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Forward Facing

By Andrea Hastings and Mali ShadmehryEducationSelf-Improvement
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  • Defining Aggression in Family Law: Passion vs. Emotion in the Courtroom - Episode 27

    This week Andee and Mali revisit accusations that the firm of Hastings Shadmehry is "aggressive". They talk about what it means to be properly aggressive and how being needlessly aggressive can be destructive to the Divorce process. It's an engaging look at perception vs. reality, and a topic that comes up often when Divorce attorneys are discussed.Like, Comment, Share: Engage with our content to help extend our reach and support more people through their legal challenges.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry on TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

    19 min
  • Temporary Hearings: What You Need to Know in Family Law - Episode 26

    This week Andee and Mali discuss Temporary Hearings, which in many situations, is the first step in a divorce case. Topically, this episode is a great companion piece to the subject of Mediation as covered in Episode 25. PLUS, hear about Mali's trip to Miami, her run-in with an angry spitter at a certain coffee chain, AND, what's a Lovey?

    27 min
  • Therapy for Kids in Divorce with Dr. Kyrstin Jimenez - Episode 24
    In this special episode, we're honored to have Dr. Kyrstin Jimenez from Clear Life Counseling and Testing as our first-ever guest. Dr. Jimenez shares her wealth of knowledge on the crucial role of therapy for children during divorce, emphasizing the importance of understanding and processing emotions in these challenging times. She also introduces us to the concept of therapy animals and how they can provide comfort and support to young clients.We start off by discussing our warrior and diplomat mentalities, essential traits for navigating the complexities of family law. As fierce litigators, we at Hastings Shadmehry believe that a great trial attorney is an even better settlement attorney. We thrive on challenges and are committed to protecting and advocating for our clients.Dr. Jimenez shares insights into her practice, detailing her journey from Georgia State to obtaining her Ph.D. in Texas. She speaks about the importance of self-efficacy and the ability to transfer skills across different areas of life. Her background in urgent care and psychology gives her a unique perspective on handling emotional and psychological trauma.We explore how therapy helps prevent long-term emotional and behavioral issues in children affected by divorce. Dr. Jimenez explains the significance of providing a safe space for children to express their emotions, whether through play therapy for younger kids or talk and activity therapy for older children. These therapeutic approaches help children develop healthy coping mechanisms that will serve them throughout their lives.One of the key takeaways from our discussion is the importance of communication and collaboration between therapists, parents, and legal professionals. Dr. Jimenez emphasizes the role of guardians ad litem and the need for trauma-informed practices in family law cases. She also addresses the challenges therapists face when testifying in court and how to navigate these situations effectively.In addition to discussing the therapeutic process, we touch on the personal aspects of therapy, including the use of therapy animals. Dr. Jimenez's Great Dane, Alfie, plays a significant role in helping clients feel comfortable and grounded during sessions. We share personal anecdotes about how animals can provide emotional support and help clients feel seen, heard, and understood.Join us as we delve into these vital topics and more, offering valuable insights and practical advice for anyone navigating the complexities of family law and therapy. Follow us on social media to stay updated and connected:Timestamp Highlights:00:00:00 - Introduction to The Hastings Shadmehry Show00:00:36 - Welcoming Dr. Jimenez00:01:08 - Discussing Therapy for Children in Divorce00:02:11 - Warrior and Diplomat Mentalities00:07:27 - Dr. Jimenez Professional Journey00:14:12 - Self-Efficacy and Skill Transfer00:20:09 - Therapy and Communication in Family Law00:25:05 - Addressing Long-Term Emotional Issues00:40:52 - Navigating Court Testimonies as a Therapist00:50:43 - The Role of Therapy Animals00:57:50 - Final Thoughts and TakeawaysFollow us on social media and engage with us for more insights and updates!Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/
    1 hr 1 min
  • Jury Trials in Divorce: Benefits, Challenges & Preparing for Success - Episode 23
    Welcome to Episode 23 of The Hastings Shadmehry Show! In this solo episode, I, Mali Shadmehry, delve into the rare but significant practice of jury trials in family law. We'll explore why Georgia allows jury trials in divorce cases, the potential benefits they offer, and why more lawyers and clients should consider them. I share personal stories, including a recent case where a client's trust made all the difference, and provide practical advice on preparing for these complex legal proceedings. Don't miss this insightful discussion!Introduction:I share my excitement about an upcoming case and recent experiences, setting the stage for our topic.Jury Trials in Family Law:Learn why Georgia allows jury trials in divorce cases and why more lawyers and clients should consider them.Personal Anecdote:Hear about a recent case where a client's trust and our courtroom history made all the difference.Importance of Jury Trials:Discover how jurors can provide more empathetic and favorable outcomes in asset division compared to judges.Equitable Division:Understand how Georgia law handles asset and debt division, with real-life examples illustrating the impact of jury decisions.Challenges and Preparation:Get practical advice on whether a jury trial is right for you and how to prepare effectively.Practical Advice:Learn the steps to take, including filing a jury demand and consulting with experienced attorneys.Conclusion:Don't be intimidated by the prospect of a jury trial. Explore all your options and fight for what is fair and just.Follow us on social media and engage with us for more insights and updates!Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #JuryTrials #Divorce #LegalAdvice #HastingsShadmehryShow #AssetDivision #EquitableDivision #LegalPreparation #EmpatheticJurors
    24 min
  • 🐾 Handling Pet Custody in Divorce 🐾 - Episode 22
    Join Andee Hastings and Mali Shadmehry in this heartfelt episode as we dive into the complex issue of pet custody in divorce cases. From personal stories about our beloved pets to professional legal advice, we cover it all!Introduction (00:00 - 03:15)We kick off by discussing the emotional bonds we share with our pets and the legal challenges that arise during divorce proceedings. BoldPersonal Pet Stories (03:16 - 10:30)Mali shares touching tales about her dogs, Cohen and Stormcloud, emphasizing the deep emotional connections and the stakes involved in pet custody cases. Andee recounts her experiences with dog rescue, illustrating her commitment and love for pets. BoldRole of Pets in Divorce (10:31 - 15:45)We delve into how pets are legally classified as personal property, and the implications this has in divorce cases. BoldLegal Considerations and Strategies (15:46 - 25:00)Learn about the legal strategies for handling pet custody, from documenting pet ownership to negotiating pet custody arrangements in divorce settlements. BoldChallenges and Emotional Impact (25:01 - 32:45)We discuss the emotional challenges and potential manipulation tactics involved in deciding pet custody, stressing the importance of understanding both the legal and emotional aspects. BoldAdvice for Pet Owners (32:46 - 40:00)Get practical tips for navigating pet custody during a divorce, including documentation, negotiation strategies, and avoiding complex custodial arrangements. BoldConclusion (40:01 - End)We wrap up by encouraging viewers to seek empathetic legal representation and highlighting our firm’s dedication to handling such cases with care. We also share our support for pet rescue organizations.📢 Don't miss this episode filled with personal anecdotes and expert advice!👍 Like, Comment, Share: Engage with our content to help extend our reach and support more people through their legal challenges.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#PetCustody #DivorceLaw #FamilyLaw #PetLove #LegalAdvice #HastingsShadmehryShow #PetStories #DogRescue #LegalTips #EmotionalSupport
    36 min
  • Understanding Temporary Protective Orders (TPOs) - Episode 21
    Join hosts Andee Hastings and Mali Shadmehry on "The Hastings Shadmehry Show" as they dive deep into the crucial topic of Temporary Protective Orders (TPOs) in family law. This episode begins on a lighter note with Mali sharing a touching anecdote about a stormy night with her anxious dog, setting a relatable tone before transitioning into more serious discussions.What You'll Learn:Understanding TPOs: Discover the critical role of Temporary Protective Orders for individuals facing violence or stalking. Learn about the process from the initial ex parte order for immediate protection to a comprehensive court hearing for a lasting solution.Eligibility and Process: Gain insight into eligibility requirements for a TPO, including necessary familial relationships or evidence of specific threats. The hosts outline detailed steps for filing a TPO, what to expect in court, and the importance of swift action to solidify your case.Legal and Emotional Support: Explore the emotional and legal complexities involved in obtaining a TPO. Andee and Mali emphasize the significance of professional legal representation during court proceedings and discuss the potential outcomes based on the judge’s decisions.Practical Advice: Receive practical tips on dealing with potential threats, including the importance of contacting police and seeking immediate legal advice to ensure your safety and legal protection.This episode is packed with essential information and empowering advice, designed to guide you through the process of obtaining a TPO during challenging times. Whether you're facing personal threats or just seeking to understand more about family law, this episode provides the knowledge and support you need.00:00 - IntroIntroduction to the episode and hosts, Andee Hastings and Mali Shadmehry. Brief mention of the episode’s focus on Temporary Protective Orders (TPOs).01:15 - Personal AnecdoteMali shares a personal story about her anxious dog during a storm, setting a relatable tone.02:30 - Understanding TPOsExplanation of what TPOs are and why they are critical in protecting individuals from violence or stalking.04:00 - The Legal Process of Obtaining a TPODiscussion on the two-part process: obtaining an ex parte order and preparing for a court hearing.06:50 - Eligibility for a TPOExplanation of eligibility requirements for obtaining a TPO, including necessary relationships or proof of threats.08:30 - Steps to File a TPODetailed walkthrough of how to file a TPO, including visiting the superior court and what documents to prepare.10:15 - What to Expect in CourtOverview of what happens during a court hearing and the importance of documented evidence.12:30 - The Role of Legal RepresentationImportance of having legal representation during the hearing and the impact of a lawyer’s advocacy.14:45 - Handling EmergenciesAdvice on how to respond to immediate threats, including contacting police and seeking legal consultation.16:30 - ConclusionRecap of the episode’s key points and a call to action to consult with an attorney if facing similar issues.👍 Like, Comment, Share: Engage with our content to help extend our reach and support more people through their legal challenges.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #Divorce #LegalAdvice #HastingsShadmehryShowSubscribe to our channel for more insightful discussions on family law and other pressing legal topics. Your journey to understanding and navigating the legal system starts here!
    37 min
  • Winning Family Law Firm Secrets & Divorce FAQs - Episode 20
    In this special episode of our show, join Mali Shadmehry as she hosts solo while Andee Hastings takes on the courtroom. We're excited to welcome Kendall Walker, our head of sales and marketing, to dive deep into the nuances of family law. This episode isn't just informative—it's a celebration! We're proud to share that Jezebel magazine has named us the best family law firm in Atlanta for 2024. Join us as we share behind-the-scenes stories from the award ceremony and express our heartfelt thanks for this honor.What's Inside:Award Celebrations: Revel in our recent accolade and discover the dedication behind our team's success.Divorce Decoded: Mali and Kendall tackle your burning questions about the costs, processes, and stages of divorce, providing clear, actionable insights.Privacy in Proceedings: Learn when and why divorce records can be sealed for privacy and how public access might affect those involved.Looking Ahead: Get a sneak peek of future topics and continue your journey into understanding the broader impacts of family law on personal lives.Why Tune In?Experience a unique blend of personal stories, professional triumphs, and expert advice that makes family law accessible and engaging. Whether you're navigating a divorce or simply curious about family law, this episode is tailored to inform and empower.Subscribe and Engage:Don’t miss out on more enlightening discussions! Subscribe to our channel for the latest on family law, and join the conversation in the comments below. Your questions and interactions are invaluable—let's get talking!Timestamps for Key Topics:Introduction and Guest Introduction [0:00-0:46]Award Recognition [0:46-1:00]Frequently Asked Questions on Divorce [1:00-2:00]Legal Proceedings and Public Records [2:00-3:00]Concluding Remarks [3:00-3:10]Join us for this engaging episode on the Hastings Shadmehry Show, where your story truly matters, and gain insights that extend beyond the courtroom into the very fabric of personal experiences.🔔 Subscribe and Join Our Community: For anyone navigating family law or seeking legal guidance, subscribe for more expert advice. Your story is important, and we're here to support your journey.👍 Like, Comment, Share: Engage with our content to help extend our reach and support more people through their legal challenges.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #Divorce #LegalAdvice #HastingsShadmehryShow
    27 min
  • The Trad Wife Phenomenon: Financial, Legal, and Social Considerations - Episode 19

    Join guest Stephanie Weil, for a comprehensive discussion on the resurgence of traditional gender roles through the "Trad wife" phenomenon. This episode dives deep into the implications of adopting such a lifestyle in today's society, the financial and legal aspects that come with it, and practical advice for those considering this path.The "Trad wife" refers to "traditional wife," a role characterized by traditional gender dynamics where the wife stays at home to manage household duties and child care, while the husband is the primary breadwinner. This trend, which has gained popularity on platforms like TikTok, is often seen as a nostalgic return to past norms and a counter to the modern "girl boss" culture. It represents a significant cultural shift as younger generations explore the values of traditional roles in contemporary settings. The discussion explores how the Trad wife choice is perceived as a rebellion against current cultural expectations for women in the workforce. Financial Considerations for "Trad Wives"Financial independence and literacy are crucial for Trad wives. Stephanie emphasizes the importance of women having comprehensive knowledge of family finances. This includes having access to bank accounts, understanding household income, expenses, savings, and investments. The goal is for women to maintain financial autonomy and security, ensuring they are well-prepared for any future uncertainties or changes in their marital status.Legal and Social Security ConcernsStephanie discusses potential legal pitfalls and the importance of acquiring sufficient work credits to qualify for Social Security benefits. Many women who have spent extended periods out of the workforce may find themselves disadvantaged in terms of eligibility for future benefits, which can be critical during later stages of life or in the event of a spouse's death or disability.Advice for Women Considering the "Trad Wife" LifestylePractical advice for women contemplating this lifestyle is shared, focusing on the importance of maintaining or acquiring educational qualifications and professional certifications. Stephanie advises women to pursue or continue education and keep their professional skills up to date to ensure they can return to the workforce if necessary. This preparation is crucial not only for personal development but also for providing a safety net in the face of life's unpredictabilities.Navigating Divorce as a "Trad Wife"The conversation shifts to the complexities Trad wives may face if they go through a divorce. Adjusting to the workforce, managing financial independence, and coping with the realities of shared parenting can be particularly challenging for women who have been out of the job market for an extended period. Stephanie highlights the changes in divorce laws and alimony, which often do not favor stay-at-home mothers, underscoring the importance of legal preparation and awareness.Empowering Choices and Future SecurityThe episode concludes with a message of empowerment, encouraging women to make informed and strategic decisions that enable both personal fulfillment and financial security. By understanding the full scope of what it means to be a Trad wife and preparing accordingly, women can ensure that they are making choices that will support their well-being and future stability.Join us for this enlightening discussion on the "Trad wife" trend and equip yourself with the knowledge to navigate this unique lifestyle choice.🔔 Subscribe and Join Our Community: For anyone navigating family law or seeking legal guidance, subscribe for more expert advice. Your story is important, and we're here to support your journey.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/


    23 min

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