86: Sandra Bravo Manifest Your Dreams, Do Good and Be Amazing With Your Mindset
FWEP00086 Sandra Bravo Manifest Your Dreams, Do Good and Be Amazing With Your Mindset
Welcome to this amazing morning interview that we are going to do with this very super amazing lady whom Iâve met and she was a host of this virtual event that we did together, it was a success. I just felt that her energy was super amazing because when I researched about her, and I read about her, this lady is doing super amazing a lot of work.
Sandra Bravo has wealth experience including a decade managing sales teams. Fifteen years in corporate entrepreneurship and has more than 9 years speaking at international events. She is a certified master practitioner at NLP speakers training, best selling author and international keynote speaker. As a single mother of two and owner of three businesses, Sandra believes deeply in a power of female empowerment.
She has spoken in over 13 countries and trained over 15,000 students. Sandra brings a wealth of knowledge and passion for her practice. She has this very pure determination, will and super self-motivated because establishing her own business got amazing. To support like minor women, Sandra channels energy into transforming female businesses and supporting their personal enrichment through public speaking.
The Power
(4:52-5:12) And I know what Iâm gonna do when Iâm full of purpose. And I believe that empowering and serving others really feeds the soul. And I'm fulfilled, I'm full when I'm doing what I love. You know when youâre doing something you donât like or youâre in a job that you despise, or anything like that, everything becomes a drag.
(5:21-5:28) and thatâs a really good sign that youâre not doing what youâre supposed to be doing. That youâre not living into your life purpose.
(5:37) Life is different. Youâre excited to do things. Youâre excited to take care of your health, and your relationships, and your family and to help others because youâre inline with your purpose. And thatâs I guess where the energy and the passion comes from.Â
(9:17-9:28) and it was until I got up on stage and I had the courage to finally make a public declaration saying, âThis is what I wanna do. I wanna be a speaker.â. And itâs amazing, Genecia.
(10:30-10:42) This is what I wanted and it was my chance to make it happen. So the big day came when I got to present in front of Harv and all of his trainers. You know, he was very impressed.
(10:47-10:56) and out of the 67 people they chose one person to start an assistant training for Harv. And that one person was me. It was life changing.
(12:00-12:21) And I wouldn't get out of bed until I got that split second of certainty of, âI got this. I can do this.â. Because for me Genecia, I think visualizing and taking action go hand in hand. You can visualize all day long but if you don't take action itâs not gonna fall out of the sky. And you can take action all day long, which I see soft in these days with entrepreneurs,
(12:27-12:32) they don't take the time to work on their mindset. They don't take their time to become clear, âWhat is it that I want?â.Â
(12:35-12:42) âIs my action today getting me closer or farther away from my goal?â, rather than just being busy all day but I donât know what Iâm accomplishing.
(12:49-12:57) Visualize. Be clear on your goals, what you want. Thatâs when I became clear on what I wanted to do. And then take action. So i thought whatâs the fastest way for me to get there.
(13:06-13:25) I didnât quit my job straight away. So I started to get offers for speaking at events I was doing a lot of Asia back then. And I still have my full time job. And I always say to my women, my clients that I coach, â You never quit your main source of income until you have replaced it.â.
(13:32-13:49) A new business, a new venture, a new anything takes time to build to get the momentum. So what happens after 3 months, youâre working on the new thing but itâs not giving you that income yet and now you become all stressed because youâre not making âends-meetâ because you left your main source of income.
(13:56-14:00) You never leave your main source of income until youâve replaced it.Â
(14:47-15:03) I knew it was a short term sacrifice for a long term reward. Because I thought I can quit now, which many people do when it gets difficult and I can go back to the same and nothing will change, or I can just push through these difficult times knowing the reward will come.
(15:09-15:19) And thatâs what I did. I juggle a full time job and speaking for a full year. And then eventually when I was making a lot more money speaking than my job did, then I quit my job.
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Investing in Personal Development
(16:12-16:35) These days I see that the number one reason why people donât become successful is because they keep chasing the shiny bright object. And you know they got, âOh! That person did really well doing that. I wanna try it too.â. So I was one of those and Iâm guilty of that. I tried and then I realized itâs not my personality. Itâs not what I love.
(16:44-16:51) And so after, I guess, eliminating everything whatâs not then I realize this is my passion. And then all the dots connected.
(17:34-17:42) Do you know what ? Ever since I was a child, whenever I had a little group of friends, a little audience, I loved teaching and speaking in public. So it makes sense.
(17:56-18:06) And thatâs when I went, âDo you know what ? I'm not going into trying it anymore to see if it works. Iâm going all out.â. And thatâs when I eliminated all of the other distractions.
(18:20) Itâs so important to make a financial commitment because then youâre putting all of you on the line, a hundred percent committed and thatâs what happened for me.
(20:58-21:14) Itâs a really good tool to remember what little things you accomplished in the past because that wires the thinking, the neurons in the brain to go, âActually I am resourceful. Iâm determined. When I want something, nothing is gonna get on the way.â
(21:55) As long as I can see that little next step, iâll just take it. Iâll trust and the words will be revealed.
(22:44-23:10) And I realized, you know what, it doesn't matter what country, what cultural background you were brought up, what language you speak, I realized the common theme across the voice. This woman doesn't believe sheâs good enough. And thatâs the only reason why sheâs being held back and not going all out. And thatâs when I went, âThatâs it! Iâm doing women empowerment. Iâve got to protect these women and show them that they are good enough to do what they think.
(23:27-23:50) And just like a successful man has a successful woman behind, a successful woman has a group of successful women behind holding her back. Because we need each other. Weâre here to uplift each other and push each other up the ladder rather than pull them back into the bucket like the crabs do,you know. So thatâs when I really discovered this is what I wanna do.
Sandra talks about her Kids
(24:24_24:35) First of all for me, a big lesson was to learn the difference between a fi...