What does it actually look like to write a book when you’re raising kids, homeschooling, working, and already have a very full life?
In this episode of For Women Who Write, Mikaela sits down with her client and friend Alexis, a therapist and mom of three who, not that long ago, was pretty convinced she wasn’t going to write a book.
Now, she’s writing one.
Alexis shares what changed for her, how a Strategy Session helped her realize she didn’t just have one possible book idea (she had several), and why completing an Outline Intensive with Mikaela made the writing process feel so much more doable.
They also talk about what writing looks like in real life.
Some days, Alexis gets an hour of writing done before the rest of her day begins. Other days, she sits in Starbucks for 45 minutes and feels like she has almost nothing to show for it.
There are chapters she can’t stop writing.
There are chapters she keeps avoiding.
And there are plenty of moments when the thoughts creep in: Who am I to write this? Does anyone really need another book about this? What if someone else could say it better?
Mikaela and Alexis talk about all of it—the fear, perfectionism, faith, motherhood, finding time to write, and learning when to push through a difficult chapter and when to give it some space.
Alexis also shares why having a clear outline has mattered so much. Instead of sitting down during a small pocket of writing time and wondering what she should work on, she knows where the book is going and what belongs inside it.
And maybe one of the sweetest parts of the conversation: what started as a book Alexis hoped could someday become part of the legacy she leaves her children is already affecting them. They’re watching their mom write a book—and starting to write stories of their own.
If writing a book feels important to you, but you keep wondering how it could possibly fit into your actual life, this conversation will encourage you.