What If God’s Role in Your Pain Isn’t What You Think?

When life hits hard, most of us start asking, “Where’s God in all this?” If He’s really good, why the chaos? Why the heartbreak? Why does the struggle never seem to let up?

Here’s the shocker: God never promised life without storms. He promised an anchor in the middle of them. Sometimes He stills the waves, but other times He steadies His child right there in the chaos. Either way, His love isn’t measured by circumstances but by Christ’s finished work.

And no, He’s not the author of your pain. He’s the Comforter in it and the One who won’t leave you for a second—even in the darkest valleys.

Don’t miss this kickoff message in our series, Fragrant Faith. Watch now and discover what it really means to know His power and His presence in times of distress.

Discussion Questions: 2 Corinthians

1. Read 2 Corinthians 1:3–4. Paul calls God “the Father of mercies and God of all comfort.” How does this picture of God challenge or affirm the way you’ve thought about Him in times of trouble? What difference does it make that He is not the author of the tragedy but the comfort in the midst of it?
2. Read 2 Corinthians 1:5. Paul says, “Just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ.” How does seeing suffering as something Christ also endured change how you interpret your own pain? Can you recall a time when His comfort felt “abundant” in your life?
3. Read 2 Corinthians 1:8–9. Paul admits he was “burdened excessively, beyond our strength.” What does this teach us about the myth that “God will never give you more than you can handle”? How have you seen God teach you to lean more fully on Him?
4. Read 2 Corinthians 2:6–8. Paul urges the church to forgive and comfort the repentant man. Why is it so important that the church embrace someone instead of letting them drown in excessive sorrow? How might this passage shape the way we respond to someone who has failed?
5. Read 2 Corinthians 2:11. Paul warns, “so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan; for we are not ignorant of his schemes.” What are some of Satan’s schemes when it comes to guilt, shame, and isolation? How does God’s comfort and the church’s forgiveness break those schemes?
6. Read 2 Corinthians 2:14–15. Paul says God “always leads us in triumph in Christ” and makes us “a fragrance of Christ.” What do you think it means to be “the aroma of Christ” to God and to others? How in your life right now might God be diffusing His fragrance through you?