FWEP112 Why anyone can be successful online and be a person of influence with Neil Patel, New York Times Best-Selling Author 

In this episode, we have a very special guest. He is a New York Times best-selling author. The Wall Street Journal calls him a top influencer on the web, Forbes says he is one of the top 10 marketers, and Entrepreneur Magazine says he created one of the 100 most brilliant companies. He was recognized as a top 100 entrepreneur under the age of 30 by President Obama and a top 100 entrepreneur under the age of 35 by the United Nations. He is Neil Patel. 

Online success

No matter the platform passion is the starting point of success. Work on what you are passionate about.

(2:35) If you want to succeed online what you need to do is go and find something you are passionate about and go on and do that. So, that’s the first, if you don’t know what you’re gonna do as an entrepreneur you’re not gonna succeed online. You have to do something. You can’t just go with the vision of “I want to make money” that doesn’t work find something you’re passionate and solve a problem and make your solution ideally affordable and easy to use.

Content creation

Choose content that you are most comfortable with. Not because it worked for others it can work for you. Find your expertise and work from there.

(3:17 )The strategy for creating a lot of content is to find content that you create the easiest. Some people are gonna write, some people are gonna audio some people are better at the video. So find what you are naturally good at and do more of that content. 
 
(3:32) The second thing is, create a content calendar, which will help you map out when to write the content, when to release the content, which will help you do content in quality.

Journey towards success

We can’t escape the fact of experiencing the ups and downs in life. But most important how do we find a solution for the problem that we have. 

(4:20) A lot of ups and downs but the key is if you love what you’re doing you’ll continue pushing forward and you’re gonna make mistakes and learn from them and then just avoid making the same ones over and over again. And eventually, you’ll get to where you want to be.

Inspiration for content

You will always make time for what stirs you up.

(4:37) I love what I’m creating and if you are passionate it’s easy to create but if you are not passionate it’s like pulling teeth, it’s hard.

(5:05) You’ll find the time if you are truly passionate

Two heads are better than one

It is said that two heads are better than one and man can’t live alone. So in the business world, we need to look for someone who can help us in our business. 

(5:40) When you are a solo entrepreneur the best thing you can do is try to find a business partner. So, think of a marriage having two people is easier than one to raise kids and a family. 

With a business, you want to find someone else who is a business partner who has different skills than you.

(5:59) Find someone who complements you, who does different stuff that will help you grow faster.

Person of influence

Being a person of influence is quite challenging. But the question is how do we use our influence? We must always remember not to take advantage of the influence we have over others.

(6:10) My influence lies in entrepreneurs and marketers and I grew my influence by just helping people. 

Key Takeaways:

1. Look for something you are passionate about.
2. Find out what you are naturally good at.
3. Grow your influence by helping others.
4. Find someone who compliments you.
5. Push forward, despite the obstacles.

Key Resources:
Subscribe to Genecia’s Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWoman
Visit SRW’s website: https://www.soulrichwoman.com
Follow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)
Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/
Check Genecia’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/

Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.com

Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

111: Win your money mindset with Denise Duffield Thomas The Lucky Bitch

Denise is the money mentor for the new wave of online entrepreneurs who want to make money and change the world. She helps women charge premium prices, release the fear of money and create First Class Lives. 

Her books, Lucky Bitch, Get Rich, Lucky Bitch, and Chillpreneneur give a fresh and funny roadmap to living a life of abundance without burnout. Her Money Bootcamp has helped over 6,000 students. 

She’s a lazy introvert, a Hay House author, and an unbusy mother of 3. She owns a rose farm and lives by the beach in sunny Australia. 

Find her:

www.DeniseDT.com
Instagram: @denisedt
Facebook: @denisedt

FWEP00111: Win your money mindset with Denise Duffield Thomas The Lucky Bitch

In this episode, we are talking about a woman of influence. We have a very special guest, a money mentor for the new wave of online entrepreneurs who wants to make money and change the world. She helps women charge premium prices, release the fear of money and create First Class Lives. 

Knowing the Power of influence

Knowing influence will serve you as a leader in your family, community, and friends to the people that surround you. Being influential can be learned as Denise stated about the influence.

(2:30) “You could learn how to influence, you could learn how to be more charismatic and you could learn how to be a leader. You could persuade people, you could influence people to behave in a way that you actually want them to behave. But that would feel really good for them as well. And that’s when I got the concept of being a leader and leadership.” 

A woman of influence is a challenging role because you must be careful with the way you act and speak.

Common Myths about the power of influence

Sometimes we can’t escape the fact of being scared of something. (4:04)“So, one thing that I found a lot of women is scared about. They are actually scared of their own innate ability to be a leader and to influence others. Because they’re worried that it’s kinda bit manipulative. And they’re worried that they might use that power to do not-so-good things rather than do good things.”
 
A lot of people want to be influential but they don’t have the courage or sometimes they are too weak to withstand others that they are often taken advantage of. But most women want to become influential to touch and change lives.

(4:31) “A lot of women, want to influence people so they can help them transform their lives, they want influence people so they can encourage to do something good for themselves. But I think that's the misconception that people think or worry. That if they really enhance that power in themselves that will be very manipulative.”

Maximizing Women of Influence 

An empowered woman can do great things with her influence and touch many lives in wonderful ways. 

(10:12) “It has massive opportunities for women to have their own business to make their own money, empower other women, hire other women to inspire other women to do the same, that’s what  the world needs at the moment to make the smoothest shift to shape the world in ways that would benefit a lot of people.”

How do you measure influence?

(10:51) “Influence to some people means power. It means being on top, being the winner making and earning money; beating everyone else. For women, we can use our power for good so everyone thrive not just a few people and it’s not about beating other people. That’s why people shy away from this feeling of wanting to be influential, because we feel like, one person can do it.”

The downside of being influential 

(13:05) I don’t want to be political and controversial. 

I don’t want people to think badly about me. 

(13:43)You have to consider your words a little bit more. 

Key Takeaways:

1. Influence is not about power but the ability to change other people’s lives.
2. Don’t shy away from wanting to be influential for fear of being hated.
3. Use your influence to make people’s lives better.
4. A woman of influence can help shape the world.
5. An influential person screens her words and actions.

Key Resources:
Subscribe to Genecia’s Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWoman
Visit SRW’s website: https://www.soulrichwoman.com
Follow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)
Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/
Check Genecia’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/

Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.com

Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

110: Veronica Tan The Woman behind the 100 million dollar personal development business

In this episode we have a very special guest she is Veronica Tan. She was recently awarded the 2017 Global Women Inspiration Woman award in London. The award recognizes the contributions of women towards the Advancement of personal growth and championing the development of business Women globally.

Realizing the dream

Our life’s calling will come to us as we do our best in what we are currently working on. Like Veronica, the foundation for Success Resources came to her and her partner as she was attending seminars while still employed.
 

(1:15) So I stumble on personal development and realize there’s more to life, more to what we do and be better and bigger. 

(1:25) So I started to attend seminars and then, of course, over time because of the program, events that I do, we go, we meet the team of people, like my partner, Richard today, and my other business partner Patrick Liew. 

(1:55)When you love what you do just go into 27 years. 

Be mindful of the company that you keep

As we go along this life we will meet a lot of people, we will encounter different personalities and characters. So we need to make sure that the person or people we hang around are reliable and can build us up. In Veronica’s words, she said:
 
(2:08)  I was fortunate because, Then I was only an employee and I do go and attend a lot of enrichment program and then through the enrichment program I meet a lot of people and  is really like what we say today, it is about "who are you surrounded with?” Because the people you hang around within this area of learning and growing so that's how I chance upon it. 

(2:34)So I think it’s very important that you know who you hang around with. 

(2:39)You are the average of the 6 people you hang around with the most

(2:49)Most of the time I hang around with my husband which is my business partner now Richard Tan, the other partner Patrick Liew was really very instrumental to train me to expose me to the area of public speaking and meeting people. Other than that person that I’m very influenced by is my family members and then the speakers that I hang around with. So, in the early days, it was people really like Robert and Kim Kiyosaki whom we started with until today is actually 20 years of partnership that we become good friends. Through Robert and Kim, we really got to understand the power of personal growth and business development, financial investment. 

(03:44) The last person is Tony Robins these are the people who have influenced us in what we do today in the area of our business ethics, work ethics, and the way we treat people.

We must be wise in choosing who we call friends or partners in life.

Business Ethics and  Principles 

In this life, we do have different business ethics and principles. How we grow our business will affect how we treat people that surround us. Veronica and her husband are strong believers in treating people well.

(4:21) Number 1. Love people- Everybody has greatness in them. So look at everybody you’ll see their greatness, you’ll see their goodness that nobody’s born to be a bad person “Always look at the greatness of somebody” and ask yourself what can I do to bring out the best in this person. So it’s people's development. 

(4:49) We believe in people and we value people we look at people big and small.

(5:05) From the non-successful ones we call them small people and then we coach, build them bring the best out of them and that they become great. So we believe in people.

(5:18) The second one is about honesty and trust. We cannot do things alone if you don’t trust your team, you don’t trust people, you don’t trust your partners, you don’t trust the speaker then nothing will happen. Then you’ll be so careful and so cautious then you will fall into the scarcity mindset. Because you don’t trust so you start with trusting people first. 

(5:42) and then you control risk. I think things can go sour, go bad, So what? So Most important is you know it’s a controlled risk, you have to trust the process, trust the universe that all would be great. 

From nothing to Something

We all start from scratch, most of us started small before we become great and successful.

(6:42) We evolve from starting as a small team and grow along the way definitely we faced challenges in the area of people. Recruiting people, finding the wrong people. In the end whom you trust did not turn out the way you wanted. And of course, some consequences but they happen but again so what? 

Making Mistakes

We will make mistakes, we should not dwell on them but use them as a learning experience.
 
(7:23)We made mistakes in the area of working with the wrong people and then we also made mistakes in the area of finding the wrong speakers sometimes we are not perfect.

(8:09)So in the end, I do have struggles with speakers I picked wrongly but again so what? 

Having Faith

Running a business is never easy, it is not a walk in the park. But according to Veronica with faith, your business will grow. Here are more of her words of wisdom: 

(8:55) I know I have faith and have a God. If you are obedient, you are faithful  I believe God will take care of us.  So if you do the right thing again, the universe will take care of us.

(9:14)You’re doing the right thing the universe will bless you, will open doors for you so there is an element of certainty and trust in yourself first. Now can I make mistakes? Of course. That’s why I said so what because it’s an experience that makes me a better person. 

Work-Life Balance 

Part of being truly successful in managing all areas of your life. 

(10:05) My favorite line is that it’s true, you can’t have two persons at one time in managing. I call it value or rules. Richard, I make him the head of the business, head of the family I just stay as a neck. So, you know the neck actually controls the head. 

But yet you give him you want to be the head. 

(10:35) And you just stay as a neck to manage them. And tell them to turn left, turn right turn up, look down so because of these so-called values and principles I have with my husband, so we don’t clash, we don’t fight as much, as you hear other people can’t work with their spouse. Because there’s always conflicting values and conflicting instructions so we are quite clear with that and that’s what kept us working happily for 27 years.

Managing a team

Handling a group of people can sometimes be a challenge. Here is a nugget of truth that Veronica wants to share.

(11:34) Everything is by agreement, so I have a prearranged agreement with my team, my husband.

(11:47) We are a team, we need each other. You are great at doing this, I’m great at doing this so let’s not cross boundaries, then coupled with respect. 

(11:59) Respect the agreement, that okay you do your thing and I will do mine. We welcome feedback. We make mistakes, if there’s feedback don’t get upset and learn.&n...

 109: 21 Lessons On Launching An International Platform And Make It Profitable Part 2

Welcome to today’s episode! The part 2 of 21 Lessons from launching Soul Rich Woman and many other launches. 

(1:25-11:44) Number 11. Now, LAUNCH RESISTANCE IS REAL. Now, everyone experiences it so the fact that if you have resistance, people have resistance signing up for your programs, products, or your services doesn’t mean that you’re not meant to launch.

(1:54-2:09) There are a lot of resistance. People ask questions, funny questions, weird questions, interesting questions, you know. Don’t take it as a sign to stop. Just keep going even though people are resisting.

(2:40-3:03) Number 12. REFUNDS WILL HAPPEN. They are a business right of passage and are inevitable. Do not stress about it. Doesn’t mean when people ask for a refund, you are not good or you are lousy because everyone get refund request all the time.

(3:41-3:49) So celebrate the wins and focus on that rather than celebrating and focusing on the negative, right?

(3:50-4:03) 13. PEOPLE WILL STEAL YOUR STUFF. Now don’t stress too much about protecting all your IP. I mean, some people will join, competitors will join, and steal your stuff

(4:07-4:26) I mean get legal on them if you need to put Terms & Conditions in place. Don’t hide for fear that this will happen. Now, this is pretty rare and lots of people will miss out on your goodness if you let the fear of all these copycats stop you from launching.

(4:27-4:30) Number 14. PEOPLE WILL UNSUBSCRIBE. 

(4:33-4:35) Unsubscribes will go up during a launch.

(4:47-4:53) And when I launch Soul Rich Woman there were unsubscribes because maybe it’s not relevant to them. 

(4:55-5:13) That’s okay because we can’t just hold on to the people forever. I mean people’s needs and people’s seasons will change, right? It’s nothing personal. Just turn off those unsubscribe notifications and celebrate for those who stay on your list.

(5:18-5:30) Number 15. PEOPLE WILL GET PISSED OFF BY WHAT YOU’RE SELLING. Now people will get irrationally angry that you’re selling something even if you’re giving away 90% of your stuff for free. 

(5:31-5:56) I am a true-blue experiencer for that. That’s why I have to tell you this. It sucks, okay? And it hurts. I already did 3,000 episodes of Facebook live- FREE, content that I teach and share my knowledge. And then people get angry about the stuff that we are selling, right? But you know what? It’s okay for you to make money from your business. If people don’t like it, they don’t buy it, that’s okay.

(6:03-6:22) Number 16. PLAN BUT NOT TOO MUCH. Don’t get caught up in creating the perfect planning spreadsheet or that perfect launch spreadsheet. You know what? A simple google document to-do list will do just fine. Action beats perfect planning every time. 

(6:38-6:41) Number 17. YOU WON’T BE ABLE TO IMPLEMENT EVERYTHING. 

(6:42-6:46) What is on the paper and what is in your head sometimes, don’t get translated out to reality.

(6:48-6:56) You can just keep a file of ideas for next time. Okay? You won’t be able to implement everything this time but it’s handy to keep it in one place so you remember. 

(7:28-7:38) Even though you won’t be able to implement everything now, you will still be able to implement something especially after more experiences accumulated.

(7:38-7:47) Number 18. INCENTIVIZE AND SUPPORT YOUR AFFILIATES. I’m a true believer of affiliates or what we called associates partners 

(7:50-8:04) Because they will help you to sell more because you are also leveraging on their audience. But it takes work to support them. Like you need to increase your customer service capabilities because your affiliates will have a lot of questions. 

(8:38-8:56) I don’t assume that they know how to become an affiliate of Soul Rich Woman or an associate partner of Soul Rich Woman and EduPac. You have to spell it out, literally. Like how to log in, how to use your affiliate links, how to market well, how to even talk about your program. 

(9:14-9:19) You will also attract different types of affiliates depending on the price of your program. 

(9:32-9:37) And people love competitions so have a sales or a leads competition.

(9:56-9:58) Launching- don’t do it alone.

(10:02-10:18) Number 19. MINDSET, MINDSET, MINDSET. I worked through so many blocks during the launch. Book in with your mentor to smash through the blocks. Talk to your mastermind everything you need to keep your vibration high.

(10:18-10:33) 20. MISTAKES ARE INEVITABLE AND VERY VERY VALUABLE. You are going to make mistakes, I confirm and I guarantee that. And that’s fine because each time you launch you’re going to get better and better. Each time you launch you’re going to build on the next level of success. 

(10:34-10:37) Number 21.  DON’T COMPARE. Everyone starts from zero.

(10:56-11:03) We all start somewhere, alright? Don’t assume that everyone has seen your stuff. Launch it again!

(11:05-11:10) I hope that you are ready for your next step. I really admit that.

Key Takeaways:

1. Just keep going.
2. Action beats perfect planning every time.
3. Launching- don’t do it alone.
4. Don’t compare
5. Plan but not too much. 

Key Resources:
Subscribe to Genecia’s Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWoman
Visit SRW’s website: https://www.soulrichwoman.com
Follow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)
Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/
Check Genecia’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/

Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.com

Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

 108: 21 Lessons On Launching An International Platform And Make It Profitable Part 1

Today I want to talk about the 21 Lessons from launching Soul Rich Woman, doing our membership programs, and I would love to share them with you.

The Biggest Lessons

 (1:31-1:49) Here are some of the biggest lessons from our biggest launch ever. Number 1, Life happens so get prepared- Life always happens. During the month we launch Soul Rich Woman we have lots of stuff going.

(2:00-2:03) It’s really helpful to do at least some stuff in advance

(2:05-2:16) Because let’s face it, life doesn’t stop just because you are launching your business or launching a podcast. Don’t leave everything to the last minute.

(2:16-2:21) Number 2, Get support. Now, you don’t really have to do it all by yourself.

(2:25-2:43) I mean whether it’s your podcast or your book or your business, whether it’s a product-based business or a service-based business, I want to tell you this: Outsource as much as possible because it will multiply your output.

(2:51-3:08) You can get people from Fiverr or Elance if you don’t have a big budget because there are so many… so much moving pieces to launch a business or podcasts or everything or otherwise go check out https://www.instanttribeleader.com/ 

(3:35-3:36) Number three,

(3:37-3:40) Sales pages take forever!

(3:42-3:51) When you build a sales page to launch either your business, your podcasts, your products, or your services, sometimes it will take 10x or a hundred times longer than you will think. 

(4:02-4:07) Even with an existing sales page, making tweaks take so much longer than you think. 

(4:15-4:33) Good sales page can take hours and hours of your time. So do it early and take some time to sometimes take a breathe off and away from your sales page so that you can come back with a different perspective and continue working on them. So never ever do it last minute.

(4:33-4:38) Number 4. Email cannot be your only marketing channel 

(4:39-4:57) Don’t assume that everyone reads your emails. And honestly, deliverability over the years since I started going online since 2013 has gone down because of stronger spam filters, promotional folders, and email fatigue.

(4:58-5:11) You have to promote on all your marketing channels. From your podcast to your Facebook, to your LinkedIn, to your Instagram, to your Tiktok, to your emails, to Facebook ads, wherever.

(5:31-5:41) It is important that email can’t be your only marketing channel. And also people are often decluttering their inbox and even their FB feeds with apps.

(6:39-6:46) Number 5. Spell stuff out for your customers. You see people don’t always read too closely. 

(7:03-7:18) We have so much problems with people who just don’t read at all even though they’re provided step-by-step instructions like arrows pointing here, arrows pointing there, to tell them the really obvious stuff. 

(7:38-7:43) Sometimes, no matter how many times you say it, you’ll still get emails or WhatsApp.

(7:54-8:09) When actually, everything is done automated. All you need to do is just fill up the form for the Make It Happen micro podcast show and record on the phone itself. Just submit a voice note or voice recording of 3 to 5 minutes recording using your phone.

(8:11-8:12) You don’t need a fancy microphone.

(8:15-8:18) People are just busy. They don’t read at all.

(8:19-8:23) Number six. Pretty doesn’t necessarily sell.

(8:40-8:58) To be frank, don’t try and get too cute with design in your materials logo, no problem. But honestly, sales page can be really simple. Don’t let your Buy Now button or Sign up now button get lost in the crowd of beautiful images.

(8:59-9:00) Number seven. Track your conversions.

(9:05-9:15) Now if you don’t understand that 1 to 2% of people will buy over time the statistics will play out. Unless you are doing more high-touch selling, then YES you can convert higher.

(9:16-9:20) Number 8. Book in self-care. Take care of yourself. Have self-love.

(10:04-10:14) So really, it’s important to put them together and put yourself together so that you can care for yourself while building and launching your business. 

(10:31-10:36) Number 9. Track and celebrate every success.

(10:56-11:04) Number 10. Deadlines, bonuses, and incentives work. You really need to build up your deadlines, your bonuses, and incentives.

(11:10-11:16) Humans need scarcity and deadlines to motivate them. So get it done.

Key Takeaways:

1. Life happens so get prepared.
2. Get support.
3. Track your conversions.
4. Have self-love.
5.  Track and celebrate every success.

Key Resources:
Subscribe to Genecia’s Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWoman
Visit SRW’s website: https://www.soulrichwoman.com
Follow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)
Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/
Check Genecia’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/

Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.com

Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

 107: Power Of Self-Love

Welcome to today’s episode. I’m your host, Genecia Alluora. Today I want to talk about a huge lesson in self-love. The power of self-love is key to a lot of women’s success.

 A  lot of women are extremely nurturing and loving to everyone except themselves. Some psychologists say is because from an early age girls are taught to be helpful, selfless, and no to trouble anyone. I think it causes some women to feel guilty as if they are not worth spending time or money on or even asking for help. This attitude has a direct impact on our weight, health, relationships, sex, and success and holds back so much potential that could make a huge difference in the world to own and love the F-word.

Take care of yourself

(2:21-2:25) Now, I have to admit being one of the worst in self-love. 

(2:29-2:42) I was on the ground with several jobs on the go. As a waitress, I was teaching yoga, aerobics, line dancing and not giving myself physical care or even rest.

(2:44-2:59) Now, I remember a really bad time in my life when my self-care was at an all-time low. Now, it serves as a powerful reminder that I am in control of how I feel about myself.

(4:12-4:30) Of course today, I am much better now. But I have to remind myself that I’m allowed to take care of myself lovingly and I deserve a great relationship. That even though It’s something that I still need to work on, at least I’ve come a long way since that day.

Self-love is important

(4:31-4:54) So why is self-love so important? Now, there are some women who seem effortlessly, confidently, beautiful and things just magically happen for them. They might not be the smartest, the nicest, or the most attractive, but there’s something indefinable that makes them stand out like a star.

(4:55-5:38) And usually, these women get what they want because they ask for it and they feel like they deserve it. It’s just as simple as that. They think nothing of treating themselves as they would a special friend or someone they love. This is not selfish. This is a form of self-love and acceptance. Now self-love and self-care is not just about buying yourself flowers, going to the hairdresser, going for massage, but treating yourself how you would treat others. This includes forgiving yourself for mistakes in any area of your life. It’s about being kind to yourself.

What makes you feel special and loved?

(7:02-7:20) For me, I love spending time alone in solitude. Sitting in my beautiful space, either at home or in a park, or just listening to podcasts and enjoying the beauty around me along East coast park.

(7:21-7:32) When I’m busy, fun things go out of the window. And when we are busy, fun things go out of the window because we think we don’t have time. 

(7:33-7:51) When money is tight, we feel guilty about spending money on non-essential experiences. The reason why it’s so important is that when we laugh and have fun - we feel lighter and happier. And this affects how we treat our bodies as well. 

(8:04-8:13) Don’t let budget issues hold you back from self-care. It’s usually a reflection of how you treat yourself on the inside

(8:36-8:47) Now there are plenty of things you can do that don’t cause too very much money to have very good self-care and therefore power of self-love is unleashed. 

Key takeaways:

1. Treat yourself the way you would treat others.
2. You are in control of how you feel about yourself.
3. Don’t feel guilty
4. You deserve more.
5. Forgive yourself. 

Key Resources:
Subscribe to Genecia’s Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWoman
Visit SRW’s website: https://www.soulrichwoman.com
Follow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)
Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/
Check Genecia’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/

Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.com

Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

106: You're Totally Worth It And Confidently Beautiful - Here's Why

Today I’m doing to share with you that You are totally worth it and confidently beautiful like Miss Universe and Mister Manhunt, or a clean shirt, or a new notebook, or fabulous hair, whatever that you are totally worthy of or confidently beautiful of. Fabulous, Freedom, Financial Independence- whatever that may be to you. It’s entirely up to you.

You Matter

(1:49-2:13) Recently, I read something that Oprah said that struck me. Apparently, rich people will still smell their workout shirts to see if they can wear them again. She realized that she was doing it one day and said to herself, “I deserve to wear a fresh, clean shirt, and I’m worth it.”

(2:48-3:12) Now I told this story at my recent workshop, Soul Rich Woman Blueprint because I utterly believe that great success comes down to self-worth. You show other people how to treat you by the way you treat yourself. But also you will need to send a very strong message to the Universe that you deserve more and are ready for more.

(3:31-3:39) I just wanna say this, you are worth it, and you deserve whatever you want to create in this world. You matter. 

(3:43-3:51) I totally believe in not being wasteful, but many women take the whole self-sacrificing way too far.

(4:41-4:46) I told myself that I really deserve to have an easy life.

(5:01-5:10) So I just wanna tell you that there are some clues that you might be treating yourself like a poor thing or poor person. It’s like a poor mindset.

(5:41-5:55) Like for example, you are only shopping in thrift stores or what we call like the second-hand stores when other people in your family get newer and nicer clothes or because you feel bad about spending money.

(6:03-6:15) Or sometimes you have this thing like you try to do everything yourself, to do something yourself. For example, dyeing your own hair, or tinting your own eyelashes or eyebrows with disastrous results.

(6:54-6:59) But you know it just makes you feel different.

(7:01-7:11) Perhaps you are already widely successful in one area of your life so you would feel guilty if you were great at any… everything.

(7:34-7:59) Well, a lot of women think that when they become the little Miss perfect, they are being arrogant. They think they’re bossy. They think that they become unrelatable so they don’t go all out. They just choose to function in one F-word for example- Fabulous- and they are poor in Financial Independence. Their marriage is not very amazing as well. 

(8:00-8:14) But I wanna tell you here, you can have it all. No guilt, no sacrifice required. Just decide that you are worth living an amazing life to be confidently beautiful because you are worth it.

(8:15-8:30) However, this starts with you. The Universe isn’t going to treat you like a VIP until you do. So celebrate and anchor positive experiences.

(8:37-8:49) So really, you see measurable results in the real world when you show self-nourishing action. This is a sign to the Universe that you are ready. 

(8:58-9:12) Remember it’s how it makes you feel. FEEL- the feeling is very important. Remember, good feelings attract good feelings and that’s how the law of attraction works. 

(9:14-9:39) And like I said if you do this you might just attract the new opportunity that will push you to the new path. Well, it’s not going to happen outside yourself. In fact, the first step is deciding whether you’re worth it, whether you decide to own your F-word, whether you are confidently beautiful and then you’ll be proved right every time. 

Key Takeaways:

1. You are worth it. 
2. You matter.
3. It starts with you.
4. Feelings are very important
5. Success comes down to self-worth.

Key Resources:
Subscribe to Genecia’s Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWoman
Visit SRW’s website: https://www.soulrichwoman.com
Follow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)
Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/
Check Genecia’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/

Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.com

Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

105: What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up? It’s Never Too Late To Find Your Dream Job

I’m Genecia Alluora the author of two best-selling books; Make it happen and Personal branding secrets. Former Ms. Singapore, international Cafe Retail chain owner. Southeast Asia Woman of excellence 2010 and International Progressive Woman 2019. I am also the founder of Soul Rich Woman.

Today in this episode, I wanna talk about what you want to be when you grow up, and it’s never too late to find your dream job. 

Everyone loves to ask our children that question. Mainly because they will say very interesting things, like a doctor, astronaut, maybe a ballerina, a veterinarian. Of course, children aren’t so bothered by the fact that they’ll one day need a job that pays the bills or need to have skills that will pay the bills or care about making sensible decisions and choices. They just want to do what makes them happy. 

What was your burning desire as a child? 

(3:16-3:31) Most people have a secret dream of what they want to be and to do with their lives. Some are already living it - either as a career or as a hobby. Other’s are too scared to even articulate what they want. 

How do you discover your dream job or your purpose in life?

(3:39-3:47) Look for clues. Now, finding your ideal job or purpose is really obvious when you connect the dots when you look back.

(3:54-4:14) It’s really been a dream for a really long time, or it just fits perfectly with your innate skills and talents. People who find their passion in life say that “Everything just came together.” or “All of my experiences in life has led me to this.” 

(4:23-4:27) Clues can be found in childhood as well.

(4:53-5:08) If you have no idea but you know for sure that you’re not doing it because anything about what I’m doing now isn’t specific enough for the universe to manifest the right opportunities, people, and resources to help you along the way.

(5:15-5:50) First, “What do you love to do?”. Two, “What have you always dreamt about doing with your life?”. Three, “What do other people tell you that you are fantastic and fabulous at?”. Number 4, “What dream courses do you think about taking all the time?”. Number 5, “If you didn’t have to worry about taking a pay cut, what about other people thought about you doing with your life? What would you do?”.

(5:56-6:04) These are the questions sometimes I ask and talk about on my lectures as well as in my coaching with my clients.  

(6:05-6:42) So I would say take the first steps and do it afraid anyway because once you have an inkling and idea of your passion like a light bulb of AHA moments, then you can take some steps towards changing your career or living in your purpose. For example, volunteering, shadowing someone in your chosen field, being an apprentice of Soul Rich Woman, taking it on a side hobby, or completing a course like a Soul Rich Woman Blueprint to get new qualifications. It doesn’t matter how old or young are you- time is gonna pass by anyway.

(7:13-7:14) Life is really short.

(7:17-7:18) You only live once. 

(8:28-8:51) So I would say, make the change. I know that making drastic changes can be scary, I get it. But it’s also liberating. Quitting a horrible job is awesome. Applying for your new dream job is a great step in the right direction, but you have to do something. Otherwise,  you’ll stay exactly where you are now.

(8:53-9:45) And if you can’t afford to make the change, then start to plan how you could ease into a new career without completely derailing your life or cause yourself so much stress. Put aside a bit of money for your program, start changing your spending habits now to anticipate a drop in income, or spare some time outside your current job to move towards your dreams- #Sidehustle. Now, you might be working late nights and weekends for a while, but I guaranty, it will pay off eventually and you will enjoy because it will be entirely for you. Remember this is about you. It’s never about me. You investing in yourself is not gonna change my life one bit.

(9:55-10:02) Even just indulging in your passion as a hobby that will make big changes in your life, do it.

What are you doing or going to do to make a change in your life?

(10:52-11:04) My answer to you? OWN IT. As you make the transition into your new life you have to start seeing yourself in a new way before other people will. 

(11:38-11:41) What you say becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. 

(12:45-12:54) Now, if you feel uncomfortable telling people your dream, then get out there and get some experience. Everyone has to start somewhere.

(12:59-3:10) Don’t be embarrassed, okay, if you have to start at the bottom. And sometimes with purpose and passion fueling you? You won’t be there for long.

(13:32-14:07) When you grow outside of your limitations, fears, and self-doubts. When you grow out of the need of needing other people’s approval. When you grow out of living up to the expectations of others. When you grow out of those neigh slayers and dream slayers giving you co-blanket. When you finally give yourself permission to dream and be happy. I love to hear about how you’re making your dream a reality one step at a time.

Key takeaways:

1. My passion is important.
2. Own it.
3. Life is really short.
4. You only live once. 
5. Everyone has to start somewhere.

Key Resources:
Subscribe to Genecia’s Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWoman
Visit SRW’s website: https://www.soulrichwoman.com
Follow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)
Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/
Check Genecia’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/

Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.com

Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

What You Can Do When The Law Of Attraction Is Not Working For You 

Welcome to today’s episode with Genecia Alluora. Author of two best-selling books, Make It happen and Personal Branding  Secrets. Former Ms. Singapore, cafe retail chain owner, Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, and International Progressive Woman 2019. She is also the founder of Soul Rich Woman.

“In today’s episode, I wanna talk about what to do when the law of attraction isn’t working for you.”

Law of Attraction

(1:25-1:33) When I first came across the law of attraction very much earlier in my career, it’s really very very exciting.

(1:40-1:52) So you think,” Oh my god! How could this be possibly true? Can I just really ask for something and get it, Genecia? This is amazing.”

(1:53-1:56) You see you can set goals, make a dream board, and wait.

(1:58-2:20) And you feel like you’ve done everything right because you pasted all the photos, the images, the car you want, the house you want, the husband you want, the money you want. And so you get really pissed off because nothing happens, right? So you said to the universe, ” Hello, why Universe, you’re not giving me, where’s all the things I asked for on my dream board?”

(2:23- 2:31) I had someone ask me for advice recently, and she was confused about how this works. She love following our podcast show.

(2:38-2:54) And she was incredibly frustrated. She’s like, “Genecia, I’m really panicking. I have no money in my bank account right now and I’ve got three big bills to pay this month. What am I supposed to do?”

(2:55-3:15) So I say, “To start with, stop feeling bad and scared about it. It will only make it worse. So even though you’re worried, start by,  first, affirming that everything will be okay. Two, visualizing you paying the bills easily. Three, feel the feeling of being so taken care of by the Universe.”

(3:16-3:34) And she said, “ You don’t understand what I’m saying. How am I supposed to do that when no money in my bank account? It’s true! Everything that you’re saying is lovely, Genecia. But in reality, there is nothing there in my bank account.”

(3:36-3:46) So you see, negative affirmations are just as powerful as the positive ones. When you say, “I have no money, I’m broke.”

(3:55-4:07) You will only perpetuate the feelings of fear and anxiety. Which will probably attract even more bills and unexpected expenditure.

(4:08-4:15) And the funny part about the situation was that she couldn’t see the pattern. Of course, I mean because I am the mentor, right?

(4:19-4:29) But then again, after communicating with her, she still couldn’t see it. So she was constantly experiencing this feeling of having no money. 

(4:35-4:45) And she was unwilling to look inside and change. I told her to stay positive and to affirm that something would come up. 

(4:47-4:55) And it did. Someone eventually did give her money out of the blue, and she was saved that very month. 

(4:57-5:16) Then the horror story came. The next month she wrote to me again and said, “Genecia, I did another Law of attraction experiment like you said and asked for $2000 to show up today, and it didn’t. Why?”

(5:44-5:53) But you know what, there is a process here. It’s not always going to show up instantly if you’re not willing to do the inner work involved.

(5:55-6:16) It’s really so much fun when things manifest instantly. But most of the time, there is a time lag, and there’s no way of knowing how long. Why? Because imagine between us and our dream and the things we want to manifest, there’s so many blocks in between.

(6:20-6:38) The faster you want to manifest something, it only makes sense if you clear or de-trash your garbage, the clutter, in your life. Especially in your mind. Because we are not truly aligned to what we want and we have to do some emotional or physical decluttering. It can be symbolic.

(6:43-7:01) To let the Universe do its job. We may have to look at self-beliefs that we have around money or take stock of some of our bad habits. Most people can’t be bothered and they just wanted instant solution and find a magical fairy.

(7:05-7:17) And not do any work towards it or change their behavior in any way. And to make matters worse, they will keep complaining and whining and they love to blame people. 

(7:19-7:27) Because you know what? My law of attraction method didn’t work for her. The Soul Rich Woman blueprint didn’t work for her because she’s complaining, she’s not willing to do the inner work.

(7:29-7:33) “It’s somebody else’s fault!” And they are always blaming someone else.

(7:34-8:06) If you have done some emotional decluttering. They are very clear, and you’re very clear on your goals and you are taking some actions every day, then your desire, your dream, your goals will show up eventually. However, it is incredibly important during the time length to remain totally aligned to the feeling of the outcome. It will be hard to be open to new opportunities and possibilities if you are worried and stressed. 

(8:11-8:25) You have to feel it before you have it. And that can be very tough for some people. When you allow doubt and resistance to come in, you will actually block your natural flow and ease to receive abundance.

(8:40-8:53) Trust me. You can learn to be lucky, to be able to attract the F-word into your life- Fabulous, Freedom, Financial Independence, and happily; easily and effortlessly. 

(8:54-9:04) The trick is to master the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint, to stay positive even when your reality is temporarily something totally different.

(10:19-10:27) I just wanna say this, “Believe it before you see it, I guarantee it. Your stuff is on its way”.

Key Takeaways:
1. You have to feel it before you have it.

2. Believe it before you see it.

3.  Be clear on your goals.

4. Stay positive.

5. Don’t perpetuate the feelings of fear. 

Key Resources:
Subscribe to Genecia’s Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWoman
Visit SRW’s website: https://www.soulrichwoman.com
Follow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)
Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/
Check Genecia’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/

Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.com

Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset

 103: Your 1st Step In Becoming A Millionaire Starts Today

In today’s episode, I wanna talk about your 1st step in becoming a millionaire starting today. I work with women who have big dreams. I’m not just talking about 7 figures, I’m talking about game-changing status. To those women who have a tremendous vision for their lives. I know that they are going to make it happen. So stay tuned! 

(1:45-1:59) Now one of the first steps when working with a new client is typically, “Tell me about your dream day exercise.” You know the exercise where you share your million-dollar lifestyle.

(2:15-2:37) So after my client is done dreaming, I ask “How can you start living that millionaire lifestyle now? Like right now?”. 99% of the time, my client would usually tell me “Huh? What do you mean? I do have money now, you know. That’s why I’m hiring you as my mentor and coach to guide me, right?”.

(2:40-3:16) Then I ask again “How can you start living your millionaire lifestyle right now?” I insist that you, and also my clients, to make room right now for what’s to come. Because if your mind is completely clotted you must declutter in order for you to be able to receive. If you don’t seed right before you can achieve it, then how are you going to visualize it and eventually achieve it.

(3:19-3:50) So I just wanna tell you something that will blow your mind. The psychological reason why making space for a million-dollar lifestyle right now is so important because if you act as if and if you see it before you achieve it, it allows you to manifest your dreams because you are taking a leap of faith. You act on faith. It requires you to expect things to come to you as if you already had what do you want.

(3:51-3:56) But I just wanna tell you this, “Money does not make people happier”.

(4:05-4:19) Now psychologists can measure the levels of people’s happiness through instruments such as inventories and assessments. Here are some more complex statistics that from the research I think that drives the point home.

(4:20-4:31) The key thing here is there is no difference in the levels of happiness between a person that makes 50 thousand dollars and 50 million dollars.

(4:56-5:12) Your happiness levels don’t change, no matter how high your income climbs. So that extra money you make isn’t going to bring extra happiness. I mean the key to happiness is really finding happiness right now.

(5:26-5:41) Happiness is about how you can bring the joy into the present moment. So it’s time to step into the joy of what your future lifestyle will afford you because you can have a piece of it right now. 

(5:45-6:02) You don’t have to wait. So here’s your assignment, how can you start living your million-dollar lifestyle right now? Pick one in your life that becomes a non-negotiable expense or a non-negotiable gift.

(6:03-6:21) For example, want to travel monthly? Well, start by saving so you can have a trip at least once a year. Imagine driving a really fancy car? Well, rent one from a luxury dealership or car dealer for the weekend. 

(6:25-6:55) Start to strategize how you can delegate tasks to an assistant to give you more time freedom. And go to the resource https://www.instanttribeleader.com/ . Now, I want you to go there to grab the project kits and the workbooks that can help you to be delegating out like 80% to your to-do list to give out to your assistant so that you can make money online and function in your zone of genius.

(7:01-7:16) This is really very important. If you want only to work 20 hours a week, go to https://www.instanttribeleader.com/. As always, figure out which task you can delegate, automate, and eliminate to work more with less.

Key Takeaways:

1. Declutter your mind
2. Money does not make people happier.
3. Live that million-dollar lifestyle.
4. The key to happiness is really finding happiness right now.
5. Delegate tasks to an assistant to give you more time freedom.

Key Resources:
Subscribe to Genecia’s Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SoulRichWoman
Visit SRW’s website: https://www.soulrichwoman.com
Follow Genecia on Instagram : (@Geneciaalluora)
Follow Genecia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geneciaalluora/
Check Genecia’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecia/

Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.com

Secrets of Manifesting Money Quickly Online Course ---> https://shor.by/moneymindset