I think I would just really wanna encourage listeners that the time no time is wasted by God. And even if you feel like you're behind while your friends are married and they're having kids and things like that, it doesn't mean that you somehow woke up too late for the school bus, and you missed it." — Cally Logan [00:25:22 → 00:27:28] The Desire of Young Men: "I think young men have this desire in their heart...they wanna share their lives with somebody." — Cally Logan [00:27:37 → 00:28:36]

Connect with Cally on her website at https://callylogan.com/ or on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/callylogan/

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How can we develop effective leadership skills with lasting impact?

On this episode of Flourish-Meant, host Tina Yeager sits down with leadership expert Bunni Pounds to discuss the importance of developing skills and making an impact in various areas of life. Drawing on the story of Nehemiah, they explore the power of perseverance, prayer, and identifying your unique calling. They also provide insights into politics, how to engage with young people and the value of relationships. Listen and learn how focusing on others can lead to opportunities and make a lasting impact on your life and community.

Bunni Pounds is the President of Christians Engaged, a national non-partisan ministry dedicated to praying for the nation and elected officials regularly, voting in every election to impact their culture, and engage hearts in some form of civic education or engagement for the wellbeing of America. Bunni spent over sixteen years running the campaigns of Members of Congress around Texas. In 2018 Bunni became the only person in the entire United States who gained the endorsement of Vice President Mike Pence, and out of 46 candidates became the only Texas Republican woman to make the runoff election. Bunni's experience doesn't just stop at politics. She has been bi-vocational and active in Christian ministry since she was 16. Bunni is a Bible teacher and motivational speaker who has authored 8 books, published worship songs, and church-planted with her husband Tim for over 10 years.

In this episode, we discuss the following points:

1. Seek to educate yourself first.

Bunni emphasizes the importance of researching and understanding the industry or area of interest before jumping in. Whether it's starting a business or getting involved in the government, doing your due diligence beforehand will lead to greater success.

1. Perseverance is key.

From her experience running for Congress, Bunni learned the value of time management and perseverance. Despite facing significant opposition, she relied on her faith and prayer to push through and ultimately learned valuable lessons along the way.

3. Invest in building up others.

Bunni stresses the importance of valuing time spent with loved ones and investing in building up others. By pouring into relationships and being intentional with time, it not only opens doors for us but allows for genuine connections and opportunities for growth.

Connect with Bunni Pounds at https://christiansengaged.org/ to participate in Christians Engaged, listen to the Christians Engaged Podcast, and check out her class Nehemiah: Rebuilding the Walls of a nation. Look for her book, Jesus and Politics: One Woman's Walk with God in a Mudslinging Profession releasing in fall 2023 from Charisma House.

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On this episode of Flourish-Meant, host Tina Yeager speaks with psychotherapist Tracy Taris about silencing your inner critic. Tracy provides insight into how we can notice when something isn't good for us and suggests developing a relationship with God and his word through daily bible reading to prompt the Holy Spirit to guide us. They discuss the different voices we hear, including self, Satan, society, and the savior Jesus Christ, and provide tools to calm down negative voices and tune into positive ones. Tracy emphasizes the importance of having the word of God in our hearts and growing in a relationship with the Holy Spirit through reflection and introspection. They also encourage values clarification and using centering prayer to clear the mind and tune in to one thought or word. Tracy reminds us that engaging with God's Word is a process that is different for everyone, requiring daily commitment and showing up. The episode ends with the reminder that knowing ourselves and being in alignment with our values and the voice of the savior allows for the ability to move forward and fulfill our purpose.

Christian Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and author of Many Voices One Truth, Tracy Taris is a healer and educator providing guidance through her private practice, within her church and in her community. She is the president and owner of Healing the Mind & Spirit, Inc. where she leads a team of therapists as they guide people towards healing. Located in Santa Clarita, California, her team offers therapy services to individuals, couples and families as well as coaching services that cover a variety of topics from creative blocks, nutritional problems and women's issues.

Topics Covered: - Ways to notice when something isn't good for you - Developing a relationship with God and his word - Paying attention to negative feelings - The analogy used in the book to identify the top voices people hear - Self, Satan, society, and the savior Jesus Christ - Tuning into positive voices and choosing what to focus on - The "read" acronym and the importance of having the word of God in one's heart - Scripture applying to oneself and putting it into practice - Thoughts triggering feelings and impacting one's life and relationships - Identifying different voices at play - Promotion of website tracyterrace.com and content on cultivating the mind and spirit - Encouragement to subscribe to blog and email list - Importance of healing and self-care to show up as a better version of oneself - Suppressing false self and embracing the true self that God created - Understanding that one's purpose can change over time - Warning against not clearing out negative voices - Development stages of individuals and using centering prayer to clear the mind - Engaging with God's Word as a process that is different for everyone - Importance of knowing oneself and values clarification to align actions with values - Spiritual forces going against one's plans

Connect with Tracy Taris and access ongoing personal growth content on her website at https://tracytaris.com/.

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On this episode of Flourish-Meant, Tina Yeager speaks with guest Destiny Yarbrough about spending time with the Holy Spirit to build trust, the importance of vulnerability and being real, and finding a qualified counselor. Destiny also discusses their personal story of going through a painful divorce with an addict, the dangers of keeping emotions bottled up, and the importance of self-love. They share a personal account of being called to Israel and encourages Christians to pray for Israel and be knowledgeable about the prophesies in the Bible. The episode emphasizes the importance of change, forgiveness, and taking responsibility for one's actions.

Destiny Yarbrough is on a mission to reach the world for Christ. Destiny is the founder and publisher of Salt & Light Christian Lifestyle Magazine. The Magazine's purpose is to touch, move and inspire readers through the word of God. Destiny is also an ordained minister with a passion for Deliverance and hope to women who are beginning a relationship with Jesus and women who are in church every Sunday yet need a spiritual breakthrough to take their faith walk to the next level. Destiny also shares her message through her book Visions, Dreams and Destiny: God has called you to be a visionary, bring your dreams to life and walk in your destiny. Destiny is best known for her Christian TV talk show, DestinyX "Making a Difference for The Next Generation" A lively and insightful Christian talk show dedicated to encourage and inspire The Next generation. Destiny is also The Executive Producer of her show. Before becoming an Author, TV host, Conference host/MC, producer and publisher Destiny knew that her love for people was more than simply "being a people person" but indicated a call to minister to people. Destiny brings a fresh approach to speaking, magazine publishing, and conference hosting by meeting people right where they are.

Some topics covered in this audio session are:

• The importance of spending time with the Holy Spirit and seeking revelation - Man will always let us down, but the Holy Spirit can reveal secret things and give us wisdom - Seeking revelation is our lifeline with the Holy Spirit and helps us discern God's will - The speaker's personal story of going through a painful divorce with an addict and writing a book about addiction, forgiveness, and breaking the cycle of codependency - The book aims to set captives free and prevent addiction from tearing apart families - The importance of finding a qualified counselor and being cautious of seeking counsel from unqualified people - Bottling up emotions is like shaking a soda bottle, and everything can explode when released - The need for vulnerability and self-examination for healing and growth - The surgical process of surrendering to the Holy Spirit and embracing healthy mindsets - People have to want to change and do the work themselves - The speaker's belief in the simplicity of revelation and God's word - Breaking generational curses and sticking to biblical principles - God shows us the secret things and provides answers when we trust Him - The importance of self-love and being mindful of one's heart space for spiritual growth - Checking if tasks are from the Holy Spirit or personal desires - Projecting positive spiritual energy can attract others - The speaker's connection to Israel and being called to bridge the gap between Jews and Christians - The need to pray for Israel and understand biblical prophecies - Identity in Christ and obedience to His calling are more important than material possessions or good works - The value of authenticity, collaboration, trust, and unity in the body of Christ - The importance of taking responsibility for one's actions and seeking true change through the Holy Spirit - Forgiveness and repentance bring freedom; vulnerability and trust in God break the enemy's hold

Watch the show, Destiny X TV, find Salt and Light Magazine, and get your copy of Destiny's book, Visions, Dreams, and Destiny, at her website, http://www.destinyx.tv/. Experience the documentary film, Bridging the Gap in the Holy Land on YouTube and via the media outlets supporting Destiny X TV and Pearls of Promise TV.

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On this episode of Flourish-Meant, we delve into the topic of finding strength and opportunities in challenging situations. Our guest, Debbie W. Wilson, shares her personal experiences as a mother and her unexpected role in heading up a decorating committee for her church. We explore the story of Deborah and Barak from the Bible and the need for support in difficult times. We discuss how our view of God can greatly impact how we face our problems, and how shifting our focus from ourselves to God can lead to strength and growth. We are joined by Debbie W. Wilson, an ordinary woman serving an extraordinary God, with 24 years of experience as a former Christian counselor and bible teacher. Debbie shares her personal connection to the topic of needing a big God, drawing parallels to Moses and his journey of self-doubt. We explore the significance of knowing who God is and how seeking reassurance from Him can transform our faith. We also touch on the story of Gideon and the power of obeying God and taking the next steps. Our guest shares her own journey of shedding burdens and finding rest in Jesus, emphasizing the importance of trusting in His strength rather than relying on our own. We discuss the importance of aligning our image of God with the reality of His greatness, and how studying Bible stories can provide strength and guidance for desperate times. The episode concludes with a personal story of perseverance, reminding listeners to not give up, even in the face of challenges and doubt. We explore the concept of a "cloud of witnesses" as a source of encouragement from Hebrews 12. Tune in to this episode of Flourish-Meant for stories, insights, and practical advice on finding strength in a big God when faced with overwhelming circumstances.

Debbie W. Wilson is an ordinary woman serving an extraordinary God. Drawing from her walk with Christ, twenty-four years as a former Christian counselor, and decades as a Bible teacher, Debbie writes and speaks to connect sojourners to the heart of Christ.

Debbie W. Wilson, a senior in college, initially had no desire to go into ministry. However, after attending a conference and feeling God's calling, she reluctantly applied for a position in International Student Ministry. Wrestling with self-doubt and believing she was not the right fit, Debbie eventually joined the ministry and grew in her faith. Through this experience, she discovered that God chooses individuals not based on their qualifications, but as an opportunity for personal growth and reliance on Him. Despite continually feeling inadequate when faced with God's calling, Debbie has learned to trust in His strength and has embraced her love for ministry.

In this episode we cover the following topics:

• - Personal experience of difficulty with children's sleep patterns and feeling overwhelmed - Finding strength and opportunities in challenging situations - Heading up a decorating committee for church despite lack of experience - Feeling overwhelmed but still desiring to do what is asked - Reference to the story of Deborah and Barak from the Bible - Small view of God and big view of problems - Importance of stepping out in faith and following God - The guest, Debbie W. Wilson, introduction - Debbie's experience as a former Christian counselor and bible teacher - Focus on shifting from self-focused mindset to focusing on God - Comparison with Moses and the importance of focusing on God rather than oneself - Seeking reassurance from God and experiencing transformation, using the example of Gideon - Shedding anything that is holding someone back, not necessarily sin - Personal experience of wanting to make everyone happy and realizing the need to give the burden to the Lord - Encouragement to cling to Jesus and ask Him for rest when overwhelmed - Witnessing how Jesus carries people through tough times and provides rest - Importance of recognizing it's not about our strength, but what God can do - Questioning the size of our belief in God and aligning it with the true image of God - Personal experience of being called into ministry and feeling inadequate - Importance of studying Bible stories for strength and guidance - Specific mention of the story of the midwives in Exodus 1 - Personal experience of hiking to a waterfall and the importance of not giving up - Need for encouragement from those who have experienced the reward - Advice for someone feeling overwhelmed in their own journey - Reference to Hebrews 12 and the concept of a "cloud of witnesses" for encouragement

Connect with Debbie W. Wilson and find her new book, Little Strength, Big God, on her website https://debbiewwilson.com/

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On this episode of Flourish-Meant, host Tina Yeager invites Becky Harling to discuss the secret to joy in relationships. The episode covers a variety of topics such as the importance of managing expectations, the necessity of being humble in relationships, the significance of the Holy Spirit's intervention, and building personal relationships in today's society. Becky also talks about her new book, Rooted Joy, and the girlfriend gatherings she is starting. Additionally, the episode includes tips on how to listen actively and making others feel heard. Tune in to learn more about the science and theology of being a good listener, nurturing relationships, and seeking joy.

Becky Harling is a relationship expert who understands the importance of leaning on the Holy Spirit to navigate messy relationships. She believes that we were designed for community and intimacy with both God and others, and that relationships are the key to a joyful life. With loneliness on the rise, Becky's insights into building strong, healthy relationships have never been more relevant. Whether you're struggling with a difficult friendship, a challenging marriage, or simply feeling isolated, Becky's guidance will help you show up as your best self and deepen your connection with the people around you.

Topics covered in this episode:

1. Importance of Sharing Opinions - Not everyone needs to share their opinion on everything. We've bought into the lie that we do. - There are times when it's better not to share our opinion because it won't help our relationship with someone we love. - Jesus spent time with people who were very different from him and probably didn't agree with him on everything (e.g., the woman caught in adultery, tax collectors, prostitutes). - Despite the differences, Jesus loved them. - The unity of the body of Christ was on Jesus' heart before he went to the cross.

2. Building Relationships - The best way to stay connected with Becky Harling is through her website, where she offers free resources and a weekly devotional blog. - She can also be found on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter. - Her new book, Rooted Joy, is the first in a series of girlfriend gatherings aimed at providing more intimate settings for women to connect and grow together in faith.

3. Managing Expectations in Relationships - Speaker emphasizes the importance of managing expectations in relationships - Jesus is the only one who can completely fill our deepest emotional needs - Speaker suggests holding self-management meetings and understanding why we may feel disappointed in a relationship to avoid placing unfair expectations on others - Loving someone means giving them freedom and not constantly relying on them to fill our needs as only Jesus can do that

4. Changing the Narrative in Relationships - The speaker suggests changing the narrative in your head to improve how you show up in relationships. - Changing the narrative involves abandoning lies and claiming God's truth. - Initiating contact with others is important - reach out to neighbors or church community. - Being a good conversationalist is easy - just learn how to ask questions and keep the focus on the other person.

5. Building Deep Relationships Through Humility - The speaker talks about a book called "Rooted Joy" which is based on the book of Philippians in the Bible. - The book talks about humility and how it's important to show up humbly in relationships. - Harvard conducted a study on happy people and found that those who show up humble in their relationships are the happiest. - God designed us to find deep joy by living humbly with one another in deeply connected lives. - Science is now proving what God has said all along. - The ability to understand and connect with others on a deeper level requires the presence of Holy Spirit. - Believers can ask the Holy Spirit to help them focus on the other person and understand their heart.

6. Conflict Resolution in Relationships - The Holy Spirit loves to answer this prayer and shows insights into the other person's heart. - Listening actively to someone's ranting or upset behavior by seeking to understand the cause can help make the person feel heard and understood. - The speaker relies on prayer for guidance in all aspects of life. - They admit to struggling with conflict and have had to mature in this area due to their leadership roles. - The speaker has shifted their view of conflict from something destructive to an opportunity to strengthen relationships. - They emphasize the importance of listening to understand the other person's perspective in conflict, rather than trying to prove their own point. - The Holy Spirit's intervention can help to soften both parties' hearts and resolve the conflict.

7. Building Personal Relationships - The speaker is very relational and values her relationships with her husband and adult children. - She offers her husband and herself grace during times of disagreement. - She has had challenges building friendships, particularly during a time living overseas as a missionary. - She learned to love people for who they are and invest in relationships outside of her comfort zone. - She started a Bible study that led to many women coming to know the Lord. - The speaker discusses the difficulty of building personal relationships in today's society due to the impact of social media. They explain that spending too much time on social media can lead to feelings of loneliness, despite the perceived connection.

8. Listening Ministry - The speaker has written a book called "How to Listen so People Will Talk". - They acknowledge that they are a talkative person but strive to be a good listener. - The speaker believes that listening is a forgotten ministry and a way to show love, referencing Dietrich Bonhoeffer and David Augsberger. - Listening well translates into making others feel loved, and not just hearing them superficially.

Connect with Becky Harling at https://beckyharling.com/ and find her new book, Rooted Joy, from Iron Stream Media

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On this episode of Flourish-Meant, host Tina Yeager interviews Susan Henson, co-founder of Compassionate Hope Ministries, about breaking chains and experiencing compassionate hope. Susan shares her personal journey as a missionary, speaker, and author, inspiring listeners to pursue a closer relationship with God. Later in the episode, listeners learn about the efforts to rescue and provide education for children who have experienced trafficking and abuse in the Philippines and Thailand. To support Compassionate Hope's mission, the website provides resources and opportunities for donors to partner and connect personally with their beneficiaries.

Susan is the co-founder with her husband, Al, of Compassionate Hope and Lighthouse Ministries in Antioch, Tennessee. She is a popular women's ministry speaker, sharing the message of Compassionate Hope and encouraging women in discovering God's redemptive plan for their lives.

Key topics discussed in this episode include:

- Discussion on the topic of breaking chains in our lives and experiencing compassionate hope. - Discussion on Susan's book, "Breaking Invisible Chains" endorsed by Tim Tebow and Steven Curtis Chapman. - Overview of Breaking the Chains conferences hosted by Susan for people worldwide. - Importance of understanding and experiencing compassionate hope. - Speaker's journey to Compassionate Hope as a ministry worker, serving overseas with persecuted believers and building homes of hope. - Importance of walking with the Lord and building a closer relationship with God. - Overview of Compassionate Hope and their work in rescuing children from trafficking and abuse in the Philippines and Thailand. - The number one injustice against children in the world and Compassionate Hope's efforts in rescuing the OSEC children in the Philippines. - Overview of Ellie's story, who was rescued by Compassionate Hope after being subjected to online sexual exploitation of children. - The crucial role of partnerships in raising awareness and helping more children who are still being abused. - Susan's journey of finding relief in the Word of God during dark days due to her son's birth defects. - The importance of viewing the Word of God as an umbrella against lies. - The significance of studying the names and character of God to build trust in Him. - Highlighting the importance of forgiveness and God's redeeming nature.

Connect with Susan at compassionatehope.org

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Hey, fellow entrepreneurs! If you struggle with insecurity, you're not alone. I had an inspiring conversation on my podcast episode with Dr. Kim Allen about crushing insecurity. We talked about identifying our spiritual gifts, not comparing ourselves to men, and discerning the voices in our minds. Dr. Allen provided practical tips on how to overcome insecurity by getting back into the fight and not giving in to perfectionism. Don't let insecurity hold you back from your destiny and purpose. Check out "Crushing Insecurity" by Dr. Kim Allen, now available on Amazon, End Game Press, or her website. Let's crush insecurity together and reach our full potential.

Dr. Kim Allen is an accomplished professional in Information Technology, Spiritual Leadership, and Education. With specialties in planning, professional development, adult education, and small group leadership, she develops and presents curricula, mentors women who need technical skills to return to the workplace, and assists other spiritual leaders in facilitating life-changing materials. Dr. Allen received her Master's degree in Business Computer Information Systems Management and Doctorate of Theology while working full time, pastoring, raising a family, leading small groups, and mentoring students. In addition, through online education, Dr. Allen has provided curriculum resources worldwide.

On this episode of Flourish-Meant, Dr. Kim Allen discusses the topic of Crushing Insecurity. Dr. Allen shares her personal experiences of struggling with insecurity and her journey of overcoming it. She highlights the importance of authentic relationships and seeking guidance from God in identifying the root cause of insecurity. Dr. Allen also provides practical tips for overcoming insecurity, including acknowledging vulnerability and taking responsibility for holding onto unforgiveness. The discussion covers societal pressure, self-talk, and the difficulty of determining who to trust. Dr. Allen's book, Crushing Insecurity, is also discussed, which can be purchased on Amazon or the author's website. Listeners are encouraged to confront their insecurities and pursue their passions in order to fulfill their destiny and purpose.

Here are the key points we discussed:

Moment of realizing gifts and calling - Inspiring other women to share faith - Overcoming the belief that past failures can't be used by God - Women struggling to compare themselves to men due to societal pressure - Identifying and operating in areas where God wants us to grow and flourish - Study by Hewlett Packard on women in leadership positions - Women only applying for positions when 100% qualified, while men apply when 66% qualified - Importance of remembering God's words to overcome self-doubt and limitations - Change of perspective after hurricane - Authentic relationships with people and with God - Importance of rest and not overworking - Common fear and insecurity in pursuing buried dreams - Different reasons for insecurity depending on environment and upbringing - Overcoming insecurity involves prayer, seeking guidance, and discerning voices - Example of family with sign due to theft highlights difficulty in determining trust - Prayer and forgiveness can open up new possibilities in relationships - Taking responsibility for holding onto unforgiveness is crucial in overcoming insecurity - People in crisis or with unresolved trauma may have a hard time determining who to trust - Toxic self-talk and difficulty distinguishing helpful and harmful influences - Relationships are important in allowing others to speak truth into our lives - Practical tips for overcoming insecurity from Dr. Kim Allen - Insecurity is the enemy of destiny and purpose - Importance of courageously standing up to negative words and choosing to believe in God's words - Guest's book, "Crushing Insecurity," can be purchased on Amazon or their website - Speaker's personal experience with insecurity and pursuing her dreams - Allen's experience as a technician in IT and dream of empowering women - Importance of addressing spiritual insecurity - Past traumas and wounds leading to intimidation - Despite appearing successful, individuals can still struggle with insecurity.

Crushing Insecurity: Pushing Boundaries and Pursuing Dreams (End Game Press, 2023) is a powerful resource for women, encouraging them to increase their confidence, explore their creativity, and live life abundantly in their unique purposes. Available at endgamepress.com, Dr. Allen's book provides honesty in her own journey and offers a wealth of hard-earned wisdom to guide other women to a richer life in the areas of faith, family, business, and education.

Connect with Dr. Kim Allen at https://www.kimallenauthor.com/

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