Forget Them Kids

Forget Them Kids

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Forget Them Kids episodes

  • Episode 30: WHAT IS 2+2 ?!?!

    Today we are talking about virtual learning; something all moms are struggling with one way or another. We talk about our virtual learning schedules, why we thought our kids would be okay going back to school, and our motivation to making this virtual learning thing work. Ever wonder how our parents had the patience to help us with school? Yeah we are too. We discuss our take on "Experiencing Motherhood: Single & Black" podcast episode about virtual learning and ultimately say f*ck Teams, Zoom, Seesaw, Class Dojo, Clever, Xtramath, Prodigy, Epic, and whatever other school app these teachers make us use!

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    37 min
  • Episode 29: How's Life?

    Today we are giving you a Life Update. What have we been up to? We discuss: 

    • the struggle of losing weight all over again now that the world is semi open
    • our kids and their Christmas lists
    • Alexis started therapy
    • Chate is finally getting her quarantine break 
    • Veterans Day and the appropriate tip after a service 
    • Why can't black co-parent families be praised like Scott and Kourtney Kardashian?
    • Alexis goes on a SHOCKING rant!!  
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      Connect with us on Facebook at "Forget them Kids", on Instagram @forgetthemkidspodcast, and by email at [email protected]

      44 min
    • Episode 28: You're my little secret

      We had some fun with this episode! S/o to the City Girls for giving us the inspiration. We give our feedback to Yung Miami's video of why she can't be anybody's side chick. We acknowledge that there are levels to being a side chick, side chick perks, and we want to know why men confide in their side chick so much? Alexis takes over Story Time and tells us her story about the time she was a side chick and the time her ex's side chick did the most. We also called a former guest and asked him if men are actually using protection with their side piece.  

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      Connect with us on Instagram @forgetthemkidspodcast, on Facebook at "Forget them Kids", or by email at [email protected]

      40 min
    • Episode 27: Even family can get the cold shoulder

      Chate is back! In this episode, Alexis is catching her up on things that she has missed and realized it all boils down to having a dysfunctional family. Chate gives the real definition to dysfunctional and we get into our own view of what it is. We discuss why dysfunction in family occurs and if there is any way to mend those family bonds. We found that blood is not always thicker than water and sometimes the family we create is more "functional" than the family we were born into. We touched on estranged sibling issues, and how divorce or separation from your partner can interfere with the functional family you want your children to have. 

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      Connect with us on Instagram @forgetthemkidspodcast and on Facebook at "Forget them Kids"

      48 min
    • Episode 26: My baby isn't a baby anymore

      In this episode, Alexis is sharing how she was hit with the harsh reality that her 9 year old son just isn't getting any younger and how she was constantly reminded of it all week. Her son, Tamir, also makes a quick guest pop in to talk about his experience at the doctor office and his thoughts on "good touch bad touch". 

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      Connect with us on IG @forgetthemkidspodcast and on Facebook at "Forget them Kids". We also can be reached by email at [email protected]

      25 min
    • Episode 25: Whew Chile, I found out my son watches porn

      Alexis brought on another mom named Miriam, to discuss the traumatic realization that our boys have been caught watching porn. We will discuss:

      • the backstory of how we caught our sons
      • their father's reaction 
      • how we reacted
      • what you should say if you catch your young child watching porn
      • virtual learning
      • how our parents did not have "the talk" with us growing up 
      • how I told my mom I was ready to lose my virginity 
      • the sigma of being a young mom
      • our parents parental presence vs our parental presence 
      • I also included a short segment from Denija, a therapist friend who gave me her expertise on children becoming sexually curious, as early as 6 years old. 

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        Connect with us on Instagram @forgetthemkidspodcast and on Facebook at "Forget them Kids"

        50 min
      • Episode 24: Take care of your kids!

        In today's episode, I brought Kiyana, owner of Candid Candles, on to talk about the importance of taking care of your kids. When I say "take care of your kids", I don't mean in just the way everyone thinks. Acknowledge that you need some help and if that means sacrificing primary presence of your child, then do so. Kiyana is a mother whose son lives with their dad primarily, so we discussed:

        • Coparenting 
        • Operating from a place of "lack"
        • The intimate vs. coparenting relationship line 
        • Sharing the spotlight with the other baby mama
        • A mother's ego
        • Judging yourself for not seeing your child everyday 
        • The fear of being shaded by family and friends, as well as men you are dating 
        • What a stable home for a child looks like 
        • You can purchase Candid Candles on Instagram @candidcandle.co or candidcandleco.com 

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          55 min
        • Episode 23: One monkey don't stop no show!

          Today, Alexis is all by herself talking about self happiness and poses the question: Do you even know what truly makes you happy? 

          Most people don't. She didn't until life happened. She speaks on her journey of getting from being happy on the surface to truly being happy. 

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          26 min
        • Episode 22: Girl...save your money

          Today is all about them coins! Alexis invites her friend Stephanie on the podcast to give her expertise on budgeting, saving money and paying off debt. We get into ending the check to check cycle most of us are used to, teaching our kids about money earlier than we were taught, the importance of having an "emergency fund", and life insurance. 

          We also talk about investing, but not in the way everyone usually thinks. Learn to invest in yourself! You can not go wrong when you invest in yourself first.   

          Check us out on Instagram @forgetthemkidspodcast and on Facebook at "Forget them Kids"

          29 min
        • Episode 21: Not so rapid fire

          In this episode, Alexis and her best friend Keonah bring their "Bookie Talk" to the Podcast. This time...with rapid fire questions. Turns out, we are not that great at answering questions rapidly. This episode also features a couple appearances from Alexis' son Tamir. 

          Connect with us on Instagram at @forgetthemkidspodcast and on Facebook at Forget them Kids. 

          28 min

        About Forget Them Kids

        From the publisher's feed

        When you have kids, you are forced to put them first. At some point, you need to say FORGET THEM KIDS! Live your life learning who you are outside of your kids, because being a parent does not define who you are. We will talk about our experiences and various topics related to young parenting.